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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by kapai(m): 9:07am On Jan 20, 2016
Good writeup,inciteful indeed.we all knw that a listenin ear must nt b as big as HAT
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by naijaboiy: 9:09am On Jan 20, 2016
[size=20pt]YAWN! sad[/size]
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Itsmenyou: 9:09am On Jan 20, 2016
Could you please stop with sermonising women. Women this, women that! For Pete's sake stop! Women really do not need a man sounding like a broken record, telling them what to do, how to act, what to wear, how to live! Leave women alone. Oh I get it. You write this to drive traffic, to make you popular, and little wonder. You have men who think as you do. Men whose lives are a mess but want to keep ruining women's lives as they've always done. Get a life!

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Bakbillz44(m): 9:11am On Jan 20, 2016
LET THE AGGRESSIVE NEEPPLES LEARN FROM THE FATE OF THE FALLEN BREAST
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by naijaboiy: 9:11am On Jan 20, 2016
Sanguine77:
Sexy without been brainy. I once had a sexy hot school mate who was the rave of the moment, many people wanted to date her or sleep with her, I tried myself too and though she agreed to go out with me once but we did not date officially.
Fast forward to our final year, we started dating but she had other men while I too had other chicks and she finally ended up marrying a rich dude who used her and dumped her after she had a child for him and she even graduated with. The worst possible grade from the university.
Now her beauty is fading, nobody wants her now cos she has a child and she cannot find work with her certificate.
She is now a farmer.
gringringrin
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by habsydiamond(m): 9:14am On Jan 20, 2016
Some of them too dem form maybe na because dem no dey shit ni ooo. Only God knows
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by profmallory(m): 9:17am On Jan 20, 2016
Nice write up bro.. but there are 2 sides to this discussion. you approached your write up from the perspective that a marriage is a price for "hot ladies". But no it isnt. As men have evolved to be intelligent enough to marry mostly women who wont give them issues, the more attractive ladies have also learnt to cash in on the following;
1. They know not all women would marry
2. Not all marriages work any way
3. Even married men, knowing they have a trust worthy wife, would cheat. any they provide the distraction men need.
4. On the long run they make the money, even the kids and still enjoy themselves.

So these babes believe they are making a pretty good bargain. Sell their integrity on the alter of vanity and riches

However greed is what drive them, and greed has no limit. So they realize they have the promotion, the house at lekki, 2 kids for 2 rich fathers, vacations every summer and yet they lack joy. But they wont show their lack of joy to the outside world cause they are vain.

My conclusion is that we live in a balanced society. Men/Women must decide what they want early in life and go for it. If its a Godly life, live for God soley, and if its a life of vanity live it well, cause at the end of the show, we all account for out time

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by GeneralShepherd(m): 9:17am On Jan 20, 2016
Emac34:
The hot ones are busy being sexy why the decent ones are busy getting married..a word for the wise

Is marriage the ultimate goal in life? Why are we as Nigerians so obsessed with marriage?

A human being can live a normal healthy happy life without being married and also marriage does not guarantee a happy life

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by merits(m): 9:17am On Jan 20, 2016
naughtynaughty:
Fr a minit I tot dis ur writeup wil neva end. Oga u don taya? Kontunu wit ur lamentation nah
hahah @naughty na tru talk na,or ar u guilty?
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by missingrib(f): 9:19am On Jan 20, 2016
this particular issue is the main factor affecting Nigeria ladies today.you will see a lady the way she is dressed will be so irritating even to her lady counterpart.you are addressed the way you dress and this is very true, I respect ladies that dress responsible and mature. everything shouldn't be based on dressing alone,have a good sense of humour and your good to go....#shoutouttoallprettyladiesouttherewithgoodsenseofhumour.
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by repogirl(f): 9:19am On Jan 20, 2016
Makes some sense.... But not all hot girls are haughty. Some are but Its not right to assume that because a girl looks attractive, she would be haughty and shallow.

