I find it very shameful and ridiculous when I see guys complaining that they can't spend on a lady whom they barely know on first date because they are yet to tumble beneath the sheets and that she may eventually reject their love proposal.

Even when they choose to spend on a lady, their reluctance will be so glaring just like someone being forced at gun point to drop his money and this is the reason why some ladies have resorted to attach terms and conditions before a guy can take them on a date.

So ladies if you notice the following characteristics in a guy on first date, just know that he is the stingy type.

1. He orders cheap foods for you

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that before they can order bottle water or sausage roll for a lady, they will think over and over again. Even when they are about to order such meals, they will whisper at the lady's ear that "don't you think it's better for us to buy these stuffs outside?". Can't you see that it's too expensive here? Funny enough, it's their type that will blow trumpet loud on how they spend immense money on a lady at exotic restaurants.

2. He will demand sex in exchange for his money spent

I consider this act as a big disgrace and any guy guilty of this act deserves some lashes of cane. Simply because you bought N200 suya for a lady during your first date, that doesn't give you a free entry to her kitty cat. I mean you spend such a ridiculously meagre amount and you expect a lady to surrender her body cheaply? Bros, you need Jesus in your life.

3. He chooses local restaurant for date

Sometimes I wonder how on earth a reasonable guy will take a lady to an untidy restaurant whose foods has been contaminated with flies. Just because a plate of rice goes for N100 with the inclusion of a big rotten meat, he will start feeling on top of the world that he has satisfied the lady. Anyway with the crop of ladies nowadays, I don't think they can tolerate this bullshit from any guy.

4. Sharing of Bills

It is only a stingy guy that will request that bills be split on a first date. This is an act of stinginess coupled with low self esteem. To be very candid, no lady in her right sense of reasoning will ever date such a man unless she has no choice.

5. He complains bitterly if you request for quite expensive meals

Some guys can never cease to amaze me because by the time the lady they take out on a first date request for rice and chicken, they will start looking in discomfort just like the way GEJ was looking when he lost to Buhari. The prefer the lady orders for just a bottle of coke and meat pie but when she orders for a plate of rice, discomfort will be registered on his face

6. He won't order for any meal

One of the characteristic of stingy guys on a first date is that, they will pretend to have no appetite when the lady is eating, but will be salivating inside of them. Who's deceiving who?. All they do is to engage her into meaningless discussion hoping to land her in bed.

7. Eagerness to leave you in order to avoid paying your T-Fare

This reminds of the story a female friend of mine shared about how a guy abandoned her at a bus terminus simply because he stylishly wants to dodge paying her transport fare back home even when she affirmed that he is not under her obligation to pay. Some guys think they can play smart by doing this but honestly speaking, It doesn't speak well for a gentleman.

8. He tells you his house or no where else

Another characteristic of a stingy dude is that he will always be bent on a lady coming to his house or she should forget about it. This is because he doesn't want to lose a kobo.

Ladies and gentlemen, you can also add yours

No.5 is so true

This remind me of when a guy invited to an eatery.
After ordering fried and chicken for me, he ordered take away meat pie for himself. I was eating the food gel gel gel.
He was looking at me and couldn't contained his feelings. He said " how which I knew this restaurant is expensive, we wud have gone to a cheap restaurant"
In my mind I was like why can't this guy just be quiet "nor be everything eye see mouth go talk"

With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva

It was time for us to leave, he stopped a bike. Abo0ki bike man to be precise. U need to come and see the way this guy was pricing ehh. He was like" you know I priced 80# instead of 150# so we are going to enter this bike together, when the bike get to your destination he will drop you at the junction and he will also take me home from there"


Some guys are jst stingy.
N.b: I never begged him to take me out.

This lady on top of me na witch..



Anyways, second to comment no easy.


Lemme go and read the thread

the list won't change anything,anyway nice writeup, but op which of this characteristic did you fall into.

Ok wrisbangle i now realised that you are not just only confused, buh you are also very confused. Few days ago you opened a thread stating the advantages of being stingy to the ladies...
https://www.nairaland.com/2801526/8-advantages-being-stingy-ladies

And now this again.

