Mmmmmmm if them dey tell you before hand you no go listen,see wahala wey you don put ur self,you think say to be father dey easy,the gal kw you cannot take care of her and that is why she is opting for abortion,cool doing learn work or go to school you go dey follow woman for yarsh like goat!

iceberylin:
The way young girls get pregnant these days when Gold circle is #50

point of correction goldcircle is N20

searching4l0ve:
A 22 YEAR OLD KID SHOULD CONCENTRATE ON HIS STUDIES OR SKILL AQUISITION SO YOU CAN HAVE A BRIGHT FUTURE BUT HERE YOU ARE SHAMELESSLY SEEKING FOOLISH ADVICE FROM PEOPLE ALL BECAUSE OF A WASTED SPERM CALLED NIGERIAN GIRL . NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE DISTRACTIONS AND EVERY SANE MAN SHOULD AVOID THEM LIKE A PLAGUE. AS FOR THE BITTCH YOU GOT PREGNANT SHE OUGHT TO BE SHOT IN THE VAGINA FOR HAVING UNWANTED PREGNANCY FOR A LOW LIFE LIKE YOU THIS IS HOW YOU PEOPLE GIVE BIRTH TO RITUALIST AND ARMED ROBBERS WHEN U CANT CARE FOR USELESS KIDS YOU BROUGHT TO LIFE. I WONT BE SURPRISED IF YOU ARE IGBO BECAUSE MOST YORUBA YOUTHS WONT WASTE THEIR EARLY LIFE CHASING GIRLS. USELESS BASTARD

you are a dumb half wit baked stupid yelobar bigot.. Via pre cum.. Go get a life SON.

That's harsh..you do not have to take it personal..all he asked was an advice..

searching4l0ve:
A 22 YEAR OLD KID SHOULD CONCENTRATE ON HIS STUDIES OR SKILL AQUISITION SO YOU CAN HAVE A BRIGHT FUTURE BUT HERE YOU ARE SHAMELESSLY SEEKING FOOLISH ADVICE FROM PEOPLE ALL BECAUSE OF A WASTED SPERM CALLED NIGERIAN GIRL . NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE DISTRACTIONS AND EVERY SANE MAN SHOULD AVOID THEM LIKE A PLAGUE. AS FOR THE BITTCH YOU GOT PREGNANT SHE OUGHT TO BE SHOT IN THE VAGINA FOR HAVING UNWANTED PREGNANCY FOR A LOW LIFE LIKE YOU THIS IS HOW YOU PEOPLE GIVE BIRTH TO RITUALIST AND ARMED ROBBERS WHEN U CANT CARE FOR USELESS KIDS YOU BROUGHT TO LIFE. I WONT BE SURPRISED IF YOU ARE IGBO BECAUSE MOST YORUBA YOUTHS WONT WASTE THEIR EARLY LIFE CHASING GIRLS. USELESS BASTARD

Guy honestly u r hopeless bcus u havnt experience love bfore. Jus look at ur name searching4love looool. Please grow up, and stop saying tins about igbos bcus no matter how stupid some of dem are der respect their family alot and d know wat a child means. As for you calling dem fools its not gud cus wen i was 22 in 300L ,i was dating an NYSC yoruba gal dat was 27, and she will leave ondo to spend 3weeks wit me in ma room, guy i swear i slept wit dat gal over 500 times witout condom cus d was real love. I became scared wen she told me to impregnate her but i refused. U dont know how to care for a lady dats y u bare such name. I never for once abused or made her feel regret for accepting me when her mates are married with kids. She made me believed i can do anytin cus looking at her, u will say i was using jazz on her and it wasnt even money dat made her love me dat way. Guy u need to learn how to talk bcus a decent gal can be someones hoe if there is no respect. Honestly igbo gals cant love like a yoruba gal dats d truth. If u hate dem for wat d did, i dont think u have felt love by anyone before even ur parents. u r jus jealous. Grow up and change ur mind from dat

U are undoubtedly a sadist...where u put ur brain when those small girls dey kick ur heart like Jabulani.u com enter nairaland dey form hatred..beta let ur brain complete o

MRBrownJ:


bro, FIRST AND FOREMOST, in order to stop her from having an abortion, you need to LISTEN and UNDERSTAND her problem. why does she want to abort?! she does so because of her school and shame from the community. so you need to sit down and ask yourself what you can do to solve that. searching for "good businesses", thinking that it will solve the problem, shows us all that you are not listening to what she is saying.

