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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by prettytasha(f): 6:54pm On Dec 30, 2015
Looks like a gold diggers list to me

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 6:55pm On Dec 30, 2015
AyamConfidence:
The kinda guys with the above traits dont ever get married...they just impregnate the girl and take her home and start calling her Iyawo...Lagos boys style...girls sef mumu too
You didnt get many likes but you have said d fact
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Nicepoker(m): 6:58pm On Dec 30, 2015
Nairaland ladies will be forming saints. But are currently hanging out with such men.

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by tosyne2much(m): 6:58pm On Dec 30, 2015
funmijoyb:

chill she's a lady nw..you have done what the op said you people shouldn't.

na god will save us frm dis naija males o
Lalast.iclala, se.un, ish.ilove, tosyne.2much, irun.obo
The OP said I'm a a boyfriend material cry
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by eROCK247(m): 6:58pm On Dec 30, 2015
chowlade:

You are not making any sense jare@ above poster

Endtime boys will have in Nigeria nw only knws;
1 EPL
2 Bet360 or merry bet
3 Sex
4 Tribalistic comments
5 Smoking
6 Agbero touts
All of them are lazy like fart...They even have small dickks now like Irunobo and onila always say.
Good gracious!!! Do u have a boyfriend at all?
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by omooba969(m): 6:59pm On Dec 30, 2015
Decker:


Like I said, if you have a problem with how I chose to express myself here on Nairaland, you can go fuq a dead horse. I don't care.

It's still ladies like you that would come tomorrow to claim feminist and scream gender equality at the top of your lungs, but when it comes to issues like this, you won't remember that everyone is equal. Mtcheeeew!

zaragal:


i feel sorry for the woman u will end up with....so so sooorry for her.

@zaragal,

You could be his bride you know. grin

Who know...? cool
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 6:59pm On Dec 30, 2015
fabiano09:
I dont know why people have such a wrong impression about weed smokers,it is very wrong,how can u assume because someone smokes weed they aint worthy to be a good bf

I just remembered a neighbour of mine who was a weed smoker in my 'student' hostel then. His own smoking started as early as 4am. Believe me or not.

One faithful Saturday, I decided to engage him in a talk about it. I asked him why he smoked it, and he told me it makes him "creative", and that the smoke " drives witches away". To top the discussion, he said when he gets married and has a baby, he would be adding some of the weed to the baby's food without the knowlege of his wife, so the baby would grow up to be strong and creative.

Now, in view of the above, do you think it would be out of place for me to advise my fellow ladies to stay away from guys who smoke weed? Forget the 1001 other reasons why they should; dont you think it's their right to protect their unborn babies at least?

My point is, there's absolutely nothing wrong in the op advising ladies to stay away from guys who smoke weed. My apologies to you if you do, but it is what it is.

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by wristbangle: 7:00pm On Dec 30, 2015
Drchristian:
This thread is self explanatory and is to every lady out there that wants to know if he's the right partner to plan your future with.

How do you know your Nigerian boyfriend is lazy bone? without much ado, let's go straight to the center of gravity.

1. cry : He's always broke. If your boyfriend is always complaining of lack of fund and cannot take the financial responsibilities of things such as, shoping, house rent, food e.t.c he's not worthy.

2. -X He smokes weed. Weed smokers are like monkeys that's happy with the bananas but doesn't knw the bananas will later cause their ruine. Guys that smokes weed can be loud, outgoing but they are d worst type of boyfriends you can ever imagine of keeping.


3. tongue He procastinates responsibilities that must be done and shifts the blame on you.

4. cry He's always having time for sex/demanding for sex than the betterment of the relationship. he simply wants to use you and dumb.

5. cry : Have you ever watched him argue, fight, carrying sticks and bottles e.t.c weapons before he can defend himself or disrespecting elders? dont be impressed by such display.. he suppose to resolve matters amicably in a more matured way rather than to fight.

6. grin Is he a chronic gossiper that cannot keep secretes of the relationship? it simply means he's lazy and immature with it.(double wahala).

7. tongue Does he pop pills, alcohol before he can perform sexually? you dont want to marry such man.

8. Is he of help in the house chores like cleaning, cutting grasses in the garden/compound, washing, can he cook?

9. Is he having a reliable and secured job? This matters in every relationships.

10. Lastly, boyfriend must be more of action than end time talkatives...who only knows how to see your mistakes without seeing theirs. tosyne2much will belong to this category.

