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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by GreatEngineer(m): 9:55pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
As a smart guy, I will sell the house and add small money to build a better house for us. Will never live in a house build by my wife cos of many reasons. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by satowind(m): 9:58pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Nixiepie:op ur mom is not loyal dat y ur dad don't trust her. Is she educated? 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by GreatEngineer(m): 9:59pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
HenryLiverpool:Bro. are you sure that it's a taboo in Yoruba culture? Cos I saw many Yoruba men living in a house that was shared to their wife by their parent. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by matingo(f): 10:11pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
We are living happily in my (our) house. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Hepolyte(m): 10:31pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
It is not that good bcuz some of ur power as the man of the house wil be limited |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by AreaFada2: 10:39pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Memejem: Lol. When you get to a certain age, an average sociable African can easily have 50-100 married friends & acquaintances. And truly scattered across the globe, though you said it jokingly but actually spot on. Considering that around 50% of marriages fail for many reasons, I actually have more stories to tell. Well, Asians practice arranged marriages a lot. While it's not all perfect with them, they seem to be quite successful. The idea of falling in love and marrying, from separation & divorce figures, is not working. Some say women stayed in unhappy marriages in the past because they had little options. While that may be partly true, I think people increasingly go into marriage with the wrong notion. People think it's all going to be lovely, romantic, easy and a fairytail. Love will see us through they claim. But bad news is that people do fall out of love. Well, a large number would turn out to be the opposite. No amount of "That shall not be my portion IJN" can change the fact that one should prepare for various permutations, many unexpected stuff, challenges and more in marriage. When the going gets tough, lot of people just "check out" like Andrew. 4 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by grandlexuz(m): 10:40pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
menix: Peacefully you say.. You might want to visit them at 11pm. You no go believe wayti you go see and hear. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by grandlexuz(m): 10:47pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Izen: I didn't cone here to argue with you o. I just found your comment ironic. So a man is required to pay a bride price sometimes in the millions before a woman can be called his wife. But are women allowed to. Issorai. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Joy1706(f): 10:54pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
spill:Sorry o. But don't you men do/say the same thing to your wives? 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by grandlexuz(m): 11:09pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
My father did an elaborate foundation on our family house. The piece of land was bought with money belonging to my late brother. The building was raised by mum and occasionally by my dad. My mum now claims full ownership of the house. Recently my dad did keep some of his stuffs in a spare uncompleted bathroom of the house. My mum asked him to remove them and when he refused...hmmmmm. My mum and younger brother got up at 4am and removed the things. When my dad tried to protest he was vandalised. I have seen enough to live in house built by a woman. Not even if that woman was half angel, half human... 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
Of course do men have a choice now that they don't have any useful job to do, they should settle so their wives can house them. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 12:17am On Mar 31, 2016 |
me and my wife are currently living in a house built by her....she has never for once called it her house nor our house.....instead she calls it *my husband's house* mine is still under construction n that is not an issue with us. her salary is five times more than mine....no be my fault...na condition make crayfish bend.....but people dont know.....they think I'm the big guy...for their mind.... abeg, me & my wife na one.....she & all that she has are mine....just as I & all I have are for her. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by onoja12: 5:49am On Mar 31, 2016 |
Correction,history has proven that our ancestors were wiser than the whites when it came to issues of the family.so there for i would want to assure you that nothing was done without a reason.you either are not familiar with your native culture or just didn't care to find out why? Valeree: |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Memejem: 7:32am On Mar 31, 2016 |
agbomere12: Your marriage is a true partnership. Congratulations. Some men on this thread will never understand. I support your union! 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Izen: 7:53am On Mar 31, 2016 |
grandlexuz: So you think a wife is being sold to you? Issorai. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Joy1706(f): 8:36am On Mar 31, 2016 |
GreatEngineer:Sell the house as what? Owner? Mstchewww 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Joy1706(f): 8:39am On Mar 31, 2016 |
grandlexuz:There's no bride price in nigeria that's up to a million naira |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Izen: 8:41am On Mar 31, 2016 |
agbomere12: I like your mindset. At the same time, I think a woman should be able to say that she built her house by herself. There's nothing wrong with that. Better still, she can say it belongs to you both. Personally, I'd like to feel fulfilled as a woman too especially when crossing major milestones. But it's still her choice though. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Ravenna: 9:31am On Mar 31, 2016 |
