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daretodiffer:
You attacked the issue with a us vs the mentality. Look at Onegig post for example, she took pains to break it down but you just can't be bothered to reason with her.



Answer the question?

jairusben:
as in ehn,,,i still remembered in my 200l dr batty was shouting it clear you must always protect the dignity of ur patient,,,and she was never his patient.dis guy deserve punishment

Tamee:
Dear, if you live in Nigeria, be very cautious... obviously womanhood and lives of women don't worth much to the male folks. They can drug, kill and maim you just to save their friends who are male from danger. Pls, be careful.
Read the Op again pls, if a medical doctor can be so unprofessional, then no woman is Safe out there.
Sad

Have to create a New Nick for this,Just to hide My identity.Please am not begging anybody to believe this life experience i just wrote down

here, Rather for all to be careful with who ever you are having an unprotected sex with in life, either male or female...Please pardon my Use of

words and spellings.

A friend of mine Visited me in my office,we started discussing as usual, along the line he brought up his personal issues just to get some idea from

me. He told me how he was having serious issues with his Girl friend he loves so much, in the area of him Putting on a CD during Love Making. He

told me that it has been causing so much problem for the both of them in his relationship, because the Gf dont like her guy using CD to make

love to her, because she felt like she is a prostitute and she dont enjoy it, rather she prefer raw Love making..He told me that he would have

love to do it raw, But if he does it he will surely release inside her and his not ready to have a baby for now, That he can only do it raw when

she has fully becomes his wife..They have been dating for like 6months now,they have only made love about 4times, but most times it always

end up in quarreling between both because of the CD Thing, though she works and stay far from him..The pressure was becoming so much on

him from this lady he love, so i advised him to take the lady to the hospital to run blood and pregnancy test on her, that's one condition you will

only give to her before you can Make love with her raw without using protection if she agrees okay. He called me on the phone after some days

gone by, he told me that His Gf refused to follow him to the hospital, that she only brought a pregnancy test to show it to him that she is not

pregnant. He was so confused, yet still blinded by real love for the lady, but something in me kept telling me that the lady is up to something

bad, so i have to do everything to make sure he stays away for sometime from the lady before he might fall into the lady request, so that i can

be able to figure out what to do just to help him out...I Finally figured out a way for us to be fully sure that she dont have any problem inside

her, I told my friend to invite her during this xmas holiday,plead with her and tell her you are now ready to do raw love making without CD with

her, That when she comes we will drug her favorite drink she likes, when she dose off, i will now take little of her blood just to put on the Hand

made easy blood Test Device..We both agreed on that, he called the lady and invited her to his house, she was so happy coming to spend some

days with her man..She came around, she was introduce to me by my friend, her laughter was so natural,very friendly to be with,tall and very

beautiful in nature. We really discussed a lot, i distracted her from not paying attention to my friend while he was pouring drink for the 3 of us,

drink was served by him,i rushed mine pretending to be going home because it was getting late in the night,she drank hers hoping to see me off,

but after some few minute she started feeling dizzy, i knew it was the effect of the drug. She slept off, i quickly took little sample of her

blood, i tested her blood immediately, you wont believe what i find out, The result was HIV Positive showing clear for we to see, i did the test

4times in front of my friend still the same, he almost fainted. I check his, it showed Negative..This happened a day ago, I stayed with him all the

night, just to make sure he dont do anything nasty to the lady. She woke up after like 40min,she saw little stain of blood in one of her thumb,

but couldnt take it serious, she was so shock to see me, because she thought i have already gone home, she asked me wont i go home is

already late in the night. I said, am sleeping here tonight because i have a lot to discuss with your guy..She changed her mood,she went inside

the room to sleep, I and my friend were awake all through out in the parlor..Morning time, guess she faked an urgent call she parked her things

back inside her bag, demanded for some money,which my friend did gave her enough, off she went away..I Felt weak and down, for breaking

there relationship and also for treating the lady in such manner in other to find out her hidden agenda..My conscience has been disturbing

me,though my friend thanked me a lot and now sees me as a Guardian Angel.... But please Guys,Ladies be careful of who you want to have an

unprotected Sex With, HIV IS REAL and is not written on each person forehead...But lets keep showing much love and care toward all the

affected ones, hoping sooner,wishing one day there cure will come and they will bounce back healthy again.

iAmCharis:
What's the usefulness of this post to the topic?

francizy:
Are you dark skinned?

