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Holyman3:
Why are you ranting without answering me?
At which age did you start dating?
Thats if any sane man ever looked at you twice

direct that dumb question to your mom and give me her reply when you're done.
foolish foooool

The rapid growth of galz dis days.u can hardly detect thier ages...imagine a gal,well dressed, act matured,spks well,everywhere full*winks*...she tell u shes 16,when u think shes 20+,my dear....i like dat type

Kindly let the girl grow pls, she is still young and just about to start exploring her sweet sixteen....she's inexperienced and what she desires now might not remain d same in the next 6 years. And what if later on you end up not being her type...

so for your sake and the girl's sake, grow and let her grow

dubemnaija:
My friend is 24, a graduate, and does a fairly paid job. He recently started wooing a 16-yr-old SS2 student through her aunt (The girl lives with her mom's sister). According to him, he wants to nurture this girl probably for marriage .

He told me about it today and I was stunned. He said he wanted to get as many advice as possible, so he'd know the next line of action to take..

na you op, no dey bobo us.

dubemnaija:
8yrs difference, a pedophile?

You are obviously the one and u are a bloody pedophile.

U are a fool too. She is a minor, regardless of how she carries herself. Whatever u do with/to her is child abuse

to me,i will say this:
don't tell her about relationship or love,you may distract her from her focus in education,rather i'll advice you just be a friend to her at all time,a kind of friend who she can talk to,share problems with,and get reasonable advice from,,young girls tend to like guys who are caring.Since you're a graduate,try to teach her most of her school subjects,don't play dirty games.
Wait till she is in maybe 200/300 level in university,she'll be emotionally stable then,because for now,young girls to like up to 3/4 guys at a time,so you must build a solid friendship first,,,i learnt the best person to marry is your friend,why,because you already understand each other.I do hope you reason wisely

Biydex:
what is child abuse guy there is nothing like child abuse again o,even a 15year old girl dey gbese

I'm a girl pls,if its happening everywia doesn't mean it shud happen in my own house

If he has good intentions, fine.

Hopefully she wnt get carried away with that tho.

donj84:
If you say he is a pedophile, what will you now call a 55years old man marrying a 25years old lady..now relationship is not by age, its maturity dat matters

check dictionary for the meaning of paedophile.
The gal is a kid so It is not related with what U are saying.

Most of you on this thread our father collect 10-12 yrs from our mama hand and una dey complain. Most older guys in the age bracket of 27-30yrs would prefer to date young girls in the age bracket of (18-22yrs) reason are best known to them. For me, I like younger girls any girl above 26yrs is a no no for me.

henrixx:
look it all depends on his intentions... If he won't touch her then nothing bad there


Besides she's two years away from age of consent

Abeg ooo!he experienced the world @least to an extent, he shld allow her do same bfr talking of marriage

mightycrown1:
at what age were u disvirgin? 20, 25 or u are still a virgin

hypocrite everywhere u go

You're not even ashamed of ursef. My sister is not up for grabs for cradle snatchers like u, oya sue me

quiinnBee:
are you seriously asking me that? a girl in ss2.

And she should be done with secondary school @ that age. If no be man wetin she dey think?

ccollins:
rubbish , your sister is free to have what ever relationship she wants and desires to experience. she is free @ 16 as far as it is consensual.. what's problem with some ladies with this their "I over too care " attitude.. free her,let the youthful exuberance ,energy and outflow of emotions and expression be given to her. it's a free world, hypocrite.. many do fornication and relationship in secondary school especially boarding school with their boyfriend.. sooo madam, better watch your mouth and stop showing out how pretentious you are.. if she wants to hide her romance life secretly from you. I bet you can do nothing about it.. so stop this noise. as a matter of fact, check sexual offenders act and Nigerian criminal laws relating to sex
it states clearly 16 yrs is legal age for consensual carnal knowledge.. how much more a mere relationship with a 25 year old.. it's people like you that act openly like you gave birth to morals but then at every ones back,act like devils... I bet if am 25 years and I asked to nuture your sister ,, come and castrate me now.. mitcheewww

Dude u r dumb o.. 16yrs only if the other person is not above 18.. if anyone is above 18..then it's a crime..consensual or not..

Some people here are even irritating me!!

Please find responsible young graduate like you and settle down, you're old enough to marry instead of investing the next seven years in fornication. I mean the time for the girl to be graduate. Also if you can control your blood pressure when the girl finished and dump as old cargo

Suigeneris93:
Child abuse...can't imagine any guy dat'll have the guts to talk marriage to my 16yr old younger sister...I'll just castrate d heediot

Jst add 2 to dat age u will hv my frnd who graduated at 18 yrs.
I rly bliv dat gal if well investigated knws wella n beta than him cos diaz one in my area dats 13.5 yrs old, she's nw fully loaded n heavy if u knw wat i min.

airprince1:
sharap.
Make e com talk marriage with you wey u don't collect bele full from different people.


