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I’m in a dilemma as my marriage of 3years is about to come to an end because of one silly mistake I made.

My name is Anette. I met my husband in my final year in the University. We dated for about 3 months before he popped the magic question.

Knowing fully well that I wasn’t in love with him, despite that I was in a relationship which I hid from him and I just wanted to change my status from ‘Miss’ to ‘Mrs’.

At the time, my boyfriend at that time wasn’t ready to settle down after 4 years of being in a relationship with him.

Nonetheless, I accepted his marriage proposal and went ahead with the marriage. When Chris, my boyfriend found out about my marriage plans, he was devastated and threatened to expose us to my Mike, my soon to be husband.

In order for me to convince him to let me go, I paid him a visit to plead with him and that I wouldn’t mind continuing the relationship but in a more discreet manner if only he could allow me get married to Mike.

After much persuasion, he agreed and pleaded with me to make love to him once more before saying ‘I do’ to Mike which I obliged.

We made love endlessly that night as if our lives depended on it. I almost called off the wedding at the thought of how passionate Chris made love to me but I rebuffed the thoughts and carried on with the wedding.

After our wedding, I moved in with my husband to begin my duties as a wife.

I found out that no matter how I pretend to be happy with my husband, the thoughts of my passionate moments with my boyfriend never left my subconscious. I wasn’t happy in that marriage but I couldn’t leave because of family pressures.

My husband loves me so much that he hardly noticed any strange attitude in me. I was able to convince him that we shouldn’t have kids till after two years of marriage in order for us to build our career before children starts coming.

He agreed so each time, I have intercourse with my husband, I use contraceptives to prevent myself from getting pregnant.

At first he seemed alright with the decision but as time went on, he started demanding for a baby. I was angry at his sudden change of mind and his demands. As we argued one day, I stormed out of the house furious and headed straight to my boyfriend’s place.

On getting there, I was warmly welcomed with a hot kiss from my secret lover. He kissed me like he has never done in recent times and immediately began making love to me.

At that instance, I forgot all my sorrows and got carried away with the sensuous moments.

We made love for days non-stop till I decided to go back home to my husband. Two months after the misunderstanding I had with my husband, I discovered that I was a month gone as I missed my monthly flow.

In order to free my conscience, I proceeded to the laboratory to conduct a pregnancy test. To my horror, the test came out positive. It now dawned on me that, I have been impregnated by my secret lover.

If hanging this pregnancy on my husband’s neck was a way out of this mess, that would have been my first option just to save my marriage but ever since I go back home from Charles house due to the quarrel we had, I’ve avoided my husband’s touch not to even talk of sleeping in the same room with him.

So I’ve exhausted all my options and arrived at nothing. I can’t abort the child because my boyfriend is threatening to kill me if I ever tampered with his pregnancy.

But I can’t keep this child because I don’t know how to explain to my husband, family and friends how I got pregnant.

My baby bump is becoming obvious now and morning sickness has set in.Dear readers, I am being exposed. Please I need your advice.

What do I do? Should I confess to my husband or should I run away.

www.naij.com/692345-married-woman-pregnant-boyfriend-lagos-housewife.

cc: Lalasticlala, Ishilove, Aminat506, Mrsphyno, Omotayo23

i'll be right back

So lemme get this straight, u quareled with your husband because he wanted u to stop using contraceptives so that you can give him a baby and committed adultery with your boyfriend without contraceptives?

How stupid can u get Mrs?

Well, here's my advice, open up to your husband and accept whatever decisions he makes. You fvcked up big time so face the consequences. If he decides to seek for an annulment, its all good, you have gotten d freedom to give your boyfriend more babies

Ooh why?

Jst go nd kill yr self

ojun50:
Jst go nd kill yr self

See me see gbegeoo.... Which advise you want us to give you,your hubby na wit condom,but the paddy guy na skin to skin,wetin you come expect the result to be? Olosho :/

leave trash for ..........

tell your husband and pack out of his house, afterall you never loved him but want to be 'mrs'....see belle, see mrs na....otondo


i just pity your loving husband who gave you all, believed you and put you in his house, i still blame him sha cos 3 months was just too small to know the she-devil you are.

I MUST BE CALLED 'MRS' BY FIRE BY FORCE

Congrats

Ok, congrats

Twaci:
So lemme get this straight, u quareled with your husband because he wanted u to stop using contraceptives so that you can give him a baby and committed adultery with your boyfriend without contraceptives?

How stupid can u get Mrs?

Well, here's my advice, open up to your husband and accept whatever decisions he makes. You fvcked up big time so face the consequences. If he decides to seek for an annulment, its all good, you have gotten d freedom to give your boyfriend more babies

She simply never loved the man she married.

Hmmm 'Hang it on his neck'. That's if he's a very dull guy!

This is the kind of story that deserved what happened to the ALUU 4 (RIP)... But my candid opinion is file a divorce and go get your family breaking boyfriend b4 your husband finds out and Murder you.

You didn't give us any reason why u married mr mike??, it's nt asif he had money, and it's nt asif u loved him...you are so...dnt even know the the word to use and qualify you...gerrarahia

NaMe4:
She simply never loved the man she married.

Its obvious. She doesn't deserve him at all.

Terminate it and shut up to save your marriage or leave it and move out of his house after all, you never loved him

you are big disgrace to womanhood...thank God for God.....a big foolish woman u r....jst like a female OP said....a stupid woman lay a stupid bed....iraanu abasha

[color=#990100] uuuuh.. Lady.. I think you should meet oprah winfrey.. You won't get anything good here![/color]

When is the Part 2 of this Nollywood movie going to be released?

Ur koboko for hell fire go get nail...

currently playing*story for the gods*I will comment when I'm done

cruzita:
currently playing*story for the gods*I will comment when I'm done

Twaci:
So lemme get this straight, u quareled with your husband because he wanted u to stop using contraceptives so that you can give him a baby and committed adultery with your boyfriend without contraceptives?

How stupid can u get Mrs?

Well, here's my advice, open up to your husband and accept whatever decisions he makes. You fvcked up big time so face the consequences. If he decides to seek for an annulment, its all good, you have gotten d freedom to give your boyfriend more babies

run away madam complement

The good die young.

as soon as $1 becomes N1 I will quickly comment...

[b]I love this type of story and is been long I hear them..... It reminds of a guy FRESH MAN J in Unity FM. Back then in 2002.

This exactly what would have happened between me nd my X but I simply told her that "Whatever we had before she got married was a fantasy and the REALITY is that she's married to another MAN" and the early we accept it that way the better for both of us.

Instead of me to take advantage of her, I taught her how to love her husband and today there live a happily married life and she never stopped thanking me for that even the husband too because she later told the husband that I'm behind the success of their marriage that she never loved him at first.

Go tell your boyfriend that he is a fool and selfish, and he has succeeded in successfully ruining your life. Tell him he doesn't love you because if he does, he wouldn't have landed you into this mess. if truly he loves you, he would have want you to be happy even if it will cause him his own happiness.


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You deserve three weeks vacation in Sambisa

Shior

suruwilliams:
run away madam complement

How far?