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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Caspian22(m): 12:10pm On Jan 08, 2016
Shortyy:
OK, I read something here yesterday about men and why they shouldn't care about virgins. As usual 95% of them men would rather marry a non virgin than marry an inexperienced naïve blaa blaa girl. Kai smh!
Now back to the matter. I wasn't impressed with that article at all. It was as if it was encouraging the girls to go on and loose themselves. I'm not saying she wasn't right in a way, but! A virgin girl reading that at that moment might say, "oh soot, what's the point if he's still gonna marry me after all?" But he might not. So please keep it. They'll tell you how important it is that you lose it, how you've become of age and shouldn't keep it anymore, how they'll know if you're compatible for them, and all kinds of BS, don't do it as long as you know yourself and you are clean, don't do it, if he loves you, he'll stay.
Remember ladies, a girl's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout the Bible here or what they tell you on Sunday school. I'm talking bout you as a girl. Your virginity is your pride, your dignity, it's part of your self respect. So keep it! Forget about those that have lost thiers for nothing, they wish they could turn back the hands of time.
That man who found out that his wife was a virgin on their wedding night, won't only love her, but also respect her for the rest of their lives. Girls, be wise.

What about those that have lost theirs already? they don't have any dignity again?

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by cold(m): 12:12pm On Jan 08, 2016
To each their own
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jan 08, 2016
coolsix:


A Slut is a Slut.. there is no such thing as "too sluty"

A woman opening her legs for a boyfriend she loves is a Slut. . Why? She loves him but does he love her? The boyfriend may have another side chick and in the end dump her.. she find the next boyfriend she loves and opens her legs again... something happen they don't understand each other.. they separate..she finds the other boyfriend and the same cycle until she finally finds the husband who stays. How many dicks has she sampled in the process?

A woman should keep her virginity.. all these trash explanations does not hold water. A Slut remains a Slut.
One tiny question..


Are You A Virgin??undecided
if You Ain't, then, You my deluded friend are just plain stûpid....

Buh if You Are...My Apologies.

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by msbbash(m): 12:15pm On Jan 08, 2016
kestolove95:
Naso dem talk
pple like u we know ur status....
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Shortyy(f): 12:16pm On Jan 08, 2016
Caspian22:


What about those that have lost theirs already? they don't have any dignity again?
Nice question. If you got married, that's a different thing. But just doing for doing sake? Nah. You are just a random hoe afterwards.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by mzvyne(f): 12:16pm On Jan 08, 2016
SexyCeline:
Nice write up. So what happens to us "secondary virgins"?

sista, pls who or what is a secondary virgin?
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by IamLEGEND1: 12:17pm On Jan 08, 2016
Aviero:
Guy, you just dey give me some kyn orgasmic feelings since morning. Damn! I am loving you. #no homo..

Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jan 08, 2016
Estharfabian:
One tiny question..


Are You A Virgin??undecided
if You Ain't, then, You my deluded friend are just plain stûpid....

Buh if You Are...My Apologies.

Apologies accepted..

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jan 08, 2016
coolsix:

Apologies accepted..
Aight!wink
thanks!cheesy
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by hashabi: 12:20pm On Jan 08, 2016
The topic VIRGINITY is fortunately un-exhaustable.. The issue is you can't make people believe it the way you interprete it just like the coming of christ where there is a thousand and one illustration on how its going to happen. Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion so if you think being a virgin makes you complete and earns you respect and trust then keep on being a virgin and if you think it sucks being a virgin then throw it out... I rest my case grin
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by dechibs(f): 12:21pm On Jan 08, 2016
For me thier is no longer pride in virginity.... Dat word has being abused for so long... U see girls dat av dated 7 guys, nd all ov them has kissed u squeezed ur boobs sum has even seen u unclad....nd u will b forming virgin dat u kept ur diginty....dats trash...go back to histroy nd find out people who are being described as virgins....
Everytin abt dem frm dia head to toe has nt being touched sexually by any one both M nd F.......u hardly see a society were 15 out of 20 girls have virgin lips.. At age 8.....xo pls op dis thread is shit*

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by emmyw(m): 12:24pm On Jan 08, 2016
Shortyy:

Nigga, rant all you want, I give no bleeps. A woman's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout abstaining from sex here and being holy. I'm talking about what makes a woman whole, and that's her virginity. Once she's lost it mistakenly, she has become completely empty. Take it or take a hike. Go tell your sisters to go open their legs to any random nigga, but don't advice other girls so.
Dear, you gat point, no need of arguing with anyone about what you have said, personally, I respect women that are Virgin, and I must surely marry one by Gods grace. Why people attack you on this thread is that they have lost theirs(Virginity) long ago. When they are controlled by their body desire, they lose their senses, quote me anywhere, virginity is the pride of both men and women. It pays to be a virgin.