No, I'm light skinned... Mrcork's type

adeh39:
No, I'm light skinned... Mrcork's type

francizy:
LoL! I only asked if you're dark skinned, didn't ask of your type...

JustHere2Observ:
She has the right not to disclose her status unless she wants to. She just must make sure not to infect her partner. I had a patient who died of AIDS, she told me not to tell her parents, and I didn't. I just counseled her to tell them herself and educated her on treatments and not spreading it.
I won't argue with you, but obviously you don't know consequences of what he did.

onegig:
Wait o. Onegig is male o..

The M in front of my Id hasn't disappeared I believe.


Aside that... Just learn to ignore some people. Accept ting that they got it wrong is not something they grew up learning.

adeh39:

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]what have i done to you Biko? [/color]

francizy:
So why is your pic not on your DP?


***thinking to myself*** she'll add another response to the question asked, watch and see..


I hope you're not hearing my thoughts?

Erm...no response

teelaw4life:
I'm not interested in arguing with you also, but you read the part of the op's story where she wanted them to have unprotected sex...to what end? Ajegbodo ton w'eni kunra. Drugging another person without their consent is a criminal offence I know, but at times we may employ some unconventional means to uncover the truth.

adeh39:
Erm...no response

francizy:
Bad answer! I hereby give you F9...

JustHere2Observ:
She has the right not to disclose her status unless she wants to. She just must make sure not to infect her partner. I had a patient who died of AIDS, she told me not to tell her parents, and I didn't. I just counseled her to tell them herself and educated her on treatments and not spreading it.
I won't argue with you, but obviously you don't know consequences of what he did.

daretodiffer:
You have refused to change

[color=#1980BC]You mean bending to accept your own views and ways of seeing things?

It's obvious we are always going to be on cross roads in that aspect. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]You mean bending to accept your own views and ways of seeing things?

It's obvious we are always going to be on cross roads in that aspect. [/color]

adeh39:
Duuuuuuuurrrrh!

francizy:

Okay...I will put a pix on my dp tomorrow

daretodiffer:
E ma binu sir

Naijab Oiy

daretodiffer:
Not really

I want you to stop being emotional. Tackle issues based on facts and rationality

[color=#1980BC]okay I'm emotional and irrational too.

I'll point that out to you when you attack people simply because they were trying to be rational and factual in a rape case where you all think the guy is always to blame no matter the facts involved.

You think I don't see your posts?

Please madam let me be abeg and stop disturbing my mentions with your hypocrisy. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]okay I'm emotional and irrational too.

I'll point that out to you when you attack people simply because they were trying to be rational and factual in a rape case where you all think the guy is always to blame no matter the facts involved.

You think I don't see your posts?

Please madam let me be abeg and stop disturbing my mentions with your hypocrisy. [/color]

daretodiffer:
Nah, that is not me

Go through my posts again

I rarely attack the victims or the perpetrators however I go after every Tom, di.ck and Harry that insult and curse victims. Regardless, you and other guys get teary on rape threads.

Unless you have had to deal with a victim or you have been in that position, you shouldn't be attacking the victim whatsoever.

[color=#1980BC]Can we end this please? [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Can we end this please? [/color]

daretodiffer:
You still owe me an apology

[color=#1980BC]i thought we were done with that. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]i thought we were done with that. [/color]

daretodiffer:
Not me

[color=#1980BC]Lol you didn't agree to my terms so? [/color]

adeh39:
Okay...I will put a pix on my dp tomorrow

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lol you didn't agree to my terms so? [/color]