A lady is cool enough to be your girlfriend, have unprotected sex with and impregnate but marriage? Hell to the NO! ...Why
I can't imagine having a boyfriend i have sex with and then the issue of marriage will be a No No.
Why date and impregnate someone you can't get married to?

I don't get this

our women have gone mad again.

The Nairaland female madness has started again



Buck up, Negros, we're gonna hear a load of bullshit

layla129:
A lady is cool enough to be your girlfriend, have unprotected sex with and impregnate but marriage? Hell to NO! ...Why
I can't imagine having a boyfriend i have sex with and then the issue of marriage will be a No No.
Why date and impregnate someone you can't get married to?

I don't get this

NONSENSE!!! the important question should be: why should she be your wife since she is already your baby mama?!
as if that piece of paper is gonna change anything.

Ok

[quote author=layla129 post=45469103]A lady is cool enough to be your girlfriend, have unprotected sex with and impregnate but marriage? Hell to NO! ...Why
I can't imagine having a boyfriend i have sex with and then the issue of marriage will be a No No.
Why date and impregnate someone you can't get



it is totally wrong but some ladies will give anything to be a baby mama for some pple, reasons best known to them. But I think this question shld be rephrased and directed to our
ladies. any lady above 18yrs can differentiate btw good and bad.

Lemme book space

Reasons best known to them

But to me it depends on wat u want as an individual

bt personally

If i b a baby mama nd u say u cant marry me

Someone else will know av learnt my lesson nd wud marry me

donholy28:
Nobody wants to marry a woman that has only her punany to offer....but it doesn't mean that we should refuse d offer

Lol, i get you. But why the pregnancy package?

halfricanadian:
Reasons best known to them

But to me it depends on wat u want as an individual

bt personally

If i b a baby mama nd u say u cant marry me

Someone else will know av learnt my lesson nd wud marry me

Definitely, but you know getting married to a guy after a child in our society is kinda difficult right?

layla129:


Definitely, but you know getting married to a guy after a child in our society is kinda difficult right?

Its not difficult

As a matter of fact she is more tenable to b responsible than most women without kids

Children are the only people dat can change fellow people

If she has learnt her mistake it wont b hard for her

Pls d baby papa dont want to marry her

Her best revenge to him is to use d title Mrs to replace d baby mama title

Bt d hardest to do dat are celebrities baby mamas

Dat can ruin a home for her cos wateva she does till eternity even after been married she will always b referred to as d celeb baby mama dats painful for her nd her husband

Some of them lure the men into having sex with them, only to want to tire them down with pregnancy.

More men needs kids than they need a wife. And if one can have kids without any nuptial commitment to their (kids) mum their life problems have been solved by half. For the most part, their freedom remains unscathed.

There are many married people who are still together just for the kids sake and not coz they are contended with the union. Also, there are some people whose primordial reason for ever wanting to get married is coz they want kids. These set of people should better adopt the baby mama and daddy option and rightly so.

Anyone who wants kids without marriage should be free to do so provided the other partner gives their consent.

Flexherbal:
Some of them lure the men into having sex with them, only to want to tire them down with pregnancy.

I'm guessing she lured him not to use a condom too?

ronald4lif:
More men needs kids than they need a wife. And if one can have kids without any nuptial commitment to their (kids) mum their life problems have been solved by half. For the most part, their freedom remains unscathed.

There are many married people who are still together just for the kids sake and not coz they are contended with the union. Also, there are some people whose primordial reason for ever wanting to get married is coz they want kids. These set of people should better adopt the baby mama and daddy option and rightly so.

Anyone who wants kids without marriage should be free to do so provided the other partner gives their consent.

Lol, God saved ypu. Was already waiting to bash you with this point until i saw it in you last paragraph.

You and this freedom ishh...you love the babymama package right?

I've always wanted to ask this question,Is Babymama biblical and why is it that our celebrities enjoy it?

Mediapace:
I've always wanted to ask this question,Is Babymama biblical and why is it that our celebrities enjoy it?

It's not kuku Biblical. Just one of the 21st Century craze

ronald4lif:
More men needs kids than they need a wife. And if one can have kids without any nuptial commitment to their (kids) mum their life problems have been solved by half. For the most part, their freedom remains unscathed.

