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Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by kpolli(m): 8:50pm On Mar 08, 2016
Inspinia:


I doubt it's because her friends are married. Most of her friends are single ladies. She is only 24.

Hmm, then maybe small girl is still worrying her.... My advice either call it off or put it on hold.... You're a prize, if she doesn't behave as if you're worth it... Then she isn't the one.....

Don't allow yourself be short changed because you're allowing your obsession in "having" her cause you a lifetime of bitterness
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Fearcom(m): 8:51pm On Mar 08, 2016
Inspinia:


If I knew what to do I would not have come here. And if you won't advise me why quote me? Why not just pass over the thread?

Love is blind. Marriage is the eye opener. Hell is married to the wrong person. Death is marriage to a violent and hot-tempered partner.
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by serege(m): 9:11pm On Mar 08, 2016
Na die u dey so o. Hw will u think of marrying a woman u cannot talk to. Someone who physically assaults u nd ur family. That is ur ticket to an early grave. Mark my words. I go dey pray 4 u sha
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by emenike22: 9:12pm On Mar 08, 2016
Poster continue loving her until she sends u to your grave na u sabi.......
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by butanep(m): 9:40pm On Mar 08, 2016
falseman:
I think of getting a Viper as a pet I know it's dangerous but I like it. I intend keeping it in my room to crawl around should I go ahead?
u make me laugh


That's the gospel truth
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by greatbrian(m): 9:41pm On Mar 08, 2016
Haha she wiped ur sister........and u r still asking what to do sorry to say d buh ur mum might be her next victim or slap or wipe with her level of aggression......bros hope dz not obsession sha. Anyway like the Chinese will say Be careful what u r wishing for plus run for ur live
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by dastudent(m): 9:53pm On Mar 08, 2016
Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is every-time she gets more angry and more violent.



I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me because if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She out-rightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out a lot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.

Bros, if you are not happy, walk away. I was close to saying that the fact that you never saw the aggression while chasing her is weird then i thought about just having a crush on someone, begging her and that being the only thing that you were focused on then.

Oga, you don't owe her nothing. A person's character is not defined by how flirty or virginised or no sex kini she is. The question you should ask yourself is simple "Are you willing to live the rest of your life in the bondage of a woman that clearly takes you for granted"...

If you leave her, yes she will cry into another man's arms cursing and telling him how all men are wicked (in another man's arms oo)


You said she works out because she is a model and basically, her beauty and hard ass hell body is very kinikan to slip out of your arms. Don't let that,pity and fear cloud your judgement.

A woman that does not respect you as much as you respect her is not worth wahala.

You better unchain yourself from this bondage right now by force before you get trapped for the rest of your life.

You know what to do. You are just too chicken to do it. Be a freaking man and tell her your terms and conditions. If she gets violent. Tell her that you have been bullied by her for far too long by her and that you are done.

Tell her that you still love her but her traits are leading you to depression and that it's not good for your health.

If it doesn't work out, look around for similar hot girls and make friends with them. I am sure you will find one that adores you.

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Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by dastudent(m): 9:54pm On Mar 08, 2016
kpolli:


Hmm, then maybe small girl is still worrying her.... My advice either call it off or put it on hold.... You're a prize, if she doesn't behave as if you're worth it... Then she isn't the one.....

Don't allow yourself be short changed because you're allowing your obsession in "having" her cause you a lifetime of bitterness

Oshey David Deangello.
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by DrTims(m): 10:05pm On Mar 08, 2016
Just forget that lady and move on. Simple
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Memyselfu2009(m): 10:08pm On Mar 08, 2016
Run for your life
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by mylove4him(f): 10:19pm On Mar 08, 2016
Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.
Run for your life or stay at your own peril. When you die like this man that recently passed on in Ibadan. Just remember to will me all your property. Mstchew
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by aspirebig: 10:54pm On Mar 08, 2016
The choice is yours.

