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I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by musa12345: 2:26pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
I meet my wife last year February through my cousin who also live in Ghana, by July we went for introduction, after introduction we set for traditional marriage. i told my wife earlier that i need cool and inexpensive traditional marriage. but she bergs me to abide by her family way of making it big occasion which i accepted cause i love her. but i told her that the date her family fix is not convince for me and if we do the traditional weeding that date it will cause me to be broke for some months before i balance well. she give me all kind of example of people who manage after traditional marriage and they later balance their economy again. but my wife surprise me as soon we finish the traditional marriage that she want to be pregnant, i told her to have patience that we are broke and still own some people and will still go back to my base outside Nigeria, but she din't listen that we don't have.later we meet on October when she was in Ovulation without telling me she become pregnant and no money to care for her. i become aware of her pregnant after 2 months when she tell me because we have quarrel over when is she coming to my base which i tell her to give me time as we agree before proceeding to marriage. to end the story, she tole she's going to lagos to have rest at her married sister house, only to tell em later that she paid rent in lagos, as we are talking she's parking to lagos now. Readers i want to know ur advise, is she respectfully from her acting, dose she value me for doing things without waiting for my advise,am living In ghana and she paid rent in lagos where she will be lonely. while am planing for her to relocate here. what is her intention to make me use all my cash to do her traditional marriage and later don't want to live as she advise before the marriage. please i need ur advise before i do something bad. 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by donbenedict(m): 2:29pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
U had a choice And u did not stick to it. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by whirlwind7(m): 2:30pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Women are awesome. In the game of life and marriage, they usually out-think and outfox men---docile men like you, that is. So, you didn't know that all her initial conflicting opinion with yours about having a marriage ceremony beyond your budget was actually to test your mettle, to see how far she can push you around, and have her way? This was the test of superiority which you failed woefully. The excuse about being in love and letting her wear the trousers instead, in my opinion, is "mumu-ish". You just showed her you were not man enough to take charge, so she occupied the driver's seat. You either remain content as a passenger and accept the situation, or you can grow some balls and take charge of your marriage. Perhaps no one told you yet: Women love men who take charge and who are firm, yet gentle. You are none of these things. You aren't matured to get married yet. What you need is a pet dog. The truth is always bitter. Peace! 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by gomzy121: 2:31pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
I think I have to take permission b4 reading this, am coming...... 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by ATMC(f): 2:32pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Go back to Ghana, make money. Invite her, she will come. #she likes money# 4 Likes |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Mjshexy(f): 2:37pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
This ur English has given me migraine , which one re u reporting her now? Did she rape u at first or is the pregnancy not yours? U can't keep blaming her because u did slept with her & u yourself should have been careful too. Pls start preparing to welcome ur first child jare, also send our congrats to her. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Afrok(m): 2:39pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Op I don't wanna sound rude and pls forgive me if I did.... all these questions u are here asking us, if u can ask your wife the same and more questions, I'm sure everything will be fine between u two by now. My advise is this; she's your wife so talk to her and ask her questions about things that are bothering u. God bless u and your home. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Brownville007: 2:42pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Man you got played. From the whole thing, she's been tricking you to act out her plans. God help you if all she wanted from you is just to get a baby through you. Cos I don't understand why she will be your wife and would move down to lagos and rent an apartment by herself without telling you. Seems fishy to me. 4 Likes |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by gomzy121: 2:43pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
well to me I will say she lack confidence in you, she still believe she was alone that she can do anything without seeking for permission, well she is still immature for marriage, looking at it from the time of the traditional marriage, she should be the one pleading with the family to reduce the expense rather she supported them, another one that she should wait for u to recover b4 getting pregnant yet she insisted and got pregnant and expecting u to ritualise ur self to her comfort, read my writings SHE IS IMMATURE FINISH 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by macino1(m): 2:44pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
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Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by IamLEGEND1: 2:53pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
make I find my helmet first,coz this ur English fit make pesin crash. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Smh well wat can i say Is better ladies earn their salary before gettin married or u will b treated like trash even after marriage |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by fbtowner(m): 3:00pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
marriage wahala. here and there. we guys. need to be very intelligent to deal with the ladies of this century. op na dullar. grow some balls and take charge. or go low like a silent pistol and have a new life. sometimes I wonder how people fall in love. because I usually set my own priority straight. when I'm going for the benefit I don't fool my self that I'm in love. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Nobody: 3:04pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
This english accident is cwerious sha Just talk to her |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by mployer(m): 3:10pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
All she wants is a cute baby and a big traditional marriage to validate it. She doesn't need the OP 4 Likes |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by lahit14(m): 3:12pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ATMC: U talk as if ur her relative. It probably runs in y'all's blood. Ur monica should have been ATM-B not C cos dis kind of advice only comes frm an ATM Bitch. @OP, is thr any possibility dat ur english played some role howevr little in chasing her? |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Topestbilly(m): 3:20pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
whirlwind7: I tot i'm d best adviser on NL until I came across this..lol.. I wouldn't have said it better. @ Op just follow dis advice cos is d best u can get in the world. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by obiorathesubtle: 3:21pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
wait o... She use you answer MRS, finish your money.. Carry your pikin Go lagos go rent house... She get sugarson She no love you.. She just use you to impress her people.. She get lover for Lagos wey she dy give free pvssy.. You dy here dy kill yasef.. 1 Like
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Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by cruzita(f): 3:31pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
kindly ask your wife these questions and save us the stress .NEXT PLS |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by ATMC(f): 4:15pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
lahit14:Are you really dumb and hate reality or you just want a free trial at being an ee.diot? 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by eroticecstasy: 4:15pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Brownville007: may you live long! you just speak my thoughts. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:18pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
musa12345: How sure are you that the baby is yours sef? And on a more encompassing note: be the Captain you are meant to be. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by agarawu23(m): 4:26pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
whirlwind7:in addition, he should be sure the pregnancy belongs to him. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by lahit14(m): 5:15pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ATMC: In essence dat advice u profered is your definition of reality. A man is complaining dat his "wife" he married left n rented an apartment in lagos leaving him lonely, more or less abandoning him in ghana few months after she cajoled him into spending all his life savings in their ceremony. Don't evr consider trying a career on phscology, counseling, adviser etc. Ur clients will all die. Don't make me call u ATMB again... 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by AwesomeDuru(m): 5:17pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Rip English |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
lahit14:did you mean that? |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by ThundrCork(m): 6:08pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
OP why didnt you practice the safe method after you made plans not to have a baby yet? |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by ATMC(f): 6:20pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
lahit14:...At least I said it. You were busy judging his grammar, exposing ur ewu gambik nature. don't quote me again. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by Jasmine360(f): 6:20pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
[size=30pt]Op You don enter one chance Go & collect your bride price before it is too late![/size] |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by lahit14(m): 6:48pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
JUSTbuchi: O c'mon, it was just a jest but again wht do u knw? Women hav been knwn to leav men for far lesser tins. |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by theunnamed: 6:55pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Who will you blame for the death a man killed by being crushed by his house who knowingly stayed in a house whose foundation is not strong? |
Re: I Don't Understand My Wife Any More Please I Need Your Advise. by lahit14(m): 7:06pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ATMC: Oh pls, the coment on his grammr was just a jest but again I didn't expect u to read inbetween the lines as being who u are(ATMB). U don't want me to quote u again then appologiz not to me actually to the OP for being an insensitiv little twart and stop insulting me. 1 Like |
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