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jewelofafrica:
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@OP you obviously have no respect for peoples parents, can you call her dad and boldly tell him you are shagging his daughter for free? No drink talkless of bride price! Secondly, are u equating the few naira spent/to be spent on a girl within the short period you known her, with the lifelong expenses and sacrifices her father has made? What if she no get papa? And her mama na both father n mother ( 2 in 1), its ok to get free sex without bride price but its not ok to give her expensive phone. Oleè go and born your own daughter and dash her to awon boys as girlfriend. See future fathers na... mtcheeew smh.

HomesOfLife:
Let's look at it this way...

The first thing most guys see in a lady is their ability to quench their primary "need" which at that moment is sex (some go as far as undressing her in their minds); while instinctively, the first thing on a Lady's mind are her needs too. This could be in form of cash or material things; such things that every successful man is "meant to" have or afford.
Thus, if you must require that an innocent lady quenched your pressing need(which is sex) and make you happy, you should be responsible enough to make her happy. My brother [size=15pt]"akagum is a sin"[/size], change your way.

prettythicksme:
U b mad guy oo,i swear some guys do more dan dat for their babe.I dont need to work dear,magas dey plenty for me!mumu oshi

Gpopsicle:
not all ladies wud agree to ds test. let's b frank

jewelofafrica:
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A prostitute is better than a girl sleeping with you for nothing, in the name of " lets see where the relationship is going to" lies from the pit of h**l after she don date plenty guys finish, una go begin count am for head, plenty bf's, olosho, loose woman, donatus, free giver etc.
Ladies, please close your legs o! Stop giving all this irresponsible guys free sex but if you can't zip up then, sell it! On OLX

Kingsasian:
Why ask a lady out when you know you are not financially buoyant?
Before you ask a lady out, you no dey assess or check her out first whether you dey her class? Lol

prettythicksme:
Mtchewwww broke ass nigga!

jewelofafrica:
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A prostitute is better than a girl sleeping with you for nothing, in the name of " lets see where the relationship is going to" lies from the pit of h**l after she don date plenty guys finish, una go begin count am for head, plenty bf's, olosho, loose woman, donatus, free giver etc.
Ladies, please close your legs o! Stop giving all this irresponsible guys free sex but if you can't zip up then, sell it! On OLX

Kingsasian:
Why ask a lady out when you know you are not financially buoyant?
Before you ask a lady out, you no dey assess or check her out first whether you dey her class? Lol

Kingsasian:
Why ask a lady out when you know you are not financially buoyant?
Before you ask a lady out, you no dey assess or check her out first whether you dey her class? Lol

firstking01:
No forget to spread legs too

prettythicksme:
Ode nie if u cant call ur mother wen u need sex,den ur r a bastard

prettythicksme:
Mtchewwww broke ass nigga!

schumastic:
yesterday

adepeter26:
Op dae vex lol

wickedworld:
God bless u, when it come to money for the girls to mintain her self most guys will raised eye brow but talk of free sex with different style they love it. Very simple as a guy if u can't support or maintain ur babe go look for prostitute u might get it free or better pick ur youthful looking sister trust me u will get it for free

wickedworld:
God bless u, when it come to money for the girls to mintain her self most guys will raised eye brow but talk of free sex with different style they love it. Very simple as a guy if u can't support or maintain ur babe go look for prostitute u might get it free or better pick ur youthful looking sister trust me u will get it for free

Kingsasian:
Why ask a lady out when you know you are not financially buoyant?
Before you ask a lady out, you no dey assess or check her out first whether you dey her class? Lol

bloodyBLOGGER:
guys like you are the reason why girls take guys for fools.

What's a class and who put her there? Just cos she has a wide mouth for expensive things that she can't work for doesn't mean she has class. Classy ladies buy those things themselves and are never leaches.

Being financially buoyant shouldn't mean a girl should dump unnecessary responsibilities on you. Do you know that 50k is what some married men with kids earn per month? Yet, you want a guy to spend it on a girl just like that.

What does he get in return?

prettythicksme:
Mtchewwww broke ass nigga!

HomesOfLife:
Let's look at it this way...

