sinaj:
Aproko!

so u see nothing wrong in sleeping with another woman's hubby


may someone Bleep ur own hubby wen the time comes in jesus name!

oya say amen

It's sincerely none of your business. The landlord is sick, your room mate is the devil and his wife is just... unfortunate. Simple!

OP, shey you are gay ni or ur friend and landlord are gays cos I can see that you are Male. That's just by the way, as per this matter eh? Just put ur nose where it's supposed to be jeje or if you can't bear it just go and secure another apartment. If you let the cat put of the bag, you may be fighting a battle that will distract you from your studies. You will also end of as a cog in the wheel of ur landlady's marital life. So think about the many more ripple effects of ur nosy action before you do it.

I don't normally comment on this but my advice is simple ::::


Warn your roommate to desist from it cause karma "will" surely catch her when she get married, and if she refuses to yield(am sure she won't yield)...You have two options...


Give an anonymous tip to the nice lady while you have already changed room (cause when the cat comes flying out of the bag, people will use the adage "birds of a feather.... " wrongly on you )



Option 2 :: Still give a tip to "nice lady" (It is the right thing to do)....But don't tell it all...probably make "nice lady" catch the Shameless niggar and your roomy in a compromising situation...


And all ye who say she should "Mind her business"....

Remember...Evil persist when good men do nothing...

if you expose them, there is a chance it might explode in your face.

sinaj:
Aproko!

birds of same feather flock together.

SMH.

MIND your damn buisness !!!

ma bimi ni jamb question...tell and you'll see

Amebo! Amebo! Amebo de hungry you. Better pack leave the room and allow sleeping dog lie till nemesis catch up with them.

Do most people do anything else in Nigeria these days besides sexing around? Jeez. Productive time that should be used to think up business ideas and progress their lives is spent sleeping around.

OP, follow your conscience. There is a reason we have one.

I think you should let sleeping dogs lie on this one. You might think you are gooding a good thing by telling your landlady about the affairs of her philandering husband but honestly you aren't. Only hurt can come out of exposing this illicit affair.

1. You are definitely going to lose the friendship of the landlady if you expose their affair and she would immediately become suspicious of and distrust all young ladies including you.

2. It's going to cost you the friendship of your roommate.

3. If she doesn't know about it, telling her would only hurt as she would begin to doubt herself. She would be wondering how she missed the signs of infidelity, she's also going to start questioning herself, how she is unable to satisfy her husband either sexually or her physical appearance. Basically her self esteem and confidence would be destroyed.

4. If she does know, telling her again would only make her more bitter and ashamed that someone else knows about this.

5. If she's got children, any fallout from the exposé could potentially hurt them.

And the end of the day, your exposing this affair might help you ease your conscience but it could hurt other people more. My advice to you is to let it slide, talk to your roommate about it, tell her to either end it or be more discreet about it.

Acidosis:
Africans and s e x


The only factor of production in our head is s e x. Why?!

I really wish I can answer that....the rate at which its been stressed is unbearable..

You may want to look for another place to live. If you warn your friend, she is likely to tell your landlord, if you don`t the wife would get to know one day and she would get to know from her husband that you know about it all along. Should I find myself in your shoes, I will leave

Acidosis:
Africans and s e x


The only factor of production in our head is s e x. Why?!

I really wish I can answer that....the rate at which its been stressed is unbearable...

divinehand2003:
Sister, how e take concern you now, abi you want your share of the goodies?
if I were in your shoes, I will start looking for a new accommodation to stay, because adultery or fornication never stops until the culprits are caught and it might rub off on your since you are roommate to one of the participants of the nefarious act.
So my dear flee now, RED FLAG IS UP, DANGER LURKS AROUND THE CORNER

I support ! Thumbs up

I think wisdom is applicable. For me, I will quietly make arrangement with the landlady to catch them red-handed without raising any suspicious. Because if that your friend could do that with your landlord, she can as well do that with your boyfriend or possibly your dad. So gal, APPLY WISDOM. Ire ooo

adewumiopeyemi:
A true life story and I know little about the story. Read below:

“I’m so confused, I don’t know what to do. My roommate is dating our landlord and they do have s.ex under the same roof we are living. We are students but we live off campus.

