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BUTCHCASSIDY:
Very likely bro. But who would want to couple with someone that waspish?

texanomaly:
She has a point though.

EgunMogaji:
True that Bro, true that

By the way a nod to the use of "waspish", must add that to my language repertoire.

MarieSucre:
-If I go out with a guy and I want to pay for my meal, they will say I am too proud and arrogant and not making him feel like a man.
-If I decide to let him take the lead, they will say why did I let him pay and not sleep with him.
-If I sleep with him, they will say I am just a LovePeddler for sleeping with a man who paid for my food.
-If I refuse to visit a man at his place, they will say why am painting all guys as prospective rapists.
-If I go and he sexually assaults me, they will say don't I know better than to visit a guy at his place.
-If I say let's wait for some months, they will say why am I keeping him waiting.
-If I say let's do it now, they will say "what a slut she is".
-If I voice my misgivings from the beginning, they will say why am I painting all guys as just being after the sex.
-If I show that I like sex, they say I am slut.
-If I show that I don't want a sexual relationship, they'll say why am I forming holy virgin.
-If a guy wrote this story then by Jove it must be the truth afterall "all women are just gold diggers" excluding your mothers and sisters.
-If a girl writes this then they'll say she either made it up or she is a disgruntled ex girlfriend or a bitter woman or a gold digger or she have been more respectful or some other shit.
There is no scenario where she gets anything right.

sinaj:
Mitcheeeew

CFCman:
#team anti-strippers

texanomaly:

CFCman:
I don't begrudge them though, they are earning legitimate income. Besides, they deserve better working conditions.

texanomaly:
Lol...now we are discussing the plight of the stripper?

They make good money here. Is it different in Nigeria?

CFCman:
I learned that strippers in a club in Lagos earn around N70,000/week ($280). That's about the median middle-class monthly salary in the country

texanomaly:
We are getting off track here. You lawyer types are good at deflecting attention away from the subject at hand. Good tactic. Brovo barrister!

yollychika:
He's still a child. Youthful exurberance

Jadekitana:
You can imagine the rate at with conji be killing some guys! to say i'm disappointed is an understatement. I'v been friends with this guy for some months,he's been on my case and has agreed to give me all the time I need before we start dating.

I was on my own last night when he invited me to go take sharwarma somewhere around.
We were just gisting normally about life and next thing he said was he's getting really bored and there's a new place on the island he would like to take me to.

We got there, I noticed the bouncers were really fierce looking! I got scared and asked him why they had 6 hefty bouncers,he just laughed and said it's cos the place is new. He quickly paid for VIP and when they opened the door first thing I saw was a fair beautiful girl stark naked dancing holding a pole. There were about 10ladies or more completely naked, with guys having fun with them!

I didn't bother to proceed to the VIP, I left in annoyance, boarded a cab and deleted his number sharply.

A guy who takes a lady to a strip club to watch other naked ladies and probably partake in frolicking with them can never be serious in a relationship! Quote me anywhere.

ma'am,i disagree with your conclusion. Some real couples go to strip clubs when they feel like spicing their relationship or go beyond the normal boring routing, some even go as far as swinging, it depends . If you don't like it or you're yet to be opened to that kind of stuff, you don't have to behave like a crazy bitchhh whose period refuses to end on time. You could have requested a change of location or just play cool, then later tell him you would not like to visit such place again. The only thing that would make you last point valid to me is if you go too wild in the strip club, like taking the place of the strippers and getting really fuvked up.

