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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Odunharry(m): 11:49pm On Jun 03, 2016
Twaci y do some gals find it difficult trusting their guys esp when the guy is away
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by LieDetector(m): 11:57pm On Jun 03, 2016
OK..... So I asked this girl out on a faithful day... She told me she'd think about it. Few days later, she started sounding different..... Telling me she has a boyfriend and that we can be best of friends? Though I sense she's trying to know if I truly love her cos I could recall vividly the very day I asked this girl out, she kept emphasizing on the longevity of certain relationships. I don't know but I could be wrong with my presumption.... I can not state with a degree of certainty that this girl is not into any relationship but trust me when I say I know a single lass when I see one


All I want to ask is:

Is this girl putting me to test or has she finally relegated me to the much dreaded friend zone?

If you think it's the former, what do you suggest I do?
In the same vein, if you think it's the latter, what do you suggest I do?


Thanks pretties.



PS: this is a girl I truly love.

Twaci
Mhiz
Safarigirl
Optional1
Charijee grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by pbs4real(m): 11:57pm On Jun 03, 2016
buharisbae:


Lol what I mean is when I say ure not my type that's final
lemme tel u one little secret, i NEVER take NO for an answer. I dnt give up until my Last bullet. . .
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 12:05am On Jun 04, 2016
safarigirl:
an unserious man is one who calls a woman everyday IMO, if he was busy, he wouldn't be calling me constantly.... But that's me
You are right but 90% ladies won't understand, they do say u don't care about them. That got me to ask, what did women really want?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Sunnypar(m): 2:44am On Jun 04, 2016
shulamitewoman:
cos d guy might label her as being cheap and loose.
Immature girls. My ex walked up to m and said, hi, I like you and I had like us to he friends.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by raphrinco: 2:57am On Jun 04, 2016
You are my nairaland crush wink would like to go out with you
refiner:
...present ma!!!grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by raphrinco: 3:02am On Jun 04, 2016
Funny babe...
safarigirl:
some girls want to know the kind of fellow drilling her hole... Just in case he deposits his sp3rm there afterwards, you want to be sure your child won't be an olodo grin

Anyway, truth is, dating is a game. Some girls want you to go the extra mile
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Hisduchess(f): 4:13am On Jun 04, 2016
BlessedFellow:


Thanks!
1. But why give the guy false hope as he's the "handbag/placeholder"? smiley

I seriously don't know the reason why we do it buh we just do that,breaking peoples heart upandan esp d lovestruck guy who upon all the excuses u ll give wunt want u to leave.*love is wicked*
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by lanicky(f): 4:27am On Jun 04, 2016
Emodeee:





Why would i chase you for eight months? When you are not lanicky.

Hey boo..I can't find you on WhatsApp cry
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by lanicky(f): 4:28am On Jun 04, 2016
Twaci:
Good day nairalanders! cheesy

So I was bored and thought of this; why not create an opportunity for guys to know us girls better?

So I did. This is an open thread where guys are allowed to ask questions, any question, about girls/women/ladies and I, or any female, can try to answer.

Are u confused about girls? Or moods? Is there anything you would love to know about us? Let us know and see how we can help cheesy

Ladies in the house! Who's up?

Laveda
Diddyydiva
Adeh39
Lanicky
Omotayor123
Dollyjoy
Refiner
Ivyy or ivvy
Mimzy
Optional1
Mysticalgal
Farano
Safarigirl
Misspicy
Ishilove
Estharfabian
Michella
Cherryice
Sinaj
Missmary
Charijee
Taashamania
Dechanel
Tohphaz....
.
.
...Every girl out there!

Let's have fun cheesy

I'm late right?

Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by placeofallure(f): 4:39am On Jun 04, 2016
Maxi112:
what abt in a situation, his guy doesn't know abt it, and the girl chooses to musterbate over giving it to her guy or even those in her friend zone? what do u think that can cause such devilish act

Sorry is coming a bit late but I hope it makes some difference. I am a workaholic can't be on Nairaland as often as I would've wanted.

