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Kath5kouture:
If they weren't housewives what were they? Career women! We know your mother is educated,thanks for letting us know,so is mine. BTW I said 'most' not 'all'.
So if most mothers back then were illiterates and didn't go to school, where did they get the money from? Are you trying to say they were more working class women then than now? So the married women in present times taking care of bills in their homes while their husbands just hang around is called what? Quit blabbering! You must be perpetually STINGY or a hopeless misogynist!

Angelberry:
sometimes I dont much

KingRex1:
its past ur bed time.. Go to bed Angel

Angelberry:
Nope, I'm waiting for smellymouth to come cuddle me

KingRex1:
The nigga is on his bed snoring

Lilac91:
thats how one idiot i met on nairaland couldnt pay for our drinks on d first date and he shamelessly drank d drink i paid for to avoid embarrasment, i honestly wish i could mention his moniker but i will save him d disgrace, i only hope he gets to read dis post, and he no even dey presentable come stingy join.... team say no to blind dates

butanep:
You just proved how imatured you are because I never attacked you but the subject matter.

You need some growing up attitude.

Kath5kouture:
All yea stingy men aka butanep and co. listen to His voice.

Angelberry:
I'm having malaria and typhoid av been sick for about 3 days now. I just can't sleep cos of cough.

Angelberry:
I'm having malaria and typhoid av been sick for about 3 days now. I just can't sleep cos of cough.

butanep:
The fact is that ladies of today are lazy. They have nothing to offer except boobs and sex. They can't plan with a guy. Most ladies are just dull not because they aren't educated but because nothing productive comes from their brain.

tinktanker:
it's love. Are u in his pocket? If he had only 1500 on him n he decided u eat d rice at 1200 n buys meat pie 4 himself, e bad? Ladies are too materialistic nowadays. If he didn't want to be with u, he cld have used d 1500 to replace his torn suck n boxes n drink beer but he managed to spend it with her. Don't always judge a guy on a first dat. If a guy dat earn 30k for e.g meets ur on the 17th n wat he has left in his account is 5k, do u girls expect him to take u to do Chinese meals. Babes Situation can affect first dat does not mean the guy is necessarily stingy

Iefosa:
In the West, ladies pay the bills on dates, I so love the West

Kath5kouture:
Its immature not imatured. I ain't attacking you dude,that's the picture you painted of yourself. BTW you are the one who needs to wisen up and know this is a public forum so constructive criticism is allowed. Coming from someone who just attacked ladies indirectly calling them 'empty brains'. #potcallingkettleblack!

Kath5kouture:
And I quote....... obviously ppl feel bad when treated the way they treat others!

butanep:
So what's your point? How does it relate to the topic? Some girls just like showing themselves...

Go and sleep if you have nothing to say...

Nnemuka:
stingy man, sure you no be that my neighbour?

lol

Wroxxane:
That's where the age long saying 'cut your coat according to your size' comes into play. Discussions prior to the said meeting date as per where to go, when to go and how to go, should have been sorted out. There should have been some sort of closure so cases like 'she chop my money go' would be greatly reduced... besides the way a guy portrays himself to a lady says a lot. You can't be forming odikwa big and not expect her to have high hopes about the first date.

butanep:
I know your kind of woman. Keep waiting for the dude that will empty his bank account for you on his first date.

Get a job and be independent.

butanep:
You are definitely one of those ladies that uses sex to brag. He go soon tire you, when your kitty become a well.


Get a job and be productive to your man.

wristbangle:
I find it very shameful and ridiculous when I see guys complaining that they can't spend on a lady whom they barely know on first date because they are yet to tumble beneath the sheets and that she may eventually reject their love proposal.

Even when they choose to spend on a lady, their reluctance will be so glaring just like someone being forced at gun point to drop his money and this is the reason why some ladies have resorted to attach terms and conditions before a guy can take them on a date.

So ladies if you notice the following characteristics in a guy on first date, just know that he is the stingy type.

1. He orders cheap foods for you

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that before they can order bottle water or sausage roll for a lady, they will think over and over again. Even when they are about to order such meals, they will whisper at the lady's ear that "don't you think it's better for us to buy these stuffs outside?". Can't you see that it's too expensive here? Funny enough, it's their type that will blow trumpet loud on how they spend immense money on a lady at exotic restaurants.

2. He will demand sex in exchange for his money spent

I consider this act as a big disgrace and any guy guilty of this act deserves some lashes of cane. Simply because you bought N200 suya for a lady during your first date, that doesn't give you a free entry to her kitty cat. I mean you spend such a ridiculously meagre amount and you expect a lady to surrender her body cheaply? Bros, you need Jesus in your life.

3. He chooses local restaurant for date

Sometimes I wonder how on earth a reasonable guy will take a lady to an untidy restaurant whose foods has been contaminated with flies. Just because a plate of rice goes for N100 with the inclusion of a big rotten meat, he will start feeling on top of the world that he has satisfied the lady. Anyway with the crop of ladies nowadays, I don't think they can tolerate this bullshit from any guy.

4. Sharing of Bills

It is only a stingy guy that will request that bills be split on a first date. This is an act of stinginess coupled with low self esteem. To be very candid, no lady in her right sense of reasoning will ever date such a man unless she has no choice.

5. He complains bitterly if you request for quite expensive meals

Some guys can never cease to amaze me because by the time the lady they take out on a first date request for rice and chicken, they will start looking in discomfort just like the way GEJ was looking when he lost to Buhari. The prefer the lady orders for just a bottle of coke and meat pie but when she orders for a plate of rice, discomfort will be registered on his face

6. He won't order for any meal

One of the characteristic of stingy guys on a first date is that, they will pretend to have no appetite when the lady is eating, but will be salivating inside of them. Who's deceiving who?. All they do is to engage her into meaningless discussion hoping to land her in bed.

7. Eagerness to leave you in order to avoid paying your T-Fare

This reminds of the story a female friend of mine shared about how a guy abandoned her at a bus terminus simply because he stylishly wants to dodge paying her transport fare back home even when she affirmed that he is not under her obligation to pay. Some guys think they can play smart by doing this but honestly speaking, It doesn't speak well for a gentleman.

8. He tells you his house or no where else

Another characteristic of a stingy dude is that he will always be bent on a lady coming to his house or she should forget about it. This is because he doesn't want to lose a kobo.

Ladies and gentlemen, you can also add yours

Kath5kouture:
Oops! Did I hit a nerve? I don't need a guy to foot my bills,I am doing perfectly okay and you dont know me so quit assuming. BTW not everyone needs Sex to survive. It ain't food!

tosyne2much:
hmmmmmm !!