nnamdiokere45:
Taa, na so girl they do joor. at first no be this same girl no like condom? baba it happens joor...no mind all those kinda threat. mke dem pray for u cus d fear nw na mke d babe no folo d talk with backing from one baba

Some girls are mean,she can go more than the backing of baba ooo,I have seen lots of guys destroyed that way that was why I respected my youthful days.The guy Bleep up big time and I don't know how to advice him.

Oh..

D abortion wz their decision. Is nt lyk d guy forced her. Moreova she doesn't lyk hving sex wit condom lyk d dude said, so let me ask; persn wey no hv sex wit condom no b belle she wan get?... I dnt support d guy dou bt I hv alwz told gals, a rshp dt doesn't lead anywhr, y give in evryt?... D gal is cursed too, killing four babies in 6 yrs... She is d real devil invcarnate and shld b stoned... Wicked Gal!!!

Specialbaby:
isn't that wickedness? After six solid years of up and down,six years isn't six days,what about the abortions?

Some guys are devil incarnate.

Am surprised at people sha, 6years and in all that u still promised her marriage, tied her down, enjoyed her finances emotions body and all, 4abortions and now u wanna get married to another. Hmmmmmmm my dear if u love this new lady u want to marry then u will not marry her and cause her untold misery. The curses from her ain't finished u are yet to hear from her parents that u took advantage if their care. There's no way u don't know u didn't love her that much. True live can't just fade, u were greedy u used her to step up in life and for that I add my own curses it will not be well with u. People like u do not deserve anything good. Who have u now dumped ur used property for? Ur village elders I guess. May devil set not forgive u

GboyegaD:


Were the abortions carried out at gun point? She is only playing the victim card however, the fun was mutual and she should quickly smell the coffee to wake up.

she's not playing the victim's card. At least from the post, it's the guy that is worried. He wouldn't feel worried if he didn't feel he offended her.

Specialbaby:
you and I know that raw sex can't be equated with ruber sex,if a lady you are attached to hate condom,the best thing to do is explore alternatives birth control methods if you are not ready to be an emergency dad,btw,the last time i checked,guys are the ones who always insist on unprotected sex.

And i askd again, y wud a sane man/wowan wnt raw sex wen he/she doesn't knw d HIV/STD status of his/her partner? By ur coment nw u ar encouragin raw sex by initiatin birth cntrol measure n2 d picture. I kip on sayin it dat we ar d ones killin ourselves. Abeg if u must do eeh alwyz use protection irrespectiv of hw inluv u ar until u ar married.

onoslove:
I have read so many people's views and all that. But I will share my view with the stories below .My elder bro married the girl that he dated for 11 years just 2months ago. Truth is my family didn't like the girl, including me, but every time I always asked myself, if that girl is my kid sister, would I have wished that a guy dumps her after 11 years. The answer obviously is no. Just few weeks ago, I asked her how did my brother propose to her, she said my brother didn't propose, but they just knew that they will get married. That guy knew he wasn't going to marry that girl, and he knew long before that day that he broke the relationship. This is my observation, and I don't want anybody to agree with me, because of how difficult things are in the economy, so many guys out there are looking for soft landing. That is why when I meet a guy for the first time and he asking me what I do for a living, I just them I am working as an house help to somebody, or learning a skill. I met a guy around 2007 or 2008, and them we started a relationship, a friend came in one day and asked me if I was dating the guy and I said yes, and he she told me that the guy has a girl that he has been dating for 8years and that the lady is 36 years already, while the guy then was 32, when I confronted him, he didn't deny it, but rather he told me that he never promised the girl marriage . He said he doesn't love the girl anymore, that it is me he wants now, and even proposed marriage right there. I remember telling him to his face that, I have conscience, that God will not forgive me if I agree to marry him, that if that girl opens her month to curse me, God will honour it with the speed of light. After begging for almost a year, when he knew I wasn't going to bend, he finally married that lady. This guy them was very rich, handsome. He is a professional diver. Everybody wanted me to marry him, cos things were very difficult for us then, didn't know where the next male was going to come from, but I said no, cos I didn't want to contribute to anybody's down fall. Today the guy is 40 and the lady is 44, but no child. Though I am not married, but every time I think back, I am happy with the decision I took rejecting that marriage proposal. People don't have conscience anymore, their conscience is dead, so they can afford to live their life the way they deem fit. I feel sorry for the girl. If I knew her, I will ask her to just allow God have his way. It won't be easy, but with God and time, she will be healed.