You alone will live with the consequences of your choice, any which way.
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by bankybobo11: 11:01pm On Mar 08, 2016
onoslove:
Young man, listen to me, if all that you narrated here is the truth and nothing but the truth. And you came here indeed to see advice, then I Onoriode E, will advise you to run and don't bother looking back. I have friends that are temperamental as singles, believe me, when they got married nothing changed, in fact they became worse. If you do not want to die a premature death, stay off that girl. A word is not enough for the wise.

Thanks Missus Onoriode Eneregha
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by bankybobo11: 11:04pm On Mar 08, 2016
Inspinia:
Thank you all.

Please I beg you in the name of mighty God, the creator of the universe. My fellow nairalanders have said it all so no more
stories. Please don't go ahead
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by spirit88: 11:09pm On Mar 08, 2016
Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.



Huh? Did I hear u say love? You don't even know what it means to be a man talkless of a married man. U are a damn pussy. How can just an ordinary girl treat u like a shit? Are u disadvantaged or physically challenged? Or she from a rich background? Don't make the mistake. U will never be happy in ur life if u proceed to marry her. Awaken the man in you and grow up. Don't act like a slowpoke here.
Sorry I was harsh. U just got me angry
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by madgoat(m): 11:10pm On Mar 08, 2016
Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.


This is very nice to read. The OP knows what to do but he stills comes here to ask for advise.
I am patiently waiting for ur thread again after marriage on how ur wife beats u and ur family members up.
#sipping nescafe and crossing my legs kiss

On second thoughts, i hope it wont be ur graphic pictures on nairaland on how u were stabbed and killed by an aggressive wife. Oh well, we love graphic pictures on NL so go ahead and marry her. NairaLanders get ready for his graphic pictures! cry
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by tobodex(m): 11:11pm On Mar 08, 2016
Guy, them no dey blind man say rain dey fail o;
If the person you are yet to marry is trying to mistreat or mistreated your younger sister...hmmmmm

When you eventually marry na your parents go take the hit & blow o....

So shine your head not your eyes o
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by CeediPee(m): 11:14pm On Mar 08, 2016
If you go on with settling down with her. I think that you are digging your early grave.

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Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by madgoat(m): 11:17pm On Mar 08, 2016
ONILEIFA:
@Op dont come back here after you are dead oo, because we dont allow another planet people here i can smell it yes i can see you are dead unless you run away for that girl she gonna kill you she don't even love you as a boyfriend talk less of Husband to be. My ten kobo give me change abegi


Hahahahahaha the OP wey don already die grin
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Inspinia: 11:29pm On Mar 08, 2016
madgoat:



This is very nice to read. The OP knows what to do but he stills comes here to ask for advise.
I am patiently waiting for ur thread again after marriage on how ur wife beats u and ur family members up.
#sipping nescafe and crossing my legs kiss

On second thoughts, i hope it wont be ur graphic pictures on nairaland on how u were stabbed and killed by an aggressive wife. Oh well, we love graphic pictures on NL so go ahead and marry her. NairaLanders get ready for his graphic pictures! cry

Excuse me what's with you guys? I came here seeking for advise on how to repair my woman who is broken mentally not to hear 'run away', "the ibadan man" and so on..

The only sensible comment I have seen so far was the second one from strahovski. And I have tried what he asked me to do and I plan on updating him tomorrow.

This is someone I love unless she is dead I cannot be with another person knowing fully well that the one I really love since I was 6 years old is out there. Don't you get it? I did not pick her on the street she is not some girl I met at a club that I can just drop easily. Not so easy.

Indeed I see she is mentally broken and I'll fix it. Many of you don't know what it feels like to love someone for real. I was 12 when she donated blood for me back then. So I cannot just run away.

Thanks.
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by drmikeadams(m): 11:33pm On Mar 08, 2016
Inspinia:


If I knew what to do I would not have come here. And if you won't advise me why quote me? Why not just pass over the thread?
?..bro..u don't need an advice...better free that angry woman. Or u forgotten a lawyer killed her husband in Ibadan dis 2016
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by toksbisola: 11:34pm On Mar 08, 2016
@Op; during courtship is a time to decide whether you can tolerate your partners' attitude or not. If you know that you can’t endure a particular attitude during courtship, then address it there and then as it’ll only become worse when you marry.

