Nicepoker:
I made her left. I was the one at fault.

now this is what am looking for thanks for being truthful

pretty1214:
I dated dis guy 4 4yrs and he has d nerves to introduced me 2 his female friend on Facebook, as d sister 2 his brother's wife, can u imagine dat? It was an insult of d highest order n a blow 2 me. I neva told him, it was over btw us until he called me one day in front of my current boo, I told him 2 stop calling cz he is causing problems in my new relationship n dat I prefer 2 b d sister to d brother's wife (SKEKINA). B4, u knw it, I started getting calls frm members of his family bt it was 2 late by den.

Right nw, he tags me 2 b beautiful bt have a heart of d deepest pit of hell. Who cares?

What I can deduce from your story is that, you already had someone you were seeing and when ur ex introduced another lady to you, it was just an opportune time for you to dump his ass for another dude using what he did as a lame excuse

tosyne2much:
Despite my kindness and generousity, I never thought someone with a caring heart and genuine intentions could be betrayed/scammed.. Such is life !!!


Each time I think of what transpired between us, it sometimes brings back the memories of betrayal.. Well, I have moved on with my life cos only a fool dwells in the past

I can relate to that, buddy

2sex:
I can relate to that, buddy

You mean you can relate to it?

adamsflick:
We graduated the same year, served in different states (yea lets say i cheated during my nysc but i was only having fun and i was kinda carefull though can't say the same about her though) when we signed out of service, i started job hunting while she got a temp job as a teacher. Things were playing fine, she made me feel like she's hang around no matter what and most times she gives me part of her salary but things changed when she met this (goodfornothinguselesscrazyoldmoneybag) who started lavishing her with gifts and even went as far as buying her a car on her birthday and all i could afford was just a low quality shoe. That was how she left me slowly. Now its been 2 years, i have (girlfriends) now i've got a job where i'm the Hod at IT I have an official car and i bought another for me. Moved into my 4 bedroom bungalow last year dec. Well yes i work it, i do transport too i buy tricycle for people and give it out in hire purchase.
Well i met my ex last year november at agege and she had this look of (had i known) written all over.

Sometimes I wish everything that goes around comes around, but it not always so.... Some are just too lucky to escape the consequences of the evil they did.

kunlexze:

sure bro,the guy she dumped me for dumped her also,they ain't together anymore..i'm very happy she left earlier cos she opened the door for someone who understands me better..the evil she has done will continue to hunt her,i've got nothing to lose.

Bro, ladies are the ones that make us become players


Every dude who evolved into a player has a sorrowful experience of betrayal to share

tosyne2much:
Bro, ladies are the ones that make us become players


Every dude who evolved into a player has a sorrowful experience of betrayal to share

exactly bro.

Am thinking of dumping mine...he dosnt call or ping me...alwyz busy busy busy....even valentine's dah he forgot to wish me happy val...mayb am d side chick

I left him because he moved abroad and we barely spoke. I also strongly suspect he was cheating on me.

i left my ex because he's a very good liar.

berryice:
Am thinking of dumping mine...he dosnt call or ping me...alwyz busy busy busy....even valentine's dah he forgot to wish me happy val...mayb am d side chick

My dear pls don't just rush to take irrational steps, call him to order, talk to him, make him understand how you feel his behaviour seem he jilted you...seriously not all of us know what's right for our women, sometimes we might even think we are doing the right thing alas we are hurting deeply, in cases like this unless we are made to realise how to live with our women, things may not go well. At the end we tag ourselves to vulgar names, insulting and assuming his the most inhumane individual, meanwhile he might be the angel. If he's made to realise and adjust his lapses.

Kunlegzy:

Sorry about that but then I don't think he deserves you.

realising he doen't deserve me made me move on cos i knw beta wat love is, thanks sha.

well me never dump any and never got dumped...when there's no reason for such. Only those that have gf n bf do that. as for me, I'm yet to know what been in a relationship means.

berryice:
Am thinking of dumping mine...he dosnt call or ping me...alwyz busy busy busy....even valentine's dah he forgot to wish me happy val...mayb am d side chick

if he never calls den he doen't love you, i went 2 a val concept in church on Sunday and dis ur story was what a girl asked too and she was told bluntly dat the guy doen't love her.

