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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Apr 14, 2016
NobleAngell:
So now what's gonna happen to the already made men? If we don't marry them, who then will? You want them to remain single and die alone? No! That'll be unfair.
. Hey sweetie, this is how some of us live. We dont really need a wife to make us happy or complete and it aint about queer either, its just a way of life. wink
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:27pm On Apr 14, 2016
WiLdFLame:

kikiki...na urs i wan dey luk 4 nau, i neva believe u flat 4 ukwu!
grin
Better believe am undecided

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Bartork(m): 11:27pm On Apr 14, 2016
EggovinMma:
I blame our men this days who spit more of females into a woman's ovaries than MEN . STOP POPULATING THE WORLD WITH PUS,SIES! !!

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:32pm On Apr 14, 2016
Nice write up. However, there are lots of contributing factors. nice though
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by flokii: 11:32pm On Apr 14, 2016
ECONOMY is bad.. bride price sef come high


Gerrit??

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by mecussey(m): 11:33pm On Apr 14, 2016
Toks2008:
I honestly can't shake the pity off my mind anytime i see how many ladies wallow in frustration simply because they are still single at very marriageable ages and this is why i decide to drop this thought provoking piece.

The major reason many ladies are still single at very ripe age is HIGH EXPECTATION and below is a simple illustration to explain my point.

As a lady please get this straight;Good potential husbands are everywhere but your spec may not be readily available.An average Nigerian lady wants a cute,rich,caring guy and no matter how hard they try to shrug this off,they keep using this as a yardstick to be with a man but unfortunately 2 out of 10 guys are the specs of 8 out of every 10 ladies so these 8 ladies clamor to be with these 2 men but unfortunately these 2 guys can't marry more than a wife each.

My advice to many ladies is to understand that it is perfectly normal to seek for a "financially ok" guy to marry but no matter how hot you may be, it is easier to get a man to marry you when he is struggling than when he is made.Comfort,wealth and good life is not usually instantaneous but progressive.

Don't be fooled,many expensive wedding ceremony you see are sponsored by the bride or groom's family.As a lady,try your best to get something doing and lets just assume you meet a guy that makes as little as 40k a month and you also make like 40k a month,please start a life together and continue to build your lives together. You can always do an elaborate intro and engagement party and proceed to the registry and when you have money you can do a very big wedding ceremony.

This thread is not for the few ladies who are fortunate to find a rich dude but for countless number of Nigerian ladies who are on the other side of the divide.

Our ladies should Stop indulging in ultimate search contest with many other ladies for a rich guy and Until our ladies learn to look in the right direction,be financially independent,lower their expectation and be ready to build a life with a man without the negative preemptive mindset of what will happen after he becomes rich,i guess there will forever be an increase in aver-aged unmarried ladies.


Just trying to make sense.

I like how you presented this case...you are a professional in this department. However, our ladies will never admit that they are searching for the non existing guy. The good girls are actually getting married everyday and I am sure life handles it's cause.
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 14, 2016
HateU2:
grin
Better believe am undecided

na na na, u wan dey lie abi u forgotten that thread u created, askin how sweet u look, remember? i thought ur backside show dre and to hw i cud project it in my memory nau, its like u get some fukufuku pack back dre...hahahaha.
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by DharmyYinks: 11:34pm On Apr 14, 2016
Slapsticker:


this piece was penned on the assumption that when a man is made, a woman can't offer nothing. I think that's a fallacious assumption. Give it a thought again. not alll ladies are broke dependent parasites.

Talking about Tuface and Annie, I think that's a wrong example to grace your point. If Annie had something to offer she wouldn't marry a guy who has fathered many nations. ask dj cuppy if she would wish to marry a guy with baby mamas. dj cuppy could be a way intangible. Let's ask jadekitana.

Be sincere to ursef... bfor any lady can leave a made guy for a broke/struggling guy... its hard. And even if she does.. one way or d other she would still dream of being wit a made guy. And I didnt generalize initially.

Like I said in my previous post... A lady should be valuable such that a guy won't wanna lose her. If TuFace didn't knw her 'worth', he wouldnt ve chosen her over his numerous baby mamas even tho shex not dat beautiful.

U used Dj Cuppy as example.. do u think she can date a broke guy who lives Ajegunle nd is struggling to get 3meal a day?? Nope! Never! Instead she will be looking for a rich dude.. who can match her status. Why do u think most popular female stars are still single? They dnt ve toasters? They do! They re not their type.

It's all bout the content bro... not the product!
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by amokeme(f): 11:34pm On Apr 14, 2016
DharmyYinks:
' but the only future u can truly secure is the one u built with the guy while he was a nobody.
the bold is wrong. The only future you can secure is the one YOU make for yourself. Because some guys dump the women that struggle with them all in the name of "upgrading"
So ill advise the ladies, work hard and secure that future you dream of for yourself. That is the only thing you are sure of.

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Gwan2(m): 11:35pm On Apr 14, 2016
You made a salient point nevertheless i think you juz scratched d surface....You know many factors dat contributes to diz are mostly economical Dan spiritual or self inflicted.....
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A graduate or a guy of marriageable age won't get married until he find his feet financially in terms of sustainable job or huzzle...this guy directly or indirectly is delaying a gal chances of walking down d aisle somewhere....So most tymz..guyz have a preconcieved idea of wat dey want dia financial inflow 2 be b4 tieing d knot,,unfortunately economy factors work against dem inadvertently holding up a potential wife chance somewhere .
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finally., the essence of marriage hav been dragged to d mud, thanks to some ladies "hoeish" display...Most financially bouyant guys if u go by recent statistics dnt hav dat zeal to marry except wit external pressures.

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Irreplaceable48(f): 11:35pm On Apr 14, 2016
Who marriage don Epp?

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:35pm On Apr 14, 2016
WiLdFLame:

na na na, u wan dey lie abi u forgotten that thread u created, askin how sweet u look, remember? i though ur backside show dre and to hw i cud project it in my memory nau, its like u get some fukufuku pack back dre...hahahaha.
I'm actually laughing in 'igbira' now grin.

I can never post my pic as my dp on NL not to talk of asking 4 'ratings'. U don miss am o


In-btw, when ar u uploading ur pix again

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by igwegeorgiano(m): 11:36pm On Apr 14, 2016
Florblu:
And you actually made sense
It's not our fault
We want comfort and fulfillment
note that most relationship with an already made guy may not really stand the test of time cos the ready made guy will surely wanna call da shot at any given time cos the lady wasnt there to contribute to his struggles while it lasted
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by kamelonaire(m): 11:36pm On Apr 14, 2016
Having the prob
Yesterday she call me asking me tu send her card, this is not the first time but that yesterday I text she fall woefull just bcus I said I did not have dosh with me by now never see her call talkless of flashing

What a life woman her leaving

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by viktor01(m): 11:39pm On Apr 14, 2016
funny enough, the girls yakpa and guys no send them again cause the change in town will make you think well except if you happen to be related to Dasuki.
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:41pm On Apr 14, 2016
HateU2:
I'm actually laughing in 'igbira' now grin.

I can never post my pic as my dp on NL not to talk of asking 4 'ratings'. U don miss am o


In-btw, when ar u uploading ur pix again

i no dey upload my pix again oo, u wan make everybody knw wu dey behind dis monicker ni? though sometimes i may feel obliged to do dat, bt who dp pic don epp? u wey no wan tell where u frm wan see me? moi kontinew dey dribble ourselve nau
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Paradise2015(m): 11:41pm On Apr 14, 2016
This is one of the best, if not the best post I have read on romance section because 70-80% of Nigeria ladies are guilty of it and if the can hear this and put it into use it will be of great benefits to them.
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Sunnypa11(m): 11:41pm On Apr 14, 2016
True OP,Givers never Lack and more reason why a beggar will remain poor despite recieving gifts and money.

It is a worthy gamble when you assist him considering how hard it is to secure a good job this days and how easy you may be earning than him.


I wish myself best of luck with a heavy-heart with little or no material in my possession to capture any heart as Struggles continue.

God bless Ada and Mayowa for giving me some Moral support(it is a sign that i am handsome)
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:43pm On Apr 14, 2016
midehi2:
love conquers everything, whether poor or rich grin

Is there anything like 'love' in Nigerian context?
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Revolva(m): 11:43pm On Apr 14, 2016
Nice one I will copy paaste n post on my facebook status
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Ekakamba: 11:45pm On Apr 14, 2016
The last paragraph... grin Epic grin
chimah3:
Ladies of our generation are lazy pipo!! undecided lipsrsealed

No wan do anything useful...just wan chop, clean mouth, dey answer Billionaire wife!

Which one consign me!!

Life z jeje!! Everyone should do what they feel is right...

But I think every lady should have a little dignity and respect for themselves by being useful!!

Btw to open leg, n b dropping children is not the only purpose God wasted time creating you!

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:46pm On Apr 14, 2016
WiLdFLame:

i no dey upload my pix again oo, u wan make everybody knw wu dey behind dis monicker ni? though sometimes i may feel obliged to do dat, bt who dp pic don epp? u wey no wan tell where u frm wan see me? moi kontinew dey dribble ourselve nau
heheheh
Yes oo, mo fé ri oju e.
Dem talk say u resemble woman, se oooto ni
Dat means u will fine small niyen oo not d 'jagajaga' u dey form online.

Ma dribble mi ooo.
I will upload on Saturday by 1am, comot am by 1:10am

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by damilareoye: 11:47pm On Apr 14, 2016
Seriously.... Nice writeup
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 11:48pm On Apr 14, 2016
OP if and only they will learn and listen
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by damilareoye: 11:49pm On Apr 14, 2016
Seriously.... Nice writeup

Some are not ready to start from grassroot with you as if those on top don't have a starting point.
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by urchman3000(m): 11:49pm On Apr 14, 2016
true talk brother, sounded rite.
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 11:51pm On Apr 14, 2016
HateU2:
heheheh
Yes oo, mo fé ri oju e.
Dem talk say u resemble woman, se oooto ni
Dat means u will fine small niyen oo not d 'jagajaga' u dey form online.

Ma dribble mi ooo.
I will upload on Saturday by 1am, comot am by 1:10am
1am To 1-10am hmmmmmmmmm
I will alert the Code of Conduct on ya case
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by habsydiamond(m): 11:52pm On Apr 14, 2016
but some ladies too get ant eye. ant eye is the beginning of predicament. when u quickly jump into marriage because of money u will quickly jumped out of it later. thats why we have many married rich people divorcing nowadays.
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:54pm On Apr 14, 2016
HateU2:
heheheh Yes oo, mo fé ri oju e. Dem talk say u resemble woman, se oooto ni Dat means u will fine small niyen oo not d 'jagajaga' u dey form online.
Ma dribble mi ooo. I will upload on Saturday by 1am, comot am by 1:10am
wu pretty face epp? dat jagajaga na d main thing wey make me dey faceless oo. oya upload quick joor mai see hw pretty without make up u dey jare!
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:54pm On Apr 14, 2016
KingAdeOluomo1:
1am To 1-10am hmmmmmmmmm
I will alert the Code of Conduct on ya case

hehehehe
Please do asap cheesy

Amebo tongue
Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by Nobody: 11:56pm On Apr 14, 2016
WiLdFLame:

wu pretty face epp?
dat jagajaga na d main thing wey make me dey faceless oo.
oya upload quick joor mai see hw pretty without make up u dey jare!
pretty bawo
U wan make I go steal am ni undecided
Se u knw 'omobaba'(aa comedian) We have d same face cheesy

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Re: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 12:09am On Apr 15, 2016
HateU2:
hehehehe Please do asap cheesy
Amebo tongue
shuuuuu he don reach dat stage ni
Ok I rest my case

But for dat kin odd hour hmmmmmm I dey suspect you

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