so in your views he has been purnished by God right? (were do people get the ideas that God purnishes people?) because he is 40 and his wife is 44 and no child. and perhaps he decided not to have children, perharps he chose to stay poor, why are you still interested in what happens in his life? (still stalking him i guess) though you claimed to have moved on and even though you are not married still, now tell me who has done better, you who is yet to be married or him married with no kids? there no winners in this case in my opinion.
perharps he will have children in the future, perharps you will get married in the future so no one has been purnished its not upto us humans to decide what happens in another humans life by this i mean in terms of curses, hence why i do not believe in curses.

akyus:
This isn't good at all. But let's not be quick to draw conclusions when we have not heard what lead to his action. Imagine you caught your girlfriend pants down in her house with her ex. This girl wasn't even nervous at all, instead she had the nerves to accuse you of spying on her. You ended up doing the apology for failing to notify her that you were coming, after which, you seriously cautioned her against such act. In just two weeks, same poo happened. You called several times to give notice you were coming around but there was no response and later her younger brother who answed the call to told you that she went out. You still came anyway, lo and behold, you saw her coming out of the ex's room. She couldn't give you any proper explanation so you threatened to end the relationship. This is the time she brings up the issues of the abortions she had done for you and time spent in the relationship. Advice.

i think the guy took out time to tell his tale and hers. And from his story, she did nothing wrong to him, he only got bored. And by bored, he meant sexually. From his tale and her text msg, she was ever loving. Didn't change. He already judged himself. And him seeking for public sympathy and for others to help him pacify the lady means he knows he did everything wrong.

To the man... U had better go n ask for forgiveness.. The causes might come to pass if u dn't... To the girl I feel ur pain but I totally disagree with long term relationships.. It atimes ends like this... May God see u through bro.

gypsey:
so in your views he has been purnished by God right? (were do people get the ideas that God purnishes people?) because he is 40 and his wife is 44 and no child. and perhaps he decided not to have children, perharps he chose to stay poor, why are you still interested in what happens in his life? (still stalking him i guess) though you claimed to have moved on and even though you are not married still, now tell me who has done better, you who is yet to be married or him married with no kids? there no winners in this case in my opinion.
perharps he will have children in the future, perharps you will get married in the future so no one has been purnished its not upto us humans to decide what happens in another humans life by this i mean in terms of curses, hence why i do not believe in curses.

I guess you didn't read my write up with an open mind. Probably you read it, looking for what point to criticise me on. I didn't say God is punishing anybody. I am not stalking on the guy like you said. He is still my friend, I see him in church most times. In fact I am praying for them to have their children . The whole essence of my write up, is that our conscience should be alive to help us judge between right and evil. I am in no competition with anybody. For those who are married, i am happy for them, and for those that are not like me, we will marry some day.

hummmm.....it is well
to the guy apologise to the lady in question it's possible u might have fallen out of love with her or initially u never did loved her as u claimed to have as for me pple do fall out of love anyways....
to the lady take heart it has already happened just hold your God and let go of the guy....it is hard but God knows best for at the end of the tunnel there is always a light

otiigba1:
man! Is ridiculous! How every one is commenting some are quarelling over things they do not understand and some want to literally kill each other for not believing in curses, it boggles the mind .

you should have been in politics section already

chai

All these people who don't believe in curses but would scamper for blessings at any given point, I hail una o. To the guy, you wouldn't need people to come and see what your girl said to you if you felt you didn't deserve it but of cause you shouldnt expect to sleep when you have caused someone to be sleepless. You already know what to do. You don't have to marry her but you have a lot of work to do. Go and do it.

vani86:


Your reply just indicated how shallow and naive you are.

