tosyne2much:
Baba, na the truth I dey yarn so ooooo

raayah:
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raayah:
See gold-digging is a thing that is caused by society.

On nairaland for instance, almost weekly, there is a thread saying should I marry a working woman or am uneducated woman. The response is usually that working women are bad and stick with the one that will depend on you.

So most Nairaland men do actually prefer a woman who will depend on them. A growing young girl will listen and start to think, why should I work / make money when men WANT to do it for me?

Secondly, men enjoy spending money on women. Its a fact. When I was growing up as a young girl. The amount of money I received from mere toasters was insane, sometimes I would get over 50k in just recharge cards alone.These men were not my boyfriends or anything just toasters.

If not that I had a strong mother who encouraged me to be independent, I might have jumped on the first rich dicxk and maybe married him sef. Or maybe went from one rich man to another.

Do I blame girls that do it? no! It pays well. Most of my secondary school classmates have much more money than I may ever make. They used their gold digging money and connections to get good/great jobs or start a business. Most of them found wealthy boyfriends and are living large.

Compared to the few of us who went to school, some of them got pregnant and settled down with an average Joe. The rest of us are average working women.

The gold digging will continue as long as men are willing to pay for women's companionship.

Op if you really want to help stop gold digging, then encourage young women to be independent.
Teach young men to not spend money on women unnecessarily . Why send a girl 100k because you want her to be your girlfriend. Love does not equal money.

Although I don't think gold digging will ever end

adeh39:


Oh babe...you don't have the guts to mention my moniker fully?

Funny you...

Calling me a goat

Naso my post pain you reach?

Anyway, babe as you can see...I'm always on my lane... I don't just quote people to type rubbish or seek attention...

So kindly face the people that would like to do that with you...

I'm sorry, but I'm not interested

Stesibelle17:

It's just the fact. @op. Why r u so bothered if a lady collects money from guys or takes a guy as mugu. It is not ur life. It's nt stopping u frm being a "decent lady". Everyone has his/ her life to live, so the pattern he/she chooses should nt be ur headache. U might say u did nt come here to make fame or make ppl like u. Bt the truth is, that is what u want. U r just seeking for thumbs up from nairalanders.

segunjayy:



Well... we Bleep these types and marry the others. Simple

JeffreyJamez:


...in which world?

ipledge10:
no talk wetin go make me kill u myself

JeffreyJamez:


In......which....... world?

AmiLaHoit:
That was how I introduced this church member of mine to my colleague and all she did was beg him for money for hair, money for keeps, dinner etc. Until the guy gently walked away from her, found a decent gurl and had his traditional marriage last week Saturday.
The other guy I also tried to match her up to, recognized her and said he sees her at CMS waiting for a lift rather than take a bus to work in d mornings. The very first day she also met him in my house, even in d rain she requested to be taken to a nearby pepper soup joint. I WAS SO SO ASHAMMED
The idiot gurl wants to come to my house and spend d weekend and I have been avoiding her cos I am upset with her and embarrassed.

Planning on when I will seat her down and tell her why those guys walked away without asking her for even sex. because they are decent and does not need such girl around them. She is even lucky they are focused.
She feels being slim and fair will give her a man. Her life style won't!!! Never!!!

naturalwaves:
Never knew some ladies could be so manner-less.

missyadorable:



That's why some girls have older men who foot their bills so when they meet young men,hoping for marriage,they can do without asking them for money.And hence,also be able to firmly keep their legs closed.The young man(who doesn't want her to ask for financial benefits) will then see her as a decent,independent,contented wife material and marry her! It's common sense,your church member lacks it!

pbs4real:
yh, we are rare species unlike kinglekan,cutehector and trapking

Cully408:
Name der moniker plz . Only if you are nt scared of been bash by dem

raayah:
See gold-digging is a thing that is caused by society.

On nairaland for instance, almost weekly, there is a thread saying should I marry a working woman or am uneducated woman. The response is usually that working women are bad and stick with the one that will depend on you.

So most Nairaland men do actually prefer a woman who will depend on them. A growing young girl will listen and start to think, why should I work / make money when men WANT to do it for me?

Secondly, men enjoy spending money on women. Its a fact. When I was growing up as a young girl. The amount of money I received from mere toasters was insane, sometimes I would get over 50k in just recharge cards alone.These men were not my boyfriends or anything just toasters.

If not that I had a strong mother who encouraged me to be independent, I might have jumped on the first rich dicxk and maybe married him sef. Or maybe went from one rich man to another.

Do I blame girls that do it? no! It pays well. Most of my secondary school classmates have much more money than I may ever make. They used their gold digging money and connections to get good/great jobs or start a business. Most of them found wealthy boyfriends and are living large.

Compared to the few of us who went to school, some of them got pregnant and settled down with an average Joe. The rest of us are average working women.

The gold digging will continue as long as men are willing to pay for women's companionship.

Op if you really want to help stop gold digging, then encourage young women to be independent.
Teach young men to not spend money on women unnecessarily . Why send a girl 100k because you want her to be your girlfriend. Love does not equal money.

Although I don't think gold digging will ever end

Cully408:
Best respond ever and i mean ever

sauceEEP:
Op thumbs up infact am PMing you right away since those shameless hoes alleged that your looking for pms. Truth hurts.....

Jolllyjoy:
why not desist from quoting me when you know my post was beyond your comprehensive skill?

Cully408:
Nd believe me she has earn it by speaking d truth

misspicy:

yes she had to educate your lame ass,and you sure read it,just make sure it doesn't enter thru your right ear and pass thru the left


now go to bed your mates should be asleep

danbrowndmf:
Why are u such a troublesome person like this.? Kilode na?

misspicy:
Dan
no comment

sauceEEP:
Op thumbs up infact am PMing you right away since those shameless hoes like my mother alleged that your looking for pms. Truth hurts.....

danbrowndmf:
kilode to sen behave by na?.

misspicy:
bawo mo shen behave,so funmi

daretodiffer:
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danbrowndmf:
ija ija everytime. Why na?

danbrowndmf:
ija ija everytime. Why na?