Cutehector:
Trust me brother, wen I disturb a girl, like try to associate wit her and she doesn't pick or return my calls, texts or social media chats, I stop disturbing them... So do the same brother.

Guy ,take am easy na ,everytin nobi muscle ,

I can actually advice you to try your luck dis second time, buh if thesame responds still persist...its better yu neglect her side, starve her with yur chats nd redeuce yur attentions towards her...cos most ladies nowadays dey like keeping guys to kill boredom or as a side guy.

That might be a mere fantasy . We boys do mistake that kinda mistake in the way we think when girls are doing some certain things. However, she can still be yours, just study her and knw what she likes and do them while pretending that you ve given her up.
If this doesn't work contact me

A policeman called his station on radio informing them that an elderly woman had shot her husband dead for stepping on the wet floor she just mopped.

Station: Have you arrested her?

Policeman: Not yet sir, the floor is still wet.

Op, the chick might be playing with your emotions...tread carefully & don't be trapped in your interest/desire to have her---you know what I mean, don't force it!

She have given you the green light, just go for her

I don't believe all this......
See @ OP, there are no standard templates for dating...
Different babes require different approaches. It depends on the particular girl in question.
The important question is....

DO YOU STILL TRIP FOR HER ?

1. YES I STILL TRIP... then strike now when the iron is still hot...she can say yes or no. If yes, do the needful....u can run later if you want. If no, then leave her...again. it won't kill u.
2. NO. I NO SEND AGAIN... then you can do either of these....
[a] use and dump
[b] ignore and move on

move on
my opinion... a very light one

Lol at OP. You will learn with the passage of time. Don't ever assume the second time. The best way to be a man is not to beg or appear to beg a woman. She's being friendly with you now keep it at that. Those extra effort you make those times should cease and you should try to draw close to another lady. Don't let yourself to be much into her again. If she loves you she will jump out of her shell if she didn't then forget her. She has another asset somewhere. Its very difficult when its a lady you love so much with all your heart and coincidentally those are the ones that behave like this most time. The best way to treat them is to wean your heart of them. If they love they will prove it beyond your expectation if not move on, she.s not for you.

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

The truth of the matter is that, this lady had someone who was a kind of dear to her heart as at the time you were interested in her, now that the person might have socked her dry and dumped her. she now wants to fall back to you, as in, "at all at all na him bad pass" na im de beb wan do you. If I were in your position ehm, would just place her where she belongs.

trapQ:
No she isn't. You see? What you guys fail to understand most times is that <u>when a woman "first" turns down your request for a relationship, she actually means it</u> Trust me, if she "loves" you, she won't turn you down but instead wish and pray in her heart that you'd ask her out just so she'd say yes. She may be tripping now, but in my opinion, its just "frustration attraction". This happens when you feel drawn towards someone "only" cuz they withdrew or distanced themselves from you.

But then, I MAY BE WRONG

This is very wrong, a chic could be head over heels for you and still give you a no at first attempt, just to form and not make it seem like you got her on a platter of gold.

flokii:


who told you she's tripping for you?..

either she wants to feel reassured that you are still single or someone she chose over you has used & dumped her..

omo boy o je wise up...

I swear broda. True talk

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

get over it bob.. move on.. stop going back to the past 5 years ago to feel good.. lay her ar@se out like a baller then leave her for the dawgs

bayulll01:


Oponu aiye rada,how old are you?

Why are you so obsessed with insulting people

Some ladies will say I can't date you, because you are my close friend, please do you want to marry your worst enemy?

we ladies ehn, ave sumtin in common.wen our close male frnd tells us their feeling towards us we tend to withdraw frm him becos we believe he doesnt respect you wel enough or dat he wants to tke u for granted becos he already knws all abt you.xo in mah opinion if she is sending chats or msges to you it might be she misses your frndship or she is developing feelings for you due to the withdrawal syndrome u gave to you,if truly you ave true feelings for her nd nt to chop nd clean mouth try nd reunite your frndship nd try to make her understand wat you feel for her nd keep this in mind evry lady ave her price,,,,nd if still she didnt make an attempt to return the feelings abeg let her go..one-sided luv relationship is the worst one ever...

DrGroove:

No,guys don't ever think a lady may just like them wt no strings attached..something must be attached

lol

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

what's her name?

Melahou:
You don't need to be confused

Nothing wrong in all what she's doing

The signal still remains RED.

She's just a friendly person that
Finds your chat interesting
and to get herself out of boredom

lwkmd

naijaboiy:
Form for her too!

U dis Naijaboiy, e be like say u don de generate LIKES on your own! Seun, do somtin!

Mumu

Emodeee:
Fvck her and let her go.

I don miss road




























#wrong thread....... Carry on

Even girls don't understand one another, girls minds are rly complicated perhaps confused.

just check all d comments by the female nairalanders who sud ve understood their female counterpart, but none of their comments agree

Melahou:
You don't need to be confused

Nothing wrong in all what she's doing

The signal still remains RED.

She's just a friendly person that
Finds your chat interesting
and to get herself out of boredom

. "" the signal still remains red""

Holyfield1:
I met her 5 years ago through her brother who happened to be my mentor, We became friends and shared a lot of thoughts together, Just 3 months ago, I asked her out and she declined telling me ''We're just friends'',''I can't date you'' and all that, I was so sore hearted because I was expecting an affirmative since we are so close.

A very close friend of mine tried to convince her but she stood her ground, She would send me ''Hi'' first on Whatsapp and FB and I'd wait for like 2 minutes before replying her even after I might have read the message, She keep chatting me up and I reply harshly most times, Now I'm really confused because she was not like that before, She would send me greetings, like and even comment on my statuses which she doesn't do before and so many signs, Now I'm really confused ''Could she be tripping for me''?

What happened to the principle of 'chop and clean mouth'

dude she's nt tripping, she's just trying 2 be in good terms dats all...if u make d mistake of asking again, i feel sorry 4 u already. Trust me av been there b4.

Holyfield1:
You're right,I am a teenager

Lol

Melahou:
You don't need to be confused

Nothing wrong in all what she's doing

The signal still remains RED.

She's just a friendly person that
Finds your chat interesting
and to get herself out of boredom

hahahaha help me tell him o

guy man up and ask if she is now falling 4 you

My guy you better keep it at that level, anything beyond it may turnout distasteful. I would suggest you maintain the friendship at the level it is, if you venture outside of it...'na u sabi,' I will be back to read your "tales by moonlight" on nairaland .

Bros mke attempt again,dis tme d runs go pure