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Bbsharon:
thanks for the advice.

You're welcome.

@OP I pity you... really

the guy is messing around with your fishh brain and you're here writing DnB story..

btw you forgot to tell us how you two were getting down behind closed doors... who knws d kind of style you gave d goat dat's making him stalk you

Bbsharon:
Hello Nairalanders,

Am kind of new here and I decided to share this to learn from all, be it just sharing your own view or experience if you have had any or just advising base on what you know too.

Three years ago I met a guy, handsome, working class, well educated. He was 27 years then and I was 19 years and not yet in higher institution, he told me he loves me and he wanted a relationship with me of which after some time too I started developing interest in him too and so the relationship kicked off after few months.

He was my kind of guy tall, dark and handsome, Godfearing, intelligent and also from my state. We were happy together until I started feeling insecure because he never introduced me to neither of his parent nor friends nor any relative at all, while I was busy flaunting the relationship and he won't agree to come visit me at my place too, i kept telling my siblings my bf is not in town, he said because his last relationship he did that and the outcome wasn't good because the girl later broke up with him and he was heartbroken so was being careful.

I tried believing at first but with time I couldn't trust myself to feel he is not hiding some things from me, so i confronted him and told him at least ur best friend and am okay with it and I asked him questions like is it cos am not yet in school? besides as at that time have written jamb and was waiting for the admission list to be out.

He told me he loved beyond all that but still no one can hear about our relationship...at that moment I knew something was wrong and my insecurity wont let me trust him again so I decided to end the relationship there.

It was painful to me at the time but I tell you it was one of the best decisions I made...and to my surprise he didn't come begging back like I read in romance books and that hurts the more but that made me forget about him faster than I wanted and I moved on.

Fastforward to 2 years later this same guy started stalking me everywhere telling me how he loves me so much and that he is serious that he wants me to marry him, promising heaven and earth.

At this time have moved on and I was already in school, well I told him I was no longer interested and I dont love him again, he left me for some time and then started stalking me back this year again.

So when I was home for holiday I decided to see him and then he told me how he is now engaged to a lady he just met this year too and they have done their introduction but he doesn't love her and he still loves me and if I say yes to him he will call of the wedding and marry me.

It was strange to see that same guy that was always bossy around me begging me but I just told him I wont be the cause of another woman's sorrow by him breaking up with his fiancee.

Now he is ready to introduce me to even his ancestors, and treat me like a lady but unfortunately I stopped loving him long time ago.

Now he stalks me everywhere and am fed up already.

so ladies have you been in this kind of situation before and guys too? what's your best advice on this?

Meaningful contribution pls.

Marry me! ... Seriously speaking. MY CANDID ADVICE

Raymondenyi:
becos the fiancee doesn't have samme pusssy!!! U ladies should try being reasonable sometimes; and stop seeing yourselves like sexual dolls!!! Please give some dignity to urselves!!!

Gush!!!

Lol,i am very sure he want nothing but sex!!get it straight huh?

harristo:
And if it's superficial desire he has for her, she'll end up regretting life when he decides to leave her at the last minute after introductions and all.
A guy that changes his mind about a girl after introductions is not to be trusted, and he's even less worthy of trust if he went through the introductions with the other girl even though he doesn't love her.
The guy deserves to be flogged.

It's better for a guy to change his mind after an introduction is done rather than when he is already married.

My advice is simple,she shouldn't get back with him because she is still too young n might have her head in the clouds as per what a true relationship should be(No disrespect intended)

She should rather date in her age range,so she n d guy can learn together

Bbsharon:
cos I dnt know you..

I'm a nobleman in all ramifications

prettythicksme:
Lol,my dear u berra ignore him asap!!He's is after ur pusssy nothing else!!

Pusssy Dat he has not eaten before or do we now have new version pussyy?

also Wat a Funny rply!!!

the op said Dey dated before breakup, was op not with ha pusssy then or do She normally leave it @ home while visiting him?

if ur read closely it shows the op do front this guy house then,Cuz She said he Neva visited ha.

Also op was 19 And 19 in Nigeria is Lik 35.Meaning @ that age pussy Mst Hv receive not less than 4diks in 2mthns.

Also it is obvious that a girl hardly say he fcked Me once or 3tyms.girls will Neva say that.

Also u Dnt xpect op to say that part,Cuz obviously She will say he Neva reach ha pant,common to all girls.

Just as op jump pussy part.you too also shuld jump pussy part.


#Happy2bebornin#In a vry pussy generation #

gone are does days where guys lack pusssy,this days Evn house girl can offer you free,free to the xtent of no condom.

Heaven shall bless house girls as my dik now has no hiding please.

#Pusssy was a blessing to guys#

My dear his after your P..s..y, be wise.

prettythicksme:
Lol,my dear u berra ignore him asap!!He's is after ur pusssy nothing else!!