FURTHERMORE, having a child is no joke!!! here you are talking of having this baby while you dont even have a JOB or steady income of any sort. how are you going to FEED/CLOTHE/CARE/ACCOMMODATE/EDUCATE that child for 18yrs, when you cant even care for your own self?!

LAST BUT NOT LEAST, right now your only option is to ABORT, as both of you certainly aint mature enough (aka emotionally/financially/physically ready) to have a child. here is a clue: you should BOTH finish your education, BOTH get a job, then get married, get a house... and only then should you dream of starting a family.

I wish your own mother aborted you, we won't be reading this kind of nonsence post.
What if the girl cant get pregnant again after the 'safe landing' abortion option.

Op if you listen to the abortion option and go for it.....the blood of that innocent child will be on your head.

You should have zip up if you know you weren't ready for the consequences.

crayguy:
Hi nairalanders....
I'll try to break short my context of my story.
I am a young guy of 22 years old, I am actually dating a girl of 18 years old, I love her real deep and I believe she do loves me too, she's has a bright future and a very nice home manner(beautiful as well),I eventually got her pregnant and she's planning to do abortion which I am not in deep support, considering we both have seek some spiritual findings which makes it clear that the child(male or female) is a great and powerful child, aborting could lead to my girlfriend not able to conceive again otherwise loose her life, she's hell bent on abortion because of her school and shame from meighbours... I was actually thinking of settling her down with business (don't know the best for her).....
please help on idea of a good business I can setup for her in this states, what am I to do ? , I am really frustrated as am still hustling as well.
please help.. I am open for "criticise"

Nigga get married to her, don't let her abort the baby. After giving birth she can go to school. Things do happen. Oluwa Is with you.

criticism

PHATE007:
you are really open for criticize.......




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N50 in Ikoyi

Gabaleve:

point of correction goldcircle is N20

tse1v1:
SAY NO TO SEX OR BETTER STILL USE A CONDOM

use a condom or better still say no to sex

Keep quiet there...when u dey do did ask for help?

abortion is not a joke, she may lose her life on the line of abortion. keeping the pregnancy also is something else, I wont advice u to abort that lovely child

MRBrownJ:


bro, FIRST AND FOREMOST, in order to stop her from having an abortion, you need to LISTEN and UNDERSTAND her problem. why does she want to abort?! she does so because of her school and shame from the community. so you need to sit down and ask yourself what you can do to solve that. searching for "good businesses", thinking that it will solve the problem, shows us all that you are not listening to what she is saying.

FURTHERMORE, having a child is no joke!!! here you are talking of having this baby while you dont even have a JOB or steady income of any sort. how are you going to FEED/CLOTHE/CARE/ACCOMMODATE/EDUCATE that child for 18yrs, when you cant even care for your own self?!

LAST BUT NOT LEAST, right now your only option is to ABORT, as both of you certainly aint mature enough (aka emotionally/financially/physically ready) to have a child. here is a clue: you should BOTH finish your education, BOTH get a job, then get married, get a house... and only then should you dream of starting a family.

I'm surprised one of your options is for them to KILL the human in the lady. Wow. That's no go area. That being in the womb is same like us only they he's weak. Please protect it and not kill it just coz it's defenceless

prothelley:


I wish your own mother aborted you, we won't be reading this kind of nonsence post.
What if the girl cant get pregnant again after the 'safe landing' abortion option.

Op if you listen to the abortion option and go for it.....the blood of that innocent child will be on your head.

You should have zip up if you know you weren't ready for the consequences.

stop being emotional and think with what you have between your ears instead. with IFs and MAYBEs we can do anything, so instead we should stick to the facts at hands AND answer the important question:
SHOULD THEY HAVE THIS BABY?
YES if they can emotionally/physically/financially care properly for that child for the next 18yrs minimum
NO if they are unemployed, immature, homeless, pennyless, careless, clueless and if they didnt plan for it.

ask4bk:

I'm surprised one of your options is for them to KILL the human in the lady. Wow. That's no go area. That being in the womb is same like us only they he's weak. Please protect it and not kill it just coz it's defenceless

i am not a sheep who needs a book to selfishly dictate what i can and cant do... i have a brain and intend to use it fully. there is NO human in that woman's belly, unless there is a heart beat and it BREATHE air. that IS the definition of a human being, right?!