To the ladies, if a guy truly loves you..he wont be stingy to you..

And if you truly love him...you will know his capabilites and appreciate whatever he brings to the table.

If this is found wanting..then we'd just be having a relationship between a stingy guy and of course a gold digger.

Gosh wtf is dis

wristbangle:
I find it very shameful and ridiculous when I see guys complaining that they can't spend on a lady whom they barely know on first date because they are yet to tumble beneath the sheets and that she may eventually reject their love proposal.

Even when they choose to spend on a lady, their reluctance will be so glaring just like someone being forced at gun point to drop his money and this is the reason why some ladies have resorted to attach terms and conditions before a guy can take them on a date.

So ladies if you notice the following characteristics in a guy on first date, just know that he is the stingy type.

1. He orders cheap foods for you

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that before they can order bottle water or sausage roll for a lady, they will think over and over again. Even when they are about to order such meals, they will whisper at the lady's ear that "don't you think it's better for us to buy these stuffs outside?". Can't you see that it's too expensive here? Funny enough, it's their type that will blow trumpet loud on how they spend immense money on a lady at exotic restaurants.

2. He will demand sex in exchange for his money spent

I consider this act as a big disgrace and any guy guilty of this act deserves some lashes of cane. Simply because you bought N200 suya for a lady during your first date, that doesn't give you a free entry to her kitty cat. I mean you spend such a ridiculously meagre amount and you expect a lady to surrender her body cheaply? Bros, you need Jesus in your life.

3. He chooses local restaurant for date

Sometimes I wonder how on earth a reasonable guy will take a lady to an untidy restaurant whose foods has been contaminated with flies. Just because a plate of rice goes for N100 with the inclusion of a big rotten meat, he will start feeling on top of the world that he has satisfied the lady. Anyway with the crop of ladies nowadays, I don't think they can tolerate this bullshit from any guy.

4. Sharing of Bills

It is only a stingy guy that will request that bills be split on a first date. This is an act of stinginess coupled with low self esteem. To be very candid, no lady in her right sense of reasoning will ever date such a man unless she has no choice.

5. He complains bitterly if you request for quite expensive meals

Some guys can never cease to amaze me because by the time the lady they take out on a first date request for rice and chicken, they will start looking in discomfort just like the way GEJ was looking when he lost to Buhari. The prefer the lady orders for just a bottle of coke and meat pie but when she orders for a plate of rice, discomfort will be registered on his face

6. He won't order for any meal

One of the characteristic of stingy guys on a first date is that, they will pretend to have no appetite when the lady is eating, but will be salivating inside of them. Who's deceiving who?. All they do is to engage her into meaningless discussion hoping to land her in bed.

7. Eagerness to leave you in order to avoid paying your T-Fare

This reminds of the story a female friend of mine shared about how a guy abandoned her at a bus terminus simply because he stylishly wants to dodge paying her transport fare back home even when she affirmed that he is not under her obligation to pay. Some guys think they can play smart by doing this but honestly speaking, It doesn't speak well for a gentleman.

8. He tells you his house or no where else

Another characteristic of a stingy dude is that he will always be bent on a lady coming to his house or she should forget about it. This is because he doesn't want to lose a kobo.

Ladies and gentlemen, you can also add yours

my brother op ya fada..
...you wan spoil market for those innocent brothers.

And very soon this will appear on FP ... Nothing pesin no go see here

ifeajikap:
Gosh wtf is dis

Cholls:
my brother op ya fada..
...you wan spoil market for those innocent brothers.

Stanleywaxy:
And very soon this will appear on FP ... Nothing pesin no go see here

Wahala dey oo

See as I dey laugh like monkey here

Lol, the economy is hard! You won't blame them na...

No. 7 tho, hanhan, free food and free transport again

Trying so hard to locate his wallet: some guys after ordering for food and its to pay, he will hesitate in bringing out his wallet with the hope of hearing "don't worry I take care of that" from the lady, maka gini?

Bargaining the price of food after eating: some guys will bargain the price of what he and the lady just ate like
waiter: Sir the food is #2,000
Stingy guy: #2000? what is it that I ate? assuming i have only #500 what will you do? Chineke!

