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Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 2:53pm On Oct 13, 2015
Sorry no list this time.

After break-up I'd keep in touch with my ex(s) no string attach just mutual friendship but I discovered they still ask me for favours/help. Some of my pals confirmed this too.

I do help but feel awkward about it, we are not dating anymore why ask me things or ask for my help?

Ladies why? Guys share your experience.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 3:00pm On Oct 13, 2015
Ask ur ex girlfriend
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:02pm On Oct 13, 2015
Blizzyblinkzy:
Ask ur ex girlfriend
undecided


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Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Oct 13, 2015
because some of dem are parasites
no long story!
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by kel4soft: 3:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
OP, had similar experience too. I don't know why they do that. Their new bf is supposed to take care of them. Why bringing their problem to add to my own.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by HARDDON: 3:05pm On Oct 13, 2015
Havin satisfied ur sexual sack, u took a heck, they feel used n woke up to de reality of the fact that they hadnt really bothered u much

What do u expect?
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:08pm On Oct 13, 2015
HARDDON:
Havin satisfied ur sexual sack, u took a heck, they feel used n woke up to de reality of the fact that they hadnt really bothered u much

What do u expect?
actually they don't satisfy our sexual sack. They'd just relieve the urges.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by Melahou(m): 3:09pm On Oct 13, 2015
because they still feel you can be relied upon
its no big deal to help an ex...
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by kelvyn7: 3:10pm On Oct 13, 2015
I think say na only me notice am cheesy
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by dkronicle(m): 3:12pm On Oct 13, 2015
Gbenzz
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by Magician1503(m): 3:13pm On Oct 13, 2015
Lol
Why go back or be friends with ex?
It all ends in frustration and disappointment undecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by respect80(m): 3:13pm On Oct 13, 2015
DAVIYJONESS:
Sorry no list this time.

After break-up I'd keep in touch with my ex(s) no string attach just mutual friendship but I discovered they still ask me for favours/help. Some of my pals confirmed this too.

I do help but feel awkward about it, we are not dating anymore why ask me things or ask for my help?

Ladies why? Guys share your experience.
I think it's because
The bleeps that were bleeped can be refucked if only the fucker or the fuckee admits that the bleeps that were bleeped were sweet grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:14pm On Oct 13, 2015
kel4soft:
OP, had similar experience too. I don't know why they do that. Their new bf is supposed to take care of them. Why bringing their problem to add to my own.
all the ex have had always do that, I don't know why.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:15pm On Oct 13, 2015
respect80:
I think it's because
The bleeps that were bleeped can be refucked if only the fucker or the fuckee admits that the bleeps that were bleeped were sweet grin
I don't understand your language undecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by Solomon19(m): 3:15pm On Oct 13, 2015
Your ex HAS NEVER SEEN ANY MAGA LIKE YOU B4... grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:16pm On Oct 13, 2015
Melahou:
because they still feel you can be relied upon
its no big deal to help an ex...
it doesn't feel right anytime I help. undecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:17pm On Oct 13, 2015
undecided
Solomon19:
Your ex HAS NEVER SEEN ANY MAGA LIKE YOU B4... grin grin grin
undecidedwe are all magas
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by ipledge10(m): 3:17pm On Oct 13, 2015
DAVIYJONESS:
Sorry no list this time.

After break-up I'd keep in touch with my ex(s) no string attach just mutual friendship but I discovered they still ask me for favours/help. Some of my pals confirmed this too.

I do help but feel awkward about it, we are not dating anymore why ask me things or ask for my help?

Ladies why? Guys share your experience.
you can make it mutual...Ask for their favor too...U know what I mean
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by Nobody: 3:17pm On Oct 13, 2015
If a girl you aren't and haven't dated can ask you for a favor, why can't an EX do same?

If u two break up and still become buddies, she's free to ask and you are also free to ask favors.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:19pm On Oct 13, 2015
ipledge10:
you can make it mutual...Ask for their favor too...U know what I mean
undecided no I dont
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:20pm On Oct 13, 2015
stupidity:
If a girl you aren't and haven't dated can ask you for a favor, why can't an EX do same?

If u two break up and still become buddies, she's free to ask and you are also free to ask favors.
psychologically my overt actions towards both differs.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by ronald4lif(m): 3:23pm On Oct 13, 2015
I'm also interested in knowing why some of them do this. I've had experience of some requesting for favors when we're no longer together and not like we both communicate often. Don't know what that sh1t is.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:26pm On Oct 13, 2015
ronald4lif:
I'm also interested in knowing why some of them do this. I've had experience of some requesting for favors when we're no longer together and not like we both communicate often. Don't know what that sh1t is.
who is this impostor? Where is the real man? undecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by Ragner(m): 3:29pm On Oct 13, 2015
Cos that's what Friends do....Help Each other
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by respect80(m): 3:31pm On Oct 13, 2015
DAVIYJONESS:
I don't understand your language undecided
In other news they stay close to you and if either of you admit that you both had good times together then bleeping may continue from there
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by ronald4lif(m): 3:35pm On Oct 13, 2015
DAVIYJONESS:
who is this impostor? Where is the real man? undecided
Hahaha, Mr. Jones. I'm not a naysayer to issues that brings to light perceived women misdemeanor. Past encounters shouldn't make you believe otherwise.
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:35pm On Oct 13, 2015
respect80:
In other news they stay close to you and if either of you admit that you both had good times together then bleeping may continue from there
that's just my nature I still get in touch not for reunion or sex opportunity, I even state clearly I'm dating someone to them
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:38pm On Oct 13, 2015
ronald4lif:
Hahaha, Mr. Jones. I'm not a naysayer to issues that brings to light perceived women misdemeanor. Past encounters shouldn't make you believe otherwise.
do I have to use 'google' everytime I read your post? undecided

The only I understood are'mr jones and hahaha'
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by DAVIYJONESS(op): 3:40pm On Oct 13, 2015
Ragner:
Cos that's what Friends do....Help Each other
we use to be lovers undecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by Melahou(m): 3:45pm On Oct 13, 2015
DAVIYJONESS:
it doesn't feel right anytime I help. undecided
that's because you don't get anything in return

will it feel right if she allows you to beep her before or after helping? grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by ronald4lif(m): 3:45pm On Oct 13, 2015
DAVIYJONESS:
do I have to use 'google' everytime I read your post? undecided

The only I understood are'mr jones and hahaha'
Okay, brief us what happened. What favour did Nkechi abi is Funmi solicited for this time? wink
Re: Why Do Ladies Still Ask For Favours After You Break Up With Them? by falconey(m): 3:46pm On Oct 13, 2015
ladies no go gree comment for this kind thread. LOL yeah great question.
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