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Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by MycoleA(m): 1:00pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
brake up abi accelerate up |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by Sunkyphil(m): 1:03pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
u can't but money with love its obvious she doesn't love from start she was after ur money |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by MaiHD: 1:05pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Sunkyphil: Most of the time while I was spending years back she always complained. Even returned some of my gifts. And threatened to call it off if I continued. I thought she was only playing pranks so i continued till now |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by Wallade(m): 1:09pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Shop for another lady, you will get a lot that want your money |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:10pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
A girl with my mindset Your time with me the hugs warm gestures the cuddles is worth more dan d most expensive gift to me i cant wrap around my head to date nd b collecting gifts money no attention Seee give me love save ur cash 100% |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by queenfav(f): 1:10pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
MaiHD:leave that gist,she had already checked out of the relationship long ago, was just hanging on till something flimsy comes up that would be a perfect excuse to break up.No matter how much a woman makes,she would still appreciate a man that can get her nice gifts once in a while. My boss is married to a lawyer,she is wealthy and well travelled, yet she still calls my boss to order her domino pizza of 3k and pay for her nails sef.So bros,she doesn't really like u,else what u hv just narrated is not enough for all her many drama.Irony of life bro,we tend to love those who dont give even 2 f**ks abt us. |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:15pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
ettaetta: Excuse me? Some men as long as dey start spending on u dont give a damn bou ow u feel dey dont or wont care bou ow ur day went or why u feel jealous blah blah blah Op is now sounding like a caring guy because d girl left him sometimes break ups always reset people's mind nd dey realise their mistakes Op prolly didnt giv d girl attention nd all Op shd b grateful other women will b ready to make him penniless nd broke before dey leave him |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by ireneony(f): 1:15pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
MaiHD:trust me it's not the end of the world. Never wait for someone to love you. ..the more you love yourself the happier you become! A time will come wen you remember the past and thank God for not marrying her. There is someone out there #your real soumate The best way for you to overcome this pain is for you to cry ur heart out once and for all cos wen you try to form baddo the pain will still remain there. The next 5-6months you will be surprised how fast you moved on. Take your time, don't be in haste to start another relationship, instead use this time to reflect on yourself (work on yourself) and want you really want in a relationship. Don't ever lower your value to please a someone. Remember no one is perfect |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by queenfav(f): 1:17pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
ireneony:GBAM!Barman,give her one andre brut..Its on me! |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:22pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Exactly wat i tell people If i wanna date for money A SUGAR DADDY IS ALL I NEED I need a relationship based on a deep emotional level |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:24pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
BumBae: For her to reject the gifts means she is independent Being independent doesnt mean u av to get a job It simply means u are contended with wat u av several many working class ladies with good pay still sleeps with guys for money |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:27pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Chanchit: They are every where such babes but are usually d less attractive or the most craziest ones U av to go close to know them |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by Sunkyphil(m): 1:27pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
MaiHD:it obvious she doesn't love u just move on u will find someone beta |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:29pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Cutehector: Guys that spends on ladies hardly listen o They feel i take care of ur needs im d one with d cool cash u d one to recieve so i do u watch i talk u listen The ladies always end up feeling not good enof for them op tinks d girl is happy to break up bt she feels sumone else is gettin ur affection |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:31pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
tommychow: So glad d 1% of ladies dat reason like her still exist If i ever end up with a rich guy who shows no affection im prolly doing it to secure my kids future But if he shows affection on a deep emotional level im with him cos i deeply love him |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:31pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
tommychow: So glad d 1% of ladies dat reason like her still exist If i evet end up with a rich guy who shows no affection im prolly doing it to secure my future kids But if he shows affection on a deep emotional level im with him cos i deeply love him |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:33pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
MaiHD: You hear but u dont listen |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:33pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
MaiHD: You hear but u dont listen. |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by Nobody: 1:35pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
queenfav:I thought as much, not that there are no decent ladies out there who care a little less about material things, but this one is a little dramatic to be what it is. |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by Nobody: 1:36pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
