₦airaland Forum

dare2differ:
I didn't ask for your opinion

vislabraye:
You are guilty of number 4 as well

dare2differ:
Stop quoting me

I find the way you argue nauseating

If you cannot understand a simple analogy. I can't help your case.

onoja12:
i can assure you i do not need your help ,with your manners i doubt you been able to maintain a relation for more than a month,please wise woman do have a lovely day .

mimzy:
How

onstelly:
Wow omg where have you been
It's been a long long time my dear

doris4u:
have been around o and u. Pls send me ur pin

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally? .........

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores? Men help out with chores expect you have been following the wrong dudes.

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into? Cuz we can afford to buy them want they want and we do they asking,women pretend not to like sex but we don't.


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women? Only kids will do this....real men don't

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same? Again you 're rolling with the wrong men .

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

onstelly:
OK But I can't here, lemme mail it to you dear