Mynd44:

How can your life be bigger than your personal happiness?

What is your goal if not happiness?

Abeg make I go sleep

deyemia:


please tell me, how will she know the number of women the guy has had? I lost my own count and I still respect women feelings..

anyway sha, she's just 20, dem just start to toast her

KingCheezyPuff:
Yeah.Tell that to the folks that hurl them with the intent
ta break the bones of woman.
Because despite what they say words can an do hurt us.
An please don't pretend as if you don't know that one presented as a medal the other in shame

firstEVA:
Op you want to be the one to teach him how to do?


To me studs are are just studs, they should be allowed to serve their purpose then move onto the next.

They are just date or boyfriend material, definitely not husband material, marry him at your own peril.

You date the stud, then marry the good guy, simple.

Stupedinluv:


Am just looking at them

Youngpo413:
after those studs have destroyed your pusssy abi? And the good guy will then settle for the crumbs of an overused and over battered pusys? You ladies are wicked.

Maxi112:
can u just listen to ur self ma'ma!
U date u stud and marry the good after
after d stud done chop finish u then carry d raminat to ur husbands house Abi
oh God protect my future wife wherever she is.. cause I don't no what this world is turning in to

Stupedinluv:


You make me shake my head in pity!

If the article was talking about a man refusing a slut you would aplaud him but here you are saying a stud is a stud. Speaking lightly of something evil. No no and no

I would not encourage philandering, every man should respect himself.

I refuse to be used! Thank u!

firstEVA:
Op you want to be the one to teach him how to do?


To me studs are are just studs, they should be allowed to serve their purpose then move onto the next.

They are just date or boyfriend material, definitely not husband material, marry him at your own peril.

You date the stud, then marry the good guy, simple.

KingCheezyPuff:
This, your topic is a one to be discussed with informed and open minds.
You don't bring such a controversial topic like this ta NL.
I'm only surprised some haven't called you outta ya name....yet.

Stupedinluv:
Well you are redefining what they society has made everyone believe. People dont just do things because it makes them "happy" there are so many factors they consider too.

Ntwithstanding, thanks for contributing still doesnt stop me from staying away from them cos my life is bigger than "personal happiness"

Eddygourdo:
After all this epistle, a mumu stud will be sleeping with you, while you friendzone the good man in a no sex till marriage agreement.

Women never know Wat they want in life and whenever one sees a woman who says she does. One has just seen the most clueless of the lot

Stupedinluv:


Lol very funny. This is not the first and last controversial topic gracing this forum. I have not seen how this one is different. I thought some people here were informed, i might be wrong at the end.

I dont understand the calling me out of my name part. Can u explain pls?

KingCheezyPuff:
I expected some NL or 2 angry with yer post ta show up an insult you.
Call you a few derogatory names,you know.....the usual.

firstEVA:
I said date, where did I mention sex? You think it's everyone that sleep with who they date When will u people have sense sef

cr7lomo:
Y are u guys responding to this op... Can't u all c that she is a kid that is mentality immature... Can't u detect her sense of reasoning is like a child... Girl abeg go read ur books

Mynd44:
*sighs* someone else falls to societal pressure.

Before you turn on me, societal pressure happens if pressure fromthe society makes you take actions/decision solely based on the overwhelming influence of your society.

A man who has slept with a lot of people (male or female) is not a stud, he is merely a man with a colorful sex life.

A woman who has had (or has) a lot of people(male or female) she sleeps with is not a slut, she is simply living out her sexuality.

If you allow society corner you into taking a myopic decision, you are not doing me or society, you are doing yourself

If you find a man that you like and likes you but has a "colorful" past, it is not a big deal as long as he is willing to be faithful and understand that he is with you now.

The same way if a man finds a woman with an active sexual past(or present sef) she is not a slut.

As ling as you are happy, stay happy with the person you find happiness with. Dont allow the bullcrap society says get to you.


*goes back to sipping Lipton*

Stupedinluv:


You make me shake my head in pity!

If the article was talking about a man refusing a slut you would aplaud him but here you are saying a stud is a stud. Speaking lightly of something evil. No no and no

I would not encourage philandering, every man should respect himself.

I refuse to be used! Thank u!

Speeechless3:
This is a beautiful piece that speaks reality.
Am glad the op didnt just wail, she also found a way out!

strong766:
I want to marry you. I MEAN IT.

Youngpo413:
others will tender the pusy with ease without feeling used besides ladies are very cheap nowadays.

Stupedinluv:

Am glad you found it beautiful!

Speeechless3:
O yes i did.Am not perfect but suporting evil will not make me a better person. I go with the truth anytime.

KINGinVAHALA2:

And this quote comes to mind. *Whenever you meet a man that love you, hold him tight because ever since sex became easy to get, love became hard to find*. Its a message for them ladies reminding them that with nothing or less, we men can get sex nowadays, so they should respect us when we try to treat them like queens they are not anymore.

Stupedinluv:
Thank you

Stupedinluv:
awww

Speeechless3:
O yes i did.Am not perfect but suporting evil will not make me a better person. I go with the truth anytime.

Speeechless3:
This is a beautiful piece that speaks reality.
Am glad the op didnt just wail, she also found a way out!

Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.

However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.

We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?

Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!

A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.


Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.


A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.

For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.

Cc Lalasticlala, Mynd44.

Stupedinluv:


Replace ladies with men, she with he. Any woman can say this too.