11. He must be hygienic.

cheers.
Lalasticl.ala pls do justice

U nor dey shame oo, u dis girl cheesy
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 7:01pm On Dec 30, 2015
Drchristian:
This thread is self explanatory and is to every lady out there that wants to know if he's the right partner to plan your future with.

How do you know your Nigerian boyfriend is lazy bone? without much ado, let's go straight to the center of gravity.

1. cry : He's always broke. If your boyfriend is always complaining of lack of fund and cannot take the financial responsibilities of things such as, shoping, house rent, food e.t.c he's not worthy.

2. -X He smokes weed. Weed smokers are like monkeys that's happy with the bananas but doesn't knw the bananas will later cause their ruine. Guys that smokes weed can be loud, outgoing but they are d worst type of boyfriends you can ever imagine of keeping.


3. tongue He procastinates responsibilities that must be done and shifts the blame on you.

4. cry He's always having time for sex/demanding for sex than the betterment of the relationship. he simply wants to use you and dumb.

5. cry : Have you ever watched him argue, fight, carrying sticks and bottles e.t.c weapons before he can defend himself or disrespecting elders? dont be impressed by such display.. he suppose to resolve matters amicably in a more matured way rather than to fight.

6. grin Is he a chronic gossiper that cannot keep secretes of the relationship? it simply means he's lazy and immature with it.(double wahala).

7. tongue Does he pop pills, alcohol before he can perform sexually? you dont want to marry such man.

8. Is he of help in the house chores like cleaning, cutting grasses in the garden/compound, washing, can he cook?

9. Is he having a reliable and secured job? This matters in every relationships.

10. Lastly, boyfriend must be more of action than end time talkatives...who only knows how to see your mistakes without seeing theirs. tosyne2much will belong to this category.

11. He must be hygienic.

cheers.
Lalasticl.ala pls do justice
and here we go again!


This our WOMEN still just don't get it in their small tiny skull.

And if will start calling you people gold DIGGERS, you will want to defend it. undecided


Why can't you DUMB WOMEN just be dependant on your own!


Why is everything money money and money!


Why most everything revolve around you!

Why can't you people just have a little bit of sense?



Gezzz! WOMEN ARE becoming more dumber and dumber as years goes advance!

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 7:01pm On Dec 30, 2015
eROCK247:
Good gracious!!! Do u have a boyfriend at all?
Nah, i'm focused on my academics right now...if they come i say NO.
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by 3rdlegxxx(m): 7:02pm On Dec 30, 2015
What is the problem with the Nigerian youth and their ability or inability to understand simple english? Topic says boyfriend, 85% of people commenting are fighting over marriage, you guys should relax jur and ease up with all the arguments and fights...
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 30, 2015
omooba969:




@zaragal,

You could be his bride you know. grin

Who know...? cool


Abeg shey u dey tak style swear fo me?? cry
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Darkchocolate(f): 7:05pm On Dec 30, 2015
Decker:
Any person with a functioning brain would know that anyone who displays most of these traits you mentioned isn't someone to consider marrying.

We don't necessarily need anyone one to lecture us on this or point it out to us. It's common sense.

You ll be surprised. You know what they say about girls and their love for 'bad' boys. A girl will see all these signs and still end up dating and even marrying the guy. He ll show her pepper and she ll say 'honey, you've changed'! He didn't change. Your eyes just opened!!!

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by funmijoyb(f): 7:06pm On Dec 30, 2015
prettytasha:
Looks like a gold diggers list to me
cool An Ode spotted
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by 3rdlegxxx(m): 7:06pm On Dec 30, 2015
sonofananimal:
and here we go again!


This our WOMEN still just don't get it in their small tiny skull.

And if will start calling you people gold DIGGERS, you will want to defend it. undecided


Why can't you DUMB WOMEN just be dependant on your own!


Why is everything money money and money!


Why most everything revolve around you!

Why can't you people just have a little bit of sense?



Gezzz! WOMEN ARE becoming more dumber and dumber as years goes advance!

even tho you sounded rude and off, u did make some points, our women are so dependent of guys and money is all they talk about, OP is making sense no doubt but then again whatever happened to ladies who had their own lives, dreams, passion and actually does something with herself, i know the topic is on boyfriend so it's all good at this point i suppose

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by AmakaDNBStories(f): 7:08pm On Dec 30, 2015
undecided
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Owoplenty(m): 7:08pm On Dec 30, 2015
Drchristian:
This thread is self explanatory and is to every lady out there that wants to know if he's the right partner to plan your future with.

How do you know your Nigerian boyfriend is lazy bone? without much ado, let's go straight to the center of gravity.

