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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Jadekitana(f): 6:58pm On Mar 20, 2016
Code45:


Even if you come early, do you have anything sensible to contribute?

Are you crazy? What is your problem? Please don't insult my personality, I wasn't talking to you.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by yinkslinks(m): 6:58pm On Mar 20, 2016
Thanks bro. The Op is so stupid and useless. If you watch, she will still be single at 45. My neighbours gate man is married and has 4kids. So you telling me a gate man should wait until he gets rich from security job. Foolish woman and write up
Ioannes:
hilarious. so let me get this straight. rich dudes should marry BROKE girls?

yeah that sounds right...or NOT.

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 6:59pm On Mar 20, 2016
fbtowner:



dear can u please translate this to English. pleases. it must be very funny cheesy
'op, you go soon marry a yahoo boy or a ritualist (money)' cheesy embarassed
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by whytepawn1(m): 6:59pm On Mar 20, 2016
kaziblake:
I was 18yrs then, dating this guy thinking he like me,Had one admire then(stanley)stanley spoilt me with gift,still couldn't develop feelings for him.

Anytime Stanley buys gift or give me money,i will make sure I give chuks(my bf)part of it and keep the rest to myself.

Stanley Got me a phone,i gave it to chuks,Never knew the guy was going out with someone else,gave my gift and money I gave to him to her.
I was phoneless then but I gave him the phone outa love.
He betrayed me and I vowed to make him and other guys pay.
I Loved him so much,was crazy about him but now,my heart is loveless smiley.
I can't fall in love anymore and I enjoy making guys cry for me the way I cried for him smiley.
One guy wanted to break the jinx recently but I no gree grin
snap out of it young lady, the earlier the better.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by umehmj(m): 7:00pm On Mar 20, 2016
babadem2much:



You just made my day I swear LWKM
That's how we roll. grin

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by LockDown69(m): 7:00pm On Mar 20, 2016
They said I should come on Monday for the parcel. Thanks for your patience.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Jocdon(m): 7:00pm On Mar 20, 2016
All dis face me i face u girls self, una wahala too much.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by rosieluv(f): 7:00pm On Mar 20, 2016
then whu shud d rich gals marry OP?
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kaziblake(f): 7:01pm On Mar 20, 2016
whytepawn1:

snap out of it young lady, the earlier the better.
Nop,i won't.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Code45: 7:01pm On Mar 20, 2016
Jadekitana:


Are you crazy? What is your problem? Please don't insult my personality, I wasn't talking to you.

You are plain stúpid, bítch!
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by sirwisy2580: 7:02pm On Mar 20, 2016
Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

Pls forgive me if I must offend u here, UR so called opinion is MARGINAL n SELFISH. POVERTY is NEVER the ABSENT of NECESSITIES but AN INFORMED STATE OF MIND. I CALL IT A GROSS MENTAL ATTITUDE.
I am not judgemental but I have to tell u that people like u need to change their mind set. if u must enjoy marriage u must not b a liability to the man but an asset. NOTE, the " THIN" under ur skirt is not an asset. IF u think that us what u have to offer to ur man then I am please to that it is now one of the cheapest service a guy can get even married folk.@ # 300for short time n #1000 till dawn! Some even give credit facilities to their regular client. u can confirm it o oo.
let me ask u, HV u not see " I was once a rich ".people? y do u think that make their riches story?...
my marry for LOVE oo oo n don't b selfish

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by August17(m): 7:03pm On Mar 20, 2016
kaziblake:
Nop,i won't.
. You won't enjoy it on a long run...
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by olakrim(m): 7:04pm On Mar 20, 2016
Wetin! Wetin!! Wetin sef!!!!
Na one post say when we go start to dey look fit with packs,u sef come again say make we no marry/date if we no get car and house.
Make una kuku dey draw us!
Infact kuku ma kill us,kill us!
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 7:04pm On Mar 20, 2016
Vinshu:


Yes. True. I agree
babe!, bt seriously i wanted to comment on dis ur thread bt i decided to see a movie first(london has fallen) so now i can air my view concerning dis mata.

Am a girl and wouldn't marry any man jst because he has a car and money. Reasons being that.

1) there are lots of arm robbers, militants, cultist, etc, out there wit lots of money and good cars.

2) I would rather marry a guy wit a promising future and cars n money will DEFINATELY come.

#be careful of what you wish for.

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by dapsycool(m): 7:05pm On Mar 20, 2016
Nigerians. She is from a poverty striken European country called Lithuania. Many people from her country are prostitutes at the red light district in Amsterdam. She's white and from Europe doesn't mean jack. People from the Baltic countries are called "white niggers" because they have white skin but they still live like "niggers"

I am only sorry for my Nigerian daughters listening to this "joke"

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by vega84(m): 7:08pm On Mar 20, 2016
Dear op,i hav this quizz fr u, u said what u enjoy as a single lady u can't enjoy as a married woman right? Hw exactly do u enjoy what ever as a single lady and yet can't enjoy it as a married woman? Ur type doesn't deserve any man whether poor nor rich, u dnt even deserve a brother u st.upid punk! Na ur type de lead innocent guys to their early Graves! Foolish gold digger! #vegatalks
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Dynamite02: 7:08pm On Mar 20, 2016
lapazi:
I bet ur pops built a house and bought cars before marrying ur mum. i dont knw where dis dumbness is coming from, but yet again i cant really judge u- it only shows the level ur thinking. what ever happend to the idealogy of a humble begining?
But do you know that in the name of " a humble beginning", a very high percentage of people would just sit down and do noting? The time of pops and mum they willingly made those sacrifices because the end result was worth it, not now that greed and selfcenterdness has advanced from bad to worse.
Just imagine... in the name of love and "the future is bright", a lady decides to take care of marriage expenses,it is the same lady that would squeeze the money for bride price into the mans hand on the d-day. (No shame at all).... Such a lady should be ready to feed that man and carry the load of that family esp when they start having kids. ( True story,them plenty and its disgusting)
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by JoeCutie(m): 7:09pm On Mar 20, 2016
kaziblake:
I was 18yrs then, dating this guy thinking he like me,Had one admire then(stanley)stanley spoilt me with gift,still couldn't develop feelings for him.