How can you date a girl from when she was 24 to 30, got her prego 4 times and have her abort them all for you to dump her and engage a 22 abi 23 year old months later.


Dude that guy is evil, and very wrong. Imagine if she was your sister. Will you say the same thing.

You just spoke my mind. Some guys are just monsters.

phewwww!!!! this one is strong oo! I think is best we stop dating to avoid this kind of disappointments. fear catch me as I dey read the story.

The girl have every right to curse him given the time frame he proposed to a younger lady after the breakup. how can he dumped his gf of six years and propose to another four months later! this is wickedness.

there is nothing like he fell out of love with her, he knew all along he wasn't going to marry her. He just use her to become successful.

he met her when she was 24, dated her until she's 30 and dumped her. Then met another (22) and proposed in just four months. How sure is he that he won't get bored with this one? He deserve all the curses that came to him;she should even add more, this one is too small. iranu oshi.

CopyLearner:
you should have been in politics section already

what are you still doing here thought you were supposed to have followed me , been already same thing, Ipob, buhari, dollar, naira and fulanis

This is pure selfish. People are naturally selfish. I've been hearing a lot of stories like this. Btw, women are also guilty of this.
I'm sure the guy never really liked her in the first place. Well, truth is, marriage is not by force. As bad as it looks, the man is not obligated to marry her. But he should enjoy those curses.

onoslove:
I guess you didn't read my write up with an open mind. Probably you read it, looking for what point to criticise me on. I didn't say God is punishing anybody. I am not stalking on the guy like you said. He is still my friend, I see him in church most times. In fact I am praying for them to have their children . The whole essence of my write up, is that our conscience should be alive to help us judge between right and evil. I am in no competition with anybody. For those who are married, i am happy for them, and for those that are not like me, we will marry some day.

you are right i didn't read your write up thoroughly, my apologies, jumped into conclusions that you must be one of the people agreeing with cursing another human when they are not perfect themselves.

One question? Have you thought that this guy may still care for you, and may want things to work out between you too. Have you asked him? I suggest you ask him, you have nothing to lose. You sound like a Good person. And i want to believe you are. GOOD LUCK!

Frei:
Hahahah' bad guy.....I can't blame him tho' if a girl aborted for me four times and I fūcked her for 6years' mehn its a no-no

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Y will u Bleep a gal 4 6yrs... if u won't marry her after

onoslove:
I have read so many people's views and all that. But I will share my view with the stories below .My elder bro married the girl that he dated for 11 years just 2months ago. Truth is my family didn't like the girl, including me, but every time I always asked myself, if that girl is my kid sister, would I have wished that a guy dumps her after 11 years. The answer obviously is no. Just few weeks ago, I asked her how did my brother propose to her, she said my brother didn't propose, but they just knew that they will get married. That guy knew he wasn't going to marry that girl, and he knew long before that day that he broke the relationship. This is my observation, and I don't want anybody to agree with me, because of how difficult things are in the economy, so many guys out there are looking for soft landing. That is why when I meet a guy for the first time and he asking me what I do for a living, I just them I am working as an house help to somebody, or learning a skill. I met a guy around 2007 or 2008, and them we started a relationship, a friend came in one day and asked me if I was dating the guy and I said yes, and he she told me that the guy has a girl that he has been dating for 8years and that the lady is 36 years already, while the guy then was 32, when I confronted him, he didn't deny it, but rather he told me that he never promised the girl marriage . He said he doesn't love the girl anymore, that it is me he wants now, and even proposed marriage right there. I remember telling him to his face that, I have conscience, that God will not forgive me if I agree to marry him, that if that girl opens her month to curse me, God will honour it with the speed of light. After begging for almost a year, when he knew I wasn't going to bend, he finally married that lady. This guy them was very rich, handsome. He is a professional diver. Everybody wanted me to marry him, cos things were very difficult for us then, didn't know where the next male was going to come from, but I said no, cos I didn't want to contribute to anybody's down fall. Today the guy is 40 and the lady is 44, but no child. Though I am not married, but every time I think back, I am happy with the decision I took rejecting that marriage proposal. People don't have conscience anymore, their conscience is dead, so they can afford to live their life the way they deem fit. I feel sorry for the girl. If I knew her, I will ask her to just allow God have his way. It won't be easy, but with God and time, she will be healed.

