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Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Nobody: 2:17pm On Dec 23, 2015
many Naija guys overseas with no papers will marry anyone just for papers. never believe they're single. many of them are huge cheaters or dey hv a chick somewhere dat u don't know abt!!! be careful. never marry anyone with no papers!!

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Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Truckpusher(m): 2:18pm On Dec 23, 2015
daretodiffer:


Yes, however I don't think this man even tried a bit.

A man who could do what he did can kill
Your both statements are subjective.

Be more objective considering all factors that could mar or make a marriage before you conclude on that, else you would be putting the cart before the horse here, Lawyer. grin
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by amhackdee(m): 2:19pm On Dec 23, 2015
The Man look familiar.
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Nobody: 2:22pm On Dec 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
Your both statements are subjective.

Be more objective considering all factors that could mar or make a marriage before you conclude on that, else you would be putting the cart before the horse here, Lawyer. grin

I am very objective o

This is interracial marriage for goodness sake

He knew what he would have to deal with. He knew the likely consequences but it didn't stop him then. Now after 2 kids, he wants to move bm on with an ex-gfundecided
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Truckpusher(m): 2:25pm On Dec 23, 2015
daretodiffer:


I am very objective o

This is interracial marriage for goodness sake

He knew what he would have to deal with. He knew the likely consequences but it didn't stop him then. Now after 2 kids, he wants to move bm on with an ex-gfundecided
Not even one bit though being objective or not is not the crux of the matter. grin

What are the likely consequences ? I would like to hear from the horse's mouth. cheesy
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Tmaritas76(m): 2:29pm On Dec 23, 2015
Don't be greedy,he has married you for 10years make he try another person.we call it equitable distribution of marriage.

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Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by nastyesco(m): 2:30pm On Dec 23, 2015
Ahhh...brother David
..u collect British passport come do this...Why nah
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by clovislouis(m): 2:35pm On Dec 23, 2015
kilode100:
The Man has very bad taste in women. He comot from one old cargo, enter another one.


There's love in sharing.. Abi na spirit go marry the remaining Aunty Gweggs?
what a big fool
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by tpiar: 2:40pm On Dec 23, 2015
Former girlfriend or previous wife?


this story sounds familiar.

lord have mercy anyway.
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Blizzy9ja: 2:40pm On Dec 23, 2015
redcliff:


You are very silly for this comment. What do you know about inter racial relationships. Please stfu
you stfu... I know what am saying, more than half the kids from inter racial relationship hate to identify with their Africans root... I have cousins in the UK that hate Africa.

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Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Blizzy9ja: 2:46pm On Dec 23, 2015
tevinsolt:

what kind of fvcked up reasoning, "that woman and her kids" aren't they his kids too? i bet you are one of those that are quick to name them Nigerians when kids likes theses do well in foreign land. With fools like you I would be scared to come live in Nigeria too, slow reasoning is probably contagious.

Not to worry Child support will teach him a lesson, even better he has four of them.
shut the fvck up... The guy has prolly tried 2 bring them home... If he planned 2 come settle in Nigeria and his UK wife and kids refused 2 come with him what do u expect him 2 do?

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Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by cococandy(f): 2:54pm On Dec 23, 2015
Nothing new here.
He's just following in the steps of his gold green card digging Naija brothers from the days yonder. Many People no longer see anything wrong with such callousness and wickedness (as evidenced by some moronic posts here).
As usual let's make excuses for him and when he's asked to pay child support for his kids, we'll label 'the west' evil for trying to instill responsibility in walking and breathing dirtbags like him.

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Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by commytosy(f): 3:03pm On Dec 23, 2015
thats Yoruba men for u....d don't see anything wrong with marrying 10 women.
I nearly fall for one mumu same way he lied that he is not married

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Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Aarenasbaba(m): 3:04pm On Dec 23, 2015
himkers:


Nowadays, you can eat ur cake and still have it; by buying a new one
Don't b Olodo now,what you have eatn... go and buy what u have eatn
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by devour129: 3:23pm On Dec 23, 2015
David onye oshi
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Nobody: 3:31pm On Dec 23, 2015
shut up dere!! angry angry angry

Tmaritas76:
Don't be greedy,he has married you for 10years make he try another person.we call it equitable distribution of marriage.
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Nobody: 3:37pm On Dec 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
Not even one bit though being objective or not is not the crux of the matter. grin

What are the likely consequences ? I would like to hear from the horse's mouth. cheesy
SMH, I am very objective ocheesy tongue

I don't expect a man who cannot maintain a family have a normal family, especially with an ex-girlfriend who can't be bothered. Whether we like it or not, what goes around comes around. It will bite him either through his kids or this old cargo.

If he knew he didn't want in any longer, there is something called divorce. What he did cannot be excuse...ever! The kids are not going to forget the Christmas their father left them to get married to another woman.