Na una dey mek guys go astray. Greed for worldly tings no dey allow mek una choose beta person to marry.
So e beta lyk dat mek my guys go marry small pekin wey eyes no too too open instead of una wey claim say una dey too wise.

If u wan die go die,I'm engaged to d man of my dreams and I did it after knwing wat marriage is and d huge commitment I'm getting myself into. I don't hv a prob with u if ur tin is doing young girls just to break dia hymen, my own is don't come near my sister. The same guys dat slept wit d girls@ 15 r still d same ones that will be saying dey're wild @25. D thunder wey go fire una dey do pressup fr Aba,nonsense!

quiinnBee:
tell him he's a paedophile

Last time i checked 16yrs z nt a child bt an adult .
Show me any 16yrs in children's department of ur church or mosque.
Pedophilia or paedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children, generally age 11 years or younger.

kingsfield:
Jst add 2 to dat age u will hv my frnd who graduated at 18 yrs.
I rly bliv dat gal if well investigated knws wella n beta than him cos diaz one in my area dats 13.5 yrs old, she's nw fully loaded n heavy if u knw wat i min.

Being endowed isn't d same tin as being mature upstairs...marriage is for a man and woman not a man and girl. If d guy decides to wait till she's twenty-five maybe with a degree and all bfr he can marry her, den its nt so bad. I'm not saying a degree is a prerequisite for marriage bt @ least she shld be emotionally and mentally developed bfr u talk of marriage. She shld also hv a direction in life bfr u can tink of bringing her into ur house. But most of d guys dese days that go after young girls dey're more interested in being the first to tear her hymen dan nurture her mind for greatness. You want to put her in your house after two years, is your house the world that is her pedestal for her to dream big and achieve great tins for herself and family?

quiinnBee:
tell him he's a paedophile

No principle...

Suigeneris93:
Child abuse...can't imagine any guy dat'll have the guts to talk marriage to my 16yr old younger sister...I'll just castrate d heediot

did u knw wat ur daughter is doing behinde u?

Toks2008:
16 yr old is underage but if an 18yr old girl decides to marry a 60yr old man without any form of compelling so be it..she has become an adult.

What is age of consent in Nigeria?

Just asking.

Let him wait for two more years, when she's 18.

Addicted2Women:
Can't you read and understand English ??
What does bethrotal mean ??

Carry ur yeye bethrothal and go o! So 2moro u'll nt come and start telling my sister u did dis and dat for her. Let her c d world and meet pple independent of ur influence so wen d time is ripe if she tinks ure gud enuf for her den u guys can start talking abt engagement and bethrothal...btw my sister's career comes first bfr any yeye marriage and bethrothal

Temysteve:
did u knw wat ur daughter is doing behinde u?

I don't hv a daughter

Suigeneris93:
Being endowed isn't d same tin as being mature upstairs...marriage is for a man and woman not a man and girl. If d guy decides to wait till she's twenty-five maybe with a degree and all bfr he can marry her, den its nt so bad. I'm not saying a degree is a prerequisite for marriage bt @ least she shld be emotionally and mentally developed bfr u talk of marriage. She shld also hv a direction in life bfr u can tink of bringing her into ur house. But most of d guys dese days that go after young girls dey're more interested in being the first to tear her hymen dan nurture her mind for greatness. You want to put her in your house after two years, is your house the world that is her pedestal for her to dream big and achieve great tins for herself and family?

Been heavy i mean been pregnant nt wat u think.

she's of legal age ... P.S NON-YA!!!

16yrs is accepted as legal if and only if they are both below 18yrs.. If anyone is above 18, then its a crime.. thou in Nigeria we don't really do court stuffs, but If person Wei serious change that dude to court, na die be that o.. He would he registered as a sexual offender for life..

Beside only a sick person would even think of such a thing.. It's 2016 dude get a life!! that thing u got ain't one

kingsfield:
Been heavy i mean been pregnant nt wat u think.

Oh...dats sad

Suigeneris93:
Child abuse...can't imagine any guy dat'll have the guts to talk marriage to my 16yr old younger sister...I'll just castrate d heediot

Instead of sounding so protective, why not try and find out if she's wooed by any?
You'll be amazed by the result of your findings.
And..abt castration?...quit dt shii...pretty girls dnt play wt knives..lol

tamquezee:
Loooooool. Hey! come and pick my pen for me.

Where u keep am

Suigeneris93:
If u wan die go die,I'm engaged to d man of my dreams and I did it after knwing wat marriage is and d huge commitment I'm getting myself into. I don't hv a prob with u if ur tin is doing young girls just to break dia hymen, my own is don't come near my sister. The same guys dat slept wit d girls@ 15 r still d same ones that will be saying dey're wild @25. D thunder wey go fire una dey do pressup fr Aba,nonsense!

U, go hug transformer if wetin I talk too pain u.


U too lyk ur sister, u fid engage am join... No problem with dat

it's not bad until they start having sex