| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Krismart(m): 6:52pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.
However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.
We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?
Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!
A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.
Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.
A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.
For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.
The thing De pain am |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Arsenate(m): 6:53pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Arsenate:
you can say that again. Most mainlanders will just come all out for one's head once you say you stand for anything moral. They then start stringing some fancy English words to confuse you and have you believe morality is backward and immorality is the way to go. LIE
@Stupedinluv, I totally understand your point of view and don't let anyone here sway your mind. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by funmind(f): 6:53pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
firstking01:
she's just so confused ...when i saw that statement, couldn't help but weep for her...i might not really blame her sha...she's the easily influenced type. I don't think so! 1 Like |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Kgdavid(m): 6:54pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone [b]no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.[/b]
However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.
We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?
Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!
A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.
Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.
A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.
For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.
Young girl, i am on your side but relax first. The premise you have provided for your argument is that if women are condemned for it then men must also be condemned for it, which by extension implies that if men are pardoned for it, women also may be pardoned for it. That may be a form of moral law but it is certainly not God's law. God's law to you is independent of the actions of any other man or woman. God says "I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy"; perhaps you might find it surprising to learn that God's law, today, is love, not vengeance, and where He decides that vengeance is merited, His law says that vengeance belongs to Him and not to you. God's law brings forgiveness and healing. God's law also teaches us not to judge. God's law shows us that none is righteous:"for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God". As "studs" who condemn slutty women are also guilty of sin, so also are you unworthy to cast the first stone. So relax first. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Emmahunk(m): 6:54pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
If only hunger and greed for material things will allow our women to think along your line. Even as men, some of us are pained at the level to which womanhood has been debased in our present day Society 3 Likes |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by uracocksucker: 6:55pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
how do these awful writeups get front page billing ??
A stud isnt a slut!!...cause you look attractive to multiple ppl dont mean you sleep with them all.
Go wash plate or something if you aint got shite to say |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by bodyloveghetto(m): 6:57pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:
Well you are redefining what they society has made everyone believe. People dont just do things because it makes them "happy" there are so many factors they consider too.
Ntwithstanding, thanks for contributing still doesnt stop me from staying away from them cos my life is bigger than "personal happiness" I pity you... why don't u stop this ur bahbahboombah shyt n listen to ur sista... im sure 5yrs ago they re u, n u could learn a penny from them... |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by REALDEAL01: 6:57pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Mynd44:
*sighs* someone else falls to societal pressure.
Before you turn on me, societal pressure happens if pressure fromthe society makes you take actions/decision solely based on the overwhelming influence of your society.
A man who has slept with a lot of people (male or female) is not a stud, he is merely a man with a colorful sex life.
A woman who has had (or has) a lot of people(male or female) she sleeps with is not a slut, she is simply living out her sexuality.
If you allow society corner you into taking a myopic decision, you are not doing me or society, you are doing yourself 
If you find a man that you like and likes you but has a "colorful" past, it is not a big deal as long as he is willing to be faithful and understand that he is with you now.
The same way if a man finds a woman with an active sexual past(or present sef) she is not a slut.
As ling as you are happy, stay happy with the person you find happiness with. Dont allow the bullcrap society says get to you.
*goes back to sipping Lipton* You're working for ENDTIME, you just don't know yet. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by REALDEAL01: 6:58pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
uracocksucker:
how do these awful writeups get front page billing ??
A stud isnt a slut!!...cause you look attractive to multiple ppl dont mean you sleep with them all.
Go wash plate or something if you aint got shite to say Endtimers plenty here. |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by wilfus(m): 6:59pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.
However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.
We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?
Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!
A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.
Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.
A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.
For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.
na u sabi dat one abeg! |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by postmann: 6:59pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Myopic, feminism, unrealistic.
He is a man, you're a woman
He has a probing pole
You have a gaping hole
Your lips are parted
Your labia are brushed aside
As he makes his way down into your fountain
You remain open while you receive him
He sank deep, deep into your abyss
Where your hands can never wander
He plants his seed deep within
He walks away, leaving no scar or trace on himself
But you carry the burden
It's a man world, he's a stud
You're a woman, and a hoe if you walk his path.
Quit the foolish comparison. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Oblion(m): 6:59pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
see them feminist............hehehehehe
una go old and get grey hairs......
you dont fight nature and win. |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Eeroh95(m): 7:00pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
I had that 70% of men commit adultry
60% of women do same....so who is perfect? |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Nobody: 7:00pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
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| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Bjergtrolde: 7:03pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.
However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.
We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?
Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!
A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.
Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.
A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.
For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.
