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AkwaIbomrep1:
first of all u are not deaf, receive healing in the name of Jesus christ ...amen..'' just be faithful to God one day u shall find ur missing rib...in other news...''invest in Akwa ibom ''

Simitrendy:



Disability doesn't mean inability.


Tho I've seen a girl deaf tho she isn't mentally and physically fit.

And she's studying Law at JABU and she has a boyfriend.



Visit a good hospitals that has Ear Nose and Throat Dept.


Or a good Teaching Hospital they offer earphones for deaf people, so at least you can still use it.


But def u WL still find some1 who's gonna love you without looking or thinking of your disability.



BTW stop that Konji, I mean the masturbation of a thing.

Why not keep yourself sexually pure, Remember that your destiny is in your hand

osazeeblue01:
first take Alemo bitter + Orijin bitter + stout and tom tom sweet. Thats ok for now

saasala:
Sorry, I aint gat the time to read anything this lengthy. Try again later.

mikron:
So sad about ur story, God is ur strength

Olayinka8793:
bro why na,ain't gals of such age range matured enough for dating?,this particular gal is 19+ so she should be ripe enough for marriage in 3 years time.

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pinceprinz:
O boi! This your case no be small thing oh kai! Me I pity u oh...

Anyway sha , the small advise wey I go give u be say mk u just find way maybe through whatsapp to begin to communicate with this babe wey u gbadun her parole oh cos communicating one-on-one with her no fit buy her over with this your condition oh... U needn't relate to her on first contact on whatsapp/bbm ur hidden agenda. All u needa do like I said is to entice her so she becomes ur friend and see the beauty of u beyond your looks and the big hearing challenge u have oh... After you're sure she likes u well well shouldn't take u more than 3weeks to ascertain that, begin to step up yor game with her small small Shey u get, maybe by playing all those slap your butt I run away dirty game if u kwim to study her reactions y'know...

You'll need the help of that your classy twin sister oh my guy to help u convince this ur fish the better cos u no fit do am alone oh... He no easy for woman to date a deaf man truth be told oh... Don't forget to pray about it so u may encounter favor sharp sharp in her sight oh... I feel ur pain dude and I wish u well in ya adventure.


Less I forget , premarital sex is a big sin oh so no go there oh... Me I jus give u this advise and go ahead so u may boost ya self esteem ni oh... Augur well my nigga oh

Olayinka8793:
Good day nairalanders, my name is Yinka and am also a twin. I have an issue bothering me and wished to post it here openly in the hope that I will get useful advice/opinion.

This post may seem long and therefore turn off those who hate long epistles but pls endeavour to read it as your advice/opinion might be beneficial to me.

I have thought of creating an alternative moniker to post this or at least lied that the problem is been faced by one of my friend and so he needs your advice like some pretentious nairalanders do, but decided to be bold enough and be real since this is just an online forum.

Sorry for digressing, now to the koko of the matter,I am 22 years old, will be 23 next January, earning a decent salary working as a hair stylist in a large unisex saloon, I have hearing loss as in total deafness though I could speak fluently, was not born deaf but an accident caused it while I was in primary school, the story of how I became deaf is one for another day, but with sheer determination and faith and Gods Grace I managed to complete both primary and secondary schooling but gave up on going further as I have no believe I could survive higher school.

My deafness affected me in very many ways, physiologicaly and emotionally and almost daily, but I hardly allow myself brood over it for a long time, the worst I have done was to cry in secret on more than four occasion for having such a terrible disability.

Ok well, my deafness affected my relationship with the opposite sex so much such that I have never had a girl friend meaning am still a virgin, though I relieve myself of what nairalanders called Konji by doing controlled mas2bation when I feel like, I could have used Oloshos to relieve myself but I considered them as dirty people and can't imagine losing my virginity to a prostitute.

I have tried summoning confidence to toast gals but our conversation is usually very short and not impressive due to the fact I don't know how to prolong such conversations and most of the ideas I saw online hardly applied to such conversation involving a person like me wit hearing loss. I communicate like a normal person by lip reading(hope u know what that is), though not always an effective means of communication but I had no other choice as my parents and me hated the idea of me learning sign language and they vehemently resisted those who suggested it when the deafness problem started.The only problem I have with lip reading was that whenever I don't understand what the other person was saying, I would indicate and ask him to repeat but if it persist I ask him or her to write it with the finger and you will agree with me that such inconvenience might be a big turn of when trying to talk to a stranger like a beautiful gal I admired.