You are wise.

Here is a question that always i ask people, " Where is your conscience " ?

This story is touching but the lady was very unwise to have done abortion 4 good times. The man simply started seeing her as a sexual tool, not longer a humanbeing.

She hated herself in an effort o show that she loves her boyfriend. Then it backfired..

vani86:


True, so lets say he does get married to the 22 year old, do you know how long a marriage last, forever. If he cant deal with 6 years what will happen when married.

Besides i have also dated girls that do not like condom, i have not gotten any pregnant. My pull out game is 100%

Yea i u'stand your point sha.

I think the solution is for the guy to find the babe a husband. That way everyone wins lols

if this is African magic? to badi gan...


but if its for real, then I support ur ex to curse u....because u nor good at all....#U wicked gan..!

n watch out ooo.....d curse go follow u ..unless u make things right..n u sure know what to do

Bros u dn enter 1 chance. after wasting a gals time for 6 good yrs, u now dump her for a a new tear rubber.. I pity u cos d curse will work 100%

CopyLearner:
i think the guy took out time to tell his tale and hers. And from his story, she did nothing wrong to him, he only got bored. And by bored, he meant sexually. From his tale and her text msg, she was ever loving. Didn't change. He already judged himself. And him seeking for public sympathy and for others to help him pacify the lady means he knows he did everything wrong.

Thanks very much for the clarifications. I couldn't read what the guy wrote.

EVILFOREST:

IF i am told to BREAK MORE HEARTS so as to admit LADIES into the CARDIOLOGY WARDS, i will do that without hesistating, because i enjoy seeing ladies suffer heart breaks.

I am conducting a 35 year old research, on the symptoms of heart disasters from heart-breaks.
So Please we need more heart Breaks especially in ladies.

I am Yet to see any LADY get admitted for HEART BREAK since i started this survey, Yet they go online crying of heart breaks. Does it mean they are lying... Or shedding croccodile tears...?

Mayb u suld continue on d search.....

U are very wicked. U must face d music if u did not marry her. Bastered

dare2differ:


Don't be like that

Lol you finally replied, d emoji did the trick shey? Have no fear I'm still ur fan never expected u to reply though
My mood right now

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
I don't believe in curses. Dude, live your life joor, nothing will happen, never marry out of sympathy. This is the same kind of advice that the feminists on nairaland will give if a girl magas a guy for six years and leaves with a rich dude, so what is good for the goose...

Well, time will tell....

There's always two sides to story....
Time will tell.....
Am out...

CopyLearner:
All these people who don't believe in curses but would scamper for blessings at any given point, I hail una o. To the guy, you wouldn't need people to come and see what your girl said to you if you felt you didn't deserve it but of cause you shouldnt expect to sleep when you have caused someone to be sleepless. You already know what to do. You don't have to marry her but you have a lot of work to do. Go and do it.

You dey mind them.....

I don't believe in curses crew lasan lasan...

CopyLearner:
i think the guy took out time to tell his tale and hers. And from his story, she did nothing wrong to him, he only got bored. And by bored, he meant sexually. From his tale and her text msg, she was ever loving. Didn't change. He already judged himself. And him seeking for public sympathy and for others to help him pacify the lady means he knows he did everything wrong.

Well, your comment is the best so far...