Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. - Romance (2)

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Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by firstking01(m): 9:52pm On Apr 20, 2016

Btw, Where una keep halfricanadian embarassed

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nina4u(f): 9:58pm On Apr 20, 2016

Guys on niraland never asked me silly question just straight up ...u got bbm or WhatsApp..sure I go ..bla bla bla

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by tosyne2much(m): 10:17pm On Apr 20, 2016

donbenedict:
Abeg eh if any guy deny say him neva send any babe pm for here., abeg ladies make una expose am if u knw say him don send una pm...

You want make dem burst guys bubble sha... I know say u sef follow feature

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Dimejidude(m): 10:22pm On Apr 20, 2016

fairlyusedpant:
babe don't mind them, they are mostly ibadan guys

Choi; Ibadan Boys have suffered grin

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by tosyne2much(m): 10:30pm On Apr 20, 2016

I think I can relate with this... OP, I wonder the calibre of guys sending you PMs sha

As for me, if I send PM to a lady, that lady should just know that I find her intellectually sound to have sent PM wanting to know more of her and that doesn't put her in a position to start acting like I want to woo her or something.

The moment a lady replies my PM, I will directly demand we chat on BBM or whatsapp where we get to talk better.. So OP, I think kids have been the ones sending you avalanche of PMs

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Apr 20, 2016

SANDOSKI:
*whispers in his ears, why are you smiling *

Because yua beeyuuteeful grin

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 10:50pm On Apr 20, 2016

AirSultan:
Because yua beeyuuteeful

Super story__Episode 4

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nickymezor(f): 10:56pm On Apr 20, 2016

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Luckygurl(f): 10:58pm On Apr 20, 2016

#SMH

Exactly what happened with me not long ago.
I mean, why'll you out of the blues send a pm to someone you've had no form of interaction with on here.

I normally don't reply such pm's but cos of the ongoing miss NL contest, I had to thinking it had something to do with it.
Someone from nowwhere started requesting for my whatsapp contact under the guise of been friends with no strings attached.
God knows I politely declined his request.
Dude had the guts to reply amidst the insults he hurled at me.
It took a lot of willpower not to reply him, silence atimes is golden.

If not for the gentlemanly attitude of the few males on here I established contact with off NL, I'd have given up totally on the sanity of NL guys.
Some of you really need to step up your games undecided

You don't appear from nowhere sending pm's to monikers with 'f' attached to them. Chances of been ignored are way too high cos believe me, you ain't the only one sending such.
Try establish some form of rapport here first, that way you'd be sure of a positive answer atleast to some extent.

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Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by okuneddie(m): 11:01pm On Apr 20, 2016

tosyne2much:
I think I can relate with this... OP, I wonder the calibre of guys sending you PMs sha

As for me, if I send PM to a lady, that lady should just know that I find her intellectually sound to have sent PM wanting to know more of her and that doesn't put her in a position to start acting like I want to woo her or something.

The moment a lady replies my PM, I will directly demand we chat on BBM or whatsapp where we get to talk better.. So OP, I think kids have been the ones sending you avalanche of PMs

.Tosyne a beg Na how dem dey send PM seriously wahalai I no know

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by kaziblake(f): 11:09pm On Apr 20, 2016

tosyne2much:
I think I can relate with this... OP, I wonder the calibre of guys sending you PMs sha

As for me, if I send PM to a lady, that lady should just know that I find her intellectually sound to have sent PM wanting to know more of her and that doesn't put her in a position to start acting like I want to woo her or something.

The moment a lady replies my PM, I will directly demand we chat on BBM or whatsapp where we get to talk better.. So OP, I think kids have been the ones sending you avalanche of PMs

Seconded

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 11:09pm On Apr 20, 2016

SANDOSKI:
Super story__Episode 4

Baby. Ah cross my heart, ayam telling the truth. I bn notice say you fine, you d one wey God design... I rarely do this but the force wey compel me this time is outta this world!

Just take my word for it.

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by kaziblake(f): 11:10pm On Apr 20, 2016

Not all are like that..i have met and made great friends here in nairaland.

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Apr 20, 2016

AirSultan:
Baby. Ah cross my heart, ayam telling the truth. I bn notice say you fine, you d one wey God design... I rarely do this but the force wey compel me this time is outta this world!

Just take my word for it.