There is this girl I admired that works as a sales girl in my aunt's pharmacy shop, she frequently passed in front of our saloon and have started having feelings for her, fortunately she know I have hearing loss and also knew I am a nephew to her boss and sometimes greets me when passing by like "boda taye",lol and I had just waved and answer "bawo ni", ordinarily I should not have problem toasting her but the fear of my deafness disappointing me and the fact I don't know anything to say that could make the toasting successfull apart from, what is your name, I want to marry you, where do you live, can I have your number, can I take you out on a date next Sunday? Bla bla bla.lol

Also there is the problem I usually encounter with young gals, when I told them I want to marry you, they be like "omo kekere ni mi" meaning am a small girl and I be like how old are you, but can we just be friends bla bla bla, any suggestion to how to properly deal with such response will be appreciated in case the gal I planned to toast say such(she looks 19+). It is not like she is out of my class or too beautiful, no no no not at all, even my twin sister is more classier.

Thanks for reading this far, I know this might seem like an unusual problem but I believe you will have one or two ideas/opinions which I might find useful in other to overcome my deafness and win over this gal. I have no intention of using and dumping her, just date her with the hope of finding her compatible for marriage when the time comes and lastly to relieve myself of Konji the natural way after having gained her trust and affection.

Modified. E be like say I want more opinions, oya CC: lalasticlala abeg do the needful.

BlackrulesDworld:
Ok

yanabasee:
OP..... I'll rather advice that u don't rush into expressing your intentions...

Firstly... You're inlove... So u must not let that feelings to overwhelm you... As girls prefer men who control their thoughts and feelings. What you'll have to do is to extend the greetings to a more adherent greetings. Add more things to the greetings like... Bawo ni, how was ur night? Welcome, hope u had a sound sleep?

After which u'll try and be jovial with ur greetings... It's a common fact that Girls fall in love with guys that makes them smile and or laugh! Funny dude per se... So try and be a comedian just for her. And also add more to ur lines of comedies... You don't have to be funny at all times... Give a limit to it.

Try and let the conversation to have impacts.. That she will want to confide on you... Make her to see you as somebody that is matured and sensible..

When she finally have your time... Don't be too emotional with her... Unless she's moody! Then don't forget to release emotional words to her at that moment... When u say these words.... Look straight into her eyes and let those words come directly from your heart....

She will fall in love if she has two of such moody times with you!

kinibigdeal:
I expected the ladies to come up with a better advice than the guys.

Bro, you have a temporary problem that can be permanently solved. Your self believe is key, your approach is sacrosant, the type of girl is imperative. Your temporary condition has nothing to do with your ability, your boldness do.

DiegoNakel:
Bro I feel your pain tho. You could start be writing a love letter to her making her know your intentions towards her. Pour out your mind in the letter, don't be shy. We can't say she also might have personal likeness for you.

Simitrendy:
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Disability doesn't mean inability.


Tho I've seen a girl deaf tho she isn't mentally and physically fit.

And she's studying Law at JABU and she has a boyfriend.



Visit a good hospitals that has Ear Nose and Throat Dept.


Or a good Teaching Hospital they offer earphones for deaf people, so at least you can still use it.


But def u WL still find some1 who's gonna love you without looking or thinking of your disability.



BTW stop that Konji, I mean the masturbation of a thing.

Why not keep yourself sexually pure, Remember that your destiny is in your hand

OLUJOSHINS:
My broda 19-22 ain't ready for marriage ooooo.

They just want to flirt around.

I will seriously advice U to bone ladies for now.


just flow with God's plan for Ur life & He shall provide a companion for U as He did for Adam

Olayinka8793:
Good day nairalanders, my name is Yinka and am also a twin. I have an issue bothering me and wished to post it here openly in the hope that I will get useful advice/opinion.

This post may seem long and therefore turn off those who hate long epistles but pls endeavour to read it as your advice/opinion might be beneficial to me.

