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Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 9:29am On Jan 07, 2016
Good day and happy new year to everyone...
I would not like to waste anyone time with much write up and same time I'm not promising a short one, so I will hit d point straight away.

I have a girlfriend I so much cherish and love. I gave her all de freedom she deserve becos I believe in freedom not privacy. Evrytim we talk @ length on 4one, n we spend times together.

She introduced me to her frnd in skul and which I welcomed him well and we interact very well. But I started noticing dat each time dis guy comes around, she is not always free with me (u understand what I meant). I asked her but her reply was noting-just dat she doesn't want him to feel jealous. That was done moment he told me de guy asked her out... I felt bad but I can't make her be an enemy with someone. I told her not succumb.

Finlay, she starts making me happy, promising me not to be afraid of loosing her because she is neva gonna leave me. Something strange started happening. Each time I see her, undue-anxiety overcomes me... My heart beats faster and my conscience tells me something is not right. I'm a kind of person who can always tell if something is wrong with anyone around me.

So I sat her down n ask her to look at my face n which she did happily.. I then ask her if she had cheated on me ever since we started dating (3years now). She said NO. I asked her again what kind of relationship did she keep with her frnd... She said normal frndship...I asked her HAS HE EVER KISSED U... She kept quiet... I ask her again HAVE HE EVER TOUCHED YOU... she kept quiet. The next tin she did was to tell be she say anything.. Her mode changed.. She started weeping though internally.

What I did next was to kneel down before her with tears in my eyes, gave her a warm hug n a passionate kiss. I told her I'm sorry for spoiling her mode. I told her dat I don't have problem with her but my problem was why kept it from me. I promised to luv her.

I asked her to tell me where I'm not playing my role well so that I can amend and correct my mistakes.... She said I gave her all she needs. She made a request that I should give her time to figure things out herself. Indeed I gave her.. But I did not sleep all through the night..

Please brethren in house advice me on what to do?

Should I let her sister and finds know about this?

I'm scared if should continue with the relationship or not?

I can NEVER EVER change my altitude and good becos of a girl..

Please I need a mature advice and not insult pls
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 9:33am On Jan 07, 2016
It's clear a lot of romance has been going on between the two of them behind your back. At this point, you need to give her time to figure out which of you is more important to her. The decision lies with her. You just need to brace up to whatever decision she takes, even if she opts for the other guy.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 9:39am On Jan 07, 2016
undecided

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Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by cruzita(f): 9:40am On Jan 07, 2016
I don't get it?oh I forgot today is super story,my friend kwontinue
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by obiorathesubtle: 9:43am On Jan 07, 2016
This is you not wasting time with much write up? undecided wow!
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by boxer022(m): 9:47am On Jan 07, 2016
From what you just wrote I can say that you are a good guy and a faithful boyfriend. Your girlfriend on the other hand is not like you. As you found out yourself, there is something hidden going on between her and her friend. I want you to this, since she has asked for time to straight things out with herself, I know that if she is wise she will end whatever she has with that friend of hers. Give her sometime as she pleaded and watch her from then to see if you can continue or not.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Chommieblaq(f): 9:48am On Jan 07, 2016
Ma guess is that she cheated with the guy, probably her mind won't let her be or she found out that the guy is not worth, that is why she became super nice.



If u love her, forgive her, maybe it's a mistake buh be mindful so u won't be taken for a ride.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by vani86: 9:49am On Jan 07, 2016
this is a script for telemundo
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 9:51am On Jan 07, 2016
boxer022:
From what you just wrote I can say that you are a good guy and a faithful boyfriend. Your girlfriend on the other hand is not like you. As you found out yourself, there is something hidden going on between her and her friend. I want you to this, since she has asked for time to straight things out with herself, I know that if she is wise she will end whatever she has with that friend of hers. Give her sometime as she pleaded and watch her from then to see if you can continue or not.
thank you very much dear, I appreciate. God bless you
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 9:52am On Jan 07, 2016
Chommieblaq:
Ma guess is that she cheated with the guy, probably her mind won't let her be or she found out that the guy is not worth, that is why she became super nice.