Our landlord should be in his 40s and he is married with 2 kids, our landlord and his family lives in the same building with us. The first day I knew they were dating was when I caught them making love in our room although I’ve been suspecting their movement before I caught them together.

My roommate confessed to me that she’s dating him and they’ve been going out for over 4 months now.

My problem now is our landlord’s wife is a very nice woman, she’s one of the most nicest people I’ve ever met, she gives us food, money and she treats us like her sisters. I still remember the last time I misplaced N3200 for my medical in school, it was our landlord’s wife that gave me N4000 to pay for it and she has also helped this my roommate countless time.

Knowing my friend and my landlord doing extra ordinary is giving me guilty conscience each time I see the landlord’s wife. Do you think I should tell the landlord’s wife?”

You they craze wetin concern your landlord concern you. People like to the enter for wetin wey no concern if ur landlord snd pesin to kill u due to what u want to tell d wife you go still come here they complain my life is i trouble my advice for you is for u to mind your bizness jar.

You are a nice girl obviously but its really non of your business to tell. Just mind your business and play dumb. If you tell, then you are treacherous and a two faced bi.tch. No pun intended. Mind your business!

Smartiegurl:
I really wish I can answer that....the rate at which its been stressed is unbearable...

wait a minute?! Smartiegurl?? ?? My Nairaland sweetheart in 2013??


Where have you been?!

divinehand2003:
Sister, how e take concern you now, abi you want your share of the goodies?
if I were in your shoes, I will start looking for a new accommodation to stay, because adultery or fornication never stops until the culprits are caught and it might rub off on you since you are roommate to one of the participants of the nefarious act.
So my dear flee now, RED FLAG IS UP, DANGER LURKS AROUND THE CORNER

Best advice

ARE YOU AMEBO?

divinehand2003:
Sister, how e take concern you now, abi you want your share of the goodies?
if I were in your shoes, I will start looking for a new accommodation to stay, because adultery or fornication never stops until the culprits are caught and it might rub off on you since you are roommate to one of the participants of the nefarious act.
So my dear flee now, RED FLAG IS UP, DANGER LURKS AROUND THE CORNER

God bless you. The best comment i have seen here. O kare. I like that aspect that says, " It is adultery and adultery never stops until the culprits are caught" most.

adewumiopeyemi:
A true life story and I know little about the story. Read below:

“I’m so confused, I don’t know what to do. My roommate is dating our landlord and they do have s.ex under the same roof we are living. We are students but we live off campus.

Our landlord should be in his 40s and he is married with 2 kids, our landlord and his family lives in the same building with us. The first day I knew they were dating was when I caught them making love in our room although I’ve been suspecting their movement before I caught them together.

My roommate confessed to me that she’s dating him and they’ve been going out for over 4 months now.

My problem now is our landlord’s wife is a very nice woman, she’s one of the most nicest people I’ve ever met, she gives us food, money and she treats us like her sisters. I still remember the last time I misplaced N3200 for my medical in school, it was our landlord’s wife that gave me N4000 to pay for it and she has also helped this my roommate countless time.

Knowing my friend and my landlord doing extra ordinary is giving me guilty conscience each time I see the landlord’s wife. Do you think I should tell the landlord’s wife?”

Don't hesitate. If you don't tell her then dat means u r in support of the immoral act and remember... God is watching you o....

i know your type. so you want to inform your landlords wife of her husband extra-marital affair. you want to put assunder abi. you better vacate the room if you are not pleased with your friend relationship with the landlord. and if you still did not consider this as the best option it means your action is noting rather than you are jealous and want the landlord to wire you too. if so, then feel free to express your feelings for i so well know the man will never say no.