Ma .. Please what's pusssy ?
Am confused cause I hear this pusssy pusssy everytime and I wonder if every girl has a cat .

Could you explain things to me ?

marlockj:
Pusssy Dat he has not eaten before or do we now have new version pussyy?

also Wat a Funny rply!!!

the op said Dey dated before breakup, was op not with ha pusssy then or do She normally leave it @ home while visiting him?

if ur read closely it shows the op do front this guy house then,Cuz She said he Neva visited ha.

Also op was 19 And 19 in Nigeria is Lik 35.Meaning @ that age pussy Mst Hv receive not less than 4diks in 2mthns.

Also it is obvious that a girl hardly say he fcked Me once or 3tyms.girls will Neva say that.

Also u Dnt xpect op to say that part,Cuz obviously She will say he Neva reach ha pant,common to all girls.

Just as op jump pussy part.you too also shuld jump pussy part.


#Happy2bebornin#In a vry pussy generation #

gone are does days where guys lack pusssy,this days Evn house girl can offer you free,free to the xtent of no condom.

Heaven shall bless house girls as my dik now has no hiding please.

#Pusssy was a blessing to guys#

My comment is not funny,i wrote d truth!!D guy is engaged,so what do think he want if not her body!! but ur post his long tho,i am allergic to long textbook

soldierdollar:
Ma .. Please what's pusssy ?
Am confused cause I hear this pusssy pusssy everytime and I wonder if every girl has a cat .

Could you explain things to me ?

Pusssy means borrow sense if u cant afford to buy!!

Hey young lady dt give dt dude any chance anymore! He's A̶̲̥̅ cheat! He wl definatly hurt u big time! He's A̶̲̥̅ confuse man he doesn't know want he want. Please guide ur heart dt allow him T̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̝̇̇̇ hurt u deep pls. Is well wt u sis! Lv u.

Bbsharon:
Hello Nairalanders,

Am kind of new here and I decided to share this to learn from all, be it just sharing your own view or experience if you have had any or just advising base on what you know too.

Three years ago I met a guy, handsome, working class, well educated. He was 27 years then and I was 19 years and not yet in higher institution, he told me he loves me and he wanted a relationship with me of which after some time too I started developing interest in him too and so the relationship kicked off after few months.

He was my kind of guy tall, dark and handsome, Godfearing, intelligent and also from my state. We were happy together until I started feeling insecure because he never introduced me to neither of his parent nor friends nor any relative at all, while I was busy flaunting the relationship and he won't agree to come visit me at my place too, i kept telling my siblings my bf is not in town, he said because his last relationship he did that and the outcome wasn't good because the girl later broke up with him and he was heartbroken so was being careful.

I tried believing at first but with time I couldn't trust myself to feel he is not hiding some things from me, so i confronted him and told him at least ur best friend and am okay with it and I asked him questions like is it cos am not yet in school? besides as at that time have written jamb and was waiting for the admission list to be out.

He told me he loved beyond all that but still no one can hear about our relationship...at that moment I knew something was wrong and my insecurity wont let me trust him again so I decided to end the relationship there.

It was painful to me at the time but I tell you it was one of the best decisions I made...and to my surprise he didn't come begging back like I read in romance books and that hurts the more but that made me forget about him faster than I wanted and I moved on.

Fastforward to 2 years later this same guy started stalking me everywhere telling me how he loves me so much and that he is serious that he wants me to marry him, promising heaven and earth.

At this time have moved on and I was already in school, well I told him I was no longer interested and I dont love him again, he left me for some time and then started stalking me back this year again.

So when I was home for holiday I decided to see him and then he told me how he is now engaged to a lady he just met this year too and they have done their introduction but he doesn't love her and he still loves me and if I say yes to him he will call of the wedding and marry me.

It was strange to see that same guy that was always bossy around me begging me but I just told him I wont be the cause of another woman's sorrow by him breaking up with his fiancee.

Now he is ready to introduce me to even his ancestors, and treat me like a lady but unfortunately I stopped loving him long time ago.

Now he stalks me everywhere and am fed up already.

so ladies have you been in this kind of situation before and guys too? what's your best advice on this?

Meaningful contribution pls.

Every word u wrote, every single sentence you constructed showed us how old u are. Pls go and read you books and leave romance to adults.

Op, face your book.

Your future is more important than all these infatuations.

Don't waste your time with him - he is a loser. Connect with someone like me and chop life well well.

Fisifun Kododada

KashyBaby:
The best thing is u ignore him...how he stalk u? Does he knows ur schedules?does he knows all ur social media sites? In this case block him..and do not answer any calls from him, eventually he will get tired doing it..

It's does he know...and not does he knows

He just intrested in getting layed with you and the rest will be history, so shine you eyes well well..

