Every lady is outwardly beautiful in her own unique way but this piece is about ladies who know they are endowed with outward beauty and i mean ladies whose beauty will make heads turn.

I have seen many ladies flaunt their endowments yet no man is willing to have most of them as wives and I kept wondering what could be wrong.
I have come to know that guys are wiser now and a reasonable man will not mind marrying a humble respectful reserved super ugly lady rather than have a manner-less and sharp tongued sex symbol as a wife but would rather bleep and dump such.


You get several likes in no time whenever you display your pics on social media and they call you Hot girl’, pretty girl’, sexy girl’ yet no man can stay with you neither can you stay with any-man because of your lack of manners and regard for men. Of what use is your outward beauty if you are still single at a marriageable age when the assumed less beautiful ladies are settling down happily and quickly?

This has nothing to do with mockery in anyway but let's face it. Is it not funny that a lady so endowed with physical beauty will remain single in her thirties or even late twenties? Definitely something must be wrong somewhere and most times if checked we will realize that these ladies are the cause and has nothing to do with men.

[b]Most hot chics are arrogant, proud,impatient.too picky,disrespectful and always eager to turn down men or break up promising relationships because their beauty easily controls them and they believe a new man will always come around in no time.

More pathetic is the fact that many hot chics seem to believe they can achieve more in life with their physical beauty rather than hard work or even academic qualifications.We can see such in many tertiary institutions and business organizations whoring their way up their career ladder or to get good grades.

Most of these hot chics as they call them are intellectually dumb and i begin to wonder if their hotness is actually an exchange for their brains. Many of them can not hold up intelligent conversations but are always mostly concerned about fashion and very eager to expose their body shamelessly for the world to see forgetting that by so doing,they are shutting the doors of their life to responsible men while attracting those who are only interested in sampling the product they are advertising.

And after it dawns on them how reckless they have been,they usually come up with these defensive consolatory lines that "Everybody has a past,They are happy the way they are,marriage is not for everyone,i don't need marriage to be happy" but they secretely cry inside and wished they can turn back the hands of time.
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Yes your looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their missions.

The dumbest thing i have heard a hot chic say is "I'm so hot that at least 10 men approach me in a week"

NEWS FLASH!: A thousand men can approach you in one month yet none of these men will be interested in walking you down the Aile but will only use your sorry ass and dump you.

On the final note please let this sink into your brain.."If you think you are too hot to be with one man then be ready to be sampled by many men..the choice is all yours.

Be reasonable and understand that there is a thin line between when your beauty becomes a blessing or a curse on you...be wise.

Hope this makes a little sense.

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Uncle lalasticlala i dont know if some ladies will learn from this.

Hmmmmm

Hmmm... I just hate the word "You are sexy"
To me, it automatically means "You are good for Sex"

To the ladies, the way you dress is the way you will be address.
Toks well done!

Nice a word the say, is enough for the wise. ladies for those of you that treat guys with disdain because he is nothing today.you feel you are too beautiful enough to date him because he has no money to meet you excessive spendings.

watch out for you might just be digging a pit and at the same time driving the Mr.Right unknowingly
you don't know the future. if u plan on using your beauty to hold a man whereas you manners is nothing to write home about,
New flash it won't work. no man is ready to marry a time bomb as a wife...(beauty without a good character is like a Ferrari without an engine!)

N/b: be careful,for the feet you trample on today may be attached to the ass you will have to kiss tomorrow!

The hot ones are busy being sexy why the decent ones are busy getting married..a word for the wise

OP God bless you for this.

Certain things in life are constant. For instance the possibility of a pretty, sexy & pompous girl getting married to an irresponsible man. You can't be exposing your body parts in a bid to be "sexy" & yet end up marrying a responsible man, No! It doesn't work that way.

Men may want you for your curves, for your "over-sized" booty OR for your experienced and "amazing" sex skills BUT at the end what a man really needs is a woman who can take care of his home. When you (the "sexy" woman) are busy taking care of your face, your boobs and your figure, how will be able to take care of the home "Properly"?.

It is as if the more we "preach" decency amongst our women, the more the desire to be indecent sprouts up from within them. You see women being concerned about their looks than about their brain. When eventually you get married, will it be enough for your spouse to just stare at your pretty face all day & be content? Won't he engage you in certain discourse that will help in the betterment of the home? So when you invest more time on your looks, how will you now be able to develop your mind? If this "discourses" arise and you are unable to contribute positively to the development of the home, will your beauty compensate for that? Certainly not.