Orlarmie:Youre paranoid bro, to generalize is to be an eediot. I've see some good rich women who doesnt kill their husbands, e.g Alakija, NOI, madueke, Hillary, Oprah, Beyonce etc. merkel 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by spill(m): 12:01pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Joy1706: I can't deny the fact that men do say such also, but for a real man that is the last thing he will say. Even God who created man and woman identified the existence of NAGGING WIVES. Living in a house built by a nagging wife will nail you life forever. Wonderful, lovely, caring, motherly, wife materials are still existing, if I see such I will live with her with joy. My Mum is a wonderful woman...... |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Memejem: 5:21pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Yea I agree with you. But whether the marriage is arranged or through love I beleive both parties should be willing to marry each other. Because whether you love your spouse or not, if you don't get along with them the marriage will collapse. People in this day and age will not endure being unhappy in a union for years where there are options available to to them to be happier outside of marriage. This isn't limited to problems of infidelity or domestic abuse. Sometimes people are just incompatible together. They just don't get along or like each other. Or they change as the years pass. I don't agree with divorce but if people are not followers of religion. They will separate. And many separate amicably. It doesn't have to be a big drama. I don't look down on people who engage in arranged marriages as per thier culture if they are willing participants. But as for me, I wouldn't engage in such. AreaFada2: |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Orlarmie(m): 7:11pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Ravenna:Can you see you just exhibited the woeman in you by calling someone you don't know an eediot. Showcasing the slogan of peak milk. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Amhappy(f): 9:18pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
I guess some men will rather live in a face me I face you than live in a house built by their wife just because of ego. Your wife building a house doesn't mean you are poor. I know a rich man who never built a house any where in Lagos but was paying huge rent (one storey with boys quarters)in Lekki. After begging her husband to stop wasting money to no avail,his wife is now building a house for them without the man's support. Meanwhile this man has building in other parts of the country. His problem is that he 'hates' Lagos. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Ravenna: 1:08pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
Orlarmie:Are you this slow? Can't you comphrend?! Where did i called somebody an eediot?!! You must be a zombie cos you've got attributed valliany that simply result from stvpidity. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by SenatorJames(m): 7:32pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
Yes. If she carries me along while building it and she is humble and submissive. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Orlarmie(m): 8:42pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
Ravenna:Clap for yourself......you have spoken oyinbo....you now feel good for those abusive lines you just learnt? I advise you stop insulting me |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by GreatEngineer(m): 9:58pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
Joy1706:Will sell the house as owner and nothing will happen, if you don't like it that way, you are on your own. |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Slapsticker: 11:40pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
I am getting a house before I get married, if my wife gets another house it's fine with me, I am definitely not gonna have one house too. if I have a house in Abuja and others in other states, while she has some too in Abuja and I have to sell off one of my houses to run something. what's wrong in staying in her house till I get my stuff done. To ladies out there, run your life to the fullest. buy the best of cars, buy houses, have investments, go on vacations. break out of this mentality that your life depends on marriage to one rich guy out there. become rich on your own, run things and be in charge of your life. that way, you don't attract losers and insecure folks that think all they need to get a lady is money. and lastly, never give in to pressure of marriage and marry below your level. don't marry someone you gonna bankroll the rest of your life. marry someone you can build and empire with. that's my type of lady, that's what I am gonna train my daughter to be. 4 Likes |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Joy1706(f): 12:01am On Apr 03, 2016 |
GreatEngineer:Yimu! When ur name is not on the title deeds. Good luck 1 Like |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by sinceraconcept(m): 9:20am On Apr 13, 2016 |
Keneking:My father used to laughingly tell us his high school principal's story about Osadebe. The principal used to say "Osadebe,o fun mi no miliki konde kan,ose meta,mi o le muu tan" meaning Osadebe gave me a tin of Condensed milk,i couldn't finish it in 3 months. Is Osadebe still alive pls? |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 9:33am On Apr 13, 2016 |
sinceraconcept: Chief Osadebe is late I am listening to Onu Kwube, another amazing song |
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Austin234(m): 8:39am On Jun 07, 2016 |
I think the scenerio here is not living in the house built by ur wife but the complexities that folows it. A house built by a humble, respectful and submisive can acomodate the entire household. Hence, it is a family house. The wife would neither allow her relatives to humiliate her husband because she built the house. In this case, why wont i live in the house built by my wife. On the other hand, an arrogant, boastful, disrespectful and querelsome wife will the opposite of the above. In this case, its a turn off to me. My two cent |
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