Bbsharon:
Hello Nairalanders,

Am kind of new here and I decided to share this to learn from all, be it just sharing your own view or experience if you have had any or just advising base on what you know too.
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Three years ago I met a guy, handsome, working class, well educated. He was 27 years then and I was 19 years and not yet in higher institution, he told me he loves me and he wanted a relationship with me of which after some time too I started developing interest in him too and so the relationship kicked off after few months.

He was my kind of guy tall, dark and handsome, Godfearing, intelligent and also from my state. We were happy together until I started feeling insecure because he never introduced me to neither of his parent nor friends nor any relative at all, while I was busy flaunting the relationship and he won't agree to come visit me at my place too, i kept telling my siblings my bf is not in town, he said because his last relationship he did that and the outcome wasn't good because the girl later broke up with him and he was heartbroken so was being careful.

I tried believing at first but with time I couldn't trust myself to feel he is not hiding some things from me, so i confronted him and told him at least ur best friend and am okay with it and I asked him questions like is it cos am not yet in school? besides as at that time have written jamb and was waiting for the admission list to be out.

He told me he loved beyond all that but still no one can hear about our relationship...at that moment I knew something was wrong and my insecurity wont let me trust him again so I decided to end the relationship there.

It was painful to me at the time but I tell you it was one of the best decisions I made...and to my surprise he didn't come begging back like I read in romance books and that hurts the more but that made me forget about him faster than I wanted and I moved on.

Fastforward to 2 years later this same guy started stalking me everywhere telling me how he loves me so much and that he is serious that he wants me to marry him, promising heaven and earth.

At this time have moved on and I was already in school, well I told him I was no longer interested and I dont love him again, he left me for some time and then started stalking me back this year again.

So when I was home for holiday I decided to see him and then he told me how he is now engaged to a lady he just met this year too and they have done their introduction but he doesn't love her and he still loves me and if I say yes to him he will call of the wedding and marry me.

It was strange to see that same guy that was always bossy around me begging me but I just told him I wont be the cause of another woman's sorrow by him breaking up with his fiancee.

Now he is ready to introduce me to even his ancestors, and treat me like a lady but unfortunately I stopped loving him long time ago.

Now he stalks me everywhere and am fed up already.

so ladies have you been in this kind of situation before and guys too? what's your best advice on this?

Meaningful contribution pls.

prettythicksme:
Pusssy means borrow sense if u cant afford to buy!!

Is that what it means ?
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeewww

He is Spiderman. . . you may be in danger.

Op, let him go and move on with your life.Never accept him back as you will end up regretting that. He is a cheat.

drnoel:
Every word u wrote, every single sentence you constructed showed us how old u are. Pls go and read you books and leave romance to adults.

pls you can just pass

am doing very well in my academics and doing well for myself and am over the legal age for adult which is 21... so u mean I shld start talking about relationships when am 30 right?

He just wants to have a taste of the cookie one last time. ..Sounds like a Fuvkboy to me

aspirebig:
Op, face your book.
Your future is more important than all these infatuations.

all this aunties and uncles saying I shld face my book...
dnt just conclude on what you dnt know.

pejuswt:
Hey young lady dt give dt dude any chance anymore! He's A̶̲̥̅ cheat! He wl definatly hurt u big time! He's A̶̲̥̅ confuse man he doesn't know want he want. Please guide ur heart dt allow him T̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̝̇̇̇ hurt u deep pls. Is well wt u sis! Lv u.

thanks a lot.

soldierdollar:
Ma .. Please what's pusssy ?
Am confused cause I hear this pusssy pusssy everytime and I wonder if every girl has a cat .

Could you explain things to me ?

it's the name of a new phone

vislabraye:
Introduce me to the guy as your new bf. You just pay me a token.

lol.

nkemdi89:
Yours is only engaged mine is already married and he is begging to come back that he is regretting his marriage. Blaming me for not making the marriage to work because I stood by own principles. Funny enough the married isn't up to six months.

sister you need to pray against that demonic guy o...

flokii:
@OP I pity you... really

the guy is messing around with your fishh brain and you're here writing DnB story..

btw you forgot to tell us how you two were getting down behind closed doors... who knws d kind of style you gave d goat dat's making him stalk you

oga u can still pass same message without the insult or just waka pass.

Datsme:
Marry me! ... Seriously speaking. MY CANDID ADVICE

I laugh in Swahili

48noble:
I'm a nobleman in all ramifications

knight of which kingdom?
lol...good to know tho.

Bbsharon:
knight of which kingdom?

lol...good to know tho.

Yeah, better than knights of Camelot

Bbsharon:
oga u can still pass same message without the insult or just waka pass.

dear OP... forgive me for my utterances but...
there's fire on d mountain.. stalking is as bad as anytin bliv me
it might even lead to one or both parties getting killed.