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She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by BoiledHead(m): 11:43pm On May 16, 2016
Please if you guys remember my former thread. I said my gf threaten to end our relationship because I shouted at her for not cooking for me.

This night again we were both watching a TV series and an argument ensued over the show and thats how she took it personal saying that I support the man because I'm also a misogynist that we are birds of the same feather and she told me that I am a wicked person. And all sorts of hurtful words.

She then said it's over between us that she would return to her place in Port-Harcourt first thing tomorrow morning. After much begging she has giving me 24 hours to make her reverse her decision and change her mind.

Please what can I do within 24 hours?

Lalasticlala help me
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Greene66: 11:44pm On May 16, 2016
This guy you are acting like someone inside sceptic tank. When we were insulting you for being jobless and broke and cheap you ran to mods who took down our thread.

Is this not another proof? You are begging her so she can buy you another 12k glasses

See you https://www.nairaland.com/3097936/boiledhead-most-jobless-broke-dude

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Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Vinshu(f): 11:45pm On May 16, 2016
Lol.

Answer these two questions:

1.) Are you a misogynist? Yes or No

2.) Are you in love with her or obsessed with her?

Don't answer. Those are rhetorical questions.

You should firstly, apologize to her for whatever motherfvcking crack you must have pulled to get her upset! Give her a chill pill such as a walk at dawn before sunrise and tell her what she wants to hear!

Then during the day, don't take her to lunch. Take lunch to her. That works much better. And don't look cheap. You could take it to her work place and at CoB, you drive her home.

And at dusk, take her for a walk again and tell her why you want her to stay! And apologize again. I.e repeat the activity at dawn. Tell her what she wants to hear.

Return here with results after 24 hours.

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Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by ever811(m): 11:48pm On May 16, 2016
it is over"""24hours to change her mind I don't know which one to advice u on bro..but I suggest u consider the first one for ur own good thanks
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Nobody: 11:50pm On May 16, 2016
Lol but you sef OP she's not your wife and you're shouting on her to cook for you. Good luck Jack Bauer

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Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by BoiledHead(m): 11:56pm On May 16, 2016
pcguru1:
Lol but you sef OP she's not your wife and you're shouting on her to cook for you. Good luck Jack Bauer

Bro it wasn't like that. I was angry and it was one time only
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by BoiledHead(m): 11:59pm On May 16, 2016
Vinshu:
Lol.

Answer these two questions:

1.) Are you a misogynist? Yes or No

2.) Are you in love with her or obsessed with her?

Don't answer. Those are rhetorical questions.

You should firstly, apologize to her for whatever motherfvcking crack you must have pulled to get her upset! Give her a chill pill such as a walk at dawn before sunrise and tell her what she wants to hear!

Then during the day, don't take her to lunch. Take lunch to her. That works much better. And don't look cheap. You could take it to her work place and at CoB, you drive her home.

And at dusk, take her for a walk again and tell her why you want her to stay! And apologize again. I.e repeat the activity at dawn. Tell her what she wants to hear.

Return here with results after 24 hours.

What is cob?
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Nobody: 12:00am On May 17, 2016
BoiledHead:


Bro it wasn't like that. I was angry and it was one time only

I trust she will be back, every good relationship must have its up and down, you can beg if you want, but trust me she will definitely be back. So no sweat might be a test but I doubt she would throw a relationship over some issues like that.
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Vinshu(f): 12:00am On May 17, 2016
BoiledHead:


What is cob?

Close of Business
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Nobody: 12:00am On May 17, 2016
BoiledHead:


What is cob?

Close of business
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Lytech(m): 12:08am On May 17, 2016
Let her suit her self... This act will keep repeating itself... In the end,she might end up quitting even when it will hurt u the most.. Let her go...which am very sure she dare not
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by jemype(m): 12:10am On May 17, 2016
This aint relationship. This is dictatorship bro u need to know what u are doing cuz she is already putting the price tag of "weak" on u. Does she have a child for u? Then if not be numb about if nd jus wait. If she loves u she will come back if not she will go. Believe me there are a lot of fishes where they came from. Its not u that will hit menopause so live on bro.