If u love her, forgive her, maybe it's a mistake buh be mindful so u won't be taken for a ride.
thank you too.. I will do as you said
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 9:53am On Jan 07, 2016
cruzita:
I don't get it?oh I forgot today is super story,my friend kwontinue
My dear it's real... . It just happened to me yesta-night
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 9:54am On Jan 07, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
This is you not wasting time with much write up? undecided wow!
I would not like to waste anyone time with much write up and same time I'm not promising a short one, so I will hit d point straight away.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 9:56am On Jan 07, 2016
Fifthcolumnist:
You know what to do grin
If I do, I would not have wasted my time writing these.. Have u ever being in love and not lust?
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 9:57am On Jan 07, 2016
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by obiorathesubtle: 9:57am On Jan 07, 2016
Peterpan222:
I would not like to waste anyone time with much write up and same time I'm not promising a short one, so I will hit d point straight away.
did you do that?
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 07, 2016
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by oshdam2015: 10:06am On Jan 07, 2016
This is too good to be truth. Maybe it's love in action. I mean, you are somehow sure your lady is cheating and you still went ahead to knelt and begged her. I wish I had such heart, but something in me will not just lemme do that.

Give her time as requested. But, let her know that she should distance herself from the guy, because without this, she might find it difficult to get over the guy in question. Emotion is funny. And if you notice she likes the guy more than you, it may be the time to call it a day. Else, you will be pushing the evil day ahead. It's better to face it once. Although, it is usually difficult to do./

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Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 10:07am On Jan 07, 2016
vani86:
this is a script for telemundo
as in eh, i dey tell you
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by macfish101(m): 10:08am On Jan 07, 2016
Man...go gulp alcohol, kiss some mary jane, f#ck an ashi....get ur head messed up a bit wit diz stuffs I just indicated, check if u still feel diz same love for her.....if u don't, u knw at to do.....na only me fit tell u the truth for here.

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Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 10:14am On Jan 07, 2016
Peterpan222:
Good day and happy new year to everyone...
I would not like to waste anyone time with much write up and same time I'm not promising a short one, so I will hit d point straight away.

I have a girlfriend I so much cherish and love. I gave her all de freedom she deserve becos I believe in freedom not privacy. Evrytim we talk @ length on 4one, n we spend times together.

She introduced me to her frnd in skul and which I welcomed him well and we interact very well. But I started noticing dat each time dis guy comes around, she is not always free with me (u understand what I meant). I asked her but her reply was noting-just dat she doesn't want him to feel jealous. That was done moment he told me de guy asked her out... I felt bad but I can't make her be an enemy with someone. I told her not succumb.

Finlay, she starts making me happy, promising me not to be afraid of loosing her because she is neva gonna leave me. Something strange started happening. Each time I see her, undue-anxiety overcomes me... My heart beats faster and my conscience tells me something is not right. I'm a kind of person who can always tell if something is wrong with anyone around me.

So I sat her down n ask her to look at my face n which she did happily.. I then ask her if she had cheated on me ever since we started dating (3years now). She said NO. I asked her again what kind of relationship did she keep with her frnd... She said normal frndship...I asked her HAS HE EVER KISSED U... She kept quiet... I ask her again HAVE HE EVER TOUCHED YOU... she kept quiet. The next tin she did was to tell be she say anything.. Her mode changed.. She started weeping though internally.

What I did next was to kneel down before her with tears in my eyes, gave her a warm hug n a passionate kiss. I told her I'm sorry for spoiling her mode. I told her dat I don't have problem with her but my problem was why kept it from me. I promised to luv her.

I asked her to tell me where I'm not playing my role well so that I can amend and correct my mistakes.... She said I gave her all she needs. She made a request that I should give her time to figure things out herself. Indeed I gave her.. But I did not sleep all through the night..

Please brethren in house advice me on what to do?

Should I let her sister and finds know about this?

I'm scared if should continue with the relationship or not?

I can NEVER EVER change my altitude and good becos of a girl..

Please I need a mature advice and not insult pls
try to be romantic with her, always hug her and tell her how much u love her, is she telling u indirectly that, is not all about money, girls love romance like mad, i guessed u are not being romantic at all
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 10:38am On Jan 07, 2016
oshdam2015:
This is too good to be truth. Maybe it's love in action. I mean, you are somehow sure your lady is cheating and you still went ahead to knelt and begged her. I wish I had such heart, but something in me will not just lemme do that.