Now let me give you some quotes below to ponder over; here we go;

When a relationship becomes one you are enduring; it’s time to take your leave
When a relationship becomes a violet one; it’s time to take your leave
When a relationship becomes a selfish one; it’s time to take your leave
When a relationship makes you unhappy; it’s time to take your leave
When you become afraid of your partner in a relationship; it's time to leave
When in a relationship and the apologies comes from only one side; it’s time to take your leave
When you walk on egg-shells in a relationship; it’s time to take your leave

Note my words above and I’ll say this finally that be sure to be married to someone who you see as one you can spend the rest of your life with in happiness, love and unity.

We are not perfect but we can still make adjustments in our attitude towards our fellow human.

I rest my case

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Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by drmikeadams(m): 11:35pm On Mar 08, 2016
Inspinia:


Excuse me what's with you guys? I came here seeking for advise on how to repair my woman who is broken mentally not to hear 'run away', "the ibadan man" and so on..

The only sensible comment I have seen so far was the second one from strahovski. And I have tried what he asked me to do and I plan on updating him tomorrow.

This is someone I love unless she is dead I cannot be with another person knowing fully well that the one I really love since I was 6 years old is out there. Don't you get it? I did not pick her on the street she is not some girl I met at a club that I can just drop easily. Not so easy.

Indeed I see she is mentally broken and I'll fix it. Many of you don't know what it feels like to love someone for real. I was 12 when she donated blood for me back then. So I cannot just run away.
...no vex please marry her ASAP....but no open another thread dis year seeking for help grin grin grin
Thanks.
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by humbleself242(m): 11:35pm On Mar 08, 2016
Yet u are still with her.......hmmmmmmmm I pity you ooooooooo
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by Inspinia: 11:48pm On Mar 08, 2016
drmikeadams:
.

Yes I won't open another thread if you guys can make reasonable comments. So a lady you encounter who has mental issues you just run away huh? If all guys run away...

Never mind... many of u don't even understand. U just hae friends with benefits called girlfriends who u can replace easily. So thanks. I'll pass
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by luvly101: 12:19am On Mar 09, 2016
akinszz:
I laff in bin ladin's voice*** oyinbo method. Person dey flog ur sister dem they prescribe yoga for solution. Are we in afganistan ni?

Sexy laugh wink
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by politicalpastor: 1:12am On Mar 09, 2016
And u still want to marry her? U are asking for your death sentence. In fact you are nothing but minus 20. What da Bleep. =Inspinia post=43580394]I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.[/quote]
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by dartsidius7(m): 3:55am On Mar 09, 2016
[size=17pt]Niqqa....... run for your life.[/size]
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by laraakin: 4:09am On Mar 09, 2016
Lmfao...i'm sorry but that story is pathetic. You have to be a man, like a real man. Show her you are in charge or else just let her go. Coz if she could hurt your sister in front of you. Then she can push your own mother down the stairs. You just have to choose wisely, do you want to be alive and happy in the next five years or do you want to die of HBP. She is not the right woman. Just let her go. She knows you are weak and she is utilising it. Everyone deserves happiness, you should find the one that makes you happy and feel like a man. Peace!!
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by stonecoldcafe: 6:09am On Mar 09, 2016
Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.

This is no love; be careful bro. Remember the lawyer's wife at Ibadan - he is in the grave as I type this. Please be very very careful. This your relationship has all the hallmark of a woman who will abuse her husband mercilessly. Be guided.
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by eitsei(m): 7:00am On Mar 09, 2016
Stupedinluv:
Marry her, she may change later.
lol.. As ur moniker suggests... Stuped in love... Marry her? So she can change after she might have killed her?
Re: My Fiancee Is Very Aggressive And Rude by mechanics(m): 7:51am On Mar 09, 2016
No sex til marriage is d best idea, its wrong to demand 4 it b4 marriage as a Christian, u need to respect her wish, if truelly she loves u she wil change and dont try to buy her love, work on urself and pray 4 her to change, God help u.

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