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by oluwapoju(m): 12:27pm On Jan 08, 2016
Need a lady to disvirgin me
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by faith123456(f): 12:28pm On Jan 08, 2016
This is it,i met dis guy,he is very caring,gentle and luvs me alot,not that i was a V or anything,because of d caring and all,i decided to get down wit him,(u know wat i mean)not that i luv him as much as he does,but afta that day,wen i tot he would find his way out,that was when he started luvin me more,i was surprised,the luv grew more and more each day,and that was what made my luv grow 4 him, and now we are working and married.
summary
It is nt all abt sex or keeping urself,it is abt d person u meet,it is luck,it is destiny,even afta sleeping wit him,wen i tot he would leave,dat was wen he never wanted to let me go.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by jayloms: 12:28pm On Jan 08, 2016
misspicy:
you and d nigga u quoted should try summarizing next time.Tanx
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by ciwi: 12:30pm On Jan 08, 2016
Why are we not preaching the same message to the boys?

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Dcaliphate(m): 12:31pm On Jan 08, 2016
Shortyy:

grin ask lalasticlala
bad attitude confirmed
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by hashabi: 12:34pm On Jan 08, 2016
ciwi:
Why are we not preaching the same message to the boys?


Lol..... Seriously
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by emmyw(m): 12:35pm On Jan 08, 2016
SexyCeline:
Nice write up. So what happens to us "secondary virgins"?
If truly you are sincere, there is no problem. So many people lost their virginity mistakenly or do to pressure from friends(peer influence), that doesn't mean they have lost their pride. There is no gain in jumping to what you will live to be with throughout your lifetime with your hubby. I respect women that are sincere and know their worth.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by chidextec: 12:35pm On Jan 08, 2016
If you want to marry a virgin. Come and and get her.

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Jeromejnr(m): 12:35pm On Jan 08, 2016
coolsix:


A Slut is a Slut.. there is no such thing as "too sluty"

A woman opening her legs for a boyfriend she loves is a Slut. . Why? She loves him but does he love her? The boyfriend may have another side chick and in the end dump her.. she find the next boyfriend she loves and opens her legs again... something happen they don't understand each other.. they separate..she finds the other boyfriend and the same cycle until she finally finds the husband who stays. How many dicks has she sampled in the process?

A woman should keep her virginity.. all these trash explanations does not hold water. A Slut remains a Slut.

1 quadrillion likes for you.

Let them be deceiving themselves.

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by chika1996: 12:36pm On Jan 08, 2016
Virginity is priceless that is if u know what it means to u as a woman if u HV got urs protect it but don't go about deceiving urself by engaging in oral s*x and others

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 12:41pm On Jan 08, 2016
Luukasz:
i get more emotionally attached to virgin women 10× than the none ones
Please, how do you tell a Virgin from a non Virgin?
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Toks2008(m): 12:42pm On Jan 08, 2016
What exactly is difficult in a lady keeping her virginity till say 25 before ever even thinking of getting pressured to give in?

As a guy with lots of ladies willing to spoil me,i still kept myself till age 25 after a flimsy molest at 17 so when i hear ladies talk about how difficult it is i just smh for them.

Im not here to promote indecency but there are options a lady can explore in order to keep herself.

I was in a sexless affair for about 6yrs and there was no sex..all we did was kiss and curddle and we were good with that so wettin dey scratch the ladies for that place wey dem no fit say No?

If every lady keeps her virginity i doubt if 90% will get to age 25 before one man go grab them put for house but when a guy meets you already opened,there is every likelihood that he will just want to mark his own register and move on.

If you are not a virgin reading this,dont bother,just be decent and if you are still a virgin reading this..just try your best to remain one till your wedding night.

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jan 08, 2016
Vikky014:
SWEET SIS DNT MIND THOSE PEOPLE THAT LAMENT ABOUT VIRGINS They r just too jealous of virgin girls...so if u r still one please keep it for ur own good and make sure u hv a good character

Why u lying brov...
Who's Jealous of Virgin Gurls??
Virginity means nufn brova.. If she wants to keep it, shoo, who cares?? If she doesnt, then she's welcome to reality..