Hmmm.m_________*viewing at 3D*

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by tosyne2much(m): 11:21pm On Apr 20, 2016

kaziblake:
Seconded

So you agree with me

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Apr 20, 2016

SANDOSKI:
Hmmm.m_________*viewing at 3D*

Continue..
Up barca tho cheesy

They won 8-0 today.. Yay!

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 11:29pm On Apr 20, 2016

KashyBaby:
Some men are rude as well OP... they will say ," hi, give me your number and Skype.. what the hell is wrong with some men?

And yet somehow you have or would eventually develop a thing for those men... Oya confess!

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by tosyne2much(m): 11:30pm On Apr 20, 2016*

Luckygurl:
#SMH

Exactly what happened with me not long ago.
I mean, why'll you out of the blues send a pm to someone you've had no form of interaction with on here.

I normally don't reply such pm's but cos of the ongoing miss NL contest, I had to thinking it had something to do with it.
Someone from nowwhere started requesting for my whatsapp contact under the guise of been friends with no strings attached.
God knows I politely declined his request.
Dude had the guts to reply amidst the insults he hurled at me.
It took a lot of willpower not to reply him, silence atimes is golden.

If not for the gentlemanly attitude of the few males on here I established contact with off NL, I'd have given up totally on the sanity of NL guys.
Some of you really need to step up your games

You don't appear from nowhere sending pm's to monikers with 'f' attached to them. Chances of been ignored are way too high cos believe me, you ain't the only one sending such.
Try establish some form of rapport here first, that way you'd be sure of a positive answer atleast to some extent.

My dear, change your ideology and don't be delusional in thinking like an average 9ja girl. Can't you just see that it's only a person with warped and retar.d ideology that thinks someone can't approach you simply because you haven't formed a rapport with such person?

The people you know today were once strangers and I'm of the belief that there's no rule whatsoever stating that a guy is only permitted to send a PM to a lady he has established some form of rapport with... However, a dude might like your online personality and hence, decides to send a PM, what's the big deal about that? I mean does that make that person low in value?

The highest you can ever do is ignore his PM if you don't want any disturbance and that doesn't mean you should come here ranting and start forming what you are not... Some of you are not even as classy, decent, pretty and disciplined as you portray yourself on nairaland.

In conclusion, of course, a dude can send PM to a lady he barely knows and it's let for her to decide whether to reply or not. Don't come here to talk thrash thinking that the regular PMs you receive is a yardstick or assurance of value

Cc
Mediapace
okuneddie

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Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 11:32pm On Apr 20, 2016

AirSultan:
Continue..

Up barca tho

They won 8-0 today.. Yay!

Guess it's inspiration from samuel eto'o... 8 out of 9 shots on goal entered the net... Damn!

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 11:35pm On Apr 20, 2016

babafemi1000:
Guess it's inspiration from samuel eto'o... 8 out of 9 shots on goal entered the net... Damn!

Messi shey? Leave my man jare, it happens sometimes

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Rexhenrex(m): 11:37pm On Apr 20, 2016

You back at last missed you loads how av you been na

EroticAngelina:
lols yes oh!

they will be sending lots of PM, when I manage to answer, some will be like " I'm not really an email person, let's chat on WhatsApp" or "my email is having problem, lets chat on whatsapp or bbm for the mean time until I repair it" hehehe

the one that vexs me is when they just drop their number and say "jx add me, I'm online. when u add me just send me a msg"
nawa oo

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by ehix89(m): 11:40pm On Apr 20, 2016

rheether:
Lol! Niaraland guys are the worst set of people with their boring chats.

Stereotyping is a sin, Generalization is a crime

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by AfroKnight: 11:41pm On Apr 20, 2016

No time to PM nairaland babes.

What these guys don't know is that they are falling for the "online" persona of the girl in question. It is fake. In person, she is nothing like that. Meeting a girl in person is often better. First, it clarifies issues of appearance, height and manners and for some people like me, eloquence.

Online, she can be anything. Some of these NL babes are not really all that. Ordinary everyday girl will be forming posh. After all her online forming, you'd be disappointed when you finally meet her and find out that she doesn't have the kind of legs you admire or her laughter is not so beautiful to behold or other little issues that we deem important. grin

Better to walk up to a lady and do your thing than to fall for one online chick and get shortchanged. grin

By then, you would have played your hand too early and it won't be smooth to back out.

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Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Rexhenrex(m): 11:42pm On Apr 20, 2016

not all some girls make it very difficult for guys when you chat with some the way the reply is similar to you defending your project!

rheether:
Lol! Niaraland guys are the worst set of people with their boring chats.

