daretodiffer:


I disagree with his piece and I hoping ypu will side with me on this.

Most people look attractive. The very attractive ones are not everywhere like the poster is making us to believe. Yes, the very beautiful ones might have issues nailing down a guy if they let it get into their heads however so is your average girl.

I believe his post should have addressed all women who believe that their looks are everything, Nigerian women to be precise (thanks to our men).




Cc Toks2008

TheSonOfMark:

Rule number 1: Never feed a lady's ego by complimenting her beauty. The only non-relative whose beauty I'd compliment is a woman I am DATING.

As a matter of fact, I act oblivious of their beauty...even though it is obvious.


THE MORE YOU FEED A WOMAN'S EGO, THE MORE YOU SEEM SERVILE TO HER. HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT, GUYS!

ronald4lif:


Nothing can be more truer but do you just limit the compliment to your woman only. How about someone you're wooing and harnessing a relationship with?

ronald4lif:


True. But most of the time the most attractive women are the ones who allow their looks adulterate their character, owing to the fact that she has many admirers and falsely assumes the number of toasters she has equals to her self-worth.

And yes it cut across being beautiful as generally the more a girl feel wanted, attractive or not so attractive, the more she becomes imperious and develops overbearing attitude. So, though you are right but I think the most attractive ones are the most culpable here and that's why he focused on them.

daretodiffer:


Nope. It always sounds cliche.


cc the sonofmark

It always is. Guys should be more creative and original.

Here's an example : Everyone tells Abigail/Uduak/Chioma she's got beautiful eyes. Instead of reiterating that obvious fact, I could make an offhand comment like:

Me: "Why are your eyes misty? "

Her: "Misty? What do you mean? "

Me: "Well, everytime the walllight blinks, your eyes seem to reflect them".

Her: *smiles*

See? I complimented her without being obvious, lewd and randy about it. It's left for her to give meaning to my words. I've caused a 'storm' in her head. Something most guys didn't.

Wait, why am I even revealing this info to you? 'Trade secret'.


Cc: Ronald4lif

TheSonOfMark:



It always is. Guys should be more creative and original.

Here's an example : Everyone tells Abigail/Uduak/Chioma she's got beautiful eyes. Instead of reiterating that obvious fact, I could make an offhand comment like:

Me: "Why are your eyes misty? "

Her: "Misty? What do you mean? "

Me: "Well, everytime the walllight blinks, your eyes seem to reflect them".

Her: *smiles*

See? I complimented her without being obvious, lewd and randy about it. It's left for her to give meaning to my words. I've caused a 'storm' in her head. Something most guys didn't.

Wait, why am I even revealing this info to you? 'Trade secret'.


Cc: Ronald 4lif

ronald4lif:
I think Mr. Toks was right on this one. But I also think he should have specified who his audience are and don't lump all beautiful women together.

His piece is centralised about beautiful women and their misdemeanour which is capable of scaring potential suitors and men in general away. Well, I've got news for him and it's that not all women, beautiful or not, gives a hoot about marriage and live their lives trying to conform to what men want. And for such women, the idea of them pushing suitors away doesn't come into effect.

On this note, I'd say this piece is for those women who sees marriage as a priority and wish to take a leap. Be that as it may, it was needly written. Kudos.

TheSonOfMark:



It always is. Guys should be more creative and original.

Here's an example : Everyone tells Abigail/Uduak/Chioma she's got beautiful eyes. Instead of reiterating that obvious fact, I could make an offhand comment like:

Me: "Why are your eyes misty? "

Her: "Misty? What do you mean? "

Me: "Well, everytime the walllight blinks, your eyes seem to reflect them".

Her: *smiles*

See? I complimented her without being obvious, lewd and randy about it. It's left for her to give meaning to my words. I've caused a 'storm' in her head. Something most guys didn't.

Wait, why am I even revealing this info to you? 'Trade secret'.


Cc: Ronald4lif

TheSonOfMark:

Rule number 1: Never feed a lady's ego by complimenting her beauty. The only non-relative whose beauty I'd compliment is a woman I am DATING.

As a matter of fact, I act oblivious of their beauty...even though it is obvious.


THE MORE YOU FEED A WOMAN'S EGO, THE MORE YOU SEEM SERVILE TO HER. HAVE SOME SELF-RESPECT, GUYS!

ronald4lif:


You should hate it and rightly so. The "you're sexy" flattery isn't a compliment but an insult and contemptuous remark designed to objectify women. Any woman who worth her onion should reprove and frown against it.

Dosunmuoflagos:
Bros toks....you have never failed me with your words and bluntness..I always respect your manner of presentation... Weldone bros
@omotayor..I started following you this afternoon because of something I saw on your profile, you truly stand out....

Now to the matter..
There's a yoruba adage that says" odi igba ti ojo ba da, ki alaburada (umbrella) to mo wipe eru ni oun gbe dani meaning..its not until the rain stops before someone holding an umbrella discovers how heavy it is...

Bros, most men these days aren't after those sexy or hot ladies..infact me as a person I won't even date you if what attracts me to you is physical, looks could be very very deceptful....its the character that matters....beauty comes from within.....

naughtynaughty:
Fr a minit I tot dis ur writeup wil neva end. Oga u don taya? Kontunu wit ur lamentation nah

Omotayor123:
Hmmm... I just hate the word "You are sexy"
To me, it automatically means "You are good for Sex"

To the ladies, the way you dress is the way you will be address.
Toks well done!

Isaacmacdon:
lamentation ke? or are u among d hot chicks with no brains? just asking cos u sounded like one.

Vikky014:
To the beautiful well endowed lady out there. u dnt need any guy to tell u how hot or sexy u r bfore u know it. Most guys are fond of hyping us the best thing is for u to hype urslf in ur room bfore going out so dt the side comments from guys out there wont get to ur head


Be careful of how u flaunt urslf on social media bc u will b attracting many irresponsible guys to urslf dt will be confusing you with sweet mouth till you get laid


To the guys stop making it obvious to us how hot or sexy you think we are..it makes most of us to take u for granted. evn if a girl is hot dnt ring it to her ear always. atleast learn to yab her small she will cool down.

Sonofmark nailed it
Toks2008 nice write up.

sickstars:
Guys can say all this am shocked


Who are dating d beautiful ones with empty brains aliens?

Who dump d good ones with brain ghosts?

Smh guys are reasonable online but f**lish offlines

Excuse my insults bt d truth is bitter even i is already taken in d bitter truth syrup

Omotayor123:
Hmmm... I just hate the word "You are sexy"
To me, it automatically means "You are good for Sex"

To the ladies, the way you dress is the way you will be address.
Toks well done!

daretodiffer:


He is right and you are also right.

Omotayor123:
Hmmm... I just hate the word "You are sexy"
To me, it automatically means "You are good for Sex"

To the ladies, the way you dress is the way you will be address.
Toks well done!

Omotayor123:
Hmmm... I just hate the word "You are sexy"
To me, it automatically means "You are good for Sex"

To the ladies, the way you dress is the way you will be address.
Toks well done!

ronald4lif:


Boss mi. Lothario numero uno, keep lecturing us. Respect!

Aren't we all innate seducers? All it takes to elucidate that side of us is a woman who tickles our fancy.

blackjack21:
Op, you're wasting your time.