She's a little more emotionally matured than you are. |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:38pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
queenfav: Listen to me some guys just spend no affection not ready to listen or giv room for d ladies to pour out their minds if d ladies get jealous its war if d ladies are too clingy its war Why do u tink op is still hanging on nd needs her he has realised his mistakes Ur boss prolly knos his wife doesnt need mch yet ask its cos THEY ARE MARRIED THE WIFE HAS GOT TO BE SUBMISSIVE NO MATTER THE AMOUNT SHE EATNS SHE HAS GOT TO DEMAND FROM HER HUBBY IF SHE DOESNT ASK HET HUBBY WONT FEEL MAN ENOUGH ALAKIJA WILL STILL HAVE TO DEMAND MONEY FROM HER HUBBY TO SHOW SUBMISSION we are talkin bou relationship here a stage where all things are to b kept in place to proceed to marriage |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by queenfav(f): 1:40pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
blueseacats:Yes na,op berra talk to e leg o,before e die ontop woman matter.I am an advocate of “me first ”.If you have to convince someone to be with you,you are on a loooong thing! |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:41pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
blueseacats: My thought bou the said girl Every one now blames d lady no one has heard d girls part of d story |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by queenfav(f): 1:48pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
halfricanadian:My dear, whether relationship/marriage,same principles apply in most cases.I used to think that way before,i dont ask for help from my man,i dey form superwoman. It got to a point he took it for granted,cos he believed i would find a way around whatever challenges i was facing. Therefore,he would act unconcerned and won't even bother to know i sorted myself out eventually.I am not saying that a woman should turn a man into a breathing ATM,but please learn to be a woman. Men deep down dislike strong independent women.A guy told me recently “you dont even give a man the opportunity to feel needed. ”Men love to feel like your hero,like they have achieved the 8th wonder of the world,let them go on an ego trip pls.“Miss independent,i don't ask a man for anything ,i just need love etc"nai many women take turn to breadwinner in their matrimonial homes.They have babied the guy to a point that he sees himself as a woman,and has no drive to succeed.Weeks back i read a story on family section,abt a lady who funded a greater part of her wedding,even went on to be footing all d bills of the home till date.She is now pregnant,d husband (or wife sef) joins her sleeping at home,with no plan whatsoever towards the coming of their baby and other expenses.I am all for spending on me,making my own money and not waiting for a man to come save me;but if a man wants to do nice things for me,why should i discourage him..maka why?am i the winch doing myself? |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 1:53pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
queenfav: Yes i kno But do u kno just little affection op will show this girl Nd she will take op as her everlasting hero No body was created d same not even twins looking at their finger prints u will kno twins aint d same So wat im saying is she never said op dont spend She demanded for a teddy ryt? Meaning she appreciates op's effort But she is d deep emotional type well in cases like dis emotional girls bliv Wen we get d money anoda girl is getting d love Nd wen we get d love anoda girl is getting d money op's gf has my mindset cases like dis op let her know u care a deep emotions towards her once a while wont kill u will it op? |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by Nobody: 1:53pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Some are dying to get the gifts |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by Nobody: 1:56pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Several ! is that what they do?... Well i wont know ... Dont have cctv watching every working class lady or unemployed lady .. Just going by wt op stated excluding the working part . N his satisfied with my response ... bottom line she aint the one |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by Nobody: 1:57pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Angelberry:Lol abi oh ... The funny thing us the grass aint always greener on the other side .. Perfection is very rare .. Compromise getting hard these days ... |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by queenfav(f): 1:58pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
halfricanadian:My dear,i understand you.Let me close on the note that i am more pragmatic than romantic. I am realistic to a fault, so i don't subscribe to all this plenty emotions talk.Who emotions don help?Maybe my profession and upbringing over toughened me sha.Marriage is not about, i love you and emotions.A lot has to be put in place,trust me on that..Love is not enough.Infact,you can marry a man you feel nothing for,but because you both know what to do,and are committed to playing your individual roles to ensure your marriage works out,you may celebrate 50 yrs together.How did most of our parents marry way back,who even know wetin love be then?Emotions becloud sound judgement, there's more to life than gazing into each other's eyes abeg. |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by Nobody: 2:00pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
queenfav:True key word ( Appreciation) Thats what im trying to say she never liked him the way he thought she did ... Hence why she left when she felt she was ready .. Some chics do that diesnt mean she didnt care once but .... There are plenty that will thank god seff you even remember say she dey alive let alone relationship with her .. Vice versa |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 2:02pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
BumBae: Ok o |
Re: Help!! My Fiancee Wants To Brake Up With Me Because I Spend Money On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 2:03pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
queenfav: I choose ro b romantic dan pragmatic wen im in a relationship Cos im an extremist if i wanna b nice im going to b nice to d extreme If i wana b crazy to d extreme So u see if i say i shd use my head to date a guy my dear i will hit meno pause nd still b single u kno why i will take it to d extreme So i rada b so romantic nd need his attention badly |
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