adepeter26:
Op dae vex lol

adepeter26:
Op dae vex lol

bloodyBLOGGER:
baba, I fall maga one time ni o!

I remember a girl I dated for 3yrs. In the 3rd year, she started complaining that I was too stingy and sheet. This made me to squeeze 10k out of my pocket to give to her hoping it will make her happy. I was still a student then. After sending the money into her account, I never got a thank you call from her. I even thought maybe I sent it into a wrong account number that's why she hasn't called to at least acknowledge that she got it. By evening, I called her but she refused to pick my multiple calls even till the 3rd day.


When she eventually picked, she was like... "is it because of ordinary 10k that you have been bugging my phone?...is that the amount your mates give to their girlfriends?" I was just a student then o

I was dumbfounded. if I tell you the shege wey I show the babe later ehn...till today she still dey cry.

You mumu no be small.

Kingsasian:
Why ask a lady out when you know you are not financially buoyant?
Before you ask a lady out, you no dey assess or check her out first whether you dey her class? Lol

icedbeatz:
when did we get to monitizing pussyyy? Her pussi worths 50k? Thats why a G have to realize that no girl is doing favour being in a relationship, kick her off if she thinks so but do what you can to make your lady happy because you want to and not because you don't want to loose her or that she coerced you to. Is her pussii worth 50k? I guess not. Is she not going to enjoy the sex too or even more? Nigga please

bloodyBLOGGER:
guys like you are the reason why girls take guys for fools.

What's a class and who put her there? Just cos she has a wide mouth for expensive things that she can't work for doesn't mean she has class. Classy ladies buy those things themselves and are never leaches.

Being financially buoyant shouldn't mean a girl should dump unnecessary responsibilities on you. Do you know that 50k is what some married men with kids earn per month? Yet, you want a guy to spend it on a girl just like that.

What does he get in return?

cruzita:
can't comment now , still in church

prettythicksme:
Mtchewwww broke ass nigga!

prettythicksme:
Ode nie if u cant call ur mother wen u need sex,den ur r a bastard

bloodyBLOGGER:


if you can't call your father to buy you something that expensive, then he's also a broke and niggah

bloodyBLOGGER:
The mentality of naija girls now is that a guy must become their meal ticket. Once they finally say yes to his toastings, they start dumping responsibilities in tune of huge amounts on the guy's head even when they know he's not capable of sorting such.

When you find yourself in that kind of situation, put her through this test:

Let's say she wants you to buy a Samsung phone worth 50k for her. When she comes to your place uttering such demand, tell her you will give her the money right away but on one condition- she has to call her father on phone and place it on loud speaker in your presence.

Tell her to tell her father that she wants him to buy her a phone. Listen to the man's reaction. If the old man is not in tune with the latest gadgets going on in today's world, he might agree to get her one.

If the man agrees to buy her a phone thinking it's a Nokia 3310 she wants, tell her to tell him the price which is 50k. The man's reaction will most definitely startle you to laughter . He will definitely get angry at such demand and make his point clear that he can't afford to spend on such frivolity except he's dangote. He might even tell her to remember the humble background she's from.


What's the point of the test?

Why should she dump that kind of responsibility on a struggling guy like you, a responsibility that a mature and salary earner his afraid of bagging?

You will be stupid to foot such bill if you do not have huge savings in an account. Don't you even have a mother, a sister or a relative to lavish on? These are the people who will always remember you for such gesture, not some silly girl who thinks 50k grows on trees. That 50k might be bigger than the amount her father collects as pension from the government. Yet, she wants you to spend it on a phone that will run out of trend when the new model drops. With the rate of unemployment in the country, graduates are willing to kill to get a job that pays 30k. Yet, some undergraduate is spending way more than that just to impress a girl who is probably already eyeing another guy.

Try to apply wisdom in ever thing you do. Stop accepting responsibilities their fathers can't shoulder. The worst is that their demands are silly material things of no real value. Accepting such stupidity is one of the reasons why some guys never make it in life.


I know some female readers on this thread might be like... "lamentations of a broke dude".

Guess what? Your father is also a broke dude if you can't call him on phone to tell him to buy you a phone worth 50k.



Pick up the phone and call your father now

prettythicksme:
Ode nie if u cant call ur mother wen u need sex,den ur r a bastard

midolian:
And when you need sex from her, she asks you put a call through to your mother and put it on speaker...



Lalasticlala, happy easter celebration.

Kingsasian:
Why ask a lady out when you know you are not financially buoyant?
Before you ask a lady out, you no dey assess or check her out first whether you dey her class? Lol

joseph1832:
On the contrary bro, with 50k you will definitely get a chic who is ten times finer than her. If you know what I mean

midolian:
And when you need sex from her, she asks you put a call through to your mother and put it on speaker...


Lalasticlala, happy easter celebration.

midolian:
I totally agree with you.....Just trying to say the OP's stunt is childish.

prettythicksme:
Mtchewwww broke ass nigga!