The first thing most guys see in a lady is their ability to quench their primary "need" which at that moment is sex (some go as far as undressing her in their minds); while instinctively, the first thing on a Lady's mind are her needs too. This could be in form of cash or material things; such things that every successful man is "meant to" have or afford.
Thus, if you must require that an innocent lady quenched your pressing need(which is sex) and make you happy, you should be responsible enough to make her happy. My brother [size=15pt]"akagum is a sin"[/size], change your way.

LOGICALKEN:
LMAO. I LOVE NAIRALAND

prettythicksme:
Ode nie if u cant call ur mother wen u need sex,den ur r a bastard

Orkpekyandega:
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Now go and Sin no more. Your confession is timely!!!

Some graduates spent most of their pocket money on girls, throwing parties here and there. Upon graduation, they now find out there is no work that will earn them half of what they larvished on girls. The money they should have used to start up something.

If I may ask, what is the essence of throwing parties of N50K, N80, N100K, .... When such amounts would have been reasonable enough to even start up a business or even initiate and pursue to a large extent "business registration or incorporation in Nigeria?"

instead of using their hard earned money to prepare for a better future, they larvished it on girls who will never remember them when they finally marry their dream husband.

The worst of it all is that, some useless dudes would go to the extent of extorting money from their parents, uncles, anties,..... Just to impress useless ash holes. When such monies should have been used to train their youngers ones and give them a beautiful future.

To all those heartless girls calling the op "broke", it is my prayer that you will one day marry a husband who will not be "broke and stingy" but squander all of his earnings on side cheeks. And if you are not yet married, I pray that the good Lord bless you with children who will one day milk you and the entire family dry by squandering your money on "runz girls"

Sonofananimal its been a while.
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bloodyBLOGGER:
The mentality of naija girls now is that a guy must become their meal ticket. Once they finally say yes to his toastings, they start dumping

When you find yourself in that kind of situation, put her through this test:

Let's say she wants you to buy a Samsung phone worth 50k for her. When she comes to your place uttering such demand, tell her you will give her the money right away but on one condition- she has to call her father on phone and place it on loud speaker in your presence.

Tell her to tell her father that she wants him to buy her a phone. Listen to the man's reaction. If the old man is not in tune with the latest gadgets going on in today's world, he might agree to get her one.

If the man agrees to buy her a phone thinking it's a Nokia 3310 she wants, tell her to tell him the price which is 50k. The man's reaction will most definitely startle you to laughter . He will definitely get angry at such demand and make his point clear that he can't afford to spend on such frivolity except he's dangote. He might even tell her to remember the humble background she's from.


What's the point of the test?

Why should she dump that kind of responsibility on a struggling guy like you, a responsibility that a mature and salary earner his afraid of bagging?

You will be stupid to foot such bill if you do not have huge savings in an account. Don't you even have a mother, a sister or a relative to lavish on? These are the people who will always remember you for such gesture, not some silly girl who thinks 50k grows on trees. That 50k might be bigger than the amount her father collects as pension from the government. Yet, she wants you to spend it on a phone that will run out of trend when the new model drops. With the rate of unemployment in the country, graduates are willing to kill to get a job that pays 30k. Yet, some undergraduate is spending way more than that just to impress a girl who is probably already eyeing another guy.

Try to apply wisdom in ever thing you do. Stop accepting responsibilities their fathers can't shoulder. The worst is that their demands are silly material things of no real value. Accepting such stupidity is one of the reasons why some guys never make it in life.


I know some female readers on this thread might be like... "lamentations of a broke dude".

Guess what? Your father is also a broke dude if you can't call him on phone to tell him to buy you a phone worth 50k.



Pick up the phone and call your father now




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some people on this thread who couldn't stomach the point have resorted to saying such a guy should go meet his mother for sex when he is Hot. I wonder why a sane person would suggest that.

When a guy needs sex, he can get it from his girlfriend. This doesn't give her the right to lay unnecessary heavy bills on him. Remember, he is also giving her sex. Well, except she is a prostitute, she doesn't have any right to use sex as a means to an end.

driy65:
bros true talk m.planing takin ma bae out and the estimate is abt 25k...if i shud remuv 25k from ma acct nw bros i nor sure say d one wen remain go reach 25 sef and m.currently unemployed jst finished service n d funny thing is d gal hasnt even accepted ma proposal yet...she's still thinking...abeg bros i nid ur advice