You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic.

It can be pretty frustrating if you invite a lady over with the intention of finally getting down and she refuses to give you what you want. Knowing how to handle it will make a very big difference.

1. Don’t push it:

You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic. Plus, it will instantly turn her off. There is nothing arousing about being pressured for sex. If she says no, let it be, simply pretend it does not bother you and don’t bring it up for a while. She will be taken aback and begin to immediately question whether or not she will give it to you, which is what you want

2. Get her to relax:

The thing is, most women expect that visiting a guy means he will ask for sex. This causes her to put her guard up. Even if she is willing to give it to you, she would still want you to work for it. So, what you need to do is get her to bring down her guard by getting her to relax. If you ask and she says no, focus on other ways to make her feel comfortable with you. Watch a comedy, play some games, whatever makes her laugh and let go. It is only when she feels truly comfortable that she will consider having sex with you.

3. Make you move:

Now she is relaxed, comfortable and laughing with you, this is when you make your move. Flirt with her by bringing sex into the convo. Start with something random but not too threatening like, ‘Damn, if I ever get hold of that sexy ass of yours, I will take you to heaven and back.’ In one statement, you have complimented her and made her think about sex with you. If you have followed steps 1 and 2 above, by now she will be having an inner conflict whether or not to let you have some. But once again, don’t push. Flirt with her and compliment her. If she giggles or return the flirting, slowly move towards her and give her a soft kiss. Let her lead the way so she feels like she has all the power. At this point, make sure she tells you with her words or her body that she is ready to take things to the next level.

Warning: These tips will only work if she is attracted to you in the first place but unsure if she wants to sleep with you. If she insists she is not interested in sex after cajoling and flirting with her, respect her decisions. There is absolutely nothing sexy or manly about rape or coercive sex

...and if it doesn't work? Are we free to devour her voraciously?

Cheeeeeei


Damn if I ever get hold of dat ass, I will sure get u to heaven and back




Damn if I ever get hold of dat ass, I will sure get u to heaven and back



Damn if I ever get hold of that ass, I will sure get u to heaven and bak



Okon: wat ur u doing donbenedict



Donbenedict: I dey try cram wetin the op talk so I will tell d babe wey wan com see me today

Is it by force to have sex with her

Frei:
Is it by force to have sex with her

Whatz now the essense of dating her..?? esp if she is just a side chick

simzco1:
Whatz now the essense of dating her..?? esp if she is just a side chick

And someone is begging me not to give up on our men?

Our men are shameless.

simzco1:
Whatz now the essense of dating her..?? esp if she is just a side chick

sex is the essense of dating her? So anytime she visits, all you think is sex. She refused' let her be! Not like she won't open next time.

Stupedinluv:
And someone is begging me not to give up on our men?

Our men are shameless.

You're delusional and possibly a schizophrenic .

How about respecting her wishes and not manipulating her to have sex?

Mr op,na rape be this.. If she no want,you forget about it simple.

raayah:
How about respecting her wishes and not manipulating her to have sex?

You see, here in Nigeria, you have to be a master manipulator to succeed.

In politics, you manipulate.
In education, you manipulate.
In Church, some pastors de manipulate
Some ladies de manipulate to collect our money without respecting our wishes.
Even in marriages, some women de manipulate their husbands.
So, you see, we just have to manipulate to chow the ponmo, because if we don't, someone else will.

una get time....

u Côme my house and u want no sex for no reason. i go just delete your Number sharp sharp. imagine...

so wetin do cool joints

mizlolar:
You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic.

It can be pretty frustrating if you invite a lady over with the intention of finally getting down and she refuses to give you what you want. Knowing how to handle it will make a very big difference. If you missed my post on 6 solid ways to know if your girlfriend just slept with someone else, you should check it out HERE

1. Don’t push it:

You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic. Plus, it will instantly turn her off. There is nothing arousing about being pressured for sex. If she says no, let it be, simply pretend it does not bother you and don’t bring it up for a while. She will be taken aback and begin to immediately question whether or not she will give it to you, which is what you want

2. Get her to relax:

The thing is, most women expect that visiting a guy means he will ask for sex. This causes her to put her guard up. Even if she is willing to give it to you, she would still want you to work for it. So, what you need to do is get her to bring down her guard by getting her to relax. If you ask and she says no, focus on other ways to make her feel comfortable with you. Watch a comedy, play some games, whatever makes her laugh and let go. It is only when she feels truly comfortable that she will consider having sex with you.

3. Make you move:

Now she is relaxed, comfortable and laughing with you, this is when you make your move. Flirt with her by bringing sex into the convo. Start with something random but not too threatening like, ‘Damn, if I ever get hold of that sexy ass of yours, I will take you to heaven and back.’ In one statement, you have complimented her and made her think about sex with you. If you have followed steps 1 and 2 above, by now she will be having an inner conflict whether or not to let you have some. But once again, don’t push. Flirt with her and compliment her. If she giggles or return the flirting, slowly move towards her and give her a soft kiss. Let her lead the way so she feels like she has all the power. At this point, make sure she tells you with her words or her body that she is ready to take things to the next level.

Warning: These tips will only work if she is attracted to you in the first place but unsure if she wants to sleep with you. If she insists she is not interested in sex after cajoling and flirting with her, respect her decisions. There is absolutely nothing sexy or manly about rape or coercive sex

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And after the sex, I guess you will be given a Trophy and some dollars right?

All these, just to nail a*s
Nah... I'll pass.

mizlolar:
You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic.

