bloodyBLOGGER:
keep your money in your account cos you going to need it for transportation during job search. Shebi u just finished NYSC?

spending it on her will be something you will later regret.

jworos:
LolzZz, Op Na bad guy

Deejacy2:
Lol Iffa hear

driy65:
bros true talk m.planing takin ma bae out and the estimate is abt 25k...if i shud remuv 25k from ma acct nw bros i nor sure say d one wen remain go reach 25 sef and m.currently unemployed jst finished service n d funny thing is d gal hasnt even accepted ma proposal yet...she's still thinking...abeg bros i nid ur advice

Kingsasian:
Why ask a lady out when you know you are not financially buoyant?
Before you ask a lady out, you no dey assess or check her out first whether you dey her class? Lol

vizkiz:


You mumu no be small.

machi25:
responsible and hard working girls, do not have time to make such demands from a guy instead the guy demands from them. GIRLS PLS WAKE UP AND STOP MAKING YOURSELVES SO CHEAP. hard work pays off ooo

some people on this thread who couldn't stomach the point have resorted to saying such a guy should go meet his mother for sex when hea

When a guy needs sex, he can get it from his girlfriend. This doesn't give her the right to lay unnecessary heavy bills on him. Remember, he is also giving her sex. Well, except she

I get so disappointed when I see how disobedient we are towards God's instructions. how can you be comfortable having sex with someone you ain't married to yet? even though we clearly know how much God despises it? may God have mercy upon us especially in this end time

bloodyBLOGGER:
The mentality of naija girls now is that a guy must become their meal ticket. Once they finally say yes to his toastings, they start dumping responsibilities in tune of huge amounts on the guy's head even when they know he's not capable of sorting such.

When you find yourself in that kind of situation, put her through this test:

Let's say she wants you to buy a Samsung phone worth 50k for her. When she comes to your place uttering such demand, tell her you will give her the money right away but on one condition- she has to call her father on phone and place it on loud speaker in your presence.

Tell her to tell her father that she wants him to buy her a phone. Listen to the man's reaction. If the old man is not in tune with the latest gadgets going on in today's world, he might agree to get her one.

If the man agrees to buy her a phone thinking it's a Nokia 3310 she wants, tell her to tell him the price which is 50k. The man's reaction will most definitely startle you to laughter . He will definitely get angry at such demand and make his point clear that he can't afford to spend on such frivolity except he's dangote. He might even tell her to remember the humble background she's from.


What's the point of the test?

Why should she dump that kind of responsibility on a struggling guy like you, a responsibility that a mature and salary earner his afraid of bagging?

You will be stupid to foot such bill if you do not have huge savings in an account. Don't you even have a mother, a sister or a relative to lavish on? These are the people who will always remember you for such gesture, not some silly girl who thinks 50k grows on trees. That 50k might be bigger than the amount her father collects as pension from the government. Yet, she wants you to spend it on a phone that will run out of trend when the new model drops. With the rate of unemployment in the country, graduates are willing to kill to get a job that pays 30k. Yet, some undergraduate is spending way more than that just to impress a girl who is probably already eyeing another guy.

Try to apply wisdom in ever thing you do. Stop accepting responsibilities their fathers can't shoulder. The worst is that their demands are silly material things of no real value. Accepting such stupidity is one of the reasons why some guys never make it in life.


I know some female readers on this thread might be like... "lamentations of a broke dude".

Guess what? Your father is also a broke dude if you can't call him on phone to tell him to buy you a phone worth 50k.



Pick up the phone and call your father now




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some people on this thread who couldn't stomach the point have resorted to saying such a guy should go meet his mother for sex when he is Hot. I wonder why a sane person would suggest that.

When a guy needs sex, he can get it from his girlfriend. This doesn't give her the right to lay unnecessary heavy bills on him. Remember, he is also giving her sex. Well, except she is a prostitute, she doesn't have any right to use sex as a means to an end.

prettythicksme:
Ode nie if u cant call ur mother wen u need sex,den ur r a bastard

prettythicksme:
Mtchewwww broke ass nigga!

prettythicksme:
Ode nie if u cant call ur mother wen u need sex,den ur r a bastard

southniyikaye:
u must be a bastard for being so rude to your father

southniyikaye:
u must be a bastard for being so rude to your father

bloodyBLOGGER:


if you can't call your father to buy you something that expensive, then he's also a broke and niggah



your point in essence is that ladies are prostitutes who collect money for sex?

or why should a niggah give you money when he is also giving you the same sex you are giving him?

bloodyBLOGGER:
guys like you are the reason why girls take guys for fools.

What's a class and who put her there? Just cos she has a wide mouth for expensive things that she can't work for doesn't mean she has class. Classy ladies buy those things themselves and are never leaches.

Being financially buoyant shouldn't mean a girl should dump unnecessary responsibilities on you. Do you know that 50k is what some married men with kids earn per month? Yet, you want a guy to spend it on a girl just like that.

What does he get in return?

driy65:
bros true talk m.planing takin ma bae out and the estimate is abt 25k...if i shud remuv 25k from ma acct nw bros i nor sure say d one wen remain go reach 25 sef and m.currently unemployed jst finished service n d funny thing is d gal hasnt even accepted ma proposal yet...she's still thinking...abeg bros i nid ur advice

HomesOfLife:
Let's look at it this way...

The first thing most guys see in a lady is their ability to quench their primary "need" which at that moment is sex (some go as far as undressing her in their minds); while instinctively, the first thing on a Lady's mind are her needs too. This could be in form of cash or material things; such things that every successful man is "meant to" have or afford.
Thus, if you must require that an innocent lady quenched your pressing need(which is sex) and make you happy, you should be responsible enough to make her happy. My brother [size=15pt]"akagum is a sin"[/size], change your way.

talkingood:
Is jst because of there is no money !f not wat ȋ§ 50k jst 175 dollar which is been spent in a bar in a nite

machi25:
responsible and hard working girls, do not have time to make such demands from a guy instead the guy demands from them. GIRLS PLS WAKE UP AND STOP MAKING YOURSELVES SO CHEAP. hard work pays off ooo

some people on this thread who couldn't stomach the point have resorted to saying such a guy should go meet his mother for sex when he is Hot. I wonder why a sane person would suggest that.

When a guy needs sex, he can get it from his girlfriend. This doesn't give her the right to lay unnecessary heavy bills on him. Remember, he is also giving her sex. Well, except she is a prostitute, she doesn't have any right to use sex as a means to an end.

I get so disappointed when I see how disobedient we are towards God's instructions. how can you be comfortable having sex with someone you ain't married to yet? even though we clearly know how much God despises it? may God have mercy upon us especially in this end time