Give her time as requested. But, let her know that she should distance herself from the guy, because without this, she might find it difficult to get over the guy in question. Emotion is funny. And if you notice she likes the guy more than you, it may be the time to call it a day. Else, you will be pushing the evil day ahead. It's better to face it once. Although, it is usually difficult to do./
Thank you very much brother.. I will try to do what u said. God bless u
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 10:39am On Jan 07, 2016
macfish101:
Man...go gulp alcohol, kiss some mary jane, f#ck an ashi....get ur head messed up a bit wit diz stuffs I just indicated, check if u still feel diz same love for her.....if u don't, u knw at to do.....na only me fit tell u the truth for here.
Thank you
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(m): 11:00am On Jan 07, 2016
Zceesneh:
try to be romantic with her, always hug her and tell her how much u love her, is she telling u indirectly that, is not all about money, girls love romance like mad, i guessed u are not being romantic at all
I do DE best I know.. I took her out, I buy things for her, I make her feel at home, I send her sms, what else do I need to do?
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 11:01am On Jan 07, 2016
Peterpan222:
I do DE best I know.. I took her out, I buy things for her, I make her feel at home, I send her sms, what else do I need to do?
, google how to be romantic
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by IamLEGEND1: 11:09am On Jan 07, 2016
See this one!

You're just her side bítch and u dey even get mouth to tell us say u knelt down before her with TEARS in ur eyes and gave her a warm hug and a passionate kiss.
Just Shut the fūck up bro,is she God?

U don dey kolo abi dem don replace ur brain with tapioca?

bítch àss Niggaz everywhere. *spits*

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Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Lordprez: 11:16am On Jan 07, 2016
oshdam2015:
This is too good to be truth. Maybe it's love in action. I mean, you are somehow sure your lady is cheating and you still went ahead to knelt and begged her. I wish I had such heart, but something in me will not just lemme do that.

dude are you a mind reader?... exactly what was on my mind

I juz can't believe the OP actually knelt down and begged someone who just cheated on him... ah mean seriously?undecided in this time and age


@OP love is a 2-way street, if you guys were to be married, I'd say forgive and try to make it work buh she's juz your girlfriend, and the fact that she cheated on you despite the fact that you guys have a 3 year old relationship juz shows she doesn't feel sh!t bout you et al


#BuhThen_JuzMyOpinion
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 11:25am On Jan 07, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
See this one!

You're just her side bítch and u dey even get mouth to tell us say u knelt down before her with TEARS in ur eyes and gave her a warm hug and a passionate kiss.
Just Shut the fūck up bro,is she God?

U don dey kolo abi dem don replace ur brain with tapioca?

bítch àss Niggaz everywhere. *spits*

Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 11:28am On Jan 07, 2016
Pls someone should educate me
How does one weep internally
and how do you know someone is weeping internally

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Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Chommieblaq(f): 11:30am On Jan 07, 2016
Peterpan222:
thank you too.. I will do as you said
Uwc!!!
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 07, 2016
Peterpan222:


What I did next was to kneel down before her with tears in my eyes, gave her a warm hug n a passionate kiss. I told her I'm sorry for spoiling her mode. I told her dat I don't have problem with her but my problem was why kept it from me. I promised to luv her.



I wanted to claw my eyes out when i read this, how fucking beta can you get? Dont ever EVER cry in front of a girl that is not your wife
Fvck those indian movies and stop being such a softy, asking for time to figure things out is probably a codeword for i want to start fvcking other guys. Dont act like a pvssy in front of a pvssy. Anyways that other guy is probably balls deep (honestly) inside your girls bagina. Sorry lad.

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Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by IamLEGEND1: 11:44am On Jan 07, 2016
[quote author=BUTCHCASSIDY post=41741340][/quote] Bruh!

Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Poseidon000: 11:51am On Jan 07, 2016
BUTCHCASSIDY:
Pls someone should educate me How does one weep internally and how do you know someone is weeping internally
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