Your question, Maxi112, a girl in a relationship or even marriage may resort to masturbating if she is not getting satisfaction from sex with her partner. At other times too, it may be a habit that has been formed over time and she's struggling to adjust to getting it from her partner alone. To communicate one's likes and dislikes to one's partner is key here but too many people are still awkward to talk about sex in relationships.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Monalisa185(f): 4:39am On Jun 04, 2016
just found this...hmmmmmmm...lemme see what I can answer here....
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by TheSuperNerd(m): 5:01am On Jun 04, 2016
Believe me Sir..... you have no iota of an idea who "The Safarigirl" is.

You think all ladies can be boxed together? Lol...

You just met a "hybrid" wink

This is coming from One who "Knows".


kaboninc:


No baby, you're not a hybrid. You just think you are. You're a chick, a feminine baby and you act like one...just that you've not come to accept it.

And please note, guys, so long as there's red blood running through our veins want to, love to be smothered with attention and lots of it.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:07am On Jun 04, 2016
BlessedFellow:


Chai! Some guys believe things can change so they don't mind hanging around for months or years. I have also heard of cases when the girl said no at first but later changed her stance after the guy showed his resilience/seriousness.

The first time my mate met his wife she gave him a "no" because she had someone else. However, my buddy was able to convince her he was better than the guy. They are married now.



My No cant change due to sum personally reason.

Normally a girl's first ans should b No to see if d guy will still b asking her out.
But wen u see she is not changing frm her NO what will u do still hang around giving yaself hope.

How many months did it take ur buddy's wife to say Yes?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:14am On Jun 04, 2016
kaboninc:


Lol

Continue giving false hope while you chop the goodies that come with it. If your no is indeed a no, why not stick to it?

You wan chop and clean mouth. Name the day him go remember you


Lol

I didn't ask him for anything he is d one who is giving nd I collect it. My No is my No but since he cant jst go lemme help him nd eat d fud.

I will chop enough clean mouth nd do as if I neve met him before.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:18am On Jun 04, 2016
Emodeee:





Why would i chase you for eight months? When you are not lan.icky.



Who ask u to chase me?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ochobaba(m): 6:24am On Jun 04, 2016
Twaci:
May NOT be because she likes you.

Could be you look like an old friend (or enemy).....

Why not step up to her and ask smiley
ask her this way, I noticed u were noticing me so have come to give you a notice that I notice you too

if she doesn't answer you make I no watin cause am
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:29am On Jun 04, 2016
Rexhenrex:
[b]i have been looking forward to this kind of opportunity..
1,she says am too official what does it mean pls?

2,how do i get to tell a lady i want a relationship without sex without her leaving me? Av got 3 ruined ones

3,my present bae says am too innocent for her,what kinda of bad boy trait do girls like or want in a guy...

Thanks pls i need answers[/b]twa.ci,juh.an,es.ejessy,sin.aj,mim.zy,refi.ner,dolly.joy,mathe.matical,hisdu.chess,optional1.


1. U official dat means u not friendly, u strict, u behaviour lyk a boss too much, u dont give her space to talk nd ask questions. U wat her to obey all u say. My idea sha

2. Is there any need of telling her u wat a free sex relationship? Well u can tell her u wat a free sex relationship after u might av win her over. If after telling her she got angry nd left no she is not ready for u but if after telling her she still stay no dat she is for u nd she is ready to do anytin to make u happy. My idea sha

3. If u r too innocent for her then break up wit her cos one way or d other she wil b cheating on u. Cos she wat a bad guy nd not a good guy, u will only b her bank manager till she finally dump u herself. My idea nd opinion sha.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by SkinnyDude(m): 6:34am On Jun 04, 2016
Cutehector:
Ladies, pls twaci shouldn't be d only one answering questions, I urge other ladies viewing to post their opinions alson on questions asked instead of moping like one zombie dat is lookin for banana. cool




grin


Refiner if I catch u watching eh? U just better contribute an answer
those olodo ladies.. what do they know?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by refiner(f): 6:40am On Jun 04, 2016
raphrinco:
You are my nairaland crush wink would like to go out with you
smileysmiley
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by refiner(f): 6:42am On Jun 04, 2016
SkinnyDude:
those olodo ladies.. what do they know?
...who is olodo?grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by SkinnyDude(m): 6:49am On Jun 04, 2016
refiner:

