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Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by frankyychiji: 6:47am On Dec 02, 2015

Teryfik:
you r as stupid as your signature text

lolzz...that my signature ehn... E be like say d tin dey pain you wella grin

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Leader01(m): 6:51am On Dec 02, 2015

That's true, the ladies who claim to be too smart or wise end-up having somany relationships that never lead into marriage. I know many ladies like that who are now looking worn-out.

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by oyetunder(m): 6:52am On Dec 02, 2015

Confessng:
Actually true.
See a smart woman thinks she knows too much and finds it difficult to put her smartness aside to be submissive and there cant be two captains in a ship
Modified
There is a difference btw smart ,smarter and smartest they are gradations of the same word,no one is asking for a dunce,smart women can be submissive ,smarter women may try probably read up on how to be in a relationship and not be sandpaper to your partner but very smart women? They believe they know it all and want to play the what a man can do a woman can do better card.....

I'm which case they forget that their roles male female roles are different and the power of a woman lies in her being a woman not in struggling for head with a man , no be where neck turn head go go ?

Meanwhile Oga Seun when are we converting our Nairaland likes and shares to Nairaland shares ooh less than a month old with this moniker and am running on 680 likes
Jus kiddn
Salute Boss

thank you! You are so right! I've met many women who thought thay are 'smart'...but in truth, they are not! It is one thing to be smart, yet another to be wisely smart. Most of these ladies claiming to be smart are just trying to photocopy others. Many of such they see on tv as far as people like Ophrah in america. To me, to be smart is to actually know how to properly relate and do things. It is not about going about showcasing principles which are good theories but useless practicals. Even in churches you will find them messing things up and claiming to be smart. But the moment the resultant effect manifest...you will them recoiling like an ant eater.

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Confessng: 6:58am On Dec 02, 2015

It's a problem with our education ,we learn only about careers not life skills ,cultures like Igbo and Calabar that have in a way maintained their tradition hardly have marital problems .....
The Igbo woman is in charge of her husband but if you see how she relates with him? He is her Igwe and she treats him likewise

oyetunder:
thank you! You are so right! I've met many women who thought thay are 'smart'...but in truth, they are not! It is one thing to be smart, yet another to be wisely smart. Most of these ladies claiming to be smart are just trying to photocopy others. Many of such they see on tv as far as people like Ophrah in america. To me, to be smart is to actually know how to properly relate and do things. It is not about going about showcasing principles which are good theories but useless practicals. Even in churches you will find them messing things up and claiming to be smart. But the moment the resultant effect manifest...you will them recoiling like an ant eater.

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by ksstroud: 7:06am On Dec 02, 2015

ayinde2ade:
just as ur name

You got me grin....
That's not name you see here, we call it moniker... How I wish you know the meaning of the moniker tho....

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by SAMBARRY: 7:07am On Dec 02, 2015

Shiorr

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Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by clefstone(m): 7:09am On Dec 02, 2015

I fear for safarigirl lipsrsealed

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by viktagorion: 7:09am On Dec 02, 2015

Smart ladies are a turn on for me.

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by yinkeys(m): 7:11am On Dec 02, 2015

prideofscience:
I saw this dp some months ago, and i decided to share it with nairalander.

what's ur take to it.

This is so true

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Nobody: 7:12am On Dec 02, 2015

IzonOwei:
so you just open dictionary to kill us abi.....

Ok one smart madam spotted here....

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Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Nobody: 7:13am On Dec 02, 2015

eni4real:
You are English smart. Don't mind the op.

He's a lunatic... undecided

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by hardbody: 7:15am On Dec 02, 2015

Seun:
Not true. Smart ladies always seem to be "in a committed relationship".

They are usually very committed but unnecessarily inquisitive as if they doubt your every move and question all of your intentions.I have tons of experience in this area believe me.

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by SAMBARRY: 7:17am On Dec 02, 2015

missyadorable:
Hahahaha! .After he marries a dumb woman,he comes to nairaland to complain all she does is watch African magic and Telemundo!

Any guy who feels intimidated by a woman's smartness is a dumb coward with no self esteem and that is just the kind of a guy a woman doesn't need.

Say NO to cowards!

don't mind it

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by SAMBARRY: 7:19am On Dec 02, 2015

agarawu23:
[size=30pt]fact[/size]

story

Shiorrr

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by oluboom(m): 7:23am On Dec 02, 2015

strange but true

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by agarawu23(m): 7:25am On Dec 02, 2015

frankyychiji:
I am surprised at you for endorsing this. I am very very worried about this mind-set of yours. How old are you please?

ask Google bro undecided

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Nobody: 7:28am On Dec 02, 2015

God forbid this kind of reasoning for my sons.....they will never be intimidated by any kind of woman. Lazy weaklings on this forum looking for a slave and of course the desperadoes are so agreeing with them. You people should go and read for your exam and stay off relationship issues. A friend of mine in the UK said, I read those thrash written in the romance and family section and I pity Nigerian women because you are left with dummies who think you have to be dumb before they marry you..just a few reasoning well and those ones are termed fools by these dummies whose parents are actually living like 'A King and his slave'.......and he is so right!

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Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by kay29000(m): 7:32am On Dec 02, 2015

Confessng:
Actually true.
See a smart woman thinks she knows too much and finds it difficult to put her smartness aside to be submissive and there cant be two captains in a ship
Modified
There is a difference btw smart ,smarter and smartest they are gradations of the same word,no one is asking for a dunce,smart women can be submissive ,smarter women may try probably read up on how to be in a relationship and not be sandpaper to your partner but very smart women? They believe they know it all and want to play the what a man can do a woman can do better card.....

I'm which case they forget that their roles male female roles are different and the power of a woman lies in her being a woman not in struggling for head with a man , no be where neck turn head go go ?

