₦airaland Forum

francizy:
Am not a fan of big lips jawe.. Me is a fan of big behind.. Nonetheless, your lips ain't bad ma'am..

marieolae:
Amen to this
Say no to Bleep boys!!
Say yes to real men!

kosplateau:
Virtuous woman? One was shouting how her husband was cheating..I asked her if he met her a virgin. Mouth shut...this is his time to experience what you started from 16 ...men start from 27!

kaboninc:
No to baby doll ladies who look like cartoon creatures.

Yes to real women who keep it real!

pasol4real:
at 16 most of them don turn oworshoronki na
This days its no longer sweet 16 na sweet 12

kaboninc:
Is that your moniker?

StephanieEzeh:
Men always talk of wife material this, wife material that but they always avoid the issue of husband material. The rate of irresponsibility among our young men is becoming outrageous! I wonder if some do think of their future before wanting to impregnate a lady and put her in the family way! These set of men are called NFA, No Future Ambition! Ladies, here are ways to identify your boyfriend as an NFA:

*If your bf is not physically or mentally challenged but he does nothing as an adult and has no intention of doing anything useful, dump him! He's an NFA!

*If your bf spends time smoking and drinking with friends during working hours on weekdays, dump him. Na NFA him be! Na marijuana and Gulder you wan take start family abi?

*He would turn out to be an NFA if he still lives in his parents house and eats their food without any intention of getting his own, yet, he wants you to get pregnant for him, run away. Such men are disgrace! The Bible says "So shall a man leaves his mother and father and clings to his wife..." He probably doesn't have any useful plan for himself talk less of you

*He pressures you for marriage yet cannot take care of his own self! Marriage is a serious and longtime commitment! It's not for kids and "Mama thank you guys"!!! A man must be financially stable before discussing marriage with a lady. If you can't take care of yourself, na who wan take care of? Me abi na your mama?

*He is an NFA if he spends as he gets! If your bf cannot control his spending habits, he is probably an NFA You dey form Dangote for your cabin biscuit salary, dey buy beer for everybody you see for bar! When will you get your life organized and behave like a responsible adult? There's no reward or certificate for a social misfit!!! We are humans and we appreciate material stuffs but I like guys who work very hard to be successful not the ones who work to maintain the type of false life they have decided to live.

No human is perfect, so before you observe the wife material in a lady, first observe the husband material in yourself and see if the material is not too small or have holes made by beetles and cockroaches on it!!!

Pigin1:
Finally, When he plays up to 30 bet9ja tickets giving Chelsea win, win/draw and NG

Bimbomartins:
Lols babe u r so on point especially d rapper n footballer part. Hardwork pays

cassyrooy:
A friend is in Spain enjoying a sterling career, don't hate 'em cos you don't love 'em.

all4naija:
You made this up!

Mekwen:
Today you be honey,you could be a bee tomorrow.

YourMain:
Yes. I've no problem with becoming a footballer or rapper. My problem is your ONLY ambition being a footballer or rapper. Nothing to fall back on or anything.

tosyne2much:
This write-up would have made more sense if the thrust of emphasis does not only centre on money


Back to the issue

We are in a society where financial pressure and financial prosperity are usually mounted on the male folks. However, a woman can be lazy, it's no big deal right ?. But a man should not cos much is expected from him, yet ladies clamour for gender equality


One statement I hate to hear is that, a man has to strive hard to make money so as to be attractive to the female folks or provide their needs. I mean what sort of foolish statement is that ? I strive to make money so that I can enjoy good things of life, not for one yeye lady to see me as a real man. This notion has been leading many young dude astray. You see some venturing into diabolic practices so as to satisfy ladies



From your write-up, one can deduce that what only makes a man marriageable is money. That's a myopic assertion OP

Isaacmacdon:
u just made me shed a tear 4 d 1st time in 7yrs.. Just take a look at our brodas messing up al in d name f making money 2 impress.. Its a ridiculous assertion.. "omo me wan make money so dat grl wey dey do shakara go dy bow 4 me" <= isnt dis delusional?

Moz22:
must one fall back? That is my question..cos I don't understand why ppl make dat statemnt

YourMain:
Yes. You could lose your voice or suddenly become unpopular or break your leg. What will you do then ?

tosyne2much:
My brother, na so me sef dey hear am oooo


I was having a chat with a lady on BBM and she advised me to strive hard to make money so that my gf will love me and show loyalty.. Waaaat a mentality !!!!


Should this be my purpose of striving towards financial prosperity ?

Moz22:
what if the sight is lost in d process of learning?...its a two way thingy. We can only pray that none of these things happen to us. You still expect someone like cohbams asuquo to fall back to education?

YourMain:
Yes. You could lose your voice or suddenly become unpopular or break your leg. What will you do then ?

StephanieEzeh:
How daft are you!!! Is there anywhere in my post where I said ladies should depend on men for money? Read properly before commenting because you just showed yourself to be a dull fellow!

YourMain:
Yes. I've no problem with becoming a footballer or rapper. My problem is your ONLY ambition being a footballer or rapper. Nothing to fall back on or anything.

Isaacmacdon:
u r just being unrealistic nd pessimistic.. Do u tink its evry1 dat'd av a broken leg? Are destinies tied? Is urs tied 2 anoda person's? Its an emphatic No..

YourMain:
Lol. You can learn in Braille plus your brain isn't gone. Your knowledge won't leave you. You can still become something. I've no idea who that is but I'd still expect him to have something that he can rely on if all fails one day or even while he was trying to become an icon...