You taking a cab to angrily leave the club shows you don't have the patience to fry ripe plantain wihout taking a bite before you finish the frying. You can still call him to apologize, let him know you got freaked out, because you've never been to such a place before




Hypocrisy is when you see strip clubs as a dirty place but you still get fuvked by some random negros

MRBrownJ:
@Jadekitana
from what you just wrote we can now understand your poor state of mind...



so instead of just turning a man down, the solution is to string him along?! btw do you know that there are many ways to satisfy a man sexually with no penetration?! btw is there anything wrong with being interested with something that women like you use as bait?!



are you now confirming that you are a golddigger?!



if a man waits for years, only to realise that the toto is no better than that of any ashi out there, then no wonder these guys are pissed!
unless there are gold leaves in that toto, and it is filled with diamonds, i see no reasons why a non virgin adult man should wait for years to mount a toto, NONE.



there is a huge difference between being careful and wasting someone's time while pushing them to their sexual limits.
you are deluded if you write the above and yet act surprised when these same "sexually wired" men show you how they cope when they are stringed along by clueless women.

let me educate you on the issue:
the golden rule IS: toto comes a dime a dozen, and men can get sex EVERYWHERE. the smart ones get it for free while the novices spend good money for it, until they finally learn the golden rule. sadly, some women are selling their totos on street corners for nothing so the real value of women aint in their totos, its in their abilities to satisfy their men WITHOUT it. the point here is that you can DATE a man and discover him properly, make him happy and reward each other with affection/satisfaction etc, with no sex involved. you will end up much further in life instead of using your toto as a carrot and having "donkeys" foolishly run after it... because the majority of times these men A) get their groove on with other women while making you think that they aint (but you know that already), B) ultimately want to hit the toto to recoup the time/money invested, and NOT because they give a damn about you, and C) they get so emotionally desperate that they end up falling for the 1st one willing to show them any kind of affection.

the most silly part in all this is that you women will try to make it look like its only us men who enjoy sex, and that you gals are doing us a favour. NONSENSE!

icedbeatz:
and you know that bc he took her to a strip club? You consider yourself smart right?
Well op you fdup, you should have went in there to see what he wants you guys to do there. There might be another good thing going on in another part of the strip club and you should have tried to know the reason he took you there but instead you were so eager to display that you are classy, what if that guy is your God sent hubby huh? You judged him asap without trying to understand why he took you there, you also thought its bc he wants to turn you on which leads me to think you're bisexual or a lesbian and i bet you also think you're better than those strippers. Learn to understand why people do whatever they do it will help you a lot.

xp17:
ma'am,i disagree with your conclusion. Some real couples go to strip clubs when they feel like spicing their relationship or go beyond the normal boring routing, some even go as far as swinging, it depends . If you don't like it or you're yet to be opened to that kind of stuff, you don't have to behave like a crazy bitchhh whose period refuses to end on time. You could have requested a change of location or just play cool, then later tell him you would not like to visit such place again. The only thing that would make you last point valid to me is if you go too wild in the strip club, like taking the place of the strippers and getting really fuvked up.

You taking a cab to angrily leave the club shows you don't have the patience to fry ripe plantain wihout taking a bite before you finish the frying. You can still call him to apologize, let him know you got freaked out, because you've never been to such place before




Hypocrisy is when you see strip clubs as a dirty place but you still get fuvked by some random negros

texanomaly:
@the bolded
Umm are strip clubs in Nigeria different than strip clubs elsewhere? What "other good thing" do you suppose he was taking her to?

Jadekitana:
very much

vivaciousvivi:
Jadekitana you are wonderfully wise. Its truly refreshing to know that there are still decent girls out there who won't compromise when it comes to matters of the heart and knowing what they want. Kudos to you girl!

Jadekitana:
You can imagine the rate at with conji be killing some guys! to say i'm disappointed is an understatement. I'v been friends with this guy for some months,he's been on my case and has agreed to give me all the time I need before we start dating.

I was on my own last night when he invited me to go take sharwarma somewhere around.
We were just gisting normally about life and next thing he said was he's getting really bored and there's a new place on the island he would like to take me to.

We got there, I noticed the bouncers were really fierce looking! I got scared and asked him why they had 6 hefty bouncers,he just laughed and said it's cos the place is new. He quickly paid for VIP and when they opened the door first thing I saw was a fair beautiful girl stark naked dancing holding a pole. There were about 10ladies or more completely naked, with guys having fun with them!

