Rexhenrex:
maybe you dress or behave like a stripper!!

because the way you dress is the way you will be addressed if you are responsible and dress responsibly then I don't think he will av done that!

am rather surprised Its not a brothel he took you to,judging from the kinda comments you make on NL and the thread you create

in Ben Bruce's voice
[b]#i hope i just made common sense [\b]

Jadekitana:


So he was right smiling ear to ear right in my presence cos he saw nake.d girls? Someone he's asking out. Hmmm guys sha

4C2215131:

Thought I was the only one who noticed this.

xtervaganza:
like I was ever with you

QueenValerie:
bye Pledge.

4C2215131:

Thought I was the only one who noticed this.
Well, each to his/her own.

ipledge10:
no..u not leaving me in dz cold,hey just stay...look into my eyes and tell me you will leave that guy

go wrap up in a blanket......with sounji

Sunnypar:

Is he still the same guy that asked you to come to his house. Y'all girls should stop all this pretending, Bleep if you want to Bleep. Yes, men dream of having those boobs and sucking you, they dream of giving it to you from behind, but you people pretend as if you don't Bleep. I think he just showed you Jaki......
I met a girl I liked her very much but she lied that she is not into sex only for me to find out the day she came to my place, if you see what did girl did and come to imagine she is a deeper lifer.

Jadekitana:
You can imagine the rate at with conji be killing some guys! to say i'm disappointed is an understatement. I'v been friends with this guy for some months,he's been on my case and has agreed to give me all the time I need before we start dating.

I was on my own last night when he invited me to go take sharwarma somewhere around.
We were just gisting normally about life and next thing he said was he's getting really bored and there's a new place on the island he would like to take me to.

We got there, I noticed the bouncers were really fierce looking! I got scared and asked him why they had 6 hefty bouncers,he just laughed and said it's cos the place is new. He quickly paid for VIP and when they opened the door first thing I saw was a fair beautiful girl stark naked dancing holding a pole. There were about 10ladies or more completely naked, with guys having fun with them!

I didn't bother to proceed to the VIP, I left in annoyance, boarded a cab and deleted his number sharply.

A guy who takes a lady to a strip club to watch other naked ladies and probably partake in frolicking with them can never be serious in a relationship! Quote me anywhere.

ATERI:


I would appreciate it if you can give a direct answer to a simple and straight-forward question: can you marry a girl you first met at a strip club?

Jadekitana:
You can imagine the rate at with conji be killing some guys! to say i'm disappointed is an understatement. I'v been friends with this guy for some months,he's been on my case and has agreed to give me all the time I need before we start dating.

I was on my own last night when he invited me to go take sharwarma somewhere around.
We were just gisting normally about life and next thing he said was he's getting really bored and there's a new place on the island he would like to take me to.

We got there, I noticed the bouncers were really fierce looking! I got scared and asked him why they had 6 hefty bouncers,he just laughed and said it's cos the place is new. He quickly paid for VIP and when they opened the door first thing I saw was a fair beautiful girl stark naked dancing holding a pole. There were about 10ladies or more completely naked, with guys having fun with them!

I didn't bother to proceed to the VIP, I left in annoyance, boarded a cab and deleted his number sharply.

A guy who takes a lady to a strip club to watch other naked ladies and probably partake in frolicking with them can never be serious in a relationship! Quote me anywhere.

QueenValerie:
go wrap up in a blanket......with sounji

Rexhenrex:
you ain't the only one bro!

Jadekitana:


Bad habits should be controlled, he has been living a lie all these while told me he's reserved sexually and would give me all the time and yet he took me to a strip club to turn me on! And Btw why so much emphasis on the sharwarma? did I beg him to call me out?

dajoaneke:
Would you have prefered to know his hangouts and lifestyle after saying yes to him?... As for me, I support the guy 100%. If my bad habit keeps you away, you have no reason to eat my shawarma or suya and pretend we are cool.
Abeggiiii

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Jadekitana:

My crush would end instantly

4C2215131:


And you know the funny thing? No one has even considered this aspect of the story: Could it be he saw her as someone who's be comfortable in a strip club given her personality?

People come to conclusion about your personality given how you relate with them. Yes some folks would still do what they want to do irrespective of your personality but on the average people relate with you based on how they've judged you.

How does the verdict come about? By your actions, thoughts, words, demeanour, disposition etc when you are with them.

So, the OP may have conveyed a loose, carefree, cheap, daring, experimental, indisciplined and irresponsible lady to the chap in question hence he saw absolutely nothing wrong in taking his 'don't-give-a-Bleep' girl to a strip club as he felt she may be right at home in such an environment.

Ten will get you a thousand when I tell you that same chap won't do this with some other girl he considers 'homely' or 'vitreous' or the so called 'wife material' even if he could be wrong as the said wife material is just pretending to be a 'good' lady which also proves my point. He'd rather take her to the cinema than to a strip club virtue of how he 'sees' her.

Guess he was wrong. You know the 'ole saying! If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck then it is definitely a duck.

Sometimes, the book is judged by the cover.

4C2215131:


And you know the funny thing? No one has even considered this aspect of the story: Could it be he saw her as someone who's be comfortable in a strip club given her personality?

People come to conclusion about your personality given how you relate with them. Yes some folks would still do what they want to do irrespective of your personality but on the average people relate with you based on how they've judged you.

How does the verdict come about? By your actions, thoughts, words, demeanour, disposition etc when you are with them.

So, the OP may have conveyed a loose, carefree, cheap, daring, experimental, indisciplined and irresponsible lady to the chap in question hence he saw absolutely nothing wrong in taking his 'don't-give-a-Bleep' girl to a strip club as he felt she may be right at home in such an environment.

Ten will get you a thousand when I tell you that same chap won't do this with some other girl he considers 'homely' or 'vitreous' or the so called 'wife material' even if he could be wrong as the said wife material is just pretending to be a 'good' lady which also proves my point. He'd rather take her to the cinema than to a strip club virtue of how he 'sees' her.

Guess he was wrong. You know the 'ole saying! If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck then it is definitely a duck.

Sometimes, the book is judged by the cover.

ClassCaptain:
He did what was right. He was open to you and didnt hide . What if he had not told u and still went there secretly to commit the act even if you guys are dating.

Probably,it was a subtle way of asking if you will be comfortable with him doing that. The best u could have done was to atleast enjoy a few minutes with him,give him one excise of leaving and comminucate your grievances to him thereafter.