First of all nyuicka use one of the following next time:
Withdrawal
Contraceptives
Condoms m/f yuhr pick
Abstinence

So because yuh love her deeply ahe should keep the baby? Na deep love she wan chop abi na deep thrusts yuh dey refer to?

I am not a fan of Murder and will advice yuh go see her parents or guardians real quick before she do the deed. Go there with an elder or several elders... cos going there alone is just an excuse to make the front page of saturday punch or a murder thread on Nairaland.

Be sober and remorseful... let them decide but I know it wont be an abortion... promise the girl yuh will help her finish school no matter how long it takes...

As for yuhr spiritual counsel... thats bullshit... those punks are phoney... most of them tho... they can't even see their own death even when they have a gun pointed on their temple.

Be wise!

Abortion is muder, no shame is worth taking human life so keep the child no matter what the predicament is

let me start by asking if u sort for our consent but u engage in pre marital sex? or dont u know bf now that d result of sex is pregnancy? so u ought to have planned for it bf embarking on 5 mins fun that may end up ruining ur future

If your girlfriend wants an abortion, then that's her choice. It's her body, and she'll be the one burdened with carrying around the baby for the next 9-10 months, not you. She'll be the one who has to make sacrifices career-wise, and miss out on young adulthood, while you gallivant around, with people none the wiser about you having a child, like most men do. You're only 22 and she's only 18, my age, and realistically, you're not old enough, and haven't been in a relationship long enough to bring a baby into the equation. My opinion.
Deaths caused by abortion are extremely rare, and that's unlikely to happen, let alone it permanently affecting her reproductive organs, making her infertile. Nonsense.
If she does want an abortion, the sooner she gets the abortion, the better. Facts.

U and d girl are clueless. So u did not know u are still husstling bfor u pour yur Ogi inside her honeypot. Anyway, since u are mature enof to inpregnate a girl, u shuld be mature enof to sort yurselves out...what happen to condom if u must fvck her?

You both are very silly!!!


At age 22 when your mates are planning their future you are here saying rubbish like this. Who cares if she aborts or keeps it.


You both should face consequences for your actions now and eventually. Dance to the tune of Shakespeare's As you like it

Did you have your dick on your head when making love to her?

What happened to condoms or have you not heard of condoms before? You like it skin to skin abi because the pleasure is real.

Well my advise to you is not to abort the pregnancy o. Stick to her and the baby as fly stick to shit. I wish you good luck in your early married life.

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Bro know that even though you didn't plan for that child does not mean God has no plan for him. but meanwhile, give your life to Christ Jesus.

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ibe9ja:
End Time spiritualist. Na Ifa or fake prophet?

*****
I dedicate this FTC to the Op and his 18 years old girlfriend. I wish u guys a happy family and plenty of good luck that this Child will bring.

.. Good Luck is a poormans hope in hell.. in reality Good luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity... both parties are not prepared so this child will bring a lot of hardship and bad luck sorry to break your bubble

iceberylin:
The way young girls get pregnant these days when Gold circle is #50

Bros gold dey fail 2 oooooo

ssoftapple:
BRO ure a man 4 wanting to make her keep the pregnancy, as 4 her tell her the story of GENEVIEVE and omotola when they both had their first child, that did not stop them from been an acheiver, the child should b a motivation 4 her, after delivery she should go back to school and work hard just to give her child A better life and help d child attain his or her greatness, she should 4get abt what others might say, "she should act like a woman and think like a man.

Bros check the age na...
U think say na so e easy nai u no do d same tin wen u dey e age.

Bros dem Bleep up joorrrr!!

Am off to chemist to buy condom......

iceberylin:
The way young girls get pregnant these days when Gold circle is #50

Ah, bros! E no dey sweet like that na.

Missmossy:
You both are very silly!!!


At age 22 when your mates are planning their future you are here saying rubbish like this. Who cares if she aborts or keeps it.


You both should face consequences for your actions now and eventually. Dance to the tune of Shakespeare's As you like it

d deed has already b done......nobody is perfect.

idi..t did u seek for help when u were about lashing,