Meanwhile Oga Seun when are we converting our Nairaland likes and shares to Nairaland shares ooh less than a month old with this moniker and am running on 680 likes
Jus kiddn
Salute Boss

I support this. A lot of truth is shared in jest. Seun look into what he said.

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by fart: 7:35am On Dec 02, 2015

agarawu23:
[size=30pt]fact[/size]

idiot.

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Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Funkybabee(f): 7:38am On Dec 02, 2015

sapiosexual1:
I'm sorry buh the guys above me who think the op is right are less than smart or smart by half.
I was attracted by my gf's smartness, she is very smart and intelligent. To say the least, we're talking marriage already.
It's dull guys who feel threatened by smart girls

thank you very much jare dey think they will not be able to handle her that's why their children usually dull (mumu Marry mumu)

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Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Idrismusty97(m): 7:39am On Dec 02, 2015

I am only attracted to smart ladies, Any man that has a problem with that must be irredeemably dull

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Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by ojuu4u(m): 7:44am On Dec 02, 2015

sapiosexual1:
I'm sorry buh the guys above me who think the op is right are less than smart or smart by half.
I was attracted by my gf's smartness, she is very smart and intelligent. To say the least, we're talking marriage already.
It's dull guys who feel threatened by smart girls

perhaps she's husband to be nd vice versa, a lady who's too smart will always checkmate the guy nd this will make the relationship too hot and unbearable
for the guy except if the guy wont show trait of man which is domineering.

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by kay29000(m): 7:47am On Dec 02, 2015

clemz85:
they should be smart not smarter, else they become men for themselves

GBAM!

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Nobody: 7:49am On Dec 02, 2015

Tell them...
They want the cook and dry cleaner who will always nod her head like an agama lizard to what ever he says. Their mothers are living in pain and tolerating every nonsense from their fathers,she can't express herself or help in decision making in the home and they think the woman is enjoying meanwhile she is dying silently..

The foolish women agreeing are the ones who live in misery all through their life with the lowlife they call husband and when they die,their ghosts starts writing letters from the grave and sending to Linda ikeji.....mad people.

Respecting your husband is different from being a dumb woman.

eni4real:
Which smartness are we talking about: Book-smart, business-smart, emotional intelligence or common sense-smart?
Any guy who date/marry a lady with at least 2 of these is very lucky.

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by spill(m): 7:52am On Dec 02, 2015

The smartness here should be defined, in my own view there are Academic smartness and Social smartness.
If my lady is very very smart academically it is good by me.
But if a lady is very very smart in Social life, there is wahala for you. Am an example of this: My lady knows all my applied movements(flexing), we always argue because each day she will find out about this or that. Always ransacking my phones, dairy, laptop, suits, even thou sniff my body just to find out the latest issue that will bring up arguements.
If i advice her to take things easy, she will tell me that i can never out smart her. She is making the relationship to crumble due to her over protective actions which she tags smartness.

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Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by ojuu4u(m): 7:53am On Dec 02, 2015

peppyluv02:
God forbid this kind of reasoning for my sons.....they will never be intimidated by any kind of woman. Lazy weaklings on this forum looking for a slave and of course the desperadoes are so agreeing with them. You people should go and read for your exam and stay off relationship issues. A friend of mine in the UK said, I read those thrash written in the romance and family section and I pity Nigerian women because you are left with dummies who think you have to be dumb before they marry you..just a few reasoning well and those ones are termed fools by these dummies whose parents are actually living like 'A King and his slave'.......and he is so right!

ofcourse she had to be disappointed because African is different from European. African prides himself with sense of dominating his family,wife inclusive. part of factors that will make u to dominate include. money power smartness etc

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by IamLEGEND1: 7:58am On Dec 02, 2015

RedCapChief:
The assumption that smart women stay single for relatively longer periods is a myth. But every myth was birthed on the altar of an existing reality.
In nature, the smartest member of the group leads the pack. However, cultural expectations demand that a man lead the relationship. That is why it is the man who does the toasting, proposing and even impregnating
When a woman flaunts her intellect ,wealth e.t.c in the face of the man, there is a disconnect. Men are sensitive creatures with easily bruised egos and naturally want to run the show
Men are not intimidated by a woman with brains; i think we are intimidated by a woman who will rub her intelligence in our face The perfect woman will be the one who is smart enough to let the man take the lead

My uncle often praised Dora Akunyili to high heavens. Why? For all her achievement and intellect, she left it by the door when she came home every day. Same goes for Chimamanda Adichie who preaches feminism to every John and Jack, but still understands the rules of engagement of the home. Those are true smart women and any man would be a fool to lose them

Cc: sapiens1
IamnotLEGEND1
Piggin
MrsAlbino

I got nothing to add bro!

absolutely nothing.

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Nobody: 7:58am On Dec 02, 2015

dundi read again..he,not a she...and too much of a man to be intimidated by any kind of woman,,his presence alone will intimidate both the woman and her smartness but still he doesn't like them dumb! And, yes he is a proud Igbo boy!

ojuu4u:
ofcourse she had to be disappointed because African is different from European. African pride himself with sense of dominating his family wife inclusive. part of factor that will make u dominate include. money power smartness etc

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by Nobody: 8:01am On Dec 02, 2015

sapiosexual1:
I'm sorry buh the guys above me who think the op is right are less than smart or smart by half.
I was attracted by my gf's smartness, she is very smart and intelligent. To say the least, we're talking marriage already.
It's dull guys who feel threatened by smart girls

Still talking marriage? Never enter am yet? Lol

Re: Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single? by agarawu23(m): 8:03am On Dec 02, 2015

fart:
idiot.

your elder brother idiot

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