There are many married people who are still together just for the kids sake and not coz they are contended with the union. Also, there are some people whose primordial reason for ever wanting to get married is coz they want kids. These set of people should better adopt the baby mama and daddy option and rightly so.

Anyone who wants kids without marriage should be free to do so provided the other partner gives their consent.

ALLELUJAH my brotha!!! many forget that there are many babymamas in the bible, and it was all good.... ask king Solomon

Me? Its babymama I want o I don't want to keep one woman in my house we will be quarreling errtime arguing over stupid tinx getting old quick abeg I want kids from my gf I will take gud care of dem but u see commitment I don't want small tin dey raise my bp I no wan die she can be on her own minding her business d only tin dat will join us is d kids capish

Flickzvill:
Me? Its babymama I want o I don't want to keep one woman in my house we will be quarreling errtime arguing over stupid tinx getting old quick abeg I want kids from my gf I will take gud care of dem but u see commitment I don't want small tin dey raise my bp I no wan die she can be on her own minding her business d only tin dat will join us is d kids capish

Your choice, its a free world. As long as you have her consent. Not fair to scatter one's life plan because of your selfish ambitions

layla129:


Lol, God saved ypu. Was already waiting to bash you with this point until i saw it in you last paragraph.

You and this freedom ishh...you love the babymama package right?

Nah. I'd rather be forever single or consider adoption than consciously leap on the baby mama drama.

Like many divorced women, most baby mamas are vicious, resentful and will use these kids to manipulate and leech a man's finances. And the moment you're deviant and refuse to be played they will improvise means to use your kids in frustrating the man's life. Can't deal biko.

layla129:


Your choice, its a free world. As long as you have her consent. Not fair to scatter one's life plan because of your selfish ambitions

miss layla see no one is scattering anybody's life ere its a simple tin we will still be rolling going shopping going on dates etc but no permanent residential permit i don't want any problem in my house

MRBrownJ:


ALLELUJAH my brotha!!! many forget that there are many babymamas in the bible, and it was all good.... ask king Solomon

The number of people who are embracing these baby mama and daddy package is on the increase. Some women, just like men, prefer to have a baby without a fatherly/husband figure in their lives. That's also responsible for the boom in the IVF industry. Baby mama is here to stay.

Flickzvill:
miss layla see no one is scattering anybody's life ere its a simple tin we will still be rolling going shopping going on dates etc but no permanent residential permit i don't want any problem in my house

Fine, if you have her consent

Mediapace:
I've always wanted to ask this question,Is Babymama biblical and why is it that our celebrities enjoy it?

cause they like copying foreign artists

ronald4lif:

Nah. I'd rather be forever single or consider adoption than consciously leap on the baby mama drama.
Like many divorced women, most baby mamas are vicious, resentful and will use these kids to manipulate and leech a man's finances. And the moment you're deviant and refuse to be played they will improvise means to use your kids in frustrating the man's life. Can't deal biko.

bro, its all about the kind of r/ship you have with these women, and how you guys have to be mature and better/stronger to raise these kids together (rather than against one another). i could never marry any of my babymamas because marriage was NEVER the aim.

ronald4lif:
The number of people who are embracing these baby mama and daddy package is on the increase. Some women, just like men, prefer to have a baby without a fatherly/husband figure in their lives. That's also responsible for the boom in the IVF industry. Baby mama is here to stay.

the important question is, taking religion aside, WHY EVEN GET MARRIED?! why would someone intelligent knowingly get into such bondage? a marriage contract aint beneficial to us men.

Alcohol is nice but hangover is hell

STFUareyouG0d:
Alcohol is nice but hangover is hell

See analysis...agbere ki we se

layla129:
A lady is cool enough to be your girlfriend, have unprotected sex with and impregnate but marriage? Hell to the NO! ...Why
I can't imagine having a boyfriend i have sex with and then the issue of marriage will be a No No.
Why date and impregnate someone you can't get married to?

I don't get this

Because she spread her leg for him before getting married to him,so why does he need to marry her? When he gets everything including children without marriage?

wasak:

Because she spread her leg for him before getting married to him,so why does he need to marry her? When he gets everything including children without marriage?

Deep