But he was looking for the right one before he finally found you. As they say, one has to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince. |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by SAMBARRY: 7:03pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Why are they all furious  Seems Op has hit nerves So it's now a crime for a lady to define what she wants again. Oshisco.guilty ones ARE the pained ones.awon pepper body gbo gbo 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Sunkyphil(m): 7:04pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
firstking01:
Btw, how would you know a man who has slept with several women?? I was about to ask d same question |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by lohresloco: 7:04pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
I swear you got it, listening to a 20 year old talk about this kinda matter. Them never whip am well well. Think say na to talk. Yimu deyemia:
please tell me, how will she know the number of women the guy has had? I lost my own count and I still respect women feelings..
anyway sha, she's just 20, dem just start to toast her |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Acidosis(m): 7:04pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
But why would a man sleep with several women?
A white man once insulted Nigerians because according to him, we are only good at s ex.
Why must it always be s ex? Why can't we have men who have done and invented many businesses? Why can't we talk about men who have raised and helped many orphans? Why must it always be sex?
Nawao! Why would a woman even attract a male harlot? Why do we love to glorify this crazy men and women whose lives would collapse without s ex?!
What sorts of people do you folks move with for Christ sake?! 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by xendra: 7:06pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
slimmy2005:
You will rot as an old hag. Then you'll be left with the likes Obasanjo who you'll help suck their dick. oohhh shutup your type annoy me, its better to stay single than end up with anyone that talks like you 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by OLUWAFUNMISE(f): 7:07pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
If this is the only factor u want to consider, I pray u will not learn your lesson in a hard way. Meanwhile u have a point  |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by HaneefahAde(f): 7:07pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
I don't even know what to say sef  |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Please oh, help.. Hw do you know a man who has slept with many women b4? |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by menix(m): 7:11pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Creamish:
I was going to say sumthing very similar to your post till I saw your post... My thoughts exactly.
Don't let the society define you. This is the same reason why I don't characterize myself under any umbrella/organization. I live my life the way I deem fit...even if the society frowns at it. Its my headache..not theirs.
OP.. U owe no one any explanation rily. Keep an open mind..U just might be the reason why he became a better man. Don't worry, soon FG will recognize Lesbianism.. Enjoy.. |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
xendra:
oohhh shutup your type annoy me, its better to stay single than end up with anyone that talks like you I can't end up with old overused frustrated hags |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Objectives: 7:15pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
There's a thing about having a tender heart, you will be quick to tag-along a widely accepted premise , in your case, referring to people with active and colorful sex lives as studs|sluts, and thus beating your chest that you'd never end up with their kind,
However, getting married to a stud doesn't really seem to be the problem as I perceive you only seem to be fighting the male folks for something you see as hypocrisy on their part, this too is unnecessary,
You are wrongly convinced about the premise upon which you have arrived, there is very little the sincere and concerned ones on here can do to aid the situation,
I find solace in the fact that, personal experience and posterity will re-align your thoughts on the subject adequately, the sweet part?? you only realize this upon completion of the process.
Salam. |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by pongwa(m): 7:15pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Mynd44:
*sighs* someone else falls to societal pressure.
Before you turn on me, societal pressure happens if pressure fromthe society makes you take actions/decision solely based on the overwhelming influence of your society.
A man who has slept with a lot of people (male or female) is not a stud, he is merely a man with a colorful sex life.
A woman who has had (or has) a lot of people(male or female) she sleeps with is not a slut, she is simply living out her sexuality.
If you allow society corner you into taking a myopic decision, you are not doing me or society, you are doing yourself
If you find a man that you like and likes you but has a "colorful" past, it is not a big deal as long as he is willing to be faithful and understand that he is with you now.
The same way if a man finds a woman with an active sexual past(or present sef) she is not a slut.
As ling as you are happy, stay happy with the person you find happiness with. Dont allow the bullcrap society says get to you.
*goes back to sipping Lipton* you just distorted an obvious truth, shame on you. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Amberon11: 7:17pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
get lost and remain there. slimmy2005:
You will rot as an old hag. Then you'll be left with the likes Obasanjo who you'll help suck their dick. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by 9jatatafo(m): 7:17pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
This OP is day dreaming. Talk is cheap. It's a man's world and you are welcome |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by xendra: 7:19pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
slimmy2005:
I can't end up with old overused frustrated hags i dont know about old but overused frustrated? sure you will, as long as you talk like this. mention me when you find out I was right |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Lenajoe0621(f): 7:19pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
How will u know.  ... |
| Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by mildflame: 7:20pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.
However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.
We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?
Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!
A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.
Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.
A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.
For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.
Everything in LIFE begins in ABSTRACT b4 d PHYSICAL form is achived, remain STEADFAST n RESOLUTE you will get u HEART DESIRE 4 Likes 1 Share |