I know i can never get anyone like her again, i know she's one of the few best still in our generation, she's one of the few that really understand me, the only one that knows my weakness and still liked me anyway, the only girl dat av dated this long, the only girl i could actually picture in my future.....the best girl av ever met in my life.....BUT I BROKE UP WITH HER BECAUSE SHE ABORTED MY BABY AGAINST ME AND MY FAMILY'S WISH.

uncjay:


My dear pls don't just rush to take irrational steps, call him to order, talk to him, make him understand how you feel his behaviour seem he jilted you...seriously not all of us know what's right for our women, sometimes we might even think we are doing the right thing alas we are hurting deeply, in cases like this unless we are made to realise how to live with our women, things may not go well. At the end we tag ourselves to vulgar names, insulting and assuming his the most inhumane individual, meanwhile he might be the angel. If he's made to realise and adjust his lapses.

wen u love some1 do u jst stay n forget 2 call the person?, I believe dat wen a guy/girl loves you he/she will always want 2 hear frm you and atime buying recharge card on loan is involved wen they feel like hearing frm their love one, dis is my definition of love and nt a guy/girl dat calls wen they need sumtin frm u or need u 2 warm their bed.

tosyne2much:
What I can deduce from your story is that, you already had someone you were seeing and when ur ex introduced another lady to you, it was just an opportune time for you to dump his ass for another dude using what he did as a lame excuse

Might be true psychologically and lexically

uncjay:
well me never dump any and never got dumped...when there's no reason for such. Only those that have gf n bf do that. as for me, I'm yet to know what been in a relationship means.

Xactly

emenas:
mine always ask of airtime as if i'm a recharge card seller..the most annoying thing is that na only flash she dey flash.

Haha ha ha ha laughing in Chinese

herbie27:
wen u love some1 do u jst stay n forget 2 call the person?, I believe dat wen a guy/girl loves you he/she will always want 2 hear frm you and atime buying recharge card on loan is involved wen they feel like hearing frm their love one, dis is my definition of love and nt a guy/girl dat calls wen they need sumtin frm u or need u 2 warm their bed.

Yeah I concur with you 99%, yet even at that dialogue can go a long way to make those shabby loopholes rectified. Through such you will know if you're good with him or not, but you've justified whatever action you take after that. So before you do anything, talk things out first, then take a step. Your life is most important afterall.

tosyne2much:
You mean you can relate to it?

I wrote a reply to this. Did you read it before I deleted it?

Hello people anyone awake? really wish i can talk to someone i really feel hurt....

herbie27:
wen u love some1 do u jst stay n forget 2 call the person?, I believe dat wen a guy/girl loves you he/she will always want 2 hear frm you and atime buying recharge card on loan is involved wen they feel like hearing frm their love one, dis is my definition of love and nt a guy/girl dat calls wen they need sumtin frm u or need u 2 warm their bed.

lol calling someone or loving someone who does not even appreciate that you u care about dem is the greatest insulte u can inflict on urself

Bobbyunitedfc:
Dated for 3years and 6months...shes usually the one who does d counting and always remind me about important dates in our lives, i suck at it...I don't even remember my birthday tho just 3days apart...I miss her everyday... We broke up on mutual consent, basic ish she's IBO am Yoruba... My family so so against us getting married,so mum started coming up with "our pastor and our Alfa said u guys don't have a future together,my aunt n my uncles also became another version of Joseph the dreamer... I felt frustrated, I hated my mum ,I met my pastor who also advised me not to neglect parental counsels n its importance to a gud marriage...my gf accused of not been man enough to make mybown choice...all I did for her was to save a marriage of regrets...now I feel dejected and lonely, I can't even ask a girl out cos I still feel attached to my ex, now am single and miserable just cos of my family and thier hatred for IBO's ...to worsen d whole issue ,me no like Yoruba gals at all,no offence I just love dem amaka,ify,chi and nneoma...so any yoruba lady here just pm pls....and am no mamas boy,Someone here can relate to this story.. Peace

Hmmm...Yoruba boys liking Igbo and Igbo boys liking Yoruba.. One Nigeria.

Cindy222:
Hello people anyone awake? really wish i can talk to someone i really feel hurt....

whats wrong ?

Cindy222:
Hello people anyone awake? really wish i can talk to someone i really feel hurt....

Hey, what's on ur mind?!

uncjay:


My dear pls don't just rush to take irrational steps, call him to order, talk to him, make him understand how you feel his behaviour seem he jilted you...seriously not all of us know what's right for our women, sometimes we might even think we are doing the right thing alas we are hurting deeply, in cases like this unless we are made to realise how to live with our women, things may not go well. At the end we tag ourselves to vulgar names, insulting and assuming his the most inhumane individual, meanwhile he might be the angel. If he's made to realise and adjust his lapses.

A big hug*No Homo*.

Liberty101:
whats wrong ?

Its relationship inclined, its so heart breaking when a relationship ends..... one can't even sleep.

herbie27:
if he never calls den he doen't love you, i went 2 a val concept in church on Sunday and dis ur story was what a girl asked too and she was told bluntly dat the guy doen't love her.

I disagree..... Yes, he is the man, he should do the calling, when he does not, what do you do? Nag? Complain? No! You call him and tell him how his actions is affecting you...its called communication. We have upward and downward communication..... It a two way thing not a one way thing.....
But sha o!!!! Few have this traits(no calling) there is a thread for them on NL.

Cindy222:
Hello people anyone awake? really wish i can talk to someone i really feel hurt....

tune to radio continental 102.3fm now. Am listening.

Cindy222:
Hello people anyone awake? really wish i can talk to someone i really feel hurt....

Hey, u sound hurt...I hope all is well...