Onye ashiri gbakute wetin consan u abi u dey try for the landlord too? Or u just wan distroy the man family abi. My friend fear God nd mind ur business

adewumiopeyemi:
A true life story and I know little about the story. Read below:

“I’m so confused, I don’t know what to do. My roommate is dating our landlord and they do have s.ex under the same roof we are living. We are students but we live off campus.

Our landlord should be in his 40s and he is married with 2 kids, our landlord and his family lives in the same building with us. The first day I knew they were dating was when I caught them making love in our room although I’ve been suspecting their movement before I caught them together.

My roommate confessed to me that she’s dating him and they’ve been going out for over 4 months now.

My problem now is our landlord’s wife is a very nice woman, she’s one of the most nicest people I’ve ever met, she gives us food, money and she treats us like her sisters. I still remember the last time I misplaced N3200 for my medical in school, it was our landlord’s wife that gave me N4000 to pay for it and she has also helped this my roommate countless time.

Knowing my friend and my landlord doing extra ordinary is giving me guilty conscience each time I see the landlord’s wife. Do you think I should tell the landlord’s wife?”

Face your lane.

adewumiopeyemi:
A true life story and I know little about the story. Read below:

“I’m so confused, I don’t know what to do. My roommate is dating our landlord and they do have s.ex under the same roof we are living. We are students but we live off campus.

Our landlord should be in his 40s and he is married with 2 kids, our landlord and his family lives in the same building with us. The first day I knew they were dating was when I caught them making love in our room although I’ve been suspecting their movement before I caught them together.

My roommate confessed to me that she’s dating him and they’ve been going out for over 4 months now.

My problem now is our landlord’s wife is a very nice woman, she’s one of the most nicest people I’ve ever met, she gives us food, money and she treats us like her sisters. I still remember the last time I misplaced N3200 for my medical in school, it was our landlord’s wife that gave me N4000 to pay for it and she has also helped this my roommate countless time.

Knowing my friend and my landlord doing extra ordinary is giving me guilty conscience each time I see the landlord’s wife. Do you think I should tell the landlord’s wife?”

instead of you to be rejoicing that ur house rent has been sorted out as long as ur rummie does d do well and the ur land lord is satisfied with her services

Tell the landlady n also warn her not to reveal that you told her. Just arrange for them to get caught so they won't suspect it's you.
You roommate is an idiot, same with the landlord.

marshalcarter:
Better seal ur fuckin dirty mouth....even if she suck his cock..is it ya biz

If you want sum...tell him nd he'll hammer you ni...you go go coba urself naw...una go pay x3 rent

What a pity are u a Christian? did u read the story if john the Baptist and herod? John never kept quiet rather he spoke out and today he is a saint in heaven.

marshalcarter:
Better seal ur fuckin dirty mouth....even if she suck his cock..is it ya biz

If you want sum...tell him nd he'll hammer you ni...you go go coba urself naw...una go pay x3 rent

Why are most of males here are support in this action?

warn your friend sternly, tell her the next time she makes love to the man in your room you will go straight to the landlord wife, if it happens after that tell the man you want to talk to him, when he is listening tell him how good his wife has been to you people, tell him you ain't judging him and that you are not better but that he will have to return your rent to you because you want to move out. finally for you to keep such a person as roommate says a lot about you too which you are not saying here

sanbells:
Do the right thing. Warn your roommate to stop that nonsense. If she doesn't, then tell your landlords wife. She doesn't deserve any of that. She's been good to you so it's time to pay back the goodness by telling the truth. Chances are that you might get kicked out shaa... Buh don't worry about that, it's better than seeing that woman everyday in her nicest behavior and carrying a guilty conscience.

.......i thought you like the OP nii ooo, and if you do, why will you ask her to tell the landlord's wife? if she does, she will loose in all the 3 ways. She will loose her friend, the landlord will kick her out, and finally, she will never get to have the landlord's wife respect again, because she will assume she knows and supported the whole thing from the beginning. Better advice for her will be to warn her friend very well, and find another accommodation for herself because she is sitting on a time bomb.