tpraiz:
U r in ur late 20's



U said four years ago,u had a r/shp with a former fellowship pastor

Let say u ar 16years old then


I swear to God tell us your age or thunder go strike You #Lies



You supposedly got admitted into the university @ age 11 or 12

Galaxydon1:
i'm the perfect one for you. I love you.

kaboninc:


Don't go and put ya heart together.....

Come my forte dey find beleza.........

kaboninc:

Seriousllllyyyyy?
This ya pick up STYLE.....

buchilino:


I DON'T EVEN NO Y AM TALKING 2 U, WHO TOLD U DAT AM TOASTING ANYONE. A SISTER IS EMOTIONALLY DOWN N UR STILL BUSY TALKING ABOUT TOASTING A GAL?

tosyne2much:
First and foremost, for the few years I have lived on earth, one thing I noticed about life is that, people tend to ride and be in control of your life when you subject yourself under their authority and leadership


Personally, I'm not that type of a delusional person that always attributes the challenges of men to spiritual problems, and I so much believe in the saying "no one does the same thing over and over again expecting different results". I think you should change your way of life, it may be your dressing, manner of talking, too much stalking, the perception you have towards people, how you treat people, your social relationship, your self esteem, etc

I'm not necessarily trying to tell you to become a pretender in a bid to finding the right partner. All I'm trying to say is that, Just change your way of life and see if you would still get the same result. You might think you've got the qualities every craves for, but mind you, there might be something you are ignorant of which pissess them off


That aside, some people are not so lucky when it comes to dating, it's always a sorrowful experience and emotional trauma that ends it. You might just be that type of a person. Since you are not more a kid, kindly discuss it with your mother and also take it to God in prayer

queenfav:
hehehehehehe..you just dey spoil people show here o.Leave guys make dem toast na?

ishiamu:


My heart is good now na,, na y I begin search na...

kaboninc:


Oga, did you look at the mirror before uttering those words?

If you didn't please do.

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

evolg:
Here is the relationship rule; so simple and straight forward. Try it and u will never regret.
"ALWAYS INVOLVE YOUR HEAD FIRST BEFORE YOUR HEART".
The problem is, you get involved in reverse order.

Galaxydon1:
enemy of progress, pls park one side. She wants real love. And she needs someone like me.

Kzeals:
Give the dude some space clouding his front view won't get u his love, let it come naturally if he is genuinely interested he will come around.... Go get a life, try not to fix ur thoughts on this guy, I mean there are a million and one thing to think of like nairaland guys..... Stop forcing love to come by force else she may give u what u can't handle.

ghenghen23:
From what you have written I understand the following:
1. You expect the guys to fall in love with you as quickly as you fall for them.
2. The fight you think you have with your boo only exists in your mind. ( I don't think he considers you his gf)
3. You need to define what you expect from a relationship (companionship, security, love etc) and look for a man not a 'guyman' to work with to achieve a lasting and meaningful relationship.
4. You are the emotional and clingy type, discipline yourself and stir clear of nonchalant men. I know you are attracted to the type.
Cheers.

humilitypays:
No one has told you the problem...I think they are all beating around the bush.

As a young man myself who has lots of married and single guys....both rich, poor and average guys...I will itemize your possible issues with guys below:

1. You have very high taste of men- he must be tall, dark fair, muscular, born again, have a good job....in as much as these are good screening criterias, they most often lead ladies into falling for the wrong guys. Wrong guys in terms of married guys or those in committed relationship....playboys only out to catch fun with as many ladies as possible

2. You show signs of desperacy towards guys you are dating: no man (rich or poor, handsome or ugly) admires a desperate woman. This is why many ladies get dumped....they make any guy that end up dating them to feel like they must marry her at all cost since you agreed to date them and maybe have sex/romance with them.

Once a man notices that a lady is desperate to marry, he becomes scared....scared that the lady maybe the wrong woman for him...scared that the lady may have some defficiencies or secret why other guys are running away from marrying her and now she wants to impose herself on him.

Once a man starts to feel you want him to marry you at all cost, he starts to look for a way to escape from you via any flimsy excuse.

Spikkylee:
Nasty Spiritual Husband at work..!!

kaboninc:


If you can give her real love, I'll relocate to Gaza Strip...


Talk your mind....you wan taste the first salary.

kaboninc:


See this one?

English you no fit type.

Just dey carry 1914 techno model dey type all caps for us.

Abeg carry go.....

Emotional brother.

Galaxydon1:
lol. Am serious. Just that we are in the same shoe.

outstandingsyll:
Please call my friend mercy to wish her happy birthday 08134212742

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

buchilino:


AN ADVISE GROW UP ADIOS

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

sonofananimal:
where did you see yourself in the past five years and how is your life now after the last five years

You can have a dream or vision but can't predict where you will see yourself in the future.

Stop telling lies about that five years stuff.

chinchum:
Master mugun, what does late 20's mean to you ? when they say go school, you go dey smoke weed for school annex, you see your life Ba comprehension.

Now, learn and know that Late 20's lies within 26-29 years of age

kingsmok:
hmmmmm dis is hard to say bt don't be to emotional to guys, remember he tell u he loves u n remember to tell him know until 3rd time I mean be hard to dem