I have thought of creating an alternative moniker to post this or at least lied that the problem is been faced by one of my friend and so he needs your advice like some pretentious nairalanders do, but decided to be bold enough and be real since this is just an online forum.

Sorry for digressing, now to the koko of the matter,I am 22 years old, will be 23 next January, earning a decent salary working as a hair stylist in a large unisex saloon, I have hearing loss as in total deafness though I could speak fluently, was not born deaf but an accident caused it while I was in primary school, the story of how I became deaf is one for another day, but with sheer determination and faith and Gods Grace I managed to complete both primary and secondary schooling but gave up on going further as I have no believe I could survive higher school.

My deafness affected me in very many ways, physiologicaly and emotionally and almost daily, but I hardly allow myself brood over it for a long time, the worst I have done was to cry in secret on more than four occasion for having such a terrible disability.

Ok well, my deafness affected my relationship with the opposite sex so much such that I have never had a girl friend meaning am still a virgin, though I relieve myself of what nairalanders called Konji by doing controlled mas2bation when I feel like, I could have used Oloshos to relieve myself but I considered them as dirty people and can't imagine losing my virginity to a prostitute.

I have tried summoning confidence to toast gals but our conversation is usually very short and not impressive due to the fact I don't know how to prolong such conversations and most of the ideas I saw online hardly applied to such conversation involving a person like me wit hearing loss. I communicate like a normal person by lip reading(hope u know what that is), though not always an effective means of communication but I had no other choice as my parents and me hated the idea of me learning sign language and they vehemently resisted those who suggested it when the deafness problem started.The only problem I have with lip reading was that whenever I don't understand what the other person was saying, I would indicate and ask him to repeat but if it persist I ask him or her to write it with the finger and you will agree with me that such inconvenience might be a big turn of when trying to talk to a stranger like a beautiful gal I admired.

There is this girl I admired that works as a sales girl in my aunt's pharmacy shop, she frequently passed in front of our saloon and have started having feelings for her, fortunately she know I have hearing loss and also knew I am a nephew to her boss and sometimes greets me when passing by like "boda taye",lol and I had just waved and answer "bawo ni", ordinarily I should not have problem toasting her but the fear of my deafness disappointing me and the fact I don't know anything to say that could make the toasting successfull apart from, what is your name, I want to marry you, where do you live, can I have your number, can I take you out on a date next Sunday? Bla bla bla.lol

Also there is the problem I usually encounter with young gals, when I told them I want to marry you, they be like "omo kekere ni mi" meaning am a small girl and I be like how old are you, but can we just be friends bla bla bla, any suggestion to how to properly deal with such response will be appreciated in case the gal I planned to toast say such(she looks 19+). It is not like she is out of my class or too beautiful, no no no not at all, even my twin sister is more classier.

Thanks for reading this far, I know this might seem like an unusual problem but I believe you will have one or two ideas/opinions which I might find useful in other to overcome my deafness and win over this gal. I have no intention of using and dumping her, just date her with the hope of finding her compatible for marriage when the time comes and lastly to relieve myself of Konji the natural way after having gained her trust and affection.

Modified. E be like say I want more opinions, oya CC: lalasticlala abeg do the needful.

Ranks007:
thats ur opinion to a god who is strange to you. But to me, God is the Supreme Head of all flesh and spirits. A Titan to be reckoned with....A Field Marshall yet to lose a war or battle....the Deity whose blessings make the Jews what they are....well, your ignorance is a huge sign how shallow your thinking is and its permitted 4 a while!

smileyz16:
Imagine you wake up one morning
only to find the following imaginations
come true. Which one will
amaze you most?:
,...............................
1. Petrol price is now N1 per litre!
....................
2. NEPA bill is N30 per month!
...................
3. Governor Rotimi Amaechi marries Dame
Patience!
.................
4. Buhari picks Jonathan as vice president!
...................
5. IBB contests for senator and won!
.....................
6. Zamfara is the new Capital of Nigeria!
.................
7. Namadi sambo is the Chief Imam of
Abuja Central Mosque!
...................
8. Dangote is a gate-man in one of Kano
motor Park!
....................
9. Shekau becomes Minister of Defence,
fighting against terrorism!
...................
10. Nigeria becomes world
greatest super power!
..............
Which one of the above will surprise
you most?