I didn't bother to proceed to the VIP, I left in annoyance, boarded a cab and deleted his number sharply.

A guy who takes a lady to a strip club to watch other naked ladies and probably partake in frolicking with them can never be serious in a relationship! Quote me anywhere.

Leriebloom:
Just like her in what sense abeg?, i just said fact. Why would a guy take a girl to a strip club

icedbeatz:
have you not seen some skills from df performers there? First off get the tits, booobs, bums and maybe puna outta your mind then you might see more.
1. Bar tenders with lots of mad skills, some can't serve a drink without showcasing some crazy skills while at it.
2. Sit and analyse the psych of the viewers and the strippers(since he's bored) and how people react to d/f things or the look on people's face, sometimes watching human beings actions and reactions can be funny
3. Hoping a drunk mofo displays some wild, crazy or funny thing,
4. Watch how some skillful strippers can work the pole be it rotating from the top of the pole to the ground with no hands maybe just their laps or something especially the 6-8ft poles( you wouldn't appreciate it if their unclothedness is the only thing you see/that clouds your mind)
5. Some bar tenders can mix you a drink that takes you to a level i can't explain.
6. What if the club has another section where they serve something tasty to bite?
7. Possibilities are out there, why live life in a box? Move out and see things fyi some beaches are not too d/f from strip clubs in terms of tits, boobbs and azz.
Btw if a girl can take a D out of wedlock, watch porn, finger herself and more then wtf! would same girl hate on the strip club?!

xp17:
ma'am,i disagree with your conclusion. Some real couples go to strip clubs when they feel like spicing their relationship or go beyond the normal boring routing, some even go as far as swinging, it depends . If you don't like it or you're yet to be opened to that kind of stuff, you don't have to behave like a crazy bitchhh whose period refuses to end on time. You could have requested a change of location or just play cool, then later tell him you would not like to visit such place again. The only thing that would make you last point valid to me is if you go too wild in the strip club, like taking the place of the strippers and getting really fuvked up.

You taking a cab to angrily leave the club shows you don't have the patience to fry ripe plantain wihout taking a bite before you finish the frying. You can still call him to apologize, let him know you got freaked out, because you've never been to such a place before




Hypocrisy is when you see strip clubs as a dirty place but you still get fuvked by some random negros

Jadekitana:
You can imagine the rate at with conji be killing some guys! to say i'm disappointed is an understatement. I'v been friends with this guy for some months,he's been on my case and has agreed to give me all the time I need before we start dating.

I was on my own last night when he invited me to go take sharwarma somewhere around.
We were just gisting normally about life and next thing he said was he's getting really bored and there's a new place on the island he would like to take me to.

We got there, I noticed the bouncers were really fierce looking! I got scared and asked him why they had 6 hefty bouncers,he just laughed and said it's cos the place is new. He quickly paid for VIP and when they opened the door first thing I saw was a fair beautiful girl stark naked dancing holding a pole. There were about 10ladies or more completely naked, with guys having fun with them!

I didn't bother to proceed to the VIP, I left in annoyance, boarded a cab and deleted his number sharply.

A guy who takes a lady to a strip club to watch other naked ladies and probably partake in frolicking with them can never be serious in a relationship! Quote me anywhere.

CFCman:
I think the bolded point has more to do with your girl potentially being sidelined in a strip club. To be honest, I would also be reluctant to go to a male strip club with a girlfriend due to jealousy.

Linqsz:
To be successful in any relationship these three things you must do;

1. You must lie frequently with skill.
2. You must pretend alot.
3. You must package yourself.

ADBOK:
Prudish fellow! It's vexatious when a lady thinks a guy must form gentleman or conform so she can feel pleased with herself. You are just an option lady, and so many options exist in the multiple choice question of relationship. Even exams allow 5 options!...