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by kevoh(m): 9:20am On Jan 20, 2016
Sanguine77:
Sexy without been brainy. I once had a sexy hot school mate who was the rave of the moment, many people wanted to date her or sleep with her, I tried myself too and though she agreed to go out with me once but we did not date officially.
Fast forward to our final year, we started dating but she had other men while I too had other chicks and she finally ended up marrying a rich dude who used her and dumped her after she had a child for him and she even graduated with. The worst possible grade from the university.
Now her beauty is fading, nobody wants her now cos she has a child and she cannot find work with her certificate.
She is now a farmer.

Sir, Farming is not a bad job even for a lady,you need to visit the Agriculture section often, make friends with serious farmers and watch people become millionaires from farming.
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Wilson125(m): 9:21am On Jan 20, 2016
U r sexy ma'am wink. [center][/center]
Omotayor123:
Hmmm... I just hate the word "You are sexy" cry
To me, it automatically means "You are good for Sex" embarassed

To the ladies, the way you dress is the way you will be address.
Toks well done!
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Itsmenyou: 9:22am On Jan 20, 2016
Really? Now It's be careful how you flaunt yourself on social media? Women! Men condition you to think a certain way and you swallow their suggestions hook, line and sinker. What is wrong with y'all? So because a man refuses to control the thing between his legs we must make an entire gender pay for this? And the women now buy the fight and become the enforcers for patriarchy on fellow women?! Have you told the likes of PSquare to be careful posting their "eggplants" on social media? So why shouldn't a lady post flattering photos of herself on instagram, or what do you think the gram is for? Give yourselves brain women, and stop being so programmed by men that you lose your capacity to think!

Vikky014:
To the beautiful well endowed lady out there. u dnt need any guy to tell u how hot or sexy u r bfore u know it. Most guys are fond of hyping us the best thing is for u to hype urslf in ur room bfore going out so dt the side comments from guys out there wont get to ur head


Be careful of how u flaunt urslf on social media bc u will b attracting many irresponsible guys to urslf dt will be confusing you with sweet mouth till you get laid


To the guys stop making it obvious to us how hot or sexy you think we are..it makes most of us to take u for granted. evn if a girl is hot dnt ring it to her ear always. atleast learn to yab her small she will cool down.

Sonofmark nailed it
Toks2008 nice write up.

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by charlemon: 9:27am On Jan 20, 2016
I don't know what planet most of you are on but from recent experience, the beautiful ladies are the ones with brains and ambition. Nowadays the beautiful ladies want to enhance themselves to the point of a man being there just for the sake of love, procreation and companionship. Most of the normal looks ( lemme not say ugly) are the ones I see getting married, sitting at home and producing babies as a job. Beautiful women are really beautiful physically, mentally etc nowadays. Trust me


*Note indecent behaviour and laziness is common among the beautiful and ugly.

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Oghumu1(m): 9:28am On Jan 20, 2016
God bless you for this!!

Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:28am On Jan 20, 2016
Toks2008:
Uncle lalasticlala i dont know if some ladies will learn from this.
They have to learn cos beauty fades away like a dream.
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by amanikondo: 9:29am On Jan 20, 2016
octopusfreaky:
shocked My friends call me "sexy" cox of my shape ,,no offence cox dats how i was created by God,i didnt choose to be like that.
If you are not humble with being sexy and it gets into your head, that is where problems come in.

I am Handsome too and I am Humble.
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by viktor01(m): 9:30am On Jan 20, 2016
About one of the most sensible posts I have read.

"Everybody has a past,"

I hate this phrase, in as much as everybody has a past, the truth is that not everybody has a dirty past.

Some people's dirty past could make Satan jump out of His seat

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Isaacmacdon(m): 9:31am On Jan 20, 2016
naughtynaughty:
ask ifaa cheesy
na i dnt believe in such!
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by octopusfreaky(f): 9:33am On Jan 20, 2016
Sanguine77:
Sexy without been brainy. I once had a sexy hot school mate who was the rave of the moment, many people wanted to date her or sleep with her, I tried myself too and though she agreed to go out with me once but we did not date officially.
Fast forward to our final year, we started dating but she had other men while I too had other chicks and she finally ended up marrying a rich dude who used her and dumped her after she had a child for him and she even graduated with. The worst possible grade from the university.
Now her beauty is fading, nobody wants her now cos she has a child and she cannot find work with her certificate.
She is now a farmer.
maybe she was also proud,,common cox you beautiful doesnt mean you can have everything you want in life..
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by octopusfreaky(f): 9:34am On Jan 20, 2016
amanikondo:

If you are not humble with being sexy and it gets into your head, that is where problems come in.

