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Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs

I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......


Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).

Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.

After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......

She's just been fruustrating my life.

One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.

Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.

Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".

I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...


I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........


Pls advise me.

Do you need a sledgehammer to break up with her?


she is preying on you man.

Your story no get head.

Next pls....

agarawu23:
Your story no get head.

Next pls....

Thanks, but you should have just moved on without typing anything, but still Thnks

I now believe that the tngly feeling you get when you meet your gf/bf is common sense leaving your body, else I don't see the reason the op has failed to see what's going on.

Someone is proudly cheating on you and rubbing it on your face like a foreign cream and you're here talking love? Who love don help?

Ok here's what happened. She refused to date you initially because she has a man but they had a little misunderstanding in the long run, that was when she accepted to date you(temporarily).

They're back together now and your contract/tenure has expired so shovel your ass into your boxers and move on.



Investing emotionally in a relationship with some people is a waste.

She is done with the relationship and seeking greener pastures elsewhere.

.mehn! Never stay with someone that doesnt deserve you,just breakup she is not worth it if she loves you like you love her she will come back,the love is one sided love yourself more bro...there are many fishes in the river.

JESUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
ABEG MK UNA HELP ME ASK OP WHICH KIND ADVICE HIM NEED AGAIN??
SHE DON GIVE U TOUCH AND FOLLOW NI?
ahhh ahhhh....THIS ONE IS BLIND

Hmmmmmm....That girl is greedy and mean!!.

OP, it's cus u are giving her attention. Ignore her completely for One month and watch her emaciate.

JESUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
ABEG MK UNA HELP ME ASK OP WHICH KIND ADVICE HIM NEED AGAIN??
SHE DON GIVE U TOUCH AND FOLLOW NI?
ahhh ahhhh....THIS ONE IS BLIND

...

Bro,take hrt I unstnd,jus leav her,if she's Urs she will come back ,but 4real she doesn't deserve u, som ladies can b so annoying ,most of dem get fish brain

Guy you are just infatuated with the girl. She has been keeping you as a side guy in case the white guy dissappoint her. Now maybe the main Man is now serious and it is time to do away with side Nigger. Dust yourself up from your infatuation and move on.

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she neither respect your nor your feelings... talk to her.. ask her if she still wants you and do the needful.

Varagous:
she doesn't respect your nor your feelings... talk to her.. ask her if she doesn't want you anymore.. and do the needful.

no need to ask her.
dump her ass asap.

Didn't read your story


but, just dump her sorry ass, who cares

Hehehehe Op is still a very fragile somborri
Please learn how and when to let go especially where u are grossly disrespected.
In this case, calling off the relationship officially sef is you being very gentle. Move on already.

Damn! I hate to read stories about weaklings. It freaks me out!
Op has very deep inferiority complex. Why would sane guy chase after a lady for a year in the first place? The same time and energy that could have been invested into something productive.
Jeez...Why do we have sissies in this world?
I don't ask her a lady out twice talk more of chasing after her like she's some achievements. Mtxheew.
Op, slap yourself and wake up from ur foolishness

Ok... It seems common sense has eluded you and her. On a serious note, man up. Obviously, she is being worked on by the white dude. if you love and know her as you claim, work on her too with grace and style. If she's yours she will return....

Tommfrench:
Didn't read your story



but, just dump her sorry ass, who cares

Y nt Read d story?cus she already dump op,

Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs

I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......


Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).

Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.

After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......

She's just been fruustrating my life.

One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.

Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.

Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".

I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...


I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........


Pls advise me.

You need jesus bro...

You is unwise...

a relationship without GOD involved will end up "flushed" down the toilet

You may as well buy a saddle cos u r the horse she's riding to wherever she is going

Michellla:
When a girl is no longer interested in a relationship she doesn't want to
be the one to end it. But even when she is
already made the decision to break it up, she will take some time to give you some signs to prepare you, before she tells you. This is time to take a look at your relationship.
1. This is probably the most subtle
sign of all_her life has become too hectic. She hasn't picked up the phone for a few days and when she does, she is busy and pretending that she doesn't have time to met you.
2.she's snapping at his house and wearing his cap.
3.she uploaded a picture of both their hands together.
Doesnt take a prophet to tell you she has moved on

Stay blessed !!! Well said ..

derrick333:
Y nt Read d story?cus she already dump op,

oh...now I get


I bet, while op still waits, her next upload will be her trad pix

You built your life around her while she has built her in another. Please try to give yourself a break.