1. cry : He's always broke. If your boyfriend is always complaining of lack of fund and cannot take the financial responsibilities of things such as, shoping, house rent, food e.t.c he's not worthy.

2. -X He smokes weed. Weed smokers are like monkeys that's happy with the bananas but doesn't knw the bananas will later cause their ruine. Guys that smokes weed can be loud, outgoing but they are d worst type of boyfriends you can ever imagine of keeping.


3. tongue He procastinates responsibilities that must be done and shifts the blame on you.

4. cry He's always having time for sex/demanding for sex than the betterment of the relationship. he simply wants to use you and dumb.

5. cry : Have you ever watched him argue, fight, carrying sticks and bottles e.t.c weapons before he can defend himself or disrespecting elders? dont be impressed by such display.. he suppose to resolve matters amicably in a more matured way rather than to fight.

6. grin Is he a chronic gossiper that cannot keep secretes of the relationship? it simply means he's lazy and immature with it.(double wahala).

7. tongue Does he pop pills, alcohol before he can perform sexually? you dont want to marry such man.

8. Is he of help in the house chores like cleaning, cutting grasses in the garden/compound, washing, can he cook?

9. Is he having a reliable and secured job? This matters in every relationships.

10. Lastly, boyfriend must be more of action than end time talkatives...who only knows how to see your mistakes without seeing theirs. tosyne2much will belong to this category.

11. He must be hygienic.

cheers.
Lalasticl.ala pls do justice
you would have score high but mentioning weed made you an empty headed magga
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by skyface00(m): 7:08pm On Dec 30, 2015
So his not suppose to defend himself, when the OP said he's not making sense, to me that's an insults.

Nobody has monopoly to use foul language on others

I laughed when I see people using that word (don't you know she's a woman) , because you are a woman is the more reasons why you should conduct yourself well and don't give what yourself can't take.













funmijoyb:

chill she's a lady nw..you have done what the op said you people shouldn't.

na god will save us frm dis naija males o
Lalasticlala, seun, ishilove, tosyne2much, irunobo

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Hundreddegrees(m): 7:08pm On Dec 30, 2015
Just money palz, itz jst money cool
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by 3rdlegxxx(m): 7:08pm On Dec 30, 2015
chowlade:

Nah, i'm focused on my academics right now...if they come i say NO.

hmmmm i get this feeling the only no u are saying is the dating, not the fun and fun and more fun that comes with it./.... didn't any anything cheesy grin
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by funmijoyb(f): 7:09pm On Dec 30, 2015
Gaborone:


I just remembered a neighbour of mine who was a weed smoker in my 'student' hostel then. His own smoking started as early as 4am. Believe me or not.

One faithful Saturday, I decided to engage him in a talk about it. I asked him why he smoked it, and he told me it makes him "creative", and that the smoke " drives witches away". To top the discussion, he said when he gets married and has a baby, he would be adding some of the weed to the baby's food without the knowlege of his wife, so the baby would grow up to be strong and creative.

Now, in view of the above, do you think it would be out of place for me to advise my fellow ladies to stay away from guys who smoke weed? Forget the 1001 other reasons why they should; dont you think it's their right to protect their unborn babies at least?

My point is, there's absolutely nothing wrong in the op advising ladies to stay away from guys who smoke weed. My apologies to you if you do, but it is what it is.
Hmmmm
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by SamuelOjiulo: 7:09pm On Dec 30, 2015
wink


prettytasha:
Looks like a gold diggers list to me
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by wristbangle: 7:10pm On Dec 30, 2015
Decker:


Are you always this dumb or you just chose today to be dumb?

Aren't we saying the same thing?

I said any lady that doesn't already know these things the op mentioned, is devoid of common sense, because common sense demands that if she sees these trait you and the op rightly mentioned in a man, she should know what he isn't ready and mature enough for marriage.

grin grin see finishing.

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by omooba969(m): 7:11pm On Dec 30, 2015
zaragal:



Abeg shey u dey tak style swear fo me?? cry

Lol cheesy
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by francizy(m): 7:11pm On Dec 30, 2015
chowlade:

Have changed angry

Very unproductive bigot.. Gerrahia mehn! undecided
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by elmisti(m): 7:11pm On Dec 30, 2015
Drchristian:
This thread is self explanatory and is to every lady out there that wants to know if he's the right partner to plan your future with.

How do you know your Nigerian boyfriend is lazy bone? without much ado, let's go straight to the center of gravity.

1. cry : He's always broke. If your boyfriend is always complaining of lack of fund and cannot take the financial responsibilities of things such as, shoping, house rent, food e.t.c he's not worthy.

