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Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by PHATE007(f): 11:40am On Nov 30, 2015 |
A nairalander advised u talk to her parents.... I think u shud call a meeting. Her parents and urs shud b involved nd u guys shud collectively take d best decision..... For me, I'd advice she travel to a diff location to deliver her baby, come back in a few months time, give her child to her mom to help her in taking care of d baby, continue her schooling there after ... While u on the other hand shud see to it dat d child is being cared for nd when d time is right , tie the knot with her... #gud luck 2 Likes |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by IdisuleOurOwn(m): 11:40am On Nov 30, 2015 |
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Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Jumkye: 11:41am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Here is the thing, the fact that you impregnated a girl and you put it on Nairaland to get advice is just sad, believe it or not, you are not ready to be father and ask your spiritual consultant to deduce whether you will both be able to help the child achieve greatness because if you can only give the child less, then you are the greatest slowpoke on earth. 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by princesshadeyo(f): 11:41am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Leave d pregnancy,God is in control.she shud think of her of future and d advice.she might die with d pregnant if she abort it or she might not conceive again,haa its dangerous,dnt b an ignorant of urseif,let her face d chanllenges now n have a great future.thou shall not kill.its a sin. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by mimicious(f): 11:41am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Cutehector: Hmmm |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Nobody: 11:42am On Nov 30, 2015 |
searching4l0ve:..like the plague. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Sweetyie(f): 11:43am On Nov 30, 2015 |
searching4l0ve:U r just a Fcked up Idi.ot 4 ur comment 5 Likes |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by olaolulazio(m): 11:43am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Congratulations in advance! You both are of age. My advice for u is, go with ya family to her place, let her family know what's on ground and tell em what ya plans are(sending her to sch or setting up a good business). I have a name for the unborn child tho! |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by madri4u: 11:44am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Guys sha, unah too like skin to skin sex..na so e dey sweet unah as unah dey pour inside d girl toto?..why unah com hate condom like dis?..E nor gud to dey condition girls life ooo, all in d name of releasing inside a girl coz of mumu pleasure.I rest my case |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by jamiefoxy: 11:44am On Nov 30, 2015 |
You are too small to talk about love. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Igemburg(m): 11:44am On Nov 30, 2015 |
bestdeals0: Lol, nd u re fortunate not to av meet wit dose ones abi? |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by princessdami: 11:45am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Leave her go 4 her sister if she try am |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by STENON(f): 11:46am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Flee from Premarital sex, Bt you won't listen... What is the joy of having sex when you are afraid of keeping its outcome (baby)? Allow the girl to keep the baby, and after birth she can give it to your mum to treat the baby as her last born. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by temietope01(m): 11:46am On Nov 30, 2015 |
You are nt even happy she want to abort it. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Igemburg(m): 11:46am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Sweetyie: I second u! |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by godoluwa(m): 11:46am On Nov 30, 2015 |
@crayguy, the deed has been done, at this stage you need to inform your parents & hers to sort things out. please do everything within ur reach to make sure that your girlfriend did not abort the pregnancy. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by cornel00(m): 11:46am On Nov 30, 2015 |
MRBrownJ: Work done = 0 Encouraging him to abort de child is wrong Sleeping with her in the first place is wrong So let them clean their mess by saving the innocent child |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Nobody: 11:46am On Nov 30, 2015 |
PHATE007:The guy is an error all thru save fucccking a poor girl. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by ENTROVERT(m): 11:46am On Nov 30, 2015 |
You Were MAKEING SENSE NOT UNTIL YOUBMENTIONED IGBO.. U NOW SENSELESS searching4l0ve: |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by princesshadeyo(f): 11:47am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Tell her 2 leave it,thou shall not kill.u people shud face ur difficulty now and enjoy ur future,always pray n move closer 2 God,ask 4 4giveness n work hard with.it is well. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by olaolulazio(m): 11:47am On Nov 30, 2015 |
PHATE007:I guess you've witnessed this kinda thing. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by DickSin(m): 11:48am On Nov 30, 2015 |
IdisuleOurOwn: See your head
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Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by jnizzle(m): 11:48am On Nov 30, 2015 |
I think you are a very selfish person! You are only thinking abt yourself nd nt d gurl......u wanna set up a biz for her? You didn't even talk of sendin her to sch which I guess is her dream......I believe you shd also consider what she wants too. crayguy: |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Jephz(m): 11:50am On Nov 30, 2015 |
lord please sense is needed here |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Seculent: 11:50am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Seculent: 11:51am On Nov 30, 2015 |
DickSin:Abeg, deactivate straight. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Africanpride: 11:52am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Sex should be left for the grown up, see what you have done to the small girl. You yourself never stand with two legs, you go give girl belle. See what your small peni.s and five mins of pleasure don land you. OYO |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by helphelp: 11:52am On Nov 30, 2015 |
You are plain stupid |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Igemburg(m): 11:52am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Dnt knw y some guy cnt cope with withdrawal method, if u knw say u no fit use condom, withdraw wen ur load don dey come. Abeg click like if u dey team withdrawal method. 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Nobody: 11:52am On Nov 30, 2015 |
crayguy: Why can't you quit school yourself and do business/baby sit while she finishes her education? Why does she have to forgo her future and dreams to have your baby You sound a bit selfish don't you? You need to grow up! |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by Nobody: 11:53am On Nov 30, 2015 |
It is called Planned Parenthood by no means inclusive of Abortion. It was silly and selfish to ignore the use of Condoms when having Casual Sex. at 22, you are (Should be) at the Peak of Preparedness or Readiness to take life-changing decisions to positively affect your Destiny. This is where you choose to be a successful Medical Doctor, Surgeon, Accountant, Banker, Architect, Lawyer, Soccer-player, Drill Engineer, Fashion Designer, Musician etc. If you make the wrong decision now - you could end up being an under-paid Halogen Security Officer (Gateman), Freelance Electrician, Taxi Driver, Corporate Cleaner, High-performance Loafer, Kidnapper, Street Hawker, Armed-Robber or worse Male Prostitute. You could be successful in any of those gigs but I doubt you will ever be free of regrets as to what you have done. You have 2 Options.. choose wisely 1st Option - KEEP THE PREGNANCY: Accept responsibility and let the girl keep it and here are the pros and cons Pros 1: At age 18, having a child is one of the most favorable (strangely) positions Nigerian Society supports (if you are properly married) and have a Financially Supportive Husband. Parents will Frown at this at first but nothing melts away anger like the laughter and smiles of a new born 2: Parents usually opt to take care of the Child while you she gets a 2nd chance at growing up Cons: 1: You (or and) the girl will have to put a hold or slow-down on your life for at least 10-15 years so the child can get adequate care (emotionally, mentally and physically) before you start thinking of better things... in other words your work alternatives will fall in this region; under-paid Halogen Security Officer (Gateman), Freelance Electrician, Taxi Driver, Corporate Cleaner, High-performance Loafer, Kidnapper, Street Hawker, Armed-Robber or worse Male Prostitute. 2nd Option - DON'T KEEP THE PREGNANCY: Abort the Pregnancy, Pros 1: You both get a fresh start, a painful decision but a practical one - You will be blessed with another child at the right time Cons 1: God will be angry with you both (Allah will be mega-raging mad at you) 2: Society will frown on your decision and curse you (like many nairalanders on this thread).. but then again when you ask for Financial Help, they will scorn you and remind you of your stupidiity 1 Like 4 Shares |
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