I just dey laff here

What is the topic again?

AlienStar:
Trying so hard to locate his wallet: some guys after ordering for food and its to pay, he will hesitate in bringing out his wallet with the hope of hearing "don't worry I take care of that" from the lady, maka gini?

Bargaining the price of food after eating: some guys will bargain the price of what he and the lady just ate like
waiter: Sir the food is #2,000
Stingy guy: #2000? what is it that I ate? assuming i have only #500 what will you do? Chineke!

hahahaahah is someone talking from experience?

Where did you guys get all this topic name Wristbangle and tosyne2much

Na brokeness i see here #charasteristics of a broke ass niggas!

grbgrb4:
the list won't change anything,anyway nice writeup, but op which of this characteristic did you fall into.

Number 1 sir

amokeme:
Lol, the economy is hard! You won't blame them na...

No. 7 tho, hanhan, free food and free transport again

That is why I don't even bother asking a lady out because most use this avenue to fill their empty stomach. So I don't want to be seen as a stingy guy

brandnew3:
What is the topic again?

Up there boss

Daniel2289:
Op I detest some of the points in ur topic.. What if the guy is not financially bouyant nkor

He should go and make money oo!

prettythicksme:
Na brokeness i see here #charasteristics of a broke ass niggas!

U neva see guy whey e get money but him no wan spend

Op I detest some of the points in ur topic.. What if the guy is not financially bouyant nkor

OP, I'm guilty of 1, 2, 5, 6 and 8


*nobody should quote me*

The question @ OP is are these characteristics of stingy or broke guys?

Not even a crime to be broke cuz shit happens sometimes. The only problem is when it becomes permanent,

Just saying.

wristbangle:


Number 1 sir

that one dey.mine is 3 but not with your kinda detail tho.

AlienStar:
Trying so hard to locate his wallet: some guys after ordering for food and its to pay, he will hesitate in bringing out his wallet with the hope of hearing "don't worry I take care of that" from the lady, maka gini?

Bargaining the price of food after eating: some guys will bargain the price of what he and the lady just ate like
waiter: Sir the food is #2,000
Stingy guy: #2000? what is it that I ate? assuming i have only #500 what will you do? Chineke!

ojigbi jigbi. Speaking from experience indeed

chibwike:
Ok wrisbangle i now realised that you are not just only confused, buh you are also very confused. Few days ago you opened a thread stating the advantages of being stingy to the ladies...
https://www.nairaland.com/2801526/8-advantages-being-stingy-ladies

And now this again.

To the ladies, if a guy truly loves you..he wont be stingy to you..

And if you truly love him...you will know his capabilites and appreciate whatever he brings to the table.

If this is found wanting..then we'd just be having a relationship between a stingy guy and of course a gold digger.

Abeg no mind him, the guy dey luk 4 Fp.

chibwike:
Ok wrisbangle i now realised that you are not just only confused, buh you are also very confused. Few days ago you opened a thread stating the advantages of being stingy to the ladies...
https://www.nairaland.com/2801526/8-advantages-being-stingy-ladies

And now this again.

To the ladies, if a guy truly loves you..he wont be stingy to you..

And if you truly love him...you will know his capabilites and appreciate whatever he brings to the table.

If this is found wanting..then we'd just be having a relationship between a stingy guy and of couse a gold digger.

Sir, I am not confused. I am only stating facts about some guys who do this. I know that most guys ain't that stingy or perhaps stingy because gold diggers may have spring up that attitude in them.

wristbangle:


Sir, I am not confused. I am only stating facts about some guys who do this. I know that most guys ain't that stingy or perhaps stingy because gold diggers may have spring up that attitude in them.

you contradicting yourself

chibwike:
you contradicting yourself

chibwike don't tell all those characteristics he listed above, all apply to u.

Are u stingy? If not, why are u defending stingy guys.

Lol

wristbangle:

ojigbi jigbi. Speaking from experience indeed

Kinda

amokeme:
hahahaahah is someone talking from experience?