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Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fulfillbill(m): 9:04pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Since i have nothing to contribute,let me share the song am most feeling...... Drake ft The Dream Shut It Down In this song the love is real |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by firstking01(m): 9:11pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Toks2008:oh mr toks, tanks for the kworecshun, in bubu's voice |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fulfillbill(m): 9:12pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: Sorry babes just because ur afraid of hrtbreak shouldn't stop you from being in a relationship...it happens to everyone..the earlier you get used to it, the better. You dont conquer by fear or avoiding. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by tommychow(m): 9:17pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Babes keep scaring me off with that line...CRINGEWORTHY! The idea of love is relative. The common conception is someone that makes your heart pound, gives you butterflies blah blah blah. I differ. For me loving someone are the actions you take to be with the person till the end NOT the temporary excitement you feel in the early periods of the relationship. So saying "I love you" is reassuring your partner you'll NEVER LEAVE. If everyone sees love this way, some will realise the really don't love their partner. Mostly women are a victim of this ignorance and they jump from one guy to the other believing the initial lust or aching desire (aka ''falling in love'') is the TRUE LOVE. It's usually like this: - Babe meets guy - They have serious chemistry - They spend time together - Babe "falls in love" and they become serious - A year later, babe realises there's no more spark like before - Babe takes the frustration on the poor guy - Babe is introduced to new guy at a friend's party - They have serious chemistry - Babe breaks up with the old guy - Babe spends time with new guy - Babe "falls in love" again... The pattern continues till she has had 10 bfs. This is VERY come with extroverted females. That's why I find them appealing for flings than serious relationship. The chill babes are usually the keepers. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 9:33pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
fulfillbill:i can only relate with my hubby thanks. i dont like the idea of one guy isolating me in the name of boyfriend girlfriend i see it as a waste of time and energy...i conquer by avoiding biko . i hv male friends though we r nt lovers |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 9:38pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
tommychow:excellent post. Thumbs up |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fulfillbill(m): 9:38pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: Let me play the devils advocate and ask 'so your hubby can't break your heart'? 1 Like |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fulfillbill(m): 9:43pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: And you think marriage doesn't loose spark too? Relationship before marriage prepares you for the real thing...like extra-mural classes prepare you for JAMB. |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 9:44pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
fulfillbill:of course he can. bt then he is my hubby i will hv to heal since am already hooked with him. u cant compare marriage with boyfriend girlfriend relationship |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fulfillbill(m): 9:49pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: You see marriage as a hook, so you end up suffering and smiling abi? Or you will divorce him? 1 Like |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by tommychow(m): 10:01pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: Pleasure! 1 Like |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 10:07pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
fulfillbill:i see marriage as a hook as a lady if am married am hooked so hrt break means suffering and smilingif yes why r u advising me to strt a relationship then since hrt break means suffering and smiling |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Toks2008(m): 10:19pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
tommychow: Brilliant. The only twist is that most times,the witty like ladies now decide to chill and trust me..when they chill they really chill... Its like a lady divorcee who has learned to tolerate more shits than what she could not take in her previous marriage. Experience is definitely the best teacher. |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Toks2008(m): 10:31pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: You are definitely going to make an excellent wife. The only condition i subscribe to when it comes to divorcing your hubby is physical assault and not even emotional cos no baga can make you unhappy except you. |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fulfillbill(m): 10:40pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: What i implied in my last was post was that you can't be sure you are ready for the maths test, unless you have a done a lot of exercises. You running from heartbreak will make you even more heartbroken because you probably won't be able to handle it when it happens. Its like learning to ride a bike without falling. Relationship helps you discover somethings about yourself that you didn't know, and nobody will tell you...you only will discover it. 2 Likes |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 10:51pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Toks2008:Thanks yes u r right about happiness. @physical assault. i pray i dont meet such man cos i will just call police or army for him to give him the beating of his life any day he tries it.bfore thinking of the next action...LOL . God4bid though., i dnt think my future hubby will b a wife beater not when i cant hurt a fly |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 10:55pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