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Caspian22(m): 12:42pm On Jan 08, 2016
Shortyy:

Nice question. If you got married, that's a different thing. But just doing for doing sake? Nah. You are just a random hoe afterwards.

So if you lost ur virginity and you are married its different.. as in u have regained ur dignity.
Op What you wrote was very good and encouraging for girls. But please understand that circumstances has made many girls to lose their virginity. Saying that there have lost it means they don't have dignity is wrong. Most of them regret it. I hope u get

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by bidemi12(m): 12:43pm On Jan 08, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
it's girls like you who have virtually no other redeemable qualities but suddenly jump on the #TeamVirgin bandwagon that have ruined the whole thing.Thinking that presenting urself as a virgin will magically replenish ur tattered image.

barring religion, which i can relate to as i am a christian,their is absolutely zero logic behind abstinence as long as you're still a living and fully functional human.

So if u say you're a virgin because ur religion demands that you stay that way,then that's perfect. But to say you're doing it coz it's what makes a woman complete is lunacy at its finest.

Upgrade ur school of thought, this is not the middle ages where a woman risked being stoned to death for losing her virginity before marriage.

and where do guys fit into all of this? our virginity doesn't count right?

and I don't have a sister. old woman like you subscribing to petty sentiments to make ur point.



Bro's, who you be sef? See as logic de flow like water. See as my medulla oblongata de turn from all this common sense. You too much joo.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Shaftrod(m): 12:45pm On Jan 08, 2016
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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jan 08, 2016
misspicy:

My Nigga wink

don't tell me you are arguing virginity with an obviously perforated person,who says virginity makes a woman complete...I lmao grin at that statement,what can I say,they have been brainwashed, it is after the marriage they will come to their senses,when the so called respect and love isn't forth coming,they think virginity equals respect and love,well we are here and we see them all,BTW no eediot should quote me wrong,its a good thing to remain a virgin and have one sexual partner all your life,at least your brainwashed selves will be happy, and have a false sense of fulfilment,no one is encouraging a virgin to go and lose it to any random guy,if you want to remain a virgin till marriage please do and carry your so called dignity with pride,but stop brainwashing yourselves that that is what
makes you a complete woman,in our society, having a child is what makes you a complete woman,not virginity every girl was born with a closed vagina....

and some girls are born ugly with zero body endowment, and no guy is calling on them,they end up as by force virgins gringringrin lmao grin

btw i know a couple of virgins who have anal sex,who masturbates,who suck dicks and have their vaginas sucked too,their hymens are still intact i guess we can call them virgins too gringrin
kwakwakwawakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa


my opinion,doesn't make me a virgin or non virgin undecided it makes me a woman that I am,because virginity does not dictate my happiness in life or marriage,virginity does not define the love of my husband for me,virginity does not define my husband's respect,my character and disposition makes me a whole woman,my ability to push out a human being.
Yet another valid point
Jack get her a drink pls ... Haba .. U too much i thought i was the only one that noticed the crap she wrote up there like ppl dey give award for virginity being a mother completes a woman n thats what makes us women n diffrent to men child birth.. Weyrey dey tlk rubbish to get kudos from the same guys that bang anyhow .. ... Yes if ur a V good for make we hear word ..

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by eminent007(m): 12:45pm On Jan 08, 2016
Shortyy:

Remember ladies, a girl's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout the Bible here or what they tell you on Sunday school. I'm talking bout you as a girl. Your virginity is your pride, your dignity, it's part of your self respect. So keep it! Forget about those that have lost thiers for nothing, they wish they could turn back the hands of time.
That man who found out that his wife was a virgin on their wedding night, won't only love her, but also respect her for the rest of their lives. Girls, be wise.

ARE YOU A VIRGIN?!

Oya lie make I see.

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by iHustle(m): 12:45pm On Jan 08, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Abeg kip quiet

If keeping ur virginity will help u stay sane and improve ur useless self image,then by all means. No one is stopping you, it is ur vagína afterall.

But to then open ur mouth and start misyarning about stuff u obviously know nothing about is a travesty.

Just because you turned out to be a virgin on ur wedding night makes absolutely no difference to anyone but urself. it might make u feel like you've achieved some life long goal,but that doesn't apply to ur partner.

See this is exactly why virgins are useless. just because you managed to keep a thin membrane covering the entrance to your vagína intact doesn't mean you deserve respect. What dignity and love ur husband bestows on you has nothing to do with ur virginity.

.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww, all these dumb bítches and their misplaced sense of entitlement.

#SmH

You are a biblical definition of a fool.

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