relationship no b by force....she no gree(n)...give ur self red card and leave joor.....dis is 21st century...toast she pends u, u go bone joor....who relationship help self

anitapreeti:
Don't blame girls please, sometimes you are just overwhelmed with proposals that you need to calm down and choose wisely. What would you have us do?

wot of scenario whr lady got new proposal bt insisted she wanna return bk to her ex who eloped wit other bae. Is she owk? Whc kind babe be that...still got feelings for d ex... Gosh! New guy no wan lose her self

Use dis as ur dp while chatting

DickDastardly:

More like, silly ways nigerian girls lose potential mr right

psychic101:
Hypocritically true, yea

whatever

GloriaNinja:
whatever

duhh

pretydiva:
Following..

Follow Me on Twitter.

Sexytemi:


Na u give me all d boyfriends shey?

Mk i nor disturb you. Sheee you dey single?

ashewoboy:




Mk i nor disturb you. Sheee you dey single?

Am not o

psychic101:
Hmm, but you have a WILL power na. Well, at that point, some girls, most girls rather, like to play the game of FWB...so true ryt?

Not all o, most(like myself) like to just have guys as friends, it fun having a guy as a friend o.

Only happens to guys who don't know "The Way"

Sexytemi:




Not all o, most(like myself) like to just have guys as friends, it fun having a guy as a friend o.

Just friends?

psychic101:
SubTopic: Wicked Ways Most Nigerian Ladies Keep Guys On Their Waiting List.


1. They keep saying, "I'll think about it"

And he'll keep waiting on "pins and needles"
If it's more than two months, guy please, think about your initial decision and rescind it. Look elsewhere.


2. They ask you; "Can't we just remain friends?"


Don't you get it, if I wanted to be just friends, will I be asking you out?


3. They wake up one morning and start acting all nice.

Are you an actress? I believe this is just to keep you hopes up and high. Perhaps, she has a need in two days time. She is nice by remembering you on Saturday and Sunday and GBAM, Monday, she needs 5k from you and she'll pay back. Iffa hear! Stale Pattern!

4. They try to tease you a little by visiting you but standing outside or sitting afar.

Don't let your mind wander so far, if you actually wanna settle down with a lady and after telling her, she puts up this sign. It's significant: she doesn't accept you...yet. She isn't forming, she is still "weighing" you.

5. Walking with them, they try not to hold hands and sometimes they walk faster than you.

I always take pity on guys who try so hard in pleasing some 'conscience-less' Nigerian ladies. From the way she walks ahead of him, you'll just be laughing. She has more than four and she still wants him to buy her suya every evening, take her eateries on weekends, get her gifts occasionally... I mean, you're not even in her TOP-10 list sef...Haba! Have witches in your Father's house borrowed your brain for practicals?

6. They say they can't date you but they show almost all the signs of a girl who's into a guy.

Singing: "I have decided NOT to take any girl serious who has ALREADY told me she is in a SERIOUS relationship." If she is giving "green lights" and her words are spewing "red lights", then she is not sure. Leave her! Simple!

7. They Discuss Every Other Topic With Him Except On "Relationship/Love"

You'll even think she is so innocent and doesn't want to settle down any time soon. It's just that you are still in her "Waiting List." She's still checking you up, so to speak. Until you see around some other guys and her disposition, then you'll believe.


In conclusion; while I totally kick against being on a "Waiting List" for so long, I also want to advise our ladies, The grass is not always greener on the other side. The ones around you now, Choose one among them, especially when age is not on your squad. When you start getting close to 28 and your palms and hands are not so soft again and there is just something about your eyes that tells you're a bit advanced and thus no longer interested in "casual relationship", and the young and playful begins to turn away in "disappointment", it might turn unnecessarily spiritual then.

#choosewisely#
#makeitsnappy#
#gracias#

OP, your mind dey there. Properly researched write up.

EgunMogaji:


Normally, I would refer you to #MySignature but it's Friday

It is my opinion, and mine only, that they are mostly not well versed in relationship skills and are generally effeminate.

Nothing is wrong with all of this per se and it's not a social ineptness but they are the only group of guys that women can use like slippers.

Okay. Thanks for your candid reply. But you may not be generally correct.

Chiwude:
OP, your mind dey there. Properly researched write up.

Thanks Bro!

so true op, could u believe I asked a girl out. she didn't say no she didn't say yes.. she just said ntn. I had to move on though.. #f^ck love jor

psychic101:
Just friends?

Yes na, guys are better friends than girls.

fernandoc:

Okay. Thanks for your candid reply. But you may not be generally correct.

I know that I'm correct in my own context. I write for myself based on my experience.

Sexytemi:



Yes na, guys are better friends than girls.

I concur jare! Gimmie a hug, omo to da! #ooops#

#follows her#

I'm damn guilty of this I'm damn guilty of this

psychic101:
I concur jare! Gimmie a hug, omo to da! #ooops#

#follows her#

Lol....hugs him back with some space in between o(Lol)

#follows him back

Sexytemi:



Lol....hugs him back with some space in between o(Lol)

#follows him back

Ermm, with half current I cannot iron my cloth, FULL current biko, #drags her closer# whispers: How's your evening going?

midey93:
I'm damn guilty of this I'm damn guilty of this

Go and sin no more

psychic101:


Ermm, with half current I cannot iron my cloth, FULL current biko, #drags her closer# whispers: How's your evening going?

My day has been smooth, and yours?

kinda guilty of this.... anyways life itself isn't fair..the one you genuinely love either one thing or another doesn't add up xo end up not keeping the relationship..God abeg make I no use my husband do boyfriend or friend zoning him...amin

Sexytemi:



My day has been smooth, and yours?

Mine, full of frenzy! With the Children's Day, I had some fun!

Unlimited22:

Wickedness in high places.

And after the expiration of the two years, I went back again and she told me to check back again after one year.. Na that time I pack my slippers for hand, take speed cross Benin - Oreh- Lagos highway without even looking...

Lol

psychic101:
Go and sin no more

hehe

psychic101:


Mine, full of frenzy! With the Children's Day, I had some fun!

Awwww, that's nice....down here in Benin republic there's nothing like children's day o, they all still went to school.

Sexytemi:



Awwww, that's nice....down here in Benin republic there's nothing like children's day o, they all still went to school.

Haha, Benin, have only passed through...women driving bikes and all...
You speak French?

midey93:
hehe