fulfillbill:more like tasting child birth before getting married right i shld get pregnant first to see how child birth will look like bfore i finally marry bros i no gree ooo. i love my life like this wht is even so special about this girlfriend boyfriend thing self if not two people experimenting what married people do or am i missing something |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Toks2008(m): 10:55pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: How i wish i can even see ur pics uploaded cos im getting so curious about the face behind these no hold barr coments..lol |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by ronald4lif(m): 11:00pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Too much sense in the write up. Makes a lotta sense. I've always affirmed that there's no such thing as true love in amorous relationship. It's just a temporal feeling which exist for as long as the other person dances to our rhythm. The earlier everyone realises this and flow with the tides like you said the better. For everyone we claim to love wholeheartedly there's a reason behind it and once that reason evanesces then the love too dissipates like vapour. If true love existed there won't be any particular reason to love or get attracted to someone, it will just burgeon without a reason and maturate in form of a latency. There's no such thing as true love, it's all about vested interest. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Toks2008(m): 11:00pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: Norrin special jare except as you wrote..premarriage activities in the name of courtship..lol |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fulfillbill(m): 11:03pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Vikky014: Ok i get the premise inwhich your belief is built Religion abi? Nobody said you should have sex...your heart was meant to love, treat someone special, accomodate someone. Trust me when you go out you'll find out that the era of our parents and now are quite different, and since you are not going to marry someone from your parents era, why not get acquianted with the present era? |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Toks2008(m): 11:04pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Thats all. |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by missingrib(f): 11:32pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Toks2008:it make sense die.. that's why this gf and bf rltship isn't my thing. love shouldn't be use anyhow its sacred |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 12:17am On Jan 11, 2016 |
fulfillbill:you dont know vikky. am nt bragging bt am dt type of girl evrybody wants as a friend both male and female bc of one reason or the other. so tell me when i isolate myself by hanging out with one guy in the name of relationship which might not lead to marriage wont i be scaring other good male friends away just to b faithfulafter which we might break up and i strt a new one. the cycle continues till i hv like 12 ex bf is it nt better to be just nice to any gender by so doing one builds his or her social strata anyway i prefer a male friend to a boyfriend and yes i will marry one of my numerous male friends my parents era kemy mum and dad are quite young so they know whats up finally i threat anybody as a special person both small kids thanks |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 12:30am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Toks2008:LOL. *whispers to his ear, i once uploaded my pics and my uncle called me one day to ask if am a nairalander dt he checked a female's comment and saw a lady dt looked like me. i quickly removed my pics and told him i was not bt asked him his moniker later he refused to tell me. am hiding biko. |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Vikky014(f): 12:31am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Toks2008:LOL |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Toks2008(m): 12:36am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Vikky014:? You are giving me hope that we still have intelligent ladies on nairaland. |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Toks2008(m): 12:37am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Vikky014: Taaaarh..na lie. |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by kinglekan: 1:26am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Toks2008: You are very wrong Mr Toks and I fault your line of thought considering the fact that you decided to go religious on the subject matter. The statement in bold is far from the truth and as a matter of fact, nothing but mere conjecture. Lets take a close look at the verse below. 1 John 4:20 (English Standard Version) If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen CANNOT love God whom he has not seen You clearly asserted that love only exists between Man and God, yet this scripture says differently. The scripture lets us know it is much easier to love someone who you can see than to claim to love a God you haven't. In other words the criterium for professing your love for God would be to love your brother (Sister, Relative, Spouse, Stranger, etc). There is also a scripture regarded as the great commandment. Mark 12:31 (English Standard Version) The second is this: ‘ You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these This was a statement made by Jesus and if it were impossible to truly love someone then it would mean that he gave a commandment no one could/can keep. But you know better. The fact that people use the word "Love" and the next minute do something so silly that makes us question thier love doesn't mean love is a farce. David was a man who loved God so much that God referred to him as a man after his own heart. Yet David killed a man and took his wife, thereby commiting adultery and he did other despicable acts but God never questioned the Man's love towards him. You have to understand one simple thing, you don't need to spend 30years with someone to say the words "I love you". Love is a force that can be felt, it supercedes our emotions and it is the greatest power given to man. We are still encased in our earthly vessel so there are times our actions might not be in consonance with love but it doesn't change the fact that love is real, love exists and we have the ability to love unconditionally. 13 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fulfillbill(m): 2:07am On Jan 11, 2016 |
[quote author=Vikky014 post=41859654] you dont know vikky. am nt bragging bt am dt type of girl evrybody wants as a friend both male and female bc of one reason or the other. so tell me when i isolate myself by hanging out with one guy in the name of relationship which might not lead to marriage wont i be scaring other good male friends away just to b faithfulafter which we might break up and i strt a new one. the cycle continues till i hv like 12 ex bf is it nt better to be just nice to any gender by so doing one builds his or her social strata anyway i prefer a male friend to a boyfriend and yes i will marry one of my numerous male friends my parents era kemy mum and dad are quite young so they know whats up finally i threat anybody as a special person both small kids thanks Don get me wrong but a girl holding your view wouldn't have alot of friends because it's uncommon... Are you trying to say that all your friends are single? Don't you sometimes wish you had a guy of your own? In all fairness after waiting for Mr Right, and he comes along and says he's had 12 gfs would marry/date him? |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by fulfillbill(m): 2:11am On Jan 11, 2016 |
kinglekan:Thank you my brother...trying to sell conventional gospel to people because you had 1 or two set backs in your relationship is unfair, especially to the younger ones. You do not lose when you love...what ever you give out comes right back to you.. Sow positive energy you reap positive energy===Spiritual truth. 4 Likes |
Re: When your bae says "I love you" by Ryda(m): 2:46am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Biko love is love.. don't dabaru my mind with your own opinion |
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