So my point basically is this; Physical/Facial beauty is only ephemeral. Inner beauty will grant you the desires that your "facial" beauty will never grant you. A "responsible" man will never marry your for your beautiful face alone. So if you want to end up with an irresponsible man, discard the advice of the OP.

Omotayor123:
Hmmm... I just hate the word "You are sexy"

To the ladies, the way you dress is the way you will be address.
Toks well done!

I prefer being super cute inside

My friends call me "sexy" cox of my shape ,,no offence cox dats how i was created by God,i didnt choose to be like that.

Op, these words when used to describe a person (usually a woman, although they could all be used for a man too) these words do mean the same thing. The most important difference between them is register, or the degree of formality in the communication.

"Hot" can mean "sexually attractive", but it is sometimes also used to suggest that a woman likes or wants sex a lot. Sometimes it suggests the girl is "easy", so use that word with care. It does not typically have this meaning when used to talk about men.

"Hot" is a slang word, and so it is very informal. A person 30+ might sound silly and immature using the word "hot" to describe a person. "Sexy" is a more formal word and isn't used as much by younger people.
Hot can be used for things too (a hot movie, a hot clothing trend, a hot sports car) and it just means popular and desirable.

"Sexy" has more to do with appearance and doesn't suggest anything negative about how the woman behaves. "Sexy" can also be used to describe clothing and a person's style and behaviour, not just his or her body.

One thing to remember is that if you say a person is "hot" or "sexy", you usually mean YOU are attracted to them.
The expression "sexually attractive" wouldn't be used in conversation. You would see that in a science book. However, "attractive" is used in conversation and is a safe word to use. You can tell a lady she is attractive, or comment that a man or woman you see is attractive, and that is a compliment. You are not necessarily saying YOU are attracted to them, but only that many people would agree they look good, dress well, and behave in a way that people think is appealing, like a person someone would like to date or marry.

None of these words are necessarily offensive. They just need to be used very carefully, especially the word "hot". You can tell your wife you think she's sexy, if you want, but you'd probably only say it in private. If you're not sure what to tell your friends about a lady you met, you can say she is attractive. I can say prettythicksme or misspicy are attractive ladies (they are) and no one minds that. But if I said they were "hot" or "sexy" people would think I'm very, very strange.

These narcissistic babes are usually only good for one night stands, a nigga's side chick or one of the mistresses of a fat, rich, old man. They hardly graduate to main chick, and if they do...give it a couple of months. Like, who can stand a whole day of BS for just 5 minutes of balls-deep action? You?

Plus, these chicks will never understand getting attention and getting respect are two different things. They keep "dressing to kill". Nah biitch, you're killing your future. For some dumbass reason, they think guys wanting them for a night equates wanting them for a lifetime. HILARIOUS!

Like I always say, let reality give 'em a dirty slap. If you keep tryna change these mess-ups, there'll be no drama, no gists. Just grab your popcorn and watch.

tommychow:
These narcissistic babes are usually only good for one night stands, a nigga's side chick or one of the mistresses of a fat, rich, old man. They hardly graduate to main chick, and if they do...give it a couple of months.

These chicks will never understand getting attention and getting respect are two different things. They keep "dressing to kill". Nah biitch, you're killing your future. For some dumbass reason, they think guys wanting them for a night equates want them for a lifetime. HILARIOUS!

Like I always say, let reality give 'em a dirty slap. If you keep tryna change these mess-ups, there'll be no drama, no gists. Just grab your popcorn and watch.

LOBATAN!

may God bless u for dis wonderful write-up....men r very wise nw dts y we will continue to use nd dumb BITCHES...but a WIFE wif Godly virtue is waiting at home.

Bros toks....you have never failed me with your words and bluntness..I always respect your manner of presentation... Weldone bros
@omotayor..I started following you this afternoon because of something I saw on your profile, you truly stand out....

Now to the matter..
There's a yoruba adage that says" odi igba ti ojo ba da, ki alaburada (umbrella) to mo wipe eru ni oun gbe dani meaning..its not until the rain stops before someone holding an umbrella discovers how heavy it is...