It can be pretty frustrating if you invite a lady over with the intention of finally getting down and she refuses to give you what you want. Knowing how to handle it will make a very big difference. If you missed my post on 6 solid ways to know if your girlfriend just slept with someone else, you should check it out HERE

1. Don’t push it:

You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic. Plus, it will instantly turn her off. There is nothing arousing about being pressured for sex. If she says no, let it be, simply pretend it does not bother you and don’t bring it up for a while. She will be taken aback and begin to immediately question whether or not she will give it to you, which is what you want

2. Get her to relax:

The thing is, most women expect that visiting a guy means he will ask for sex. This causes her to put her guard up. Even if she is willing to give it to you, she would still want you to work for it. So, what you need to do is get her to bring down her guard by getting her to relax. If you ask and she says no, focus on other ways to make her feel comfortable with you. Watch a comedy, play some games, whatever makes her laugh and let go. It is only when she feels truly comfortable that she will consider having sex with you.

3. Make you move:

Now she is relaxed, comfortable and laughing with you, this is when you make your move. Flirt with her by bringing sex into the convo. Start with something random but not too threatening like, ‘Damn, if I ever get hold of that sexy ass of yours, I will take you to heaven and back.’ In one statement, you have complimented her and made her think about sex with you. If you have followed steps 1 and 2 above, by now she will be having an inner conflict whether or not to let you have some. But once again, don’t push. Flirt with her and compliment her. If she giggles or return the flirting, slowly move towards her and give her a soft kiss. Let her lead the way so she feels like she has all the power. At this point, make sure she tells you with her words or her body that she is ready to take things to the next level.

Warning: These tips will only work if she is attracted to you in the first place but unsure if she wants to sleep with you. If she insists she is not interested in sex after cajoling and flirting with her, respect her decisions. There is absolutely nothing sexy or manly about rape or coercive sex

So, you're a woman and gives unscrupulous guys room to manipulate your folks?

Shame on you!

Op na me you wan teach all this old methods.Haba I used them way back Secondary school days na,anyway there are beginners here though they need it.

Stupedinluv:
And someone is begging me not to give up on our men?

Our men are shameless.

Speak for yourself

She doesnt want sex then free her. Yur girlfriend aint a sex machine for cooling off.

nonny400:
...and if it doesn't work? Are we free to devour her voraciously?

hahahahahahahahah



Dude, I swear down I'm really laughing out loud right now

donbenedict:
Cheeeeeei


Damn if I ever get hold of dat ass, I will sure get u to heaven and back




Damn if I ever get hold of dat ass, I will sure get u to heaven and back



Damn if I ever get hold of that ass, I will sure get u to heaven and bak



Okon: wat ur u doing donbenedict



Donbenedict: I dey try cram wetin the op talk so I will tell d babe wey wan com see me today

Rotflmao

Lots of comedians on this thread




Una no go kee me o

Sex won't be on my mind if she comes over unless she's damn sexy.

Don't think ican remember the number of times I've had sex.


I really don't need this



Besides I'm married now

LieDetector:
Rotflmao

Lots of comedians on this thread




Una no go kee me o

funny enuf the babe read this and cancelled her visit

Do i need this if she only calls to know if I'm home so she could come and have me rock her? And not me asking for it??

Guess i should now make her beg for it lol

raayah:
How about respecting her wishes and not manipulating her to have sex?

Manipulate Nd u'r sure u know the meaning of dah word?

Stupedinluv:
And someone is begging me not to give up on our men?

Our men are shameless.

where are the Mods ?? how can someone just come up here and type this nonsense...
u overly just keep spewing rubbish every time ...u are so delusional and need to be taken to the lawma's dumbsite.... u are a shame on African women!!

My broda @Rhymxkid d stock fish @Stupedinluv is frustrated.

mizlolar:
.............If she insists she is not interested in sex after cajoling and flirting with her, respect her decisions. There is absolutely nothing sexy or manly about rape or coercive sex

Why not teach them to respect her first decision?

this is one of the reasons I dont honour "the come to my house" invitation, guys are so fond of that these days,you meet a girl today,the next day na come know my house go be the next thing

mizlolar:
You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic.

It can be pretty frustrating if you invite a lady over with the intention of finally getting down and she refuses to give you what you want. Knowing how to handle it will make a very big difference. If you missed my post on 6 solid ways to know if your girlfriend just slept with someone else, you should check it out HERE

1. Don’t push it:

You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic. Plus, it will instantly turn her off. There is nothing arousing about being pressured for sex. If she says no, let it be, simply pretend it does not bother you and don’t bring it up for a while. She will be taken aback and begin to immediately question whether or not she will give it to you, which is what you want

2. Get her to relax:

The thing is, most women expect that visiting a guy means he will ask for sex. This causes her to put her guard up. Even if she is willing to give it to you, she would still want you to work for it. So, what you need to do is get her to bring down her guard by getting her to relax. If you ask and she says no, focus on other ways to make her feel comfortable with you. Watch a comedy, play some games, whatever makes her laugh and let go. It is only when she feels truly comfortable that she will consider having sex with you.

3. Make you move:

Now she is relaxed, comfortable and laughing with you, this is when you make your move. Flirt with her by bringing sex into the convo. Start with something random but not too threatening like, ‘Damn, if I ever get hold of that sexy ass of yours, I will take you to heaven and back.’ In one statement, you have complimented her and made her think about sex with you. If you have followed steps 1 and 2 above, by now she will be having an inner conflict whether or not to let you have some. But once again, don’t push. Flirt with her and compliment her. If she giggles or return the flirting, slowly move towards her and give her a soft kiss. Let her lead the way so she feels like she has all the power. At this point, make sure she tells you with her words or her body that she is ready to take things to the next level.

Warning: These tips will only work if she is attracted to you in the first place but unsure if she wants to sleep with you. If she insists she is not interested in sex after cajoling and flirting with her, respect her decisions. There is absolutely nothing sexy or manly about rape or coercive sex

can we fork?