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by ehix89(m): 11:43pm On Apr 20, 2016

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Take things nice and slow, through mails?[/color]

mails thats already slow

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 11:43pm On Apr 20, 2016

AirSultan:
Messi shey? Leave my man jare, it happens sometimes

You know about a few days back, eto'o visited them... Messi, neymar, and iniesta too.., so maybe that's the inspiration...

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by tosyne2much(m): 11:47pm On Apr 20, 2016

okuneddie:
.Tosyne a beg Na how dem dey send PM seriously wahalai I no know

Dey dia dey deceive yourself... Like say na today you dey send am

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Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by iykekelvins(m): 11:49pm On Apr 20, 2016

ehix89:
mails thats already slow

[color=#099999]I wonder[/color]

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 11:52pm On Apr 20, 2016

babafemi1000:
You know about a few days back, eto'o visited them... Messi, neymar, and iniesta too.., so maybe that's the inspiration...

yua right tho.

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Nobody: 11:58pm On Apr 20, 2016

babafemi1000:
And yet somehow you have or would eventually develop a thing for those men... Oya confess!

Lol....yes, I developed anger..

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by Mediapace: 12:03am On Apr 21, 2016

Firstly boss am not mediapiece,don't even know it isn't only wristbangle that makes that mistake. Am Mediapace grin

Meanwhile:

Lemme add my own contributions
I don't see anything bad in guys asking for your p.number,Op am very sure if it was to be wizkid,Davido,lilkesh or kiss daniel that asked for your number,you willn't hesitate to include twitter,skype,facebøok and bbm .
The fact is that he may really like something about you and don't like chatting through emails,wana hear the real you ,sometimes email merges words together sef,males like hearing your sexy voice,it makes them fall in love with you immediately.
Now to the men,sending pm to someone you love and asking for her p.number immediately is bad,most girs hate it,just try and drag the topic for like two weeks before asking for her number like i always do wink

.

Hope i just add something meaningful ?

Yours sincerely,
Mediapace

tosyne2much:
My dear, change your ideology and don't be delusional in thinking like an average 9ja girl. Can't you just see that it's only a person with warped and retar.d ideology that thinks someone can't approach you simply because you haven't formed a rapport with such person?

The people you know today were once strangers and I'm of the belief that there's no rule whatsoever stating that a guy is only permitted to send a PM to a lady he has established some form of rapport with... However, a dude might like your online personality and hence, decides to send a PM, what's the big deal about that? I mean does that make that person low in value?

The highest you can ever do is ignore his PM if you don't want any disturbance and that doesn't mean you should come here ranting and start forming what you are not... Some of your are not even as classy, pretty and disciplined as you portray on nairaland.

In conclusion, of course, a dude can send PM to a lady he barely knows and it's let for her to decide whether to reply or not. Don't come here to talk thrash because you are sending you PMs

Cc
Mediapiece

Re: Nairaland Guys And Their Funny Ways Of Asking For A Lady's Number 2ru PM. by eitsei(m): 12:04am On Apr 21, 2016

tosyne2much:
My dear, change your ideology and don't be delusional in thinking like an average 9ja girl. Can't you just see that it's only a person with warped and retar.d ideology that thinks someone can't approach you simply because you haven't formed a rapport with such person?

The people you know today were once strangers and I'm of the belief that there's no rule whatsoever stating that a guy is only permitted to send a PM to a lady he has established some form of rapport with... However, a dude might like your online personality and hence, decides to send a PM, what's the big deal about that? I mean does that make that person low in value?

The highest you can ever do is ignore his PM if you don't want any disturbance and that doesn't mean you should come here ranting and start forming what you are not... Some of your are not even as classy, pretty and disciplined as you portray on nairaland.

In conclusion, of course, a dude can send PM to a lady he barely knows and it's let for her to decide whether to reply or not. Don't come here to talk thrash because you are sending you PMs

Cc
Mediapace
okuneddie

thanks Jare egbon, sometimes I wonder what do they aim to achieve with all these their forming, If I send pm to anyone and you reply, I introduce myself and I ask for your digit straight up why beating round Bush? My life is not attached to your digit if you don't give me na your problem be that
There's someone I met from here that before I sent the pm it's not like I had any kind of rapport with the person on nairaland before but since we've been talking it's been wonderful because she has an amazing personality

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