This is me being objective

The woman could have been a horrible wife. But white women are not horrible. They are better then blck women, they don't nag, they respect their men, thry don't even poo............cheesy, So I don't think it was the womangrin

Ermmm......I believed he married her for papers. Regardless he should not have had so so many kids with her!!!
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by felalegend: 3:38pm On Dec 23, 2015
fromnigeria:
The heart of man. This one though seems heartless. After 10 years. Even when confronted denies.

This is how they tarnish the image of Nigeria and Nigerians and make us almost untrustworthy.

And then someone should help tell that other lady she is married to someone else's husband. grin

Nothing wrong with a clash of culture. I BELIEVE IN POLYGAMY as a pure African and since the Oyibo woman cannot understand our ways she should go. A true African woman understands our ways.
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by MsGlobalwonder(f): 3:39pm On Dec 23, 2015
dguizman:
inkan ti o gbe ju iso gan lo.
loool. Boya Ina abi werepe? cheesy
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Truckpusher(m): 3:40pm On Dec 23, 2015
daretodiffer:

SMH, I am very objective ocheesy tongue

I don't expect a man who cannot maintain a family have a normal family, especially with an ex-girlfriend who can't be bothered. Whether we like it or not, what goes around comes around. It will bite him either through his kids or this old cargo.

If he knew he didn't want in any longer, there is something called divorce. What he did cannot be excuse...ever! The kids are not going to forget the Christmas their father left them to get married to another woman.

This is me being objective

The woman could have been a horrible wife. But white women are not horrible. They are better then blck women, they don't nag, they respect their men, thry don't even poo............cheesy, So I don't think it was the womangrin

Ermmm......I believed he married her for papers. Regardless he should not have had so so many kids with her!!!
What was that on the highlighted ? Have you seen me running with that school of thought ? angry grin smh
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Nobody: 3:40pm On Dec 23, 2015
felalegend:


Nothing wrong with a clash of culture. I BELIEVE IN POLYGAMY as a pure African and since the Oyibo woman cannot understand our ways she should go. A true African woman understands our ways.

So why didn't he tell her that he is a "pure African" who believes in polygamy but secretly married a second wife? "Pure Africans" keep their second wives secret?

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Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by dguizman(m): 3:41pm On Dec 23, 2015
MsGlobalwonder:
loool. Boya Ina abi werepe? cheesy
all of the above
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Nobody: 3:42pm On Dec 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
What was that on the highlighted ? Have you seen me running with that school of thought ? angry grin smh

Nope!

Don't spoil my funcheesy
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by MsGlobalwonder(f): 3:42pm On Dec 23, 2015
dguizman:
all of the above
lool
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Nobody: 3:43pm On Dec 23, 2015
felalegend:


Nothing wrong with a clash of culture. I BELIEVE IN POLYGAMY as a pure African and since the Oyibo woman cannot understand our ways she should go. A true African woman understands our ways.

A true African woman?

Ori e to gbale!!
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Truckpusher(m): 3:52pm On Dec 23, 2015
daretodiffer:


Nope!

Don't spoil my funcheesy
grin grin

Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by tpiar: 3:56pm On Dec 23, 2015
is the "new wife" a new wife or his previous wife?
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by tpiar: 3:58pm On Dec 23, 2015
“From then on he called me ‘Wifey,’ his pet name for me.”

suspicious.

wifey is not a pet name.
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by bellville: 3:58pm On Dec 23, 2015
Truckpusher:
Your head is good.

After putting up with her bullshiit to make a living , she expects him to stick around and catch hell alone when he would be needing his family most? No way.

"Operation secure your old age".... grin
Chai! You men aren't loyal at all.
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Truckpusher(m): 4:02pm On Dec 23, 2015
bellville:
Chai! You men aren't loyal at all.
There is no future with a foreigner, we all know this but due to the harsh economic condition our people are going into unions that they are well aware that they would be emasculated.

No continental African will put up with a white woman unless he has decided to take it the way it is.


Let the guys taste both worlds and see the difference - That doesn't make the black woman a saint but my dear I prefer them to any other one out there.
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Mopolchi: 4:04pm On Dec 23, 2015
Yorubad
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by sewuun(m): 4:10pm On Dec 23, 2015
We only read from her own side of the story and all felt pity for her but aside from her been plus size. One can't tell if she is putting pressure on the Man that might have choked him to abandon the children also British women have attitude problem am not taking sides with him or praising him to have Done sth wicked to his wife and children but truth is she is not the only briton married to a Nigerian Man. When you as a white get married to a Nigerian Man with his families in His country then Don't let your brain be clouded with love and sweet Bleep talk about how you both want to live your old age in Marriage is either the Man want to live in your country or go back home to settle down with his families around him most african Men Don't joke with there families. I pity her thou but for him to back out of the Marriage after 10 years then there is fault somewhere

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