Olayinka8793:
noted bro thanks,actually the deafness has defied both medical and spiritual interventions,hav been to and conducted audiogram test or whatever they called it at LASU and a hearing aid was prescribed but still no positive result after been tested on me,as for the waking part I have control over it so am not addicted,u know it is better than patronizing ashis.

chuna1985:
Check if u can find a hearing aid to help u to hear low sounds at least. Good luck

Olayinka8793:
My deafness affected me in very many ways, physiologicaly and emotionally and almost daily.
Ok well, my deafness affected my relationship with the opposite sex so much

BuddhaPalm:
@ Olayinka8793

You express yourself really well.

Ever tried a hearing aid? It could change your life.

Olayinka8793:
Good day nairalanders, my name is Yinka and am also a twin. I have an issue bothering me and wished to post it here openly in the hope that I will get useful advice/opinion.

This post may seem long and therefore turn off those who hate long epistles but pls endeavour to read it as your advice/opinion might be beneficial to me.

I have thought of creating an alternative moniker to post this or at least lied that the problem is been faced by one of my friend and so he needs your advice like some pretentious nairalanders do, but decided to be bold enough and be real since this is just an online forum.

Sorry for digressing, now to the koko of the matter,I am 22 years old, will be 23 next January, earning a decent salary working as a hair stylist in a large unisex saloon, I have hearing loss as in total deafness though I could speak fluently, was not born deaf but an accident caused it while I was in primary school, the story of how I became deaf is one for another day, but with sheer determination and faith and Gods Grace I managed to complete both primary and secondary schooling but gave up on going further as I have no believe I could survive higher school.

My deafness affected me in very many ways, physiologicaly and emotionally and almost daily, but I hardly allow myself brood over it for a long time, the worst I have done was to cry in secret on more than four occasion for having such a terrible disability.

Ok well, my deafness affected my relationship with the opposite sex so much such that I have never had a girl friend meaning am still a virgin, though I relieve myself of what nairalanders called Konji by doing controlled mas2bation when I feel like, I could have used Oloshos to relieve myself but I considered them as dirty people and can't imagine losing my virginity to a prostitute.

I have tried summoning confidence to toast gals but our conversation is usually very short and not impressive due to the fact I don't know how to prolong such conversations and most of the ideas I saw online hardly applied to such conversation involving a person like me wit hearing loss. I communicate like a normal person by lip reading(hope u know what that is), though not always an effective means of communication but I had no other choice as my parents and me hated the idea of me learning sign language and they vehemently resisted those who suggested it when the deafness problem started.The only problem I have with lip reading was that whenever I don't understand what the other person was saying, I would indicate and ask him to repeat but if it persist I ask him or her to write it with the finger and you will agree with me that such inconvenience might be a big turn of when trying to talk to a stranger like a beautiful gal I admired.

There is this girl I admired that works as a sales girl in my aunt's pharmacy shop, she frequently passed in front of our saloon and have started having feelings for her, fortunately she know I have hearing loss and also knew I am a nephew to her boss and sometimes greets me when passing by like "boda taye",lol and I had just waved and answer "bawo ni", ordinarily I should not have problem toasting her but the fear of my deafness disappointing me and the fact I don't know anything to say that could make the toasting successfull apart from, what is your name, I want to marry you, where do you live, can I have your number, can I take you out on a date next Sunday? Bla bla bla.lol

Also there is the problem I usually encounter with young gals, when I told them I want to marry you, they be like "omo kekere ni mi" meaning am a small girl and I be like how old are you, but can we just be friends bla bla bla, any suggestion to how to properly deal with such response will be appreciated in case the gal I planned to toast say such(she looks 19+). It is not like she is out of my class or too beautiful, no no no not at all, even my twin sister is more classier.

Thanks for reading this far, I know this might seem like an unusual problem but I believe you will have one or two ideas/opinions which I might find useful in other to overcome my deafness and win over this gal. I have no intention of using and dumping her, just date her with the hope of finding her compatible for marriage when the time comes and lastly to relieve myself of Konji the natural way after having gained her trust and affection.

Modified. E be like say I want more opinions, oya CC: lalasticlala abeg do the needful.