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Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Nobody: 12:11am On May 17, 2016
jemype:
This aint relationship. This is dictatorship bro u need to know what u are doing cuz she is already putting the price tag of "weak" on. Does she have a child for u? Then if not be numb about if nd jus wait. If sshe loves u she will come back if not she will go. Believe me there are a lot of fishes where they came from. Its not u that will hit menopause so live on bro.

Haba you want kill person ni
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by jemype(m): 12:13am On May 17, 2016
pcguru1:


Haba you want kill person ni
why do u say so? Is she d breadwinner? undecided
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Nobody: 12:13am On May 17, 2016
jemype:
why do u say so? Is she d breadwinner? undecided

As in I almost died of laughter
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by BoiledHead(m): 12:14am On May 17, 2016
Lytech:
Let her suit her self...
This act will keep repeating itself...
In the end,she might end up quitting even when it will hurt u the most..
Let her go...which am very sure she dare not

I love her. I don't know but I cannot risk letting her go. I was even planing proposing to her sef.
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by BoiledHead(m): 12:16am On May 17, 2016
jemype:
This aint relationship. This is dictatorship bro u need to know what u are doing cuz she is already putting the price tag of "weak" on u. Does she have a child for u? Then if not be numb about if nd jus wait. If she loves u she will come back if not she will go. Believe me there are a lot of fishes where they came from. Its not u that will hit menopause so live on bro.

Bro I cannot just sit and allow the lady I love to walk out the door and don't come back. I need advice on what to do to change her mind. What if she decides to leave? And don't come back? I don't care about menopause or whatever. I only care about my love being with me
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Stanleywaxy(m): 12:20am On May 17, 2016
The best advice I'll give to whosoever is in a relationship that isn't heading anywhere is to Walk Away undecided
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Nobody: 12:21am On May 17, 2016
BoiledHead:


Bro I cannot just sit and allow the lady I love to walk out the door and don't come back. I need advice on what to do to change her mind. What if she decides to leave? And don't come back? I don't care about menopause or whatever. I only care about my love being with me

Well the truth is if a woman is going to leave you she will, better get used to the idea that anyone can leave. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you will end up with them, with that being said, just come to terms and just tell her how much you love and you will never want to see her leave you and some mumbo jumbo about she means the world to you and all that shit. She's your gf you know what's she's like just be honest and bare your soul, most of us are too miserable to give any decent advise anyway, I can't imagine myself convincing anyone because I don't think I can love anyone like that again. All the best yo sha don't commit suicide
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Nobody: 12:23am On May 17, 2016
Ur relationship & Ur wahala... cool

Every problem u have, u come up here & broadcast about it asking for a piece of advice when u know that u will juz get a bash...


Let Ur gf read this thread so she will realise what kind of bf she had...

cool cool
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by BoiledHead(m): 12:24am On May 17, 2016
pcguru1:


Well the truth is if a woman is going to leave you she will, better get used to the idea that anyone can leave. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you will end up with them, with that being said, just come to terms and just tell her how much you love and you will never want to see her leave you and some mumbo jumbo about she means the world to you and all that shit. She's your gf you know what's she's like just be honest and bare your soul, most of us are too miserable to give any decent advise anyway, I can't imagine myself convincing anyone because I don't think I can love anyone like that again. All the best yo sha don't commit suicide

Thanks bro.
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Femich18(m): 12:26am On May 17, 2016
Abeg let her go and stop wasting your time
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by pacino26(m): 12:30am On May 17, 2016
24 hrs the movie starring boiledhead and fried egg. Look it's a trick! Yes, when a woman is fed up there nothing you can do bout it. So it's either she's playing you to probably spice up the relationship by having do something to impress her and make her feel fly (which is romantic of course) or she's test running some premeditated acts on you geared towards establishing dominance. undecided and get back to Port to tell her friends how she put you on a gentle precipice for 24hrs.

So you can either be Jack Bauer or Jack Nanny. If it's a threat you treat it as a threat you think it's a prank then play along and impress your lady. The most important thing now it's that you've to put on your thinking cap and be very rational!