2. -X He smokes weed. Weed smokers are like monkeys that's happy with the bananas but doesn't knw the bananas will later cause their ruine. Guys that smokes weed can be loud, outgoing but they are d worst type of boyfriends you can ever imagine of keeping.


3. tongue He procastinates responsibilities that must be done and shifts the blame on you.

4. cry He's always having time for sex/demanding for sex than the betterment of the relationship. he simply wants to use you and dumb.

5. cry : Have you ever watched him argue, fight, carrying sticks and bottles e.t.c weapons before he can defend himself or disrespecting elders? dont be impressed by such display.. he suppose to resolve matters amicably in a more matured way rather than to fight.

6. grin Is he a chronic gossiper that cannot keep secretes of the relationship? it simply means he's lazy and immature with it.(double wahala).

7. tongue Does he pop pills, alcohol before he can perform sexually? you dont want to marry such man.

8. Is he of help in the house chores like cleaning, cutting grasses in the garden/compound, washing, can he cook?

9. Is he having a reliable and secured job? This matters in every relationships.

10. Lastly, boyfriend must be more of action than end time talkatives...who only knows how to see your mistakes without seeing theirs. tosyne2much will belong to this category.

11. He must be hygienic.

cheers.
Lalasticl.ala pls do justice



This is the kinda thrash thinking you get when the degenerated society have left women to always chill in d kitchen nd cook, plus attend owambes every saturday.......with your razz write up, u think u ar d "kinda GF Nigerian guys shld marry bah....ode gal...



1--He is always broke= this explains the kinda guyz u av sold ur poo*C to on credit that neva paid ( is that my fault )


2--He smokes weed= I can imagine the slum u crawled out from, where niggas sniff gum, starts misbehaving nd u think its weed!


3---If he procrastinates, only Jah knws hw mny months u waited for him to ask u out sef!


4---Have time for sex nd broke dnt go together ( person wey hunger catch no dey bleep, except ur own door sef no get lock )


5--Carrying sticks, once again U crawled out from a big slum to experience this!

6--Guys that gossip, anoda product of where you crawled out from!

7--pop pills ( yes, all niggas arnt equal,nd dere ar health conditions----by alcohol, u definitely mean Alomo nd monkey tail)...definitely Ur slum kinda guys that mined a man hole in ur Peeepee!

8---Cutting grass...cheesus how many farmers av u bleeped!...biko house chores is more fun wen a guy helps, but no be must!...

9---Secured and reliable Job, lemme see, wht if he was working and got sacked, u cnt. Live with him for a while unemployed bah?..U overdependent slut!...Get a secured Job for yourself too!

10----Tosyne2much!...U see your life

11---Hygiene, that's one I can't dispute




Bottom line is, the type of guys you mention there are definitely the kind u av bn seeing and meeting...it is not my fault that Jay Z av nt asked you out, Stop complaining about the type of niggas ur hood produce!

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by Darkchocolate(f): 7:12pm On Dec 30, 2015
carohoodsweet:
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Even high priests/juju/Dibia don go digital ooo... We used to feel safe because Jazz no dey cross water. This one that una don go digital, I dey fear ooo grin

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by funmijoyb(f): 7:13pm On Dec 30, 2015
tosyne2much:
The OP said I'm a a boyfriend material cry
You know where ur weaknesses lies, i'll advice u to pls change. Pele
U too get mouth grin
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by badboy: 7:14pm On Dec 30, 2015
Suigeneris93:




Thank you very much...her grammar doesn't even lend her much credibility and her simple typo errors leave little to be emulated

Hmmmm....new pot calling old kettle black....'typo error' is tautology. You either chose one or the other, not both. We learn every day but ,I agree, she no try at all with her typos . ( I come in peace o!)

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by misspicy(f): 7:14pm On Dec 30, 2015
funmijoyb:
cool An Ode spotted
rather nairaland boys housewife material spotted cool
we know them asslickers babe wink

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Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by brownlolly(m): 7:15pm On Dec 30, 2015
AyamConfidence:
The kinda guys with the above traits dont ever get married...they just impregnate the girl and take her home and start calling her Iyawo...Lagos boys style...girls sef mumu too

Sneh!
Re: How To Know He Is Not Worth To Be A Boyfriend. by funmijoyb(f): 7:17pm On Dec 30, 2015
Owoplenty:
you would have score high but mentioning weed made you an empty headed magga
The problem is..you weed smokers always act irrationally but you don't always notice untill you have been flogged.

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