I am Handsome too and I am Humble.
of course i am,,MR HANDSOME...
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by BlackFlocka(m): 9:35am On Jan 20, 2016
aswear all this thing na just talk ........ go and tell that to kim khardarsian
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Sanguine77(m): 9:36am On Jan 20, 2016
kevoh:


Sir, Farming is not a bad job even for a lady,you need to visit the Agriculture section often, make friends with serious farmers and watch people become millionaires from farming.
I am encouraging her just that most times she is moody because she never thought she would end up a farmer.

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by amanikondo: 9:37am On Jan 20, 2016
octopusfreaky:
of course i am,,MR HANDSOME...
Go to know. Go and sin no more grin grin.
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Sanguine77(m): 9:38am On Jan 20, 2016
octopusfreaky:
maybe she was also proud,,common cox you beautiful doesnt mean you can have everything you want in life..
One can be beautiful and also intelligent but its rare because they get more disturbances from men than the average looking dudes so they are easily distracted.

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Toks2008(m): 9:39am On Jan 20, 2016
Vikky014:
To the beautiful well endowed lady out there. u dnt need any guy to tell u how hot or sexy u r bfore u know it. Most guys are fond of hyping us the best thing is for u to hype urslf in ur room bfore going out so dt the side comments from guys out there wont get to ur head


Be careful of how u flaunt urslf on social media bc u will b attracting many irresponsible guys to urslf dt will be confusing you with sweet mouth till you get laid


To the guys stop making it obvious to us how hot or sexy you think we are..it makes most of us to take u for granted. evn if a girl is hot dnt ring it to her ear always. atleast learn to yab her small she will cool down.

Sonofmark nailed it
Toks2008 nice write up.

It is not even about getting a verbal endorsement from anyone about how sexy or hot you are.

The point is simple...Calm down and let your good virtues be more prominent in your life rather than allowing your outwarde beauty get into your head.

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by SirLewis(m): 9:44am On Jan 20, 2016
Just reading all the pretentious comments from the ladies about how they care more about their inner qualities than their looks.

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by cheruv: 9:46am On Jan 20, 2016
TheSonOfMark:

Rule number 1: Never feed a lady's ego by complimenting her beauty. The only non-relative whose beauty I'd compliment is a woman I am DATING.

As a matter of fact, I act oblivious of their beauty...even though it is obvious.


THE MORE YOU FEED A WOMAN'S EGO, THE MORE YOU SEEM SERVILE TO HER. HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT, GUYS!
Hitting the nail on the head!
Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by seangy4konji: 9:49am On Jan 20, 2016
Funniest part about nairaland is that even the girls that use all their life looking for rich guys and doing make up from morning till night will still try to claim they got brains since every one is saying beauty without brain is nothing.

Majority of the ladies we have I. Town now hav got no brains. Only few.

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by Toks2008(m): 9:51am On Jan 20, 2016
viktor01:
About one of the most sensible posts I have read.

[b]"Everybody has a past,"

I hate this phrase, in as much as everybody has a past, the truth is that not everybody has a dirty past.

Some people's dirty past could make Satan jump out of His seat
[/b]

grin
That moment when you have slept with countless number of guys and then you turn a new leaf and say "all is in the past"

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Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by frankblinkz(m): 9:53am On Jan 20, 2016
Op u nailed it joor...u re damn ryt.....i went to a wedding of a friend,and sat close to sm beautiful girls who re nt mistaken frm a runs babe,with tattoos and flashy outfit and gadgets...they wia discussn and pinpointing at the bride that she aint dat beautiful,she seems backward nd many bla bla bla stories,but these set re 28-30+ still unmarried,but dia was a word she said i love most...she said anyway its her "LUCK" shes married..its d "GUY'S CHOICE"

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