How minutes to your countdown? grin
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by Nobody: 12:41am On May 17, 2016
pacino26:
24 hrs the movie starring boiledhead and fried egg. Look it's a trick! Yes, when a woman is fed up there nothing you can do bout it. So it's either she's playing you to probably spice up the relationship by having do something to impress her and make her feel fly (which is romantic of course) or she's test running some premeditated acts on you geared towards establishing dominance. undecided and get back to Port to tell her friends how she put you on a gentle precipice for 24hrs.

So you can either be Jack Bauer or Jack Nanny. If it's a threat you treat it as a threat you think it's a prank then play along and impress your lady. The most important thing now it's that you've to put on your thinking cap and be very rational!

How minutes to your countdown? grin

Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by BoiledHead(m): 12:50am On May 17, 2016
pacino26:
24 hrs the movie starring boiledhead and fried egg. Look it's a trick! Yes, when a woman is fed up there nothing you can do bout it. So it's either she's playing you to probably spice up the relationship by having do something to impress her and make her feel fly (which is romantic of course) or she's test running some premeditated acts on you geared towards establishing dominance. undecided and get back to Port to tell her friends how she put you on a gentle precipice for 24hrs.

So you can either be Jack Bauer or Jack Nanny. If it's a threat you treat it as a threat you think it's a prank then play along and impress your lady. The most important thing now it's that you've to put on your thinking cap and be very rational!

How minutes to your countdown? grin

I really appreciate this. It appears to be a threat as she was very serious. And it did not appear to be a trick. It's not a chance I'm willing to take
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by olac21(m): 12:50am On May 17, 2016
Na you guys dey give these girls leverage to toy with your heart-bro do nothing let her leave she's made up her mind..she doesn't just love you any longer!free her!
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by BoiledHead(m): 12:51am On May 17, 2016
Femich18:
Abeg let her go and stop wasting your time

This isn't helpful
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by BoiledHead(m): 12:52am On May 17, 2016
olac21:
Na you guys dey give these girls leverage to toy with your heart-bro do nothing let her leave she's made up her mind..she doesn't just love you any longer!free her!

Brother, it's hard for me to let her leave. I cannot do that. I want her to stay.
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by callMeAlpha(m): 12:56am On May 17, 2016
BoiledHead:


Bro I cannot just sit and allow the lady I love to walk out the door and don't come back. I need advice on what to do to change her mind. What if she decides to leave? And don't come back? I don't care about menopause or whatever. I only care about my love being with me
troll grin. With this ur sissy behavior, trust me you've lost her already ..she's jst using u to play ten ten,they there dey spit love as if na buhari u dey call
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by callMeAlpha(m): 12:57am On May 17, 2016
BoiledHead:


Brother, it's hard for me to let her leave. I cannot do that. I want her to stay.
you're obsess bro,..and dey hate it..yeah,u heard me right..better start preparing ur mind cos she's gone already, you're no longer the boss
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by callMeAlpha(m): 12:59am On May 17, 2016
BoiledHead:


I really appreciate this. It appears to be a threat as she was very serious. And it did not appear to be a trick. It's not a chance I'm willing to take
oga abeg watin be ur problem?,u dey find advice bt u no want take anyone angry
Re: She Said It's Over. But Gave Me 24 Hours To Make Her Change Her Mind. by pacino26(m): 1:17am On May 17, 2016
BoiledHead:


I really appreciate this. It appears to be a threat as she was very serious. And it did not appear to be a trick. It's not a chance I'm willing to take

A threat? Activate DEFCON 3 be ready to be fired upon and fire back.

I don't know how you take threats but let's face it; who's the boss? Be ready to be receiving lots of them in the near future should you remain with her. Of course it's gonna be of varying degrees like am taking the kids away and more.

You deal with threats by being on the offensive not on the defensive mode. If you've spelt out your guiding principles as a young man, take a rain check and see if this lady is out to make you a lesser being all because you care.

Isolate obsession from true love they aren't same.

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