Bros, most men these days aren't after those sexy or hot ladies..infact me as a person I won't even date you if what attracts me to you is physical, looks could be very very deceptful....its the character that matters....beauty comes from within.....

Everyone knows about dis, but differs from eachother..some piple stil think that their beauty wil be a guaranty for hooking up with any subject they desire as the best for them, but nowadays especialy women shud be careful with their sex life don't think say u fine dem go queue they bring ur BP. But they queue just to have sex and play with ur life.

Dosunmuoflagos:
Bros toks....you have never failed me with your words and bluntness..I always respect your manner of presentation... Weldone bros
@omotayor..I started following you this afternoon because of something I saw on your profile, you truly stand out....

Now to the matter..
There's a yoruba adage that says" odi igba ti ojo ba da, ki alaburada (umbrella) to mo wipe eru ni oun gbe dani meaning..its not until the rain stops before someone holding an umbrella discovers how heavy it is...

Bros, most men these days aren't after those sexy or hot ladies..infact me as a person I won't even date you if what attracts me to you is physical, looks could be very very deceptful....its the character that matters....beauty comes from within.....

That proverb is a very deep one bro...I guess until many ladies end up been served severally from one man to another before they will realize that being hot if not well handled will be their greatest bane.

Nice write up op! charles4075 na u carry me come here!

Fr a minit I tot dis ur writeup wil neva end. Oga u don taya? Kontunu wit ur lamentation nah

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Worst part is these babes extending their slvtiness to social media. Like, don't these girls care a little about their future? Don't they think for a second "this might mess up my fam in future, my husband or my kids might see these derry pics"? If you wanna feel like a slvt, at least do it with sense.

prettythicksme:
Nice write up op! charles4075 na u carry me come here!

You're highly welcome

Toks2008:


That proverb is a very deep one bro...I guess until many ladies end up been served severally from one man to another before they will realize that being hot if not well handled will be their greatest bane.

Bros my mother used to say Beauty is a blessing but could become a curse depending on how its being used..just as magnet attracts all sorts of metals, useful and rusted razor blades, such is the way beauty attracts all sorts of guys(NOT MEN) by the time the magnet gets filled up with useless metals, the shinny coin won't find a place to stay...let's hope they listen..what am looking for is Brains and character not beauty and empty brain

Omotayor123:
Hmmm... I just hate the word "You are sexy"

To the ladies, the way you dress is the way you will be address.
Toks well done!

You should hate it and rightly so. The "you're sexy" flattery isn't a compliment but an insult and contemptuous remark designed to objectify women. Any woman who worth her onion should reprove and frown against it.

ronald4lif:


You should hate it and rightly so. The 'you're sexy' flattery isn't a compliment but an insult and contemptuous attack designed to objectify women. Any woman who worth her onion should frown against it.

How is it different from shagable or ‘I will definitely hit that'

Toks2008,you are always firing the shot!!!

daretodiffer:


How is it different from shagable or ‘I will definitely hit that'

All one and same thing. No difference.

I think Mr. Toks was right on this one. But I also think he should have specified who his audience are and don't lump all beautiful women together.

His piece is centralised about beautiful women and their misdemeanour which is capable of scaring potential suitors and men in general away. Well, I've got news for him and it's that not all women, beautiful or not, gives a hoot about marriage and live their lives trying to conform to what men want. And for such women, the idea of them pushing suitors away doesn't come into effect.

On this note, I'd say this piece is for those women who sees marriage as a priority and wish to take a leap. Be that as it may, it was needly written. Kudos.

ronald4lif:
I think Mr. Toks was right on this one. But I think he should have specified who his audience are and don't lump all beautiful women together.

His piece is centralised about beautiful women and their negative attitude which is capable of scaring potential suitors and men in general away. Well, I've got news for the OP and it's that not all women, beautiful or not, gives a hoot about marriage and live their lives trying to conform to what men want.

On this note, I'd say this piece is for those women who sees marriage as a priority and wish to take a leap. Be that as it may, it was needly written. Kudos.

I disagree with his piece and I hoping ypu will side with me on this.

Most people look attractive. The very attractive ones are not everywhere like the poster is making us to believe. Yes, the very beautiful ones might have issues nailing down a guy if they let it get into their heads however so is your average girl.

I believe his post should have addressed all women who believe that their looks are everything, Nigerian women to be precise (thanks to our men).




Cc Toks2008

Op, you're wasting your time.