...who is olodo?grin
are you olodo?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by cherryice(f): 6:52am On Jun 04, 2016
pbs4real:
One last questn:I noticed my ex is always jealous whenever i mention my mum first in anytin like she's begin to see her like one rival. . . .cc: cherryice ,buharisbae do u galz get jealous @ tyms wenever ur bf gets sometin for his mum and mayb that day u ask of sumtin 4rm him, he said he dozn't have. . . .pls share cos as for me nobody fit be like mumsy.


I dnt think its right for her to b jealous of d fact dat u get things for ur mum and how r u so sure shes nt really pissed at d fact that u act like mummy's boy. Maybe u do, dats asides d gettin of stuffs for her. Sm gals dont like it when their man is always callin mum at every slightest dscussion (mummy's boy ish. Nd I wldnt like dat either..

well to answer ur question, Iol I hv never dated a guy whose got dat kinnna close attachments to his mum, bt I think if I happn to date one, I wldnt like it either. Its ok to get ur mum stuffs, bt mentionin her first in everythn, so not cool. We as ur girls too want u to sometimes make us first n dats not bad

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by refiner(f): 6:57am On Jun 04, 2016
SkinnyDude:
are you olodo?
....Good morning..grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Walesadeyemi(m): 7:08am On Jun 04, 2016
safarigirl:
money will always be a factor...but, how much money? That's the question.

I personally wouldn't want to be with a guy with too much money, or too little. Moderation is key for me, enough to have a good time when necessary, enough to invest.

I'm very particular about a guy who knows what he wants to do with his life, so if he's not spending it on me, I want to be sure he's investing his money on his future. Money is key, but it needs to be put in all the right places.

I don't want a guy that splurges on me, but I can't find an impact the money is making in his life. It pisses me off to see a man wasting his money on a girl when his future isn't secure
You just made me fall in love with you....God bless you
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Alezy(m): 7:39am On Jun 04, 2016
Emodeee:




Why would i chase you for eight months? When you are not lanicky.
lolz
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by zicoraads: 7:51am On Jun 04, 2016
cherryice:
Any question for me? undecided grin
You are a single mum, right? My question is, does the same 'rules' apply in asking a single mum out like it does with other ladies? When a guy asks you out, what are the things you look out for to even start considering his proposal?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by BlessedFellow: 8:19am On Jun 04, 2016
mzhorlah:



I fail to understand y guys behave like that..a guy once asked us to be going out,i said no cuz i have a bf and he was like he can be a side buddy....if i don that kinda guy to maga now,dy will say girls r wicked



Our generation tho

Some guys believe there are no single girls. They will tell you any girls in high school upwards has at least an "assistant bf". They believe in "displacement" by their persistence.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by BlessedFellow: 8:20am On Jun 04, 2016
Hisduchess:


I seriously don't know the reason why we do it buh we just do that,breaking peoples heart upandan esp d lovestruck guy who upon all the excuses u ll give wunt want u to leave.*love is wicked*

Thanks for been sincere.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by BlessedFellow: 8:25am On Jun 04, 2016
optional1:




My No cant change due to sum personally reason.

Normally a girl's first ans should b No to see if d guy will still b asking her out.
But wen u see she is not changing frm her NO what will u do still hang around giving yaself hope.

How many months did it take ur buddy's wife to say Yes?


I think it took up to a month before she began to show him some green light. She switched off her phone for a couple of days at some point because she was not "interested".
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Geist(m): 8:28am On Jun 04, 2016
Ireneony, are my questions daunting?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by AyamConfidence(m): 9:00am On Jun 04, 2016
Monalisa185:
just found this...hmmmmmmm...lemme see what I can answer here....
mama..where hast thou been...its been ages mehn..you don't even come around here anymore.. whatsup with you na?

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