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''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Holyfield1(m): 12:16am On Oct 08, 2015 |
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close. A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''? 18 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by naijaboiy: 12:27am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Form for her too! 167 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Melahou(m): 12:35am On Oct 08, 2015 |
You don't need to be confused Nothing wrong in all what she's doing The signal still remains RED. She's just a friendly person that Finds your chat interesting and to get herself out of boredom 247 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by tosyne2much(m): 12:42am On Oct 08, 2015 |
My mom normally say, never sniff what you know you won't eat, and that's what an average sizable number of our ladies normally do She expected you to be stalking her both online and offline just to make her special, hence, making it look like she wants to do you a favour by dating you The ball is in your court. Now is the time to do shakara 80 Likes |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by trapQ: 12:43am On Oct 08, 2015 |
No she isn't. You see? What you guys fail to understand most times is that when a woman "first" turns down your request for a relationship, she actually means it. Trust me, if she "loves" you, she won't turn you down but instead wish and pray in her heart that you'd ask her out just so she'd say yes. She may be tripping now, but in my opinion, its just "frustration attraction". This happens when you feel drawn towards someone "only" cuz they withdrew or distanced themselves from you. But then, I MAY BE WRONG 216 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Cutehector(m): 12:52am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Trust me brother, wen I disturb a girl, like try to associate wit her and she doesn't pick or return my calls, texts or social media chats, I stop disturbing them... So do the same brother. 33 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by donholy28(m): 3:51am On Oct 08, 2015 |
came here to read comments cause me and op wear d same shoes 16 Likes |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by IamLEGEND1: 5:17am On Oct 08, 2015 |
nothing there doesn't mean she is tripping. so just face ur front 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by magabounce(m): 6:03am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Chief Friend zone officer!!!! Ride on 74 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by HomieQuan(m): 6:25am On Oct 08, 2015 |
lol |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by pasqal09: 6:40am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Bro, na zoning things for you o 8 Likes |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by malton: 6:55am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Yes! She digs you. Thing is, her turning you down at first might have been due to shock as she possibly never thought about the possibility of you two dating before. It must have taken her some time to adjust to the reality. As for her initiating chats and stuff, that's the green light, seeing as she never use to do those before. A lady who doesn't send you wouldn't even bother. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Homguy(m): 6:58am On Oct 08, 2015 |
tosyne2much:Exactly! Op. BTW, what's waiting for 2 minutes before replying? You should either ignore her chats occasionally or reply the next day even when you are online. If you want to get half a shot at getting this lady, starve her of your attention. 2mins is a mad rush! Also, I do not think its about answering her harshly rather its by having your own opinions, and expressing your self without seeking her endorsement. Cc: Holyfield1 53 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by kellyJames5(m): 7:29am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Homguy: Believe you me If he starves her his attention as regards to replying her chats or leaving it till next day. It will only take a matter of days or highest weeks for her to get rid of the affection she has developed for him(if any though) Don't forget,love/feelings can be grown so also hate. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Nobody: 7:32am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Holyfield1:she's obviously tripping. if you still like her you can take the chance. if not bounce her off and stop wasting her time. 8 Likes |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Nobody: 7:35am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Op mayb she just likes you....no strings attached,can't u think of it dah way ni?? 6 Likes |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Homguy(m): 7:39am On Oct 08, 2015 |
kellyJames5:I agree. Nothing should be over done. There should be a balance. Personally, even if I ignore a particular lady, I sometimes do start up chats with them, but cut it off at my own timings. What I think is wrong is giving the impression you can't live without her, the impression that you are not busy, rushing to reply her messages and begging her to reply like some guys do. Those IMO are counter productive. I also think once in a while Op should find lighter /jovial/funny ways of teasing her and passing his message across. Not that serious business like mode some guys tune into when they want to pop the question. These are my opinions tho, peace. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by kellyJames5(m): 7:41am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Homguy: Great opinion! That's what I'm talking about! 1 Like |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by tosyne2much(m): 9:02am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Harbosede02:See as I just dey look you 2 Likes |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Nobody: 9:14am On Oct 08, 2015 |
tosyne2much: |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Precious91(m): 1:13pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Abi I af |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Precious91(m): 1:14pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Abi I af allowed her back niI wee just be talking normally |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Icecomrade: 4:48pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Hot |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by bunmioguns(m): 4:48pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by pretydiva(f): 4:48pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
U don't just xpect her 2 say yes instantly. She gast form n do some shakara ..now dat she has giving u d green light,u can now make ur move |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Lincoln275(m): 4:49pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
If u still love her ask her out again 1 Like |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by walanter(m): 4:49pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Ehhn ehhn u see them |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by dammytosh: 4:49pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Make she no fall down. |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Nobody: 4:51pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Why ask why? Go for her. |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Demmocrats(m): 4:51pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Bro this your information is incomplete you didn't tell us the part that she found that you got a job in NNPC Women's love is like bread and butter when money is involved Bro go chop your food asap 6 Likes |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by Nobody: 4:51pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Re: ''I Asked Her Out, She Said ''No'', Now She's Tripping For Me'' by donholy28(m): 4:51pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
pretydiva:op listen to this girl and u have fuvked up 2 Likes |
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