Anytime Stanley buys gift or give me money,i will make sure I give chuks(my bf)part of it and keep the rest to myself.

Stanley Got me a phone,i gave it to chuks,Never knew the guy was going out with someone else,gave my gift and money I gave to him to her.
I was phoneless then but I gave him the phone outa love.
He betrayed me and I vowed to make him and other guys pay.
I Loved him so much,was crazy about him but now,my heart is loveless smiley.
I can't fall in love anymore and I enjoy making guys cry for me the way I cried for him smiley.
One guy wanted to break the jinx recently but I no gree grin
You're funnier than I thought, Kazi. cheesy

Well, I'd have said something, but I'm afraid, it'd damage your résumé, and I wouldn't want that. So I'd let you take the win. Enjoy!
wink grin
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by whytepawn1(m): 7:09pm On Mar 20, 2016
kaziblake:
Nop,i won't.
Good for you
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by eightsin(m): 7:09pm On Mar 20, 2016
This op want to kill my dream of settling down next year. It will not work.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by CosmicJames(m): 7:09pm On Mar 20, 2016
redwriter:


Or Nothing. Take a hike brother. The lady doesn't have to prove anything to you.
Sis, why u dey follow me naa? Are u trying to defend the op? She open this kind thread finish and claimed her dad bought a car and built a house to defend her opinion and you are here saying she has nothing to prove to me? Abeg allow the op to prove her opinion by providing the pictures. Don't tell me u are a bussy body. At least I didn't quote u.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by GeniusDavid(m): 7:10pm On Mar 20, 2016
This Thread is Criminal.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kojusoluwa7(m): 7:10pm On Mar 20, 2016
Specialbaby:
Majority of those who will dispute this well articulated thread are broke guys who don't want to get their hands dirty!



Why date or marry when you are not financially stable only to belive in better days ahead??it just crazy!!
mura si, na ur papa house u go old, u wey still dey look God face since december. U no need answer guy too if dem ask u out if u never get a room if u staying in ur parents house at ur age
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 7:10pm On Mar 20, 2016
MrsPhyno:
Will such theories stop the inevitable? Poor people marry and rich people marry and nothing will ever change that.



That surmises everything... and it's just the way things will continue to be.

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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by byvan03: 7:10pm On Mar 20, 2016
What type of rubbish talk is this? A car and a house really? How many cars and houses will you bring into the marriage? Well, I pity the young girls that will take this gold digging 101 post seriously.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by frakdon(m): 7:10pm On Mar 20, 2016
Monalisa185:


you be agama lizard? tonguetonguetongue
of course, nwoke ka'm bu,smiles.....by the way you made some priceless sense there..
How much would it cost me to acquire?

But I hope that you do practice, what you preach....? Eyebrows!
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by AXYZ: 7:11pm On Mar 20, 2016
Specialbaby:
it better to remain single than marry a liability as a husband!




Not all that glitters is gold and not all that dulls is mud
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by sagir1994(m): 7:11pm On Mar 20, 2016
that somebody is rich is a clear indication that others will surely be... I advice any dude that gets at lease #5000 a week to marry quickly and reduce the level of Bastards around the city.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kaziblake(f): 7:11pm On Mar 20, 2016
JoeCutie:
You're funnier than I thought, Kazi. cheesy

Well, I'd have said something, but I'm afraid, it'd damage your résumé, and I wouldn't want that. So I'd let you take the win. Enjoy!
wink grin
And you.
Thanks smiley
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by ndkay: 7:12pm On Mar 20, 2016
The person who wrote this is either NOT married or NOT planning to marry or NOT enjoying his/her marriage!!!

Please STOP posting such in this forum. If God has helped you, allow others to be helped by God.

One of my brother had nutin when he got married, and in less than two years, he is wealthier than you can be in your life time!!!!!!!

He is a man of vision and walked towards to and also found a woman THAT BELIEVED in him, even when he had nutin!

My friend, please delete this your thread.....it's error.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by kaziblake(f): 7:12pm On Mar 20, 2016
whytepawn1:

Good for you
Thank you.
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Nobody: 7:12pm On Mar 20, 2016
Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

You are just an ignorant girl who knows nothing.why would he take her out of her parents house?.pleae can I ask you a question..Define marriage!!. .Now u have..If I am very poor and meet you.will I force you to marry me will I Point a gun at your face and force you to marry me or I'll shoot you..since I dont and won't. Why would you accept?don't you know am poor.that question u ask people.and not talking rubbish here.and now they say pass equality budget for women and men to be same?why so?because in an environment like this..things have changed. Now women go to school.they don't stay in the kitchen no more.So if you happen to go to school as a woman and u don't make it then u are a failure because you have been given equal opportunity as the men.Why won't you make it.why won't you be rich..laments on laments..bringing child into the world to suffer..is it not something discussed between the couple.if one refuse nko? It your type that depend on their boyfriend for everything very dependent people . go to America or even ukraine I did my medicine..girls or women have house and live..they work and make money.come to Nigeria. They talk rubbish like you.one of them..



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