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babyfaceafrica:
that's a lie..lots of gal play hard to get so has not be seen cheap,but unfortunately for them reasonable and wise guys have better things to do naw..you play hard to get,you are ditch,this life is too short to waste away,everyone has a substitute!!!!

emusmith:
That's why I tenaciously hold the belief: Date a girl when you're ready for marriage.

KashyBaby:
All true OP... but plz add more most men are stubborn like kids, think like kids and act like kids...

dollyjoy:
So on point.

I know most guys wouldn't like this.

godfrey01:
Is there any female that does not roam around tooo.. Female have wired brain thats why they are indecisive... I wonder why that op said guys are indecisive... Its the female folk thats indecisive..... Just imagine a female telll me he don't know which one to choose among two guys....

emusmith:
Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single.


Don't tell me something else because I've had my share and chances and most I blew. I'm not proud saying these but as a note of warning to all other guys who derive pleasure casting blames on the female folks.

Back then in college, I knew of a Lady-friend who called me one night and said, "Smith, I'm about to say Yes to a guy"...waiting for me to say something, "life" got a solid grip on me as I sheepishly let her go.
I am very sure, if you're not a "big eye" or "ojukokoro", you would have had some girls around you who also want to hear you say, Ok, to their green lights.

It boils down to specs. There is nothing absurd if a girl doesn't like you. You are simply not her spec. Chin up and look elsewhere. There are some girls that you can't date too because they don't get to you. It's nature.

Guys Are The Reason Most Girls Are Single? How?

- Most Guys Are Greedy.

Get this right, your lady can't have the complete package. She can be pretty, with big ups and back but lack culinary skills. Some men can teach her and all will return to normalcy. Don't be greedy. No lady is an angel. Atinuke who is not so pretty and not busty, but well behaved/mannered, speaks well, intelligent and Godfearing is after your signature but the lustful part of you wants Samantha who is just the opposite. She is a player. She plays you and you call girls "how". C'mon!

- Most Guys Are Scared Of The Responsibility Marriage Brings.

Say the truth, "you just want a girl for "dating" and not for a "serious relationship". An average normal lady wants a serious relationship by the time she is heading for Year 3. That's when most guys wants to flex and test. There are many "good girls" around who won't give in to sex from unserious guys so they've resorted to "self-servicing". "Mr Right" is still busy counting how many girls he has slept with. SMH!

- Most Guys Are Insensitive

By being sensitive, I mean in being there for your woman all the time, without her asking. It can also be termed, "maturity". Money and diamond is not all a lady needs. Can I tell you now? It's in one word, CARE. She may scream "money"! After giving her the money, she'll scream, "You don't even care". Place "Care" before money and Love is born.


- Most Guys Are Still Broke!

I would not allow my sister marry a broke man! A broke man is not the man that earns 40-70k. It's a man who lacks money sense. It's a man who lacks confidence of the future. A guy should know how to use the salary he is receiving to better his life, his investments and others around him. If you smell broke, you are broke. If you are broke, no sensible girl should marry you. Take note: a jobless guy now, might not be broke.


- Most Guys Are Indecisive

Nothing puts a girl off like indecision. You have to be sure it's her you want in your life, her faults notwithstanding. You can't keep saying Yes, No, Yes, No...Time is of the essence.


PS: Everyone quickly blames a 30+ lady who is still single for messing up while she was younger. They wouldn't do if they had an elder sis or aunt in such predicament. GUYS ARE THE REASON LADIES ARE STILL SINGLE. You can date any girl you want to, if you know what price you are ready to pay. If you feel you can't maintain the relationship, don't go into it. You ask out a girl whose cream is half your salary and she (out of consideration) tells you No. Don't call her names. She just saved you. She's not your spec. Meanwhile, if she likes you land shows you that, then, you are confident that both of you can be responsible for the mobility of the relationship. Cut your coat according to your cloth: if you do, you will see you'll that you've been the one keeping ladies single.

KashyBaby:
Yes, female has a wired brain but that doesn't mean we can't decide...we're only taking our time enough to think...unlike men, they even have baby mamas yet still can't decide which he wants to settle coz he still thinks of how many punan1 he cud fork... making him so irresponsible... and only kids are acting up like that...

KashyBaby:
Who researched that? A kid, ryt? Unless u can support all ur allegations, feel free to drop those link... otherwise, u juz prove urself, ur one of them--- KIDS...

Obamina:
Shot up pu dis girl. Wen u insult us filish u wan make we com marry u abi.

Oliviaarims:
Lol...Just leave my eyes out of this! I need to see more comments from different guys.

emusmith:
I like your sincerity. Besides, most of us real guys resonate with these points.

HardMirror:
You must be a matured guy. Pleasure meeting you

HateU2:
emusmith, thanks for this.
Guys wants to taste virtually every girl.
A guy complains that you don't yansh, boobs height and all that but he still says he's in love with you
I will always say it, guys are complicated more than we ladies because they don't know what they want. They have 'ojukokoro' just like mrcork(eediot nlander) looking for light skin girl .

They love Dami bcox she's homely but she no get big 'packages'.
They love Sola bcox she's gud in sex but she can't cook .
They love kemi because she's exactly she's good in sex, beautiful, have packages but she no get height
Are they not complicated





Grow up and be contented with that girl now. If u don't treat her right, others guys are waiting for you to fvck up and treat her better don't tink you are 'god' mehn!


I rest my case

ireneony:
No.1 is so correct; thrse are one of the reason some ladies catfish on social media (instagram, facebook, Twitter ..) men are blind/lust with what they see. Most men say ladies lie alot, the truth is they enjoy being lied to. Check instagram for example a lady who show cases her assets have more followers and likes than the normal average.

tempem:
Ain't a religious fanatic but these principles up there are valid.

HateU2:
emusmith, thanks for this.
Guys wants to taste virtually every girl.
A guy complains that you don't yansh, boobs height and all that but he still says he's in love with you
I will always say it, guys are complicated more than we ladies because they don't know what they want. They have 'ojukokoro' just like mrcork(eediot nlander) looking for light skin girl .

They love Dami bcox she's homely but she no get big 'packages'.
They love Sola bcox she's gud in sex but she can't cook .
They love kemi because she's exactly she's good in sex, beautiful, have packages but she no get height
Are they not complicated





Grow up and be contented with that girl now. If u don't treat her right, others guys are waiting for you to fvck up and treat her better don't tink you are 'god' mehn!


I rest my case

godfrey01:
Kashybaby.. Did you just say we think about the punnnny we are going to bleep.. Anywayz na you get your mouth.... Wud up prettty damsel like you.... You look really kool on your dp and I hope thats you.... Can we talk more about this privately... Because it seems you are really good in topics like this...

udysweet:
You want her curvy,busty,sexy infact she must keep turning u on anytime u set eyes oon her. She must also be strong chritisan and hav her own money bcs ur too stingy to spend ur own money on her. And you come here to say women are been picky and setting high standards when you as a man has set standards way higher than that of a woman. And if any woman longs for comfort even from a man wch isn't uncommon,you say she is greedy. I've never been rude here on NL before but in Francis Odega's voice"gherarahia mehn"
God bless u @op jare. Me I crave comfrt and the good things of life and it dsnt hav to be by force the man has to give me but if I'm a wife,isn't it a man's duty to see to me as his responsibilty and then anytin I bring as a support is secondary? Not all dis"morn food mony" or "aftanoon food mony"
A lot of factors are responsible for why women are single,some way beyond their power as it also applied to the male folks. Not because of standards.
Abg I'm talking too much jare,lol!
Una good afternoon o from the other side

mentorandfriend:
Very important. Guys should stop wasting a lady's precious time. Date when you're ready, mentally, spiritually, financially, etc.

Real men are sincere and don't date for dating sake. They rather keep and maintain wonderful friendship with the opposite sex rather than leading them on when all you want is to have access to free sex. That's deception.

KashyBaby:
Oh yeah exactly that is ME ...
I saw ur PM...Lol what more we gone talk "privately " ? Hahhahaha! Funny u.

nenergy:
The research part was a joke Anyways, there's no allegation, I just stated an observation. Both genders need to be more understanding.

emusmith:
Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single.


Don't tell me something else because I've had my share and chances and most I blew. I'm not proud saying these but as a note of warning to all other guys who derive pleasure casting blames on the female folks.

Back then in college, I knew of a Lady-friend who called me one night and said, "Smith, I'm about to say Yes to a guy"...waiting for me to say something, "life" got a solid grip on me as I sheepishly let her go.
I am very sure, if you're not a "big eye" or "ojukokoro", you would have had some girls around you who also want to hear you say, Ok, to their green lights.

It boils down to specs. There is nothing absurd if a girl doesn't like you. You are simply not her spec. Chin up and look elsewhere. There are some girls that you can't date too because they don't get to you. It's nature.

Guys Are The Reason Most Girls Are Single? How?

- Most Guys Are Greedy.

Get this right, your lady can't have the complete package. She can be pretty, with big ups and back but lack culinary skills. Some men can teach her and all will return to normalcy. Don't be greedy. No lady is an angel. Atinuke who is not so pretty and not busty, but well behaved/mannered, speaks well, intelligent and Godfearing is after your signature but the lustful part of you wants Samantha who is just the opposite. She is a player. She plays you and you call girls "how". C'mon!

- Most Guys Are Scared Of The Responsibility Marriage Brings.

Say the truth, "you just want a girl for "dating" and not for a "serious relationship". An average normal lady wants a serious relationship by the time she is heading for Year 3. That's when most guys wants to flex and test. There are many "good girls" around who won't give in to sex from unserious guys so they've resorted to "self-servicing". "Mr Right" is still busy counting how many girls he has slept with. SMH!

- Most Guys Are Insensitive

By being sensitive, I mean in being there for your woman all the time, without her asking. It can also be termed, "maturity". Money and diamond is not all a lady needs. Can I tell you now? It's in one word, CARE. She may scream "money"! After giving her the money, she'll scream, "You don't even care". Place "Care" before money and Love is born.


- Most Guys Are Still Broke!

I would not allow my sister marry a broke man! A broke man is not the man that earns 40-70k. It's a man who lacks money sense. It's a man who lacks confidence of the future. A guy should know how to use the salary he is receiving to better his life, his investments and others around him. If you smell broke, you are broke. If you are broke, no sensible girl should marry you. Take note: a jobless guy now, might not be broke.


- Most Guys Are Indecisive

Nothing puts a girl off like indecision. You have to be sure it's her you want in your life, her faults notwithstanding. You can't keep saying Yes, No, Yes, No...Time is of the essence.


PS: Everyone quickly blames a 30+ lady who is still single for messing up while she was younger. They wouldn't do if they had an elder sis or aunt in such predicament. GUYS ARE THE REASON LADIES ARE STILL SINGLE. You can date any girl you want to, if you know what price you are ready to pay. If you feel you can't maintain the relationship, don't go into it. You ask out a girl whose cream is half your salary and she (out of consideration) tells you No. Don't call her names. She just saved you. She's not your spec. Meanwhile, if she likes you and shows you that, then, you are confident that both of you can be responsible for the mobility of the relationship. Cut your coat according to your cloth: if you do, you will see you'll that you've been the one keeping ladies single.

babyfaceafrica:
Ass-licking OP

vizkiz:
Busy guys don't have time to be running after one girl for a long time. A lady who isn't straight forward with her feelings is not worth the effort

godfrey01:
Many many stufffs about the male and female folks... I thought you were a Nigeria all this time....

emusmith:
You're talking to me too. Thanks.