The truth is that some guyz re configured to rape but 30% of rape cases have to do with dressing..

This week on Admiralty Close on Phase 1, this lady came out with this mini blouse, that I was very sure I was not the only Man his "One eye snake" changed position..

U need to see all heads moving towards her direction.
Tell me what happens if she walks into the den of criminals She will not just be raped but gang raped..

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He is simply saying the truth. A rapist is a criminal just like a thief or a kidnapper. So we have to do our very best to avoid all criminals

Well...its all part of it...some rapists are just retatds..however some are attracted 2 what they see and kw they can't get

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For d ladies "If u don't wanna be a victim of rape, pls dress decently.

sinaj:
Who knows how many he has raped b4




Rape has nothing to do with dressing, Itz just a sickness that needs to be treated.

He is saying the truth. A rapist is sick so, you do your very best to avoid him simple.

Some ladies will never learn, some above me where even condemning the guy, SMH, he is only speaking on ur behalf. A pickpocket who is not in the mood to steal, but sees half of ur phone or wallet exposed outside your pocket, then what happens.
Modesty plays an important role in avoiding rape at times. Common sense isnt common.

Nothing should justify rape.

Women should see fit to express themselves in whatever way they desire, so should men.

Rape and rapists are a menace to society and must be uprooted.

Diddyydiva:
Your comment was convincing me until I saw your last sentence.

So your common sense did not tell you there are different types of rape and their causes are different.


Predator rape for example which involves the use of drugs. It isnt a violent one yet it is rape. And in this case indecent dressing is not really the cause.



Indecent dressing can of course trigger rape but not in all cases.




Now you use common sense. !!!

Miss,

Of course I agree that there are different causes and types of rape

Reason why I said "people also get robbed during the day".. Showing that walking at night is not the only way to get robbed



But my point exactly is.. Dressing decently is one of the many ways to avoid rape.

At least why not make an effort to prevent it.


It's also similar to dress codes and cultism

If you know that wearing a particular combination of colour would attract them boys to you, isn't it better and safer to just avoid it?

May neither us or any of our family members get raped.


Have a wonderful day!


#Adonis3HasSopken

A think rapist are mentally deranged people ,Because you can't tell me what to wear,I wear what I like. ..its doesn't gives you the right to rape me.

Rubbish

sinaj:
Who knows how many he has raped b4




Rape has nothing to do with dressing, Itz just a sickness that needs to be treated.

Hmmmmm my bae has spoken again.......

But prevention is as well needed!








Cheeeeers

politricks:
The topic says lady and the post looks like that of a male, which one do we believe?
@thetopic, Rape goes way beyond indecent dressing although it can be a trigger or a contributing factor. How about small children been raped, did they also dress indecently?

Did he say indecent dressing is the root cause of rape?

politricks:
The topic says lady and the post looks like that of a male, which one do we believe?
@thetopic, Rape goes way beyond indecent dressing although it can be a trigger or a contributing factor. How about small children been raped, did they also dress indecently?

He did not say it was the only cause

Decker:
When this kind of discussion is raised, a lot of people argue that a rapist would rape any woman, irrespective of how she dresses. But one thing these people fail to understand is that_nudity or dressing indecently, sexually arouses a man and intensifies his desire and drive to have sex.
If a sexual offender who isn't in the mood to have sex, sees a woman dress indecently, he is immediately flooded with the compulsion to have sex with her. And due to his lack of self control and his believe of being personally inadequate to get the quick permission to have sex with her normal way, he submits to forceful desecration and defilement of her body.

I am not justifying rape, but women should be cautious and endeavor to stay away from anything that can lead to harm being done to them.
You can't dress provocatively at night and walk alone on a lonely street and expect not to get sexually harassed or raped.

Then before the coming of the white Africa would have been a den of rapist as no one wore clothing back then? As it is today India is well known for rape, and believe you me I am yet to see a place where women are clothe from hair to toe after the Islamic country than India, yet rape is at all time high there. What happened to preaching to would be rapist rather than the victims. As long as there is a rapist out there and no victim out there it is just only a matter of time but as long as there is no rapist out there no matter how many "victims" are out there the fact is there aint no rapist. So please you and your fellow rapist apologist should stop twisting facts.

Diddyydiva:
Your comment was convincing me until I saw your last sentence.

So your common sense did not tell you there are different types of rape and their causes are different.


Predator rape for example which involves the use of drugs. It isnt a violent one yet it is rape. And in this case indecent dressing is not really the cause.



Indecent dressing can of course trigger rape but not in all cases.




Now you use common sense. !!!

Dear Auntie,
when you see superior argument, be humble enough to accept and learn so you can increase your self worth. What's the big deal in taking simple precautionary advice from a fellow lady? Common sense is indeed not common. As you please

dulux07:
Some ladies will never learn, some above me where even condemning the guy, SMH, he is only speaking on ur behalf. A pickpocket who is not in the mood to steal, but sees half of ur phone or wallet exposed outside your pocket, then what happens.
Modesty plays an important role in avoiding rape at times. Common sense isnt common.

What about a pick pocket that would tear through your well concealed bag? So women should live their lives at the messy of a rapist that was not in the mood? See your logic!

[b]God help Nigerians!

First of all, even if a lady is buck naked and laying down on your bed, he "No" should be final.
Even if the tip of your peniss is in her vagina and she says no, you should pull out immediately.
There is no justification for rape whatsoever.

When i was in school, i witnessed a girl get raped. I was in my 3rd year while she was in her first year.
She was dressed decently and looking well mannered but her only crime was visiting her so called "boy friend".
I heard her screaming and begging from outside and i tried to intervene by banging on the door severally.
The boy totally ignored me... Then i summoned his neigbors and we got the door open. To my utter dismay, it was two boys that raped this girl and she was a virgin..... The shock on the girl's face haunted me for weeks.,, she was totally numb and couldn't utter a word... just tears!!!....

THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR RAPE.
A RAPIST IS A RAPIST. IF YOU LIKE WEAR HIJAB OR DRESS LIKE A NUN, HE WILL STILL RAPE.
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If dressing modestly is a preventive measure for rape, then why do we still have cases of girls covered in hijab getting raped?
why do we have cases of men raping innocent children??
why do we have cases of pregnant women getting raped??

whoever this journalist is, i strongly recommend that he gets fired.
Instead of pushing for a stiffer penalty for convicted rapist, he is there telling women how to dress and what to do with their bodies....

The question I always put to any man who argues on the modesty issue to justify rape is how many people have you raped because of the way they dressed cos we need to be aware of people who need psychiatric help amongs us so that we can see that they get it.

IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO !

anochuko01:
Even some pastors run from semi unclad Ladies....

I knocked at a girl's door one day and she loudly said ''COME IN'' but on getting inside, I saw her wearing a short tight and what seemed to be a singlet. I wasn't comfortable with it so I spent a few seconds and went out, though I planned staying for long. After a few minutes, I went back in and by then she was tying a towel. But honestly, the thought of what I saw was so vivid on my mind that I had to avoid her, avoided her calls, stopped visiting her, stopped texting her, and was left with a ''hello, hi'' greetings...I did this for weeks till the thought went off!.... I believe a rapist wouldn't go through the ''stress'' I went through just to get her off my mind.

now imagine girls dressed like that OUTSIDE and walking on the street where you have potential rapists! !
If ladies dress properly, rape would be reduced drastically....

you should seek professional help if seeing a lady unclad could trigger such emotions in you you might be a potential rapist. ;-) So what is going to happen to you if you go to a nude beach ?

CaroLyner:
there are ways of preventing rape and dressing with decency is one of the key.

First female comment that sound fair

kaziblake:
A think rapist are mentally deranged people ,Because you can't tell me what to wear,I wear what I like. ..its doesn't gives you the right to rape me.
Rubbish

And the rapist will show you what they like frm what you wear.

Laveda:
" Our young ladies need to be taught a lesson on modesty in as much as rape is bad, don't expose yourself to it, don't be a willing prey to råpe.
That comment is spot on!!!

Your are among the few ladies that reasoned properly.

gabbytabby:
The question I always put to any man who argues on the modesty issue to justify rape is how many people have you raped because of the way they dressed cos we need to be aware of people who need psychiatric help amongs us so that we can see that they get it.

My brother may you live long. It is sad when I hear men pass the blame to the victims.

woodcook:
What about a pick pocket that would tear through your well concealed bag? So women should live their lives at the messy of a rapist that was not in the mood? See your logic!

Its no logic , its common sense.

Rapists are usually very deranged in nature. They usually don't need a reason to rape so let us quit finding excuses for them
Rape is abnormal and will only take an abnormal Man or woman to condescend this low

CaroLyner:
there are ways of preventing rape and dressing with decency is one of the key.

Who decides what decent dressing is? For how long are women going to live their lives pleasing a set of deranged men who are not only encouraged but protected by the society we live in?

woodcook:
Who decides what decent dressing is? For how long are women going to live their lives pleasing a set of deranged men who are not only encouraged but protected by the society we live in?

its just so sad...
women can never win in Nigeria.
If she gets pregnant, its cos she is irresponsible.
If she works hard and gets in a well placed position, its cos she slept with men.
If she has her car and house, she is intimidating men.

Most of our men are just lazy with sever traits of low self esteem.

If you like, wear jalabiya and hijab, a rapist is a rapist.

woodcook:
you should seek professional help if seeing a lady unclad could trigger such emotions in you you might be a potential rapist. ;-) So what is going to happen to you if you go to a nude beach ?

I'm not impotent hey, and I don't practise promiscuity
If seeing an opposite sex unclad doesn't trigger anything in you, then you have a big prob

I came here seeing a lot of brain dead, loose girls justifying indecent dressing. @mayourspeaks made sense with his comment.
You dress like a hoe, go to club, get drunk and wild, go home with a random guy, then you come back with tales of rape.

The way you dress is the way you addressed.

Estharfabian:
Clothing is not a significant factor in sexual Violence.

Sexual aggressors Would still Commit the dreaded act irrespective Of How short Your skirt is. or how much cleavage Your tank top reveals.

truth be told, we can't just decide to wear Booty revealing clothes At 12 Mid9t, walking alone...With A mark on Our forehead screaming "YOU CAN'T RAPE ME EVEN IF I WALK AROUND NAKÈD" that's plain stupidity!

It's testing fate.
Although no one deserves rápe. there are ways to prevent it.

I Can't just leave my Phone in the library, bank or someplace Open and Not expect to have it get stolen. Of course It would get stolen. but then again, I could've prevented it. yes, The thief shouldn't have taken it. its not their business where i left it. Buh, honestly, I could've prevented it from getting stolen by Putting it in my purse, bag or something..
At the end, I'm the victim. the one who lost A phone. Why?
because I was careless, ignorant and somewhat nonchalant.

Wearing provocative clothes doesn't mean You deserve to be rapèd, but it makes one more vulnerable